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30-35,
anonymous
writes:please help me ppl!!i know its really wrong of me but my boyfriend left his emails open wen he went to uni today. I have recently failed my first year here, and am now looking for a full time job. We have been through a bit of a rough patch latley but i love him so so much, and he says he loves me and im the girl for him. Anyway iv just looked at his emails and he sent one to a girl mate of his saying:'my girlfriend is really jealous, i dont talk or look at other girls around her, but she is still really jealous-shall i tell her to do one/girls opinion.This wa when we were going through a good patch-he then sent me an email straight after saying i love you!Another email i found was to his mate saying:Although my girlfriend lives in liverpool the temptation is unbelievable!!there are so many hot girls!I love him so much and want to be with him for the rest of my life. I think he does love me but now that i live 70 miles away, we both need to put extra effort in.We have been together 6 months and as far as i know he hasnt been unfaithful. im really insecure anyway. I dont want to confront him about these as he will know i looked but what should i do???do you thnk its a big deal or just a typical lad?by the way iv talked to him about me being insecure and he does go out of his way to not make me feel jealous. we are both 20.lots of lovexxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Hes a typical boy.
If I were you I'd go for someone older. Guys his age have a hard time staying faithful, and it gets less likely if you live far apart and he can get away with it. Chances are your relationship won't last for very long (3-4 years tops) because he'll want to "sow his seeds" so to speak. Eventually he'll get an opportunity to have sex with one of the hot girls at his school and he'll probably do it.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (15 October 2007):
From what you say it sounds to me you have one of the good guys.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (15 October 2007):
 Hi,
If he hasnt really done anything yet, why are you worried?. He might have been asking the friends advice over something, but cant tell you or you will hit the roof.
Of course their are hot girls at Uni, he is only spelling out the obvious, to his mate. No doubt showing off a little as well.
If your relationship is strong it will survive, but if you keep pushing him, he could get fed up.
You say he now lives 70 miles away, so you are scared of what he is doing. But honey!! doesnt that work both way's. How does he know if your being good?.
Think about it and stop getting stressed. XX
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