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I am currently single having had 2 failed relationships.

I got dumped the first time because I was in a long distance relationship, and she just couldn't wait!

The second one was because she hurt me, insulted me, took the mick out of my disability, and told me I was too ugly (looking at my pic girls, what do u think?!)

Just drop me a message if u feel like you're in the same boat

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I get bored with him as soon as I get the guy I want

Q.   i have a problem as u may tell. I will say i really like a boy and then one of my mates will tell him then he will ask me out but then after a week or two i get really bored and i dont want to go out no more. I just want a relationship with someone ...

A.   20 June 2007: This is like a girl I really like. She's 19, and she went and slept with another man 3 days after I refused her!... (read in full...)

I know she reads my texts but she's choosing not to answer me right away for some reason! can someone explain why this may be?

Q.   My girlfriend dumped me last sunday and this sunday just gone we talked about starting fresh and 2 take things slow by just dating again and meeting up every week or so and to slow down on all the calls and texts, i was fine with that and still am ...

A.   20 June 2007: I read your reply to the person about the person starting a relationship again after being dumped a week ago! I've been treated like that too (my girl even slept with another man 3 days later because I wouldn't make out with her on the 2nd date! ... (read in full...)

Am I trying to hold out for the 100% perfect relationship that probably doesn't exist ?

Q.   Hi Everyone. I've had loads of advice from you over the last few months. I split with my partner after being together for over 4 years. That was a couple of months ago. We didn't live together or anything - I have a son of 12 from a previous ...

A.   20 June 2007: I've been seeing this girl, who, when I refused to make out with her on the second date, she found someone else and slept with him 3 days later! She's looking for a perfect relationship - but she's not gonna get one... (read in full...)

I'm dating a guy online. How do I know it's not going to be a "pedo's trap" when I finally meet him?

Q.   Ok here goes... I am going out with this guy i met online, thing is i havnet met him face 2 face and we have made plans for the future! am i crazy? is this guy for real? or am i falling for a peados trap? plz help me!!!...

A.   20 June 2007: Does the same apply to meeting a friend offline?... (read in full...)

Can anybody tell me why men are such commitment phobes and why they like to lead women on?

Q.   Can anybody tell me why men are such commitment phobes and why they like to lead women on?...

A.   15 June 2007: Talking about leading people on, (this may sound like a strange question), can a girl make up the fact that she's got another boyfriend just to make someone feel jealous?... (read in full...)

If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?

Q.   If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?...

A.   15 May 2007: She texed me last night, saying that I was so romantic and she loves it! Looks aren't really that important to me, and I laugh to myself when, say, a guy goes out with a girl just for her looks, and then it doesn't work out! So, I'm going to take ... (read in full...)

If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?

Q.   If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?...

A.   10 May 2007: The age difference is 9 yrs, we both respect our parents, is it fair to say if they have a problem with it, its their problem?... (read in full...)

If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?

Q.   If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?...

A.   9 May 2007: In reply to confused718 she does have feelings for me, but she is quite a bit younger than me (although above legal age!) and she still lives with her parents. She says her parents will go nutty when they find out (if we do go out), so will mine, ... (read in full...)

If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?

Q.   If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?...

A.   8 May 2007: I've just come back from a business trip to Norway, and I couldn't stop thinking about her. I didn't take my phone with me because it was too expensive, but I missed texting and chatting to her. Now I'm back, I cant wait to chat to her again!... (read in full...)

I want sex constantly and have only gone without sex for two months the longest. What do I do?

Q.   I am a 18 year old girl who keeps on getting in and out of relationships, when i am in the relationship i think that everything is great for a week maybe two and then i get BORED i dont know why this happens. I have been cheated on lots of times by ...

A.   3 May 2007: I too have a friend who has a high sex drive and she tells me she gets "fidgety" if she doesn't get it in two months, and also she tells me she can't keep a boyfriend for more than three months. Because she has a high sex drive she likes to have ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   19 April 2007: I gave her space at the weekend, and then all of a sudden, she phoned me yesterday just to have a chat!... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   18 April 2007: Also, the girl I'm trying to get with has been hurt a lot the past (by hurt in this case I mean lads telling her they love her and want to be with her, only to find that they're just using her for sex), and also there's the fact that she's worried ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   17 April 2007: She talked to me today on MSN, and phoned me asking her to help her with her college work, ad started to make happy conversaton, maybe even flirt with me a bit!... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   13 April 2007: It is also harder because it is hard for me to 'make' her open up... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   13 April 2007: I don't want her to see me asa 'stalker-type'. I miss our chats every night as well... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   13 April 2007: When shall I suggest meeting up with her again?... (read in full...)

How do you get over regret in life and be positve and not think about the past??

Q.   how do you get over regret in life n be positve n not think about the past??...

A.   13 April 2007: I love Cheers - it cheers me up... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   13 April 2007: I don't want to lose her friendship either; I was thinking of ringing her tomorrow night, or is that too soon?... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   12 April 2007: I rang her on Tuesday to see if we are okay still (as friends) and she said yes, ut I got the feeling she may still need some space... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   12 April 2007: She lives 1 and a half hours away from me, but I think she may like it if I make the effort to go and see her. How much space do you think I should give her?... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   12 April 2007: I just want to go back to the time when we used to have a laugh and joke around. Maybe this is me being paranoid again, but if I text her 'Thinking of you hope you're well', won't that mean that I have romantic intentions? ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   12 April 2007: Penta, Maybe I should give you some background. I started talking to her when I broke up wih my girlfriend in January (well we've known each other for 2 years but havent properly talked). We talked and texted every night, I cried to her for weeks, ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   12 April 2007: In answer to your questions penta, I would like her to be more than a friend, but she knows that, but she told me she has been stressed lately; I also don't want to lose her friendship. We talked on Tuesday for a bit - she said she has been busy... (read in full...)

How can I stop being paranoid!?

Q.   How can I stop being paranoid about girl friends or girlfriends?...

A.   11 April 2007: ok, I have a friend who I like very much, and I phone her every night, or she texts me to ask her to ring me, which she likes (talking to her every night started when I broke up with my gf, she helped me through it). Even though we aren't an item, ... (read in full...)

Why do girls dump nice guys for bad boys?

Q.   Why do girls dump nice guys for bad boys? I mean its interesting when girls say that they want nice sensitive guys but they usually date all the bad boys and the nice guys are reserved as friends. And its not just insecure girls, but even ...

A.   5 April 2007: My ex is now going out with a guy who, as grls testfy, is a bad boy. However, he lives 3 hrs away, and he probably will cheat, but I don't want to get hurt... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me I asked him to stop but he just said its a laugh and I need to get a sense of humour! I cant see the funny side!?

Q.   i went to meet my ex boyfriend yesterday because he wanted to talk to me so i thought if i met him outside id be safe. we went back to his house and the door was locked so we couldnt get in because he didnt have his keys. i asked him wat he wantedt ...

A.   4 April 2007: Ths happened to one of my friends who repeatedly asked her friend to stop forcing himself onto her, but he wouldn't (she was 17, he is noe 25). Now, he is going out with my ex (who is 19), and I am fearful that he may do it again... (read in full...)

What are some good songs about unrequited love ?

Q.   what are some good songs about loving someone who doesn't love you back? ... ... ... all genres, sung by both female and male .... thanks ...

A.   29 March 2007: Waiting for a star to fall by Boy Meets Girl... (read in full...)

When a guy meets a girl off the internet for the first time, where should he take her?

Q.   When a guy meets a girl off the internet for the first time, where should he take her?...

A.   29 March 2007: What if she lives one and a half hours away? It's a bit hard to go and pick her up by train and then drop her off again in a day... (read in full...)

Why do men behave in this way, say they want more than sex, but seldom do!?

Q.   I've got a close friend to me; she was due to meet a guy on Saturday who had claimed to love her for 3 years and said he even wanted to marry her and take her on holidays. However, she rang me at 1 Sunday morning (I was still up), saying that he ...

A.   23 March 2007: I am her friend, but I'd actually like to go out with her. However, she is very sensitive so I don't really know how to handle this... (read in full...)

She told me she was 'going easy'...what did this mean?

Q.   I got a text last night from a girl who told me she was 'going easy;. What does that mean?...

A.   22 March 2007: Don't worry about this answer - she topped up too much, so it was soomethng do with texts - going easy on the top-ups!... (read in full...)

Why do men behave in this way, say they want more than sex, but seldom do!?

Q.   I've got a close friend to me; she was due to meet a guy on Saturday who had claimed to love her for 3 years and said he even wanted to marry her and take her on holidays. However, she rang me at 1 Sunday morning (I was still up), saying that he ...

A.   22 March 2007: Thankyou Electra. As a good friend of hers, it hurts me to hear her say that men have 'loved' her for years and years, only to find out they are just using her. I can tell that she wants a boyfriend (like me!) who will love and care for her and ... (read in full...)

I have declined dating him as I know my parents wont approve, its really not what either of us want, and its hurts!!

Q.   bbackground information/b i am an 18 year old girl, the guy concerned in all this is 21. we both work in a clothes shop, he works their full time, and i am part time, as i also attend college, we see each other 2 times a week in work, for 2 hours pe...

A.   19 March 2007: I would like to get into a relatonship with a 17 and a half yr old (I'm 27) but she says that her parents would disown her f they found out. If we do get into a relatonshp, I'll just have to make them see (or try to) that I know how to treat their ... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   1 March 2007: we had a big chat this afternoon, we both apologised for what we'd said to each other, I'm gonna give her space, she knows I'd get back together with her, and we left it like that... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   1 March 2007: I did a terrible thing last night. My ex and I had an argument last night, and I ended up saying things that I didn't mean and now I am truly sorry. With everything thats happened, do you think (in certain circumstances) she would give me another go ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend and her ex?

Q.   Hi Everyone, How can you tell if your g/f is over with her ex... she sometimes says that her ex comes to her once a week, we doing the long distance relationship,we been dating for 4 months now. is that something to be worried about? ...

A.   28 February 2007: To add, she wants me to keep her number as well... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend and her ex?

Q.   Hi Everyone, How can you tell if your g/f is over with her ex... she sometimes says that her ex comes to her once a week, we doing the long distance relationship,we been dating for 4 months now. is that something to be worried about? ...

A.   28 February 2007: Well, I am meant to be over with my ex (we met in an internet chatroom) and she keeps texting me and looking at my profile, which doesn't prove a lot, but it makes me wonder a bit. She lives up in Yorkshire and we both (her new lad and I) live in ... (read in full...)

I love her but she says there is no spark!

Q.   Im in love with this beautiful girl but she doesnt know my full feeling for her, we have kissed before. I have said to her that i want to have sex with her but now shes saying that friends is all she wants because theres no spark. I really love ...

A.   12 February 2007: Can she dump her bf and change her mind to go out with me, when we meet?... (read in full...)

I'm 18, he's 28. What can I say to reassure my mum that it's okay?

Q.   Hey, I have a quite difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend of 3 years nearly a month ago and i have been seeing this guy over the past 10 days who i really like. The only thing is, im 18 and he is 28. He is such a genuine ...

A.   7 February 2007: This 17 year old told me last night she's got a bf. Should I still express my feelings face-to-face or just see her while she's dating other people (advice from another reader)... (read in full...)

My parents are on track to ruining our relationship because they think he is below my social status!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend a little over a year and I love him to pieces. I cannot imagine life without him, and he loves me just as much. We are planning on being with eachother for a long time. So, it breaks my heart that my parents, especially ...

A.   5 February 2007: What if her parents have threatened to kick her for dating a guy 10 years older?... (read in full...)

I'm 18, he's 28. What can I say to reassure my mum that it's okay?

Q.   Hey, I have a quite difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend of 3 years nearly a month ago and i have been seeing this guy over the past 10 days who i really like. The only thing is, im 18 and he is 28. He is such a genuine ...

A.   5 February 2007: As you know I have split up with my ex, and developing feelings for this other girl, but they are becoming stronger and stronger everyday. The problem is she's 17 and a half and I am 27. I discussed this with her over the weekend, the age ... (read in full...)

I'm 18, he's 28. What can I say to reassure my mum that it's okay?

Q.   Hey, I have a quite difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend of 3 years nearly a month ago and i have been seeing this guy over the past 10 days who i really like. The only thing is, im 18 and he is 28. He is such a genuine ...

A.   5 February 2007: As you know I have split up with my ex, and developing feelings for this other girl, but they are becoming stronger and stronger everyday. The problem is she's 17 and a half and I am 27. I discussed this with her over the weekend, the age ... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   2 February 2007: This may be a long reply but bear with me: Now that I have done what you suggested, shall wat for her to contact me, if she does! I know this is a longshot now especially as I told her all those things about him, but he's a player, and he will go ... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   31 January 2007: Another girl is helping me through what I am going through at the moment. The funny / annoying thing about all this is I am falling for her. We have been talking 2 years now. We have both had partners cheat on us, we are both single now and both ... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   30 January 2007: I'm thinking of giving her an ultimatum - its either him or me - and saying that I don't want to play second fiddle and get fooled around anymore. What do you thik?... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   30 January 2007: This begs the question now, is chatting online cheating? This other guy's chatting is flirtatious, bbut he convinces people to do something about it. I know I should get over it, and it takes time. But if she comes back to me, what should I say ... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   30 January 2007: I take into account what you said yesterday, but I have talked to lots of women and girls who say, and some of them have proved it to me, that the other guy only uses women for one thing. I may be being cynical here, but I think Lee manipulated her ... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   29 January 2007: Earlier, one of my frieds said to me, because she's 19, she'll want to do other stuff and not be tied down by one boyfriend. She may break up with him... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   29 January 2007: I am quite a lonely goy at times! Can you tell me bit more what you meant when you said that crazy things happe with cabin crew? She wants this job so badly, so I think she may end up ending it with him as well... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   29 January 2007: I was going to do something very silly - and thought of DontBreakUp.com to get her back! She looks and sounds like a lovely girl - if she did end it to be with him, why did she tell everybody she's like to meet up with me in the first place? Al... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   29 January 2007: Dr Pete I did meet her once When you say crazy, what do you mean? lol so, do you think she'll end it with this other guy because of her job? ... (read in full...)

Worried that when he does hurt her, she'll come crawling back to me, and, being a gullible old fool, I'll take her back!

Q.   I use an intenet chat service from time to time; I met a girl on there in September(ish) (virtually met) and we both agreed to go out on a date (this was in November). However, she said she couldn't get down (she lives in Yorkshire) because of work ...

A.   29 January 2007: No, I have met her once; I did go up to Yorkshire and see her... (read in full...)

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