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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:i have been seeing this guy for 4 months but he only texts or phones me on a saturday night to meet and come back mine when hes out with his mates, is thier any possibility hes interested in a relationship or is he just using me for sex, i really do like this guy and wont bring up how i really feel incase i frighten him off. i just seem to go with what he wants all the time. what should i do.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (15 October 2007):
Dump him unless you want to keep using him for sex. He's not a good candidate for a loving relationship.
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reader, Sassister +, writes (15 October 2007):
He's using you for sex. If this is OK with you, great, but if you are wanting more from a relationship get rid of him. He'll just hold you down emotionally.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (15 October 2007):
 hi
i am sorry to tell you but it seem that this guy is only using you, to relieve his sexual needs,if he is not listening, to you or not treating you as a special person, and only turning up at your house once a week on a Saturday night after he has been out with his mates, then i am afraid that his actions speak for them selfs,you need to give this guy the heave ho, there is always a way you can test him of course, let him come to your house and discuss going out together for a romantic meal,tell him your not happy with the situation and want a proper relationship, do not let him have sex with you,and see what his reaction is, you do deserve a better relationship, some one to love and care for you and not some one who just needs one thing once a week i wonder who he visits over the six days he not with you? good luck
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