| Latest articles: How to avoid being used financially
This question has 13 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
30 October 2010: I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...
What I've learned from my family.
This question has 4 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
14 June 2010: In order for aunts and question askers to see who they are getting advice from, I will continue to write some more about me, and where I come from. The things that I draw on when giving advice, what type of experience I have in life. This arti...
How one person changed my life
This question has 12 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
|
Could losing your virginity kick start your period?
Q. Hello all, I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend of 2 years (yes, we used protection), and it all went quite well. I felt no pain and had no bleeding the actual night we had sex, but the day after (yesterday) I had a fair amount o...
A. 12 November 2011: It probably was triggered by you having sex for the first time, yes. Hormones do crazy things to your body. Just like when if you are stressed you can get your period, it wouldn't surprise me that the sudden change to your body (having something ... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 5 November 2011: Long term relationships are built on friendship. You should wait with sex until you are a bit into the official relationship, maybe a few weeks or even months. Communication, trust, honesty, respect, those are the things you build a long term ... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 4 November 2011: Only way to find out if she has a passion for sex is to enter a sexual relationship with her. To enter a sexual relationship you must first be in an official relationship, which means you need to talk to her about being exclusive and referring to ... (read in full...)
Do I get a boob job and give up sensitivity?
Q. I can't decide whether or not to have a boob job! I have really small boobs and so does everyone else in my family and there's no hope of them growing anymore (I'm a 32A/AA). For ages now I've been thinking about getting a boob job but I still don't ...
A. 3 November 2011: Ok, that's good. Because there's nothing quite as confusing as being dumped because the other person doesn't think they are good enough for you, or because they think you don't really know what you want so they'll decide for you.
I got riled up... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 3 November 2011: You say "after so long why does she not trust me". You need to define what is "so long", because "a few dates" is hardly long. I think you'll find that what you determine as long, she determines as a very short amount of time.
Ask her about it... (read in full...)
Do I get a boob job and give up sensitivity?
Q. I can't decide whether or not to have a boob job! I have really small boobs and so does everyone else in my family and there's no hope of them growing anymore (I'm a 32A/AA). For ages now I've been thinking about getting a boob job but I still don't ...
A. 3 November 2011: Here's some tough love for you:
"It's a fact the huge majority of men do prefer bigger boobs". So what about the men who wants big boobs. They can go and find their big boobs. What are THEY to you anyway? YOU will attract men who are attracte... (read in full...)
She has been abusive but threatens that she can't live without me if I leave. please help!
Q. 2 years 3 months ago i was single and i was just out of an open relationship when i made friend with one girl on facebook.we started to chat everyday and she kept on telling me how her boyfriend was treating her badly....i felt very sorry for ...
A. 2 November 2011: If someone threatens to kill themselves you don't end up in bed with them or try to "change their world". Take it seriously. Call the cops and say you have a suicidal ex girlfriend who threatens to kill herself and leave the responsibility to where ... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 2 November 2011:
You're not in a relationship with her, so she doesn't owe you sex, and even if you were in a relationship that wouldn't guarantee you sex. If you can't commit without a guaranteed amount of sex every so often then you aren't capable of comm... (read in full...)
Do I get a boob job and give up sensitivity?
Q. I can't decide whether or not to have a boob job! I have really small boobs and so does everyone else in my family and there's no hope of them growing anymore (I'm a 32A/AA). For ages now I've been thinking about getting a boob job but I still don't ...
A. 2 November 2011: I don't think the obvious answer is to have surgery. I think the obvious answer is to have therapy to work on your self esteem and find out the reasons why you withdraw from relationships and prevent yourself from entering one. Because thats the ... (read in full...)
Could losing your virginity kick start your period?
Q. Hello all, I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend of 2 years (yes, we used protection), and it all went quite well. I felt no pain and had no bleeding the actual night we had sex, but the day after (yesterday) I had a fair amount o...
A. 2 November 2011: Cramps in your belly can happen after having sex for the first times. I don't think your period can come from losing your virginity directly, but your period and your general health are deeply connected. If you are stressed for example, you can get ... (read in full...)
Am I a girlfriend of a FWB?
Q. Hi everyone here's my problem I met a man at the beginning of the year I like him a lot we started having sex and I found myself getting strong feelings for him but he stopped bothering with me for weeks and weeks so I thought he wasn't interested ...
A. 2 November 2011: I think it's fishy still. Ok, so he said he wanted to talk to you about getting serious. Great. But he's not talked to you for weeks and weeks prior to this. You haven't even dated, he had sex with you and then ignored you. Then he suddenly comes ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 2 November 2011: I agree, your reasoning is off.
You were the one who said you didn't want to wait until you were in your 30'ties with finding a man who actually cares for you enough to see your breasts in their natural shape, you're the one who didn't want to ... (read in full...)
We ended because he didnt have time for a relationship, and now he is with someone already! To make things worse she is really simple looking whereas I am so much more attractive!
Q. So starting in April of my first year of college, this guy started talking to me, and we really hit it off and he was really into me. We both live in different states, so it was kind of bad timing, since we were both going back home for the summer ...
A. 2 November 2011: I don't think he did care... sorry. But if he cared then why would he believe in a RUMOR over YOU?? If he cared about you and took you seriously then your word should be good as gold, his loyalty would have been to you, which means he wouldn't have ... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to get a boyfriend? Any beauty tips?
Q. I'm 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. I'm interested in beginning to date or finding a boyfriend. I'm beginning college next summer and am hoping for a fresh start. I need beauty advice in particular since I am lacki...
A. 2 November 2011: I suggest you go to a beauty salon or make-up store and ask if they do make-overs. You should start with a visit to the hair salon and check out new hairstyles and ask the hairdresser what might look good on you, and then consider different options. ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: No, the cup size changes with the band. Google for a converter and you'll see.
Yeah, sure a guy would love you no matter what if he actually truly deeply loves you, but then again that ruins the entire point of why you want to have the surgery ... (read in full...)
We ended because he didnt have time for a relationship, and now he is with someone already! To make things worse she is really simple looking whereas I am so much more attractive!
Q. So starting in April of my first year of college, this guy started talking to me, and we really hit it off and he was really into me. We both live in different states, so it was kind of bad timing, since we were both going back home for the summer ...
A. 1 November 2011: His first reason, as far as I can see, was the time issue. That he didn't have time for a relationship (even though he clearly do have time now). But, the main reason he didn't want you any longer was because he heard stories about you talking to ... (read in full...)
Does anyone regret having sex too young and not waiting until marriage?
Q. I'm just wondering had anyone regretting having sex too young, or not waiting till marriage as ive been in a steady relationship now for over a year and a half but havent had sex... me and my boyfriend are happy about this but im wondering about ...
A. 1 November 2011: If you have to ask then I think you possibly will regret it. If you feel like it's normal and right for you to have sex, then you wont regret it. I don't regret it.
But, you are young, and so there are many more years you can decide whether ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: Oh actually, wait.. I converted the bra size wrong, I'm a 32C, so mine are way smaller than yours. Which makes me think your areolae must be even smaller than mine in proportion to the breasts.. If I converted this correctly, I'm 70D in European ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 1 November 2011: You have the exact same breasts as me then. I'm also around that size, and my areolae is that size too.
I've NEVER gotten a complaint, nor have I ever been a turn off, and men absolutely love my breasts. I asked my lover last night and told him... (read in full...)
She's my first everything, I'm her seconds....
Q. I'm 26 and had never dated or anything up until a year and a half ago (not a lot of confidence in that department). I've been with the same girl now for that time frame. She's amazing. She told me early on she wasn't a virgin (I am). She has only ...
A. 31 October 2011: Yepp, you're right, don't mention this to her, because it'll only give your relationship problems. You need to sort out these thoughts by yourself first, and then possibly talk to her about them later.
For a year and a half you did not have a p... (read in full...)
Can I have a good life with my controlling man who also tells me lies?
Q. Hi, The man I'm with is a liar, he lies frequently and sometimes over ridiculous things I never know what's real what's not. He was married and even lied about his exes age to me until divorce papers arrived and I seen her age. He's got a tem...
A. 31 October 2011: No, you wont be happy, because this man isn't interested in making YOU happy. He's only interested in making himself happy. Remember where he thinks your place in this relationship is: below him. ... (read in full...)
Is he more interested in sex than me? now all he seems concerned about is how soon we can become a couple and start having sex
Q. Hey guys would love an outsiders opinion to this... Long story short I've met this amazing guy two weeks ago who is sweet, cute, funny and matched and rivalled my humour and we got on really well. We've been talking non stop over this time and al...
A. 31 October 2011: Ah, you didn't know him too well after all. You got on great, but he turned out to be just another perv.
How about you ask him what's up with that? That you liked him, and might have thought of a relationship with him, but that his focusing... (read in full...)
I've been told he's taking me to France for the weekend as my present. What can I get him as a present for the same anniversary?
Q. Right i dont know what to get for my boyfriend for our 2 year anniversary. He spoke to my best friend without me knowing and apparently was planning on taking me to france for the weekend! how can i possibly compare? does anyone have any sugg...
A. 31 October 2011: First, remember that gifts are to be given because you like to give them, and NOT because you are guilted to by something or because you expect something in return.
With that in mind, you can get him a box of chocolates if you want. Or a tie. Or ... (read in full...)
I have pain when I'm finishing urinating. Anyone know what it might be?
Q. I have pain when im finishing urinating. My first pee of the day is the worst because i get really uncomfortable after the pee and i have pain for hours. What could it be? Im sexually active but i make sure the guys use a condom all the time so i'd ...
A. 31 October 2011: You are welcome! It also can help ease the pain if you fill a bottle with warm water and lay between your legs (with a piece of cloth in between, you don't want to burn your skin). ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 31 October 2011: You said we didn't answer your question. Ok, lets have a recap. 1. "I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 31 October 2011: Wow, it's just 5 cm? That's the same size as me. Men love my breasts... sheezes. I love my breasts and my nipples too, and I've seen plenty of women with larger nipples!
OP your areolae IS NOT LARGE. Pancakes? You're not even close, you've g... (read in full...)
What is your opinion about one night stands?
Q. What's your opinion on One Night Stands? Would you do it? Is it bad? I like one guy. We are just friends and he want to have sex with me. I'm confused. I don't know if I want to do it or not. I'm attracted towards him and I like him a lot. He is 23...
A. 31 October 2011: You don't like one night stands. You aren't really interested in having sex now. You are a virgin. Virginity is important in India.
Then why are you still confused? The answer is obviously NO!!!
This "friend" of yours IS only trying to use yo... (read in full...)
Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him
Q. Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my ...
A. 30 October 2011: 1sunshine, your boyfriend obviously also likes small breasted blondes. Or else he'd be with a big breasted brunette, wouldn't he? He can like both things, which I think he also does :)
... (read in full...)
I have pain when I'm finishing urinating. Anyone know what it might be?
Q. I have pain when im finishing urinating. My first pee of the day is the worst because i get really uncomfortable after the pee and i have pain for hours. What could it be? Im sexually active but i make sure the guys use a condom all the time so i'd ...
A. 30 October 2011: This is the only thing I can think of that it might be:
Sounds like a urinary tract infection. It's bacteria in your urinary tract that creates a stingy feeling, and can be quite painful. It also makes you feel like you want to pee all the time... (read in full...)
Why are guys so quiet after sex?
Q. why are guys so quiet after sex? after sex all my boyfriend wants to do is sleep and hardly talks. seems like hes in a bad mood. usually im not the type to always be that sleepy after sex. i dont mind laying there and cuddling but i cant just lay ...
A. 30 October 2011: I don't know, I never came across such men who go quiet and just want to sleep. Unless it's in the middle of the night that is, on one of the occasions where I wake up and want sex, or want sex to late in the evening and he's already dead tired.
... (read in full...)
I seen alot of potential with this relationship but he has backed off. What did I do wrong?
Q. Did I do something wrong? I have been on five dates with a new guy over the last month or so, and I felt things have been going really well. On our last date, he seemed a little off with me, not nearly as hands on as he has been in the past. W...
A. 30 October 2011: Whatever it is I hardly think it is anything you did. Why would it be you? You acted like normal and usual. So no, it's not you. It's him. Something has happened with him in his life unrelated to you that has made him shift his interest towards you. ... (read in full...)
I'm a picky eater! Should I see a doctor about this
Q. this isnt a relationship question but i would appriciate any advice you can provide me with i am a very picky eater i dont eat a lot of variety and rarely try new foods. I also eat quite little for a number of reseons; i have a busy schedule wi...
A. 30 October 2011: This is something you need to deal with on your own, there's no real help to get unless you by chance stumble upon something. At best I would advice you to take cooking classes and read up about nutrition. You can also ask your doctor about ... (read in full...)
My Gf has major self esteem issues. will she ever change or go back to the way she used to be?
Q. my fiance of 4 years has always suffered from self esteem issues, an eating disorder and was raped when she was 16. now because of this she dated men who treated her like crap because she thought she deserved that. she has had no support from her ...
A. 30 October 2011: Reading your follow-up I must emphasize: You have to prioritize YOURSELF in this. There's two great reasons for that, 1. You can't help her at all if you end up in depression yourself over this, or are so worn out that you are unable to actually ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is telling me she is being abused, what do I do?
Q. My girlfriend is telling me that she's being verbally and now psyically abused. What is the best thing to tell her or do?...
A. 30 October 2011: That depends on who's abusing her. Anything from police to child services to a school principal etc. It completely depends on where this abuse comes from and in what form, and her age and relationship to this person. ... (read in full...)
After some tough times and relationships, when is it going to be my turn to be happy?
Q. In my life so far I have tackled being bullied when I was young and growing up for being overweight suffered with really bad acne and I got teased for being ginger.my dad left at a young age and hes not been bothered since. Ive got a daughter whos 6 ...
A. 30 October 2011: I think it's time you took a second trip to the therapist. You need to talk these things through before you start to feel even worse. I don't know how to correctly translate this saying, but in Norway we say "det er i motbakke det går oppover", ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion about one night stands?
Q. What's your opinion on One Night Stands? Would you do it? Is it bad? I like one guy. We are just friends and he want to have sex with me. I'm confused. I don't know if I want to do it or not. I'm attracted towards him and I like him a lot. He is 23...
A. 30 October 2011: At 16 I think one night stands are a very poor idea, because you are so young. I also think this "friend" of yours isn't a real friend, but someone who is trying to use your body, because you are young and naive.
Are you a virgin? Isn't virginit... (read in full...)
Should my husband go out to bars so often without me? Or should he consider me more?
Q. For the past year my husband has been going to the bars with his friends about twice per month. He stays until the bar is closed. I was ill for a few months and never wanted to go out when he asked (not that I could, because we don't have a baby...
A. 30 October 2011: Why aren't you taking turns? He goes out one time, you go the next, and he stays at home with the children. What's fair is fair. If he can't agree to stay at home 50% of the time, then yeah, he shouldn't be going either unless you can also go.
... (read in full...)
My Gf has major self esteem issues. will she ever change or go back to the way she used to be?
Q. my fiance of 4 years has always suffered from self esteem issues, an eating disorder and was raped when she was 16. now because of this she dated men who treated her like crap because she thought she deserved that. she has had no support from her ...
A. 30 October 2011: She is on anti-depressants for a reason. I think if her doctor prescribed them to her she should take them, for her own well being. You can't tell her to not take them, just because it makes you feel unhappy. If she is depressed she needs help, and ... (read in full...)
I really need advice on making friends please? guys tell me I'm "intimidating" but I don't see how I can be intimidating?
Q. Hi there. This isn't so much of a "love" question as it is more just "how to meet people/make friends" kind of question. I seem to have a really hard time making friends. This isn't something new. All through school I only had a couple friends I wo...
A. 30 October 2011: I don't exactly know what's going on, but a possibility is that you are pushing too hard. You invite people you aren't that close to for get-togethers, naturally I's say they don't show up. If they call you intimidating, what they could mean is that ... (read in full...)
Do other think this looks hot on guys? I think shaved legs on men are amazing
Q. I saw a guy at the gym the other day with shaved legs and it looked amazing. He was on the treadmill and I was on the stationary bike, so he didn't see me but I couldn't keep my eyes off of his sexy legs. Is there any other females that like a man ...
A. 30 October 2011: .. Maybe. But not a lot. Most women prefer a man to be a man. ... (read in full...)
Would you let him go if he were your Bf? And been together two years.
Q. I'm not sure where to start. First off, I'm sorry if this post turns into a novel…I'll try my best to keep it short and simple. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years Its my boyfriends birthday soon and he wants to go clubbin for h...
A. 30 October 2011: Keep things simple. The odd crappy thing here or there will happen in a long term relationship, but you mix too much into this, and things that might not even belong here.
He wanted to go on town alone for his 21st. Why? Ask him. Then base you... (read in full...)
True or false? Are girls attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging?
Q. I have this question about dating in general: I have heard from my guy friends and even read this on a girl's profile on a online dating site, that Girls are attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging. Otherwise if yo...
A. 30 October 2011: Well... people ARE different. Maybe some girls like this, and others like that. It depends really. It also depends on you, do YOU want a girl who is attracted to mystery and unpredictability? Wouldn't that say more about what sort of woman she is, ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 30 October 2011: Guys aren't one dimensional. You really should get a boyfriend first before you say that no man will ever be attracted to your breasts. You're killing the mood yourself by creating all this fuzz. So you want attention from these "popular" guys. And ... (read in full...)
I cannot live with the thoughts of his immoral illegal past dating a 14 year old when he was 23!
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We have spent almost every night together for the past 4 months and he more or less lives at my house with myself and my child. He sends me love notes and love bears and tells me almost every ...
A. 30 October 2011: Let this be the final nail in the coffin then. And press charges on him hitting you. ... (read in full...)
How do I get a British girlfriend?
Q. British girls fascinate me a lot due to their hot British Accent. I have tried several dating sites find a British girl friend for myself but it hasn't worked since I am not located in UK thats why I guess. Even I tried to go to UK on visit visa ...
A. 30 October 2011: I agree with iAmHereToHelpYou, on all the points she made. It's nice that you find British ladies fascinating, but that can not be your criteria for a girlfriend. You also can't be limiting yourself to one group of women, especially if they are ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 30 October 2011: "The terms pepperoni nipples, bologna nipples and pancake nipples exist for a reason and it's not because men love them"
Pepperoni is quite small, but that's aside from the point.
If these are such common terms then why are you the only one who... (read in full...)
I enjoy going out. But guys, in error, think I'm ready for one night stands. Nooo.! But am I missing out ?
Q. i enjoy going out and having a good time with friends, but often guys assume this means that i'm down for one night stands. i've only slept with one guy in my life and he was my ex boyfriend, but now i feel like guys are not even interested in you ...
A. 30 October 2011: Your friend is right, you are weeding out the undesirable ones. Don't give in to having sex after a few dates. I believe if you want to have sex you commit first. Of course, unless YOU want to just have a one night stand, then you can. But you cam ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him
Q. Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my ...
A. 30 October 2011: It was 2 years ago. I think your insecurity about your own breasts is whats hurting the most here, and not his comments. You are focused on your breasts, and so you remember anything negative or possibly negative you ever heard about them, while ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 30 October 2011: " I don't understand why anyone would think I should force myself to live with someone that makes me dislike my breasts."
I don't understand this part. No one here is telling you to live with anyone who makes you dislike your breasts. Are you curr... (read in full...)
I cannot live with the thoughts of his immoral illegal past dating a 14 year old when he was 23!
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We have spent almost every night together for the past 4 months and he more or less lives at my house with myself and my child. He sends me love notes and love bears and tells me almost every ...
A. 29 October 2011: He's right, it wasn't RAPE, but it was STATUTORY RAPE. Don't he see the difference? She wasn't old enough to consent even if HE thinks she was. This isn't about how he judged her, this is about how he judges the law, really. She wasn't legally ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 29 October 2011: I agree, it's suspicious if a doctor would perform such a surgery. I suspect he isn't a serious doctor then, and only interested in making money. I read an article you might find interesting. Just because someone is willing to perform surgery on you ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 28 October 2011: Oh, and I have a girl friend who has tiny nipples and she's jealous of mine. She wishes hers were bigger. So it goes both ways, you always want what you don't have, but it doesn't mean what you have is a flaw in any way. ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 28 October 2011: I've never heard a man complain about nipples. Ever. I think you might be hanging with the wring crowd or immature little boys who's never seen a real boob. Men love breasts and nipples, and they never complain. This is a personal issue that ... (read in full...)
I cannot live with the thoughts of his immoral illegal past dating a 14 year old when he was 23!
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We have spent almost every night together for the past 4 months and he more or less lives at my house with myself and my child. He sends me love notes and love bears and tells me almost every ...
A. 28 October 2011: According to the lawy she was a minor. Doesn't matter if HE didn't think she looked like one or acted like one. And he should have been old enough to not have sex with her.
While taking her in and living with her is one thing, and ok not bad in i... (read in full...)
I cannot live with the thoughts of his immoral illegal past dating a 14 year old when he was 23!
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. We have spent almost every night together for the past 4 months and he more or less lives at my house with myself and my child. He sends me love notes and love bears and tells me almost every ...
A. 27 October 2011: How old was she when he got her pregnant?
This is disturbing. Even worse than when an ex of mine told me his first time was at 14 with his cousin. Some things you wish you never knew...! Then again, once the truth is out you got to deal with it.... (read in full...)
| *higirl's friends
These are mutual friends, so *higirl has
added them and they have added *higirl!
|
![kitty-cat=] agony aunt](/avatars/4e276644-588c-43d2-bf37-fe35b92660b5.png){kind=small}
