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writes: My dad does not act like he loves me.he broke up with my mom.so me and my brother visit him.he got a new girlfriend.he had 4 kids by his new girl.my dad takes family pictures with his new kids.buys his new kids shoes clothes hats.he does not care for me and my brother.who been with him from the beginning.he does not love me and my brother who been here FIRST.his new kids get toys little mini morticycles we dont.How do i tell if he loves me.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (25 September 2006):
 well i think the reason maybe because they are the youngest and the thing you do with your kids is spoil them like rotten because they grow up in front of your eyes before you know it! why dont you have a chat to him and tell him how you feel, maybe if he knows you feel this way he knows then he can do more to make you feel loved! but because he does not know he cant exactly do more can he?
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 September 2006):
 Your Dad might only be spoiling them to make up for the things he feels he didn't do with and for you and your brother, talk to him and tell him how you are feeling he might not realise what he is doing and nothing wrong with you pointing it out as your hurting because of it, tell him it's not that you want all them things you just feel because you didn't get them things that you don't or don't love as much or the same as you do his new kids.
Good luck :o)
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