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writes:i have this guy friend and he calls me only when he wants to mess around... sometimes when we are fixing to start to mess around he stops me to hold my hand. then when we are done he wants to buy me food and put gas in my car! when he found out that i messed around with someone else he wouldn't talk to me for a week! and then said he didn't think i liked him any more.. when he had already told me he just wanted to be friends... how do i know if he is starting to like me? and does he like me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Now onto someone worth talking to, you are not a slut. You are both consenting adults and there is no law as to what kind of relationship you need to have with someone before you can have sex with them. any shallow, idiot little boy who says it is not worth listening to.and as for your friend, yeah i think his feelings are crossing the line from sex buddy to boyfriend. if its not what you want you need to tell him, because he'll get hurt. the fact that he was hurt when you were fooling around with someone else tells me he wants some committment from you so if thats not what you want then you need to tell him so he wont get involved deeper emotionally, your friendship will be lost if you dont handle it correctly and be straight and honest with each other about what you both want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007):
well im not a slut! he told me he wanted to be just sex buddy's. then got upset when i did that stuff with a guy i liked... now he is starting do act like he wants more! he had said he was looking for someone and i made a mistake...
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (1 October 2007):
Yes, he thought the sex meant more than just friends. Now that he knows you're a ****, you need to tell him what his options are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): If he's got sex on tap, there's no real need for him to be any more than friends with you, and when he found out you'd had sex with another guy he got jealous, thinking you were his exclusive sex toy.
Of course he likes you - he has sex with you doesn't he?
If you want to elevate your position in his life you're going to have to discuss what you expect from a relationship - if there's going to be one.
It must be very useful having the convenience of being able to pick up the phone and a half hour later be having sex, but it's a dangerous game if he's spreading himself around the neighbourhood.
Phil
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