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writes: hi. i am nearly 16, been with my boyfriend just over a year and love him dearly. i recently went to a party of a friends for her 16th birthday and we got very drunk and i cant remember anything that happened. the next thing i knew was i was sat in english at school on friday and someone bluetoothed me a picture. it was me drunk gettin off with a lad i had met at the party. i dont remmeber kissing him but the evidence is there. there is roumers going round that i gave him head and got poked but i really arnt sure wether to believe them. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but if i have cheated on him i dont think he will forgive me. i love him soo much but dont know wether or not i have cheated on him can anyone help??
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reader, sweetnsoursauce  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 Explain to him the situation you're in. If he finds out from someone else, he'll think you're hiding it and almost deifintely dump you. If you explain it, he might forgive you (since you have no memory), and even if he dumps you, you will have done the right thing by letting him know what happened.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (15 October 2007):
You should have learned not to drink too much. Don't tell your bf. If he finds out just say you got drunk and may have been taken advantage of. Personally I don't believe you have no memory, but it's the only defense you have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): If you kissed someone else (as in a proper kiss, not a peck on the cheek), you've already cheated on him. You need to own up before someone else shows him.
If you're honest with him then there's a (probably quite small) chance he might forgive you. If he finds out from elsewhere, then it's game over...
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