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writes: What does he want from me? I've been at my job about 8 months and for the last 3 have been seeing my boss. We started out on the hot and heavy side, but have not had sex. I've made it very clear that I don't settle and that he needs to earn it. We didn't talk for a full 3 days (except at work where we are 100% professional). Then he called and was bothered that I hadn't called. I very rarely call him, usually don't have to...he regularly calls me. Now he's stepped up his game. Taking me out more, doing more couple type things. We are both very independent people and value our alone time and I've never brought up relationship type questions. I kind of act like I don't really care, but still pay him attention when were together. I'm easygoing but not a pushover. I'm confused...would he step up his game that way just to have sex or is he genuinely into me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the valuable advice. We will be having a chat tonight and ill let you know how it goes. Thanks again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): asho33 writes: "but us women just can't help ourselves."
Bullshpt!!! Us women CAN help ourselves if we choose to!
Wake up and smell the coffee asho33!
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 September 2006):
 Maybe he didn't call because he was trying to suss out where he stands with you, as you said you act like your not bothered but you still pay him attention thats confusing enough then when you didn't call he felt like you wasn't interested or he was losing you so he stepped up his game as he wants you and him to work out or he doesn't want to lose you, you could try dropping some subtle hints or acting more like your bothered see how he reacts failing that talk to him and find out where he sees you both going and what he wants from you.
Good luck :o)
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