Do guys often say as a joke: "I am going to marry this girl"?
Q. So I got a close friend who has been telling me about a childhood friend of hers (also Cuban like her) who has been living in the USA more than 10 years now. He recently came out of a messy relationship and is going to come visit her in Spain so...
A. 19 September 2011: He hasn't even met you in person yet, of course he was joking.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out?
Q. Hi everyone I need your help please because I am not sure whether or not shall I ask a girl to be my girlfriend. Now, I am in a different school but still in the same town. She goes to my old school and she is one of my friend. We did not talk...
A. 16 September 2011: Sure why not?... (read in full...)
Why do guys flirt one day and act distant the next?
Q. So this is just a random question that I just wish I knew the answer to. Yes we all know how the male specie is so confusing and how they frustrate us women. So anyway, I just wanted to know what you aunts and uncles think about why guys act ...
A. 15 September 2011: Some days they feel like playing and some days they don't. It's not a guy thing it's a people thing. But now that I think about it, animals are the same way, some days they want to chase the ball and some days they rather chill under the tree. ... (read in full...)
Friends wife exposing herself in window!
Q. How should i react to this....my friend lives across the strret from me with his wife. Lately she has begun to (vividly blinds wide open) expose herself to me at night in the window. The shower is directly in front of the window. She get's out she ...
A. 15 September 2011: A poorly designed house if you ask me.... (read in full...)
He seems oddly reluctant to meet
Q. Dipping my toes into the single life after a 21 year realationship..ouch, its harsh out there ! I'm on this site and a guy checked me out, we started emailing and then finally we did the phone thing. Its been 9 months although he lives 2 states ...
A. 15 September 2011: The only waiting I'd be doing is at the stoplight, time to move on, this guy is not the one.... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with both of my ex boyfriends, I have a child each, by both of them, and I'm a mess right now
Q. From the start, I was in a relationship for 5 yrs on and off he destroyed me, my self-esteem, everything! Then I went to a relationship that lasted 10 months, he did the same. I had a child by each of these men, the first one he took full advantage ...
A. 15 September 2011: Well at this point you will just have to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and put one foot in front of the other. You still have a daughter and a son to think about. Do you at least have visiting rights to your son? I'd consult with a lawyer ... (read in full...)
Last minute acceptance left no room for me?
Q. My boyfriend was invited to a female friends birthday party he forgot to send the rsvp back in time. However he called her and she stated she did not have anymore space however she will make space only for him. Should I be mad that he is going ...
A. 14 September 2011: I'm assuming it's a formal dinner party with just so many seats at the table, if that's the case then no I wouldn't be mad. However if it's a more relaxed cocktail party then it would seem odd that there would only be room for him. Just how close is ... (read in full...)
My abusive ex-girlfriend has came back in my life, how should I treat her now?
Q. I had abusive girlfriend for 16 months before I ran away from her apartment in June this year. She was 2 years younger than me. Outside, I don’t think there could have been beautiful girl I have to see to date on this on earth like her, inside s...
A. 14 September 2011: Holy moley, jeeze Louise, and boy howdy, those must be some spectacular knockers! You are nuts if you stay in this relationship.... (read in full...)
How long should it take for someone to introduce you to their kids?
Q. Hi All, I have been dating a guy for six months, He is separated with three kids under 13. He has not introduced me to them yet.Is that normal? He sees them regularly. Thanks. :o)...
A. 14 September 2011: Very normal. How long has he been separated? You weren't involved in his marriage breakup were you?... (read in full...)
My best friend's ex is in love with me. What should I do?
Q. What do I do? My best buddy's ex girlfriend is in love with me. I think she dumped him so she could be with me! The catch is, I actually really like her! But, I also like my best friend (not in a gay way of course). Idk what to do? She wants me to ...
A. 14 September 2011: Some guys wouldn't have a problem with a friend dating their ex and some would. How well do you know your friend? If you have to choose make sure you think about it it good and hard.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend resents my choice of college. What do I do?
Q. I'm a sophomore at one of the best liberal arts colleges in the US. I'm here for a major that's not so widely offered (and that's getting slashed increasingly often in budget cuts at other schools) and our open curriculum. The general atmosphere ...
A. 14 September 2011: Listen to Cindy, if you cave to his demands YOU'LL be the one with a huge resentment towards him and it will be lifelong. Follow your dreams sweetheart, if he truly loves you he would/will understand.... (read in full...)
Would that be uncomfortable for him?
Q. Today my boyfriend and I were making out and before I knew it, we were dry humping. It was fine while it happened, but it also seems kind of odd. This is all very new to me so I don't know what to think of it. So after a while, I was rubbing his ...
A. 14 September 2011: I hope he does his own laundry otherwise I feel for his poor mother.... (read in full...)
Am I REALLY going to regret not going to prom when this is my senior year?
Q. My question is, am I REALLY going to regret not going to prom when this is my senior year? I mean, the guy I like is taking college classes so he's never at school and I was hoping to become closer friends with him and possibly have him as a date ...
A. 14 September 2011: Do you have a guy friend you could ask to go with you?... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with both of my ex boyfriends, I have a child each, by both of them, and I'm a mess right now
Q. From the start, I was in a relationship for 5 yrs on and off he destroyed me, my self-esteem, everything! Then I went to a relationship that lasted 10 months, he did the same. I had a child by each of these men, the first one he took full advantage ...
A. 14 September 2011: Why was your first boyfriend granted custody of your son?... (read in full...)
Wife got drunk and molested in her sleep at a party. How to put back together the pieces?
Q. I trust my wife, and I truly believe her when she told me it was a mistake. My wife went to a party and drank. She felt too drunk to drive and didn't want to wake me and our child up to come get her. She texted me that she was staying the nigh...
A. 13 September 2011: Say, I know a bridge that's for sale, interested?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to do something for me, but I don't know what
Q. My boyfriend keeps asking me what can he do for me in the bedroom. Like i would dress up in outfits and stockings and all that for him. And he says he wants to do something for me but i dont no what to adk him for. Any ideas? ...
A. 13 September 2011: Vacuum or as you Brits say hoover?... (read in full...)
He left money for me on the bedside table and left without saying goodbye
Q. Hi I met a guy at a festival and we had really good sex so we arranged to meet up again back home. We live different sides of the country so we met in the middle and got a hotel for the night. I was aware that this was just sex however what hap...
A. 13 September 2011: Well at least he paid for half the hotel bill, better than nothing. And yes I'd definitely say casual hookups are not for you.... (read in full...)
I can't tell if the date went well. He hasn't called, is that bad?
Q. Went on a date w this guy on monday. We met from online. He seemed nice, opened doors, took me out to a nice sushi restaurant.i guess he was nervous because he was willing to change his shirt, if I didnt like it, kept reminding me he can be ...
A. 9 September 2011: I'm afraid nothing to do but wait and see. Just don't make anymore contact before he does.... (read in full...)
Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?
Q. I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He ...
A. 9 September 2011: Much Ado About Nothing... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to a cucumber??
Q. I am a 19 yr old girl who has always prided myself on the idea of being a virgin when I got married. I got super horny tonight, though, and used a cucumber. I didnt notice until afterwards that I had bled. Does this mean I have lost my virginity? Or ...
A. 9 September 2011: Too funny sexlessintheuk! There went the old keyboard!... (read in full...)
I want to talk to her before I lose the chance
Q. I have recently come to terms with some life changing emotions. I have realized that the girl I have had a crush on for the last 2 years could be the girl I want to be with forever. I've also realized that I might not have forever to talk to her ...
A. 8 September 2011: Before WHAT truth comes out???... (read in full...)
My wife thinks I have a small penis!
Q. I have a troubling issue in my marriage. To get right to the point, it has to do with penis size and my wife's perception. I am about 5.75 by 5 around and I always thought fairly average. When my wife and I talk it is clear that she thinks ...
A. 8 September 2011: Ask her what exactly she expects you to do about it.... (read in full...)
Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?
Q. I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He ...
A. 8 September 2011: It's absolutely your own responsiblity, and nobody else's, to look after your health. If he did give you something really serious like HIV would a "I'm sorry" be enough for you?... (read in full...)
My husband won't have sex until I dress up like a man??
Q. I'm 32, and my husband's 36, and I work in website design/corporate sites on a freelance basis, my husband's a chef at a local restaurant/Indian place. Over the past 3-4 weeks or so, he's been begging me to dress up differently when having sex. ...
A. 7 September 2011: If you aren't comfortable doing this then you simply tell that. I'm sure he doesn't want his fetish to interfere with your pleasure. Unless there is something you'd like him to do that he doesn't want to do...then you can trade off. Sex is a two way ... (read in full...)
She asked why I like her and I couldnt think of a reason!
Q. well im in a relationship with a girl for about 4months? we dont really keep track. and she asked me why i liked her, and i couldnt give her a explination, i tried thinking of why i like her but i couldnt think of anything! but something about ...
A. 7 September 2011: That's a typical "I've got you you son of a bitch" question that girls often ask their poor unsuspecting boyfriends. There is never the right answer. If she asks you if her jeans make her look fat, watch out Buddy.... (read in full...)
Is this a scam?
Q. I have an appointment with a Casting Agency, which i applied to to become a Supporting Artist/Extra, but they told me that i have to pay £40 to have some photos taken !. Do you think this is a scam, and should i not bother going to them ?. I have ...
A. 7 September 2011: It's a scam, and an old one at that.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend once told me I needed a boob job!
Q. Hi, I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend just over a year, before we started properly going out we used to see each other he was very affectionate and fun, now I'm constantly worrying crying and being over protective. The reason for ...
A. 3 September 2011: ha ha heart great anwser... (read in full...)
My boyfriend once told me I needed a boob job!
Q. Hi, I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend just over a year, before we started properly going out we used to see each other he was very affectionate and fun, now I'm constantly worrying crying and being over protective. The reason for ...
A. 3 September 2011: ha ha heart great anwser... (read in full...)
My boyfriend once told me I needed a boob job!
Q. Hi, I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend just over a year, before we started properly going out we used to see each other he was very affectionate and fun, now I'm constantly worrying crying and being over protective. The reason for ...
A. 3 September 2011: ha ha heart great anwser... (read in full...)
Should I let it go and forgive my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 months but have known each other for almost 3 years. I always suspected that he and my sister had/have a thing for each other, but always thought that it was more like unspoken. He was once her teacher ...
A. 3 September 2011: troll... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be attracted to people whose names all begin with the same letter?
Q. Hello :). Alright so here's the deal. I'm wondering if you can be attracted ("only") to a person whom names starts with a certain letter. When I was around 9-10 I had a "relationship" with a girl which name started with the letter "E" (It ...
A. 2 September 2011: I dated 3 Steves and 2 Bills and finally married the third Bill. Certainly simplified things.... (read in full...)
Why is my dad so negative about everything I do? What can I do to change this?
Q. I don't know what to do about my family. They constantly compare me to my sister and to other people not even related to us. I'm fine with being compared to people, that really doesn't bother me. However I've noticed my dad seems to like my sister's ...
A. 2 September 2011: Yeah being a parent is the toughest job on the face of this planet. I figure he's just trying to keep you focused and putting forth your best effort. You might want to let him know when he's hurt your feelings though.... (read in full...)
Should I let it go and forgive my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 months but have known each other for almost 3 years. I always suspected that he and my sister had/have a thing for each other, but always thought that it was more like unspoken. He was once her teacher ...
A. 2 September 2011: He was your sister's TEACHER? He was busy with both you and your sister all the while being married? Hello? Do you have a screw loose or something? You've been used, abused and deserve the t-shirt my dear. I'd do my fellow females a service and ... (read in full...)
Am I scared of getting married, or is something else going on?
Q. Hi, I have questions that I wish to have answered, but I do not think an answer exists to these questions. I guess I am looking for what other people think, and I am not expecting some magic response... My fiancee and I have been together...
A. 2 September 2011: If there are any doubts, of any kind, people should not marry. Nope, nada, negatory.... (read in full...)
My soon to be ex lacks boundaries-how do I stand up to him?
Q. I really want to get over my ex, we are currently going through a divorce, I am divorcing him for his adultery with an ex best friend of mine!! He is in a relationship with her and living with her. We have a little boy too. I really want to get o...
A. 2 September 2011: Wow, he really is a piece of work. I'm praying for the day when you no longer feel the loss of your marriage and the pain of betrayal but actually feel glad you are shed of him. I have no doubt that day will come.... (read in full...)
My soon to be ex lacks boundaries-how do I stand up to him?
Q. I really want to get over my ex, we are currently going through a divorce, I am divorcing him for his adultery with an ex best friend of mine!! He is in a relationship with her and living with her. We have a little boy too. I really want to get o...
A. 1 September 2011: You say 5 months like it is a long time. I say it's ONLY been 5 months; there is no way I'd be back on my feet if I were wearing your shoes. This kind of betrayal is so soul-wrenching it's going to take a while to recover. Be extra nice to yourself ... (read in full...)
I did Snoop. Did I read too much into this? What's the next step to rectify the situation?
Q. I read my girlfriend's journal to find that she has nothing but scathing personal thoughts about me: "I don't love him anymore...I don't respect him," and I also found her transcribing conversations with an ex-bf whom I think she may have stayed ...
A. 1 September 2011: I WOULDN'T rectify the situation I'd leave it as is and walk out the door.... (read in full...)
We're both facing divorce. He's helped me. Does this co-worker have feelings for me?
Q. So I have a co-worker and over the course of the last 2 months we have gotten really close. He tells me things about his marriage and I do the same. Things really got set into motion when my, soon to be ex-husband, and I got into an argument...
A. 1 September 2011: Relax and take things very slowly. Both of you need to focus on your recovery from divorce. Rushing into another relationship can be disasterous. Time will tell whether he and you have more than a friendship in your futures.... (read in full...)
Is my ex contacting me just to check up on me?
Q. Is my ex contacting me purely to check up on me? Why is she doing this? Since we broke up for circumstantial reasons 6 months ago, she has moved on. She moved on very quickly (within a month) and has been in a relationship ever since. I've date...
A. 1 September 2011: Hi Andy, I see that you still are carrying the torch. Bless your heart, you know you should just cut yourself free of this chick. Stop all contact with her, she just keeps making you miserable. You can only get passed this by completely moving on. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to break up but keeps on cheating on me!
Q. My boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me, is over friendly with all his gal pals, always hugging them, getting drunk with them, calling them sweet names, always wanting to be with them, sharing everything with them. He has cheated on me with some ...
A. 31 August 2011: I think you need to pucker up that courage, that is unless you want things to remain exactly the the way they are. If you have fallen in love once, you can fall in love again.... (read in full...)
I need advice for dealing with my menopausal mother
Q. I need advice with my menopausical mother. She is in that stage and I try not bother her and just please her and go along without arguing. Sometimes she does things that are hurtful, for example I have spent 3 days painting all the flower pots ...
A. 31 August 2011: Do you have to live with her? Is your Dad around? Do you have any brothers or sisters?... (read in full...)
Why is my dad so negative about everything I do? What can I do to change this?
Q. I don't know what to do about my family. They constantly compare me to my sister and to other people not even related to us. I'm fine with being compared to people, that really doesn't bother me. However I've noticed my dad seems to like my sister's ...
A. 31 August 2011: I know when bosses give employees an evaluation there ALWAYS has to be someplace that has room for improvement. Your Dad is making the mistake of negative criticism without the positive incentive that should accompany it. But my question to you is ... (read in full...)
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