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What I've learned from my family.
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Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 2 November 2011: I agree, your reasoning is off.
You were the one who said you didn't want to wait until you were in your 30'ties with finding a man who actually cares for you enough to see your breasts in their natural shape, you're the one who didn't want to ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: No, the cup size changes with the band. Google for a converter and you'll see.
Yeah, sure a guy would love you no matter what if he actually truly deeply loves you, but then again that ruins the entire point of why you want to have the surgery ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: Oh actually, wait.. I converted the bra size wrong, I'm a 32C, so mine are way smaller than yours. Which makes me think your areolae must be even smaller than mine in proportion to the breasts.. If I converted this correctly, I'm 70D in European ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: You have the exact same breasts as me then. I'm also around that size, and my areolae is that size too.
I've NEVER gotten a complaint, nor have I ever been a turn off, and men absolutely love my breasts. I asked my lover last night and told him... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 31 October 2011: You said we didn't answer your question. Ok, lets have a recap. 1. "I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 31 October 2011: Wow, it's just 5 cm? That's the same size as me. Men love my breasts... sheezes. I love my breasts and my nipples too, and I've seen plenty of women with larger nipples!
OP your areolae IS NOT LARGE. Pancakes? You're not even close, you've g... (read in full...)
Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him
Q. Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my ...
A. 30 October 2011: 1sunshine, your boyfriend obviously also likes small breasted blondes. Or else he'd be with a big breasted brunette, wouldn't he? He can like both things, which I think he also does :)
... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 30 October 2011: Guys aren't one dimensional. You really should get a boyfriend first before you say that no man will ever be attracted to your breasts. You're killing the mood yourself by creating all this fuzz. So you want attention from these "popular" guys. And ... (read in full...)
I cannot live with the thoughts of his immoral illegal past dating a 14 year old when he was 23!
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We have spent almost every night together for the past 4 months and he more or less lives at my house with myself and my child. He sends me love notes and love bears and tells me almost every ...
A. 30 October 2011: Let this be the final nail in the coffin then. And press charges on him hitting you. ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 30 October 2011: "The terms pepperoni nipples, bologna nipples and pancake nipples exist for a reason and it's not because men love them"
Pepperoni is quite small, but that's aside from the point.
If these are such common terms then why are you the only one who... (read in full...)
I enjoy going out. But guys, in error, think I'm ready for one night stands. Nooo.! But am I missing out ?
Q. i enjoy going out and having a good time with friends, but often guys assume this means that i'm down for one night stands. i've only slept with one guy in my life and he was my ex boyfriend, but now i feel like guys are not even interested in you ...
A. 30 October 2011: Your friend is right, you are weeding out the undesirable ones. Don't give in to having sex after a few dates. I believe if you want to have sex you commit first. Of course, unless YOU want to just have a one night stand, then you can. But you cam ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him
Q. Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my ...
A. 30 October 2011: It was 2 years ago. I think your insecurity about your own breasts is whats hurting the most here, and not his comments. You are focused on your breasts, and so you remember anything negative or possibly negative you ever heard about them, while ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 30 October 2011: " I don't understand why anyone would think I should force myself to live with someone that makes me dislike my breasts."
I don't understand this part. No one here is telling you to live with anyone who makes you dislike your breasts. Are you curr... (read in full...)
How can I make my first time more comfortable for us both?
Q. Okay lets get to the point: I'm a virgin and me and my long time boyfriend have decided to go ahead and have sex (he's a virgin too). We have almost done the 'dirty deed' but I'm a chicken. I'm scared. I don't really know of what, but I'm scared. ...
A. 29 October 2011: Stay naked together and explore each others bodies. Have oral sex. That'll help you get used to his body and vice versa, and feel more relaxed and comfortable about it.
If you're still scared then take control of things yourself. Don't set a pl... (read in full...)
IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!
Q. I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is ...
A. 29 October 2011: You want to end the relationship because of this? Oh man. I'm trying not to be rude here, but what on earth are you on about???
"food cant target that specific spot without effecting the waste." Uhm yes it can. It's called genetics. You gain wei... (read in full...)
Help with OCD paper?
Q. Hi! I'm a freshman in college and in my Psychology class I had to choose a topic for my paper. I chose OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)out of a list of similar topics. It has to be in APA format. Anyways I know what OCD is, but I have no idea on ...
A. 29 October 2011: Read up about it. Avoid Wikipedia. Find some reliable sources, like for example your books from your compendium.
I don't know what APA format is, but I'm sure you know what it is, and how to make a paper by this format.
I'm sure you've also... (read in full...)
I cannot live with the thoughts of his immoral illegal past dating a 14 year old when he was 23!
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We have spent almost every night together for the past 4 months and he more or less lives at my house with myself and my child. He sends me love notes and love bears and tells me almost every ...
A. 29 October 2011: He's right, it wasn't RAPE, but it was STATUTORY RAPE. Don't he see the difference? She wasn't old enough to consent even if HE thinks she was. This isn't about how he judged her, this is about how he judges the law, really. She wasn't legally ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 29 October 2011: I agree, it's suspicious if a doctor would perform such a surgery. I suspect he isn't a serious doctor then, and only interested in making money. I read an article you might find interesting. Just because someone is willing to perform surgery on you ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 28 October 2011: Oh, and I have a girl friend who has tiny nipples and she's jealous of mine. She wishes hers were bigger. So it goes both ways, you always want what you don't have, but it doesn't mean what you have is a flaw in any way. ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 28 October 2011: I've never heard a man complain about nipples. Ever. I think you might be hanging with the wring crowd or immature little boys who's never seen a real boob. Men love breasts and nipples, and they never complain. This is a personal issue that ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong I want more time with him outside work?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. We work at same place and up until 2 days ago together. Because we are dating I was made to change areas. Before this we saw each other at work and maybe 2 nights a week. Which I was trying to get ...
A. 28 October 2011: It's just been 2 days with this new arrangement where you do not work together. I think you should give it some time and fit into the new routine, at least try the new routine, before you complain about it. So you get to see him less, but you DO get ... (read in full...)
First time sex...what can I do so that it wont hurt?
Q. I'm a vigin and me and my partner want to have sex I'm scared that it might hurt from other girls I've heard it hurts I need to know what I can do so it won't hurt . ...
A. 28 October 2011: Be turned on. Be wet. Use extra lubrication if you aren't sure if you are wet enough. Then have him do it slowly. It shouldn't really hurt at all if he just goes slow and you are actually turned on and want him. Maybe a little sting, but it's not ... (read in full...)
Caught my soon to be ex-wife and daughter eaves dropping, did I over-react?
Q. hi i have a question do you guys think i over-reacted? i was having a very private conversation with my father about his wife and i guess she cheated on him with some younger man and they have 3 kids. my father was real upset like i never seen him ...
A. 28 October 2011: Listen... I get that you have a deal with evesdropping. But they weren't exactly spying on you. If you wanted privacy you could have stayed in your room (don't understand why you didn't) or gone to the bathroom, or to your car, or out for a walk or ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a timing plan set out for when we should have sex but I'm worried I wont be ready by then!
Q. I am worried my boyfriend is going to get tired of waiting to have sex. We are both 16. Both capricorns ;) . I love him n he says he loves me but i know how fast feelings can change so far we have been together for 2 months but we have known ...
A. 28 October 2011: When the time approaches just talk to him about it if you aren't ready. He can't, and shouldn't, force you to have sex. On the other hand you need to speak up and tell him that yes, sex will not happen at least until after this grade year is done, ... (read in full...)
I cannot live with the thoughts of his immoral illegal past dating a 14 year old when he was 23!
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We have spent almost every night together for the past 4 months and he more or less lives at my house with myself and my child. He sends me love notes and love bears and tells me almost every ...
A. 28 October 2011: According to the lawy she was a minor. Doesn't matter if HE didn't think she looked like one or acted like one. And he should have been old enough to not have sex with her.
While taking her in and living with her is one thing, and ok not bad in i... (read in full...)
My past is coming back to haunt me.....
Q. I have a very big problem about my past and I'm not sure how to handle it. My husband I are married almost 10 years, and together over 10 years. My husband thinks that I was not only a virgin when we started dating, but he also thinks that I was CO...
A. 27 October 2011: After 10 years you forgot that you weren't a virgin when you married? I don't think so. You wanted to forget, and how you ended up in that lie in the first place I have no idea.
What to do now? Do you want to meet this ex of yours or not? If ... (read in full...)
I cannot live with the thoughts of his immoral illegal past dating a 14 year old when he was 23!
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We have spent almost every night together for the past 4 months and he more or less lives at my house with myself and my child. He sends me love notes and love bears and tells me almost every ...
A. 27 October 2011: How old was she when he got her pregnant?
This is disturbing. Even worse than when an ex of mine told me his first time was at 14 with his cousin. Some things you wish you never knew...! Then again, once the truth is out you got to deal with it.... (read in full...)
I asked her to dress sexy and she laughed at me and now I feel embarrassed!
Q. I am in a relationship with this pretty girl for the last 2 years and we are having great loving and sexual relationship . Recently, I asked her to wear very tight pent and jeans in home so that her big tits and butt become obvious for me . She re...
A. 27 October 2011: You have been with her for two years, you need to be able to look at her and talk to her. You can do it. Step out of your comfort zone and just talk to her about what happened and that you don't understand why she laughed at it. You enjoy her ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my B/f about my dream?
Q. Last night, I had a dream about me and my boyfriend making out. It was obvious we were going to do more in my dream, but I woke up before we got intimate. I need my fellow ants and uncles to give me their opinion. Should I tell my boyfriend abou...
A. 27 October 2011: It's like poking a bear with a stick, but sure, go ahead.
If you are waiting for you and him to get married may I ask if you are even engaged? Seems to be rushing it a bit when you are 16 and already planning to marry him, when marriage could be... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. Dear readers, I would like to hear your advice on my situation. To put it bluntly, I'm a 24 year old virgin male. I could try to look good and say that I've been waiting for that special someone, or I'd be honest and tell you that I've never had t...
A. 27 October 2011: My ex was 24 when he lost his virginity to me. I recently asked him, thinking about this question, if he found it difficult to be a virgin at that age. He said no. He said it would become a problem if he made it out to be a problem, so he didn't ... (read in full...)
Is it true that A Man can't win? Why does it seem that women are ALWAYS right? Feels like that to a guy !
Q. We've all heard the saying that a man can't ever win. But no-one ever explains why! So, quite simply, here it is. Women make the rules. And even if the man makes the rules, Women enforce them. For example, Have you ever had a situation that spa...
A. 27 October 2011: Maybe you are generalizing a bit too much from your own experiences here. Maybe you are a pushover that takes crap from girls and aren't respected, so you think this is the case with all men and women?
If you feel you are treated unfair then dea... (read in full...)
Spiders? Heights? I have a Phobia of statues! Any solutions or people with my Statues phobia?
Q. Oh hey its me again! Just an odd little qeustion, i have automonophobia and i was just updating my profile and wondered "hmmm i wonder if anyone else has it." So i thought id ask some of you lovely lot and wheather anyone has it. ...
A. 27 October 2011: I don't have the same phobia, but I strongly dislike and feel uncomfortable around imitations of personal or private spaces and clothes. Statues and mannequins I work ok with, as they are either artistic or for a fashion purpose, and rarely try to ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my B/f about my dream?
Q. Last night, I had a dream about me and my boyfriend making out. It was obvious we were going to do more in my dream, but I woke up before we got intimate. I need my fellow ants and uncles to give me their opinion. Should I tell my boyfriend abou...
A. 27 October 2011: Whats there to tell? You had a dream, people dream, and it's definitely not anything urgent that you absolutely should tell him. Unless you are trying to turn him on.
If you aren't planning on having sex with him then I see no point in telling ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I can take these rejections anymore! How do I stop myself getting carried away?
Q. I know this is probably one of the most common things on here so i apologize if i repaet anyone. Went on a first date the other day and when i asked the girl if she wanted to meet up again, she said she just wanted to be friends. I was very keen,...
A. 26 October 2011: Wait, did she want to meet you again or no?
Anyway, how to handle rejections... I think you are getting a bit carried away if this was your first and only date in a year and you get rejected. It's not like it happens over and over, this was the ... (read in full...)
Should I tell people I'm a virgin when I meet them?
Q. I'm 26 and still a virgin. I've not had many boyfriends, i'm quite shy and don't go out much - prefer saving money for holidays and concerts. Whenever i meet someone should I tell them i'm a virgin or not? Thanks...
A. 26 October 2011: No. You don't tell them until you've already entered a serious and official relationship with them. When the relationship has gotten serious you can have a talk about sex. But this is definitely NOT something you blurt out on the first dates. It's a ... (read in full...)
Why do people complain about their LDR relationships when they are not really that far away from each other?
Q. Okay, now I don't know if I'm going off topic or something just tell me why do so many people I know who are in LDRs always complain when there only two or 3 hours apart from each other while me and my gf are 18 hours? It bothers me with a passion ...
A. 26 October 2011: People have different understandings of what makes a long-distance relationship. I've come across several that think a 30 minute drive makes it long distance. As if unless you are neighbors and within walking distance it's classified as ... (read in full...)
Am I weird for not wanting to sleep around or cheat on my boyfriend? All my friends seem to be doing it!
Q. Why are my friends doing this? am I weird to think is wrong? My friends say am boring and I should change my rules when it comes to guys. I've always been the kind of girl to only kiss a guy or have sex with a guy when we're in a relationsh...
A. 26 October 2011: No, you're not weird. People have different standards. You have a higher standard then those others. ... (read in full...)
I cannot stop obsessing about my boyfriend's height! Please help.
Q. Dear Cupid. Please help. I am driving myself crazy. I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and I love him so so so much, but I am absolutely obsessed with his height. I am 5ft 9.5", and he is about 1-1.5" taller. Yet whenever we a...
A. 26 October 2011: You are obsessing. And if you keep feeding the obsession it will get worse. Next thing you now you're looking into surgery to become shorter, or buying him platforms. Or refusing to stand next to him in photos.
What to do then? Here it comes. W... (read in full...)
What is the longest you have gone without sex whilst in a relationship?
Q. What is the longest period that someone has gone without sex, While in a relationship. Without a medical reason ...
A. 26 October 2011: 4 months. We were long distance. That's also the longest I've ever gone without sex since I became sexually active.
Aside from the long distance relationship I think it'd be around 2 weeks or so, which often happens during Christmases or summer v... (read in full...)
I want to take my new girlfriend to the strip club and watch her touching other girls
Q. I want to take my new girlfriend to a strip club, but am not sure what her reaction will be. For you girls, if you have been dating a guy for a month or so and he askes you if you want to accompany him to a strip club, what would be your re...
A. 26 October 2011: So the scenario is that you and I have been together for nothing more than a month. Relationship is still fresh, and you're still in the period where I am getting to know you and learn about you.
Then you come and tell me you want to go to a str... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I shaved off my pubic hair?
Q. Ok, so about a week ago, I was shaving my bikini line, but I angled the razor wrong, and shaved off a patch of pubic hair that made my area, which is usually neat, trimmed, and proper looking, look stupid, so in an effort to try and fix it, I ended ...
A. 26 October 2011: Ok, just tell him that you made a shaving error last time you were trimming your hairs and want to hold off on sexual activities down there until you feel comfortable again.
Why is it so horrible if he knows? What's so bad about him knowing ... (read in full...)
I like being happy but why do people at school say I'm retarded because I like to laugh?
Q. I'm a very happy person that likes to smile and laugh and for most times no reason I can't help it, I love to laugh and smile. At school people be mean to me and say I'm retarded because I like to laugh and smile. They say I shouldnt be happy that ...
A. 26 October 2011: You are acting socially abnormal. That's why. Those who act outside of the norm will get noticed and will get picked at for their abnormal behaviour. It's like that in all societies.
If you don't like being called stupid I'm afraid you need to ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. Dear readers, I would like to hear your advice on my situation. To put it bluntly, I'm a 24 year old virgin male. I could try to look good and say that I've been waiting for that special someone, or I'd be honest and tell you that I've never had t...
A. 25 October 2011: When in doubt, don't buy.
You're not feeling comfortable about this, so don't do it. The prostitutes will always be there, it's not like you can't go see one later on if you feel you really want it.
In the meantime, think about whether or... (read in full...)
Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?
Q. Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense o...
A. 25 October 2011: Well, if you are a couch potato you attract other couch potatoes. Looking good in this meaning is a life style and about whether or not you are physically active, and not about how "handsome" you are or not. It appears a lot of less attractive men ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to say ILY?
Q. So im back..again. I know someone is going to tell me that if I have to ask, then I don't, or am not ready. But I have to ask because I want to know, mostly from the lady folk, what you think she wants, and what she thinks. So me and my g...
A. 25 October 2011: She might want to hear it, but do yourself and her a favour to and don't misuse the word. If you say it without meaning it it's not important any longer. It should only be said when you KNOW deep in your heart and soul and body, that you do lover ... (read in full...)
He says he really loves me but is he over his ex?
Q. Dear cupid, I've met the most amazing man and we just totally click, we have the same thoughts and same tastes in music and film. We are very easy going people and have been very open with eachother for the whole month we've been together. I love ...
A. 25 October 2011: He's probably not feeling romantically for her any longer, but at some level he's not "over" her. He's not indifferent towards her, and he mentions her a lot which shows she's still on his mind. Just tell him that this makes you feel uneasy, and ... (read in full...)
Afraid my boyfriend will reject my bedroom fantasy suggestion
Q. How willing are men to play out strange sexual fantasies that are suggested by their girlfriends? I want to do a little dress-up in the bedroom but I'm afraid he'll either completely reject the idea or in the moment, I won't be able to take it ...
A. 25 October 2011: Most guys like to participate in fantasies. ... (read in full...)
Do I have to explain everything to my girlfriend?
Q. Do I have to explain everything to my girlfriend with whom I have been for last two years? I am a sports teacher here and who gets free from work around 2pm. In the evening,on the beach, I jog for three miles and at the end go for sprint when 100 ...
A. 25 October 2011: You don't need to explain WHY you do what you do, just say you enjoy doing it.
No, she doesn't need to know everything you do, but unless you have a reason to not tell her you will sound suspicious when you try to sneak around and hide things. ... (read in full...)
Any ideas for birthday present for my boyfriend?
Q. I'm not sure what to get my boyfriend for his birthday next week. I bought him a voucher for a massage and already gave it to him, but I feel like that's not enough. I plan on baking him his favorite cookies and a little birthday cake to send in the ...
A. 25 October 2011: ... I was just about to ask "and what has he given you", but your answer to that took me by surprise. Nothing. He gave you NADA. Can you tell us why you received nothing?
I'll play hobby shrink on you now, but this is a more or less common t... (read in full...)
Do I have another child or go to college?
Q. Hi Everyone, Im having trouble making up my mind. Im 22 and married. I have a 2 year old son. Ive been thinking of going to college but lately ive been thinking of having another kid. Why? well because i want my kids to be around the same age. Im ...
A. 25 October 2011: College, me thinks. If you have another child later on your child won't be an only child anyway, even if they aren't the same age. Being the same age does not mean they will get along better or have a better relationship. Me and my brother are 3 ... (read in full...)
I don't want to date her anymore. How do I get her to move out of my life?
Q. I have spent 9 months with this lady and now wana dump her . Well she hasn’t done anything wrong neither me but I have to dump her as I find someone else more attractive than her. She is my 8th girlfriends and I think there is nothing wrong ke...
A. 24 October 2011: You're clearly not in love with her, nor have you been in love with the other girlfriend I presume, since you refer to them not as "past relationships" but "past experiences". Use DATING to experience, and use RELATIONSHIPS for someone who IS ... (read in full...)
Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?
Q. Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense o...
A. 24 October 2011: Looks are just as important to some women as it is to some men: "i've made women laugh almost to the point of wetting themselves but have i ever "pulled" the really good lookers"
Some care a lot, others don't care as much, but to one degree o... (read in full...)
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