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I got dumped the first time because I was in a long distance relationship, and she just couldn't wait!
The second one was because she hurt me, insulted me, took the mick out of my disability, and told me I was too ugly (looking at my pic girls, what do u think?!)
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How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?
Q. How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...
A. 23 June 2008: More information -
I went in to the pub on Saturday, was going to ask her but I lost my nerve. She has got a ring on her finger (left-hand, third finger from the left). That may not mean anything, but what do you think? On the other hand, no... (read in full...)
How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?
Q. How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...
A. 30 May 2008: Yesterday I saw this great girl (the waitress!) in the pub - and I was going to ask her out, by saying, when she took my order, I'll have scampi and chips, and your number! That sounds dodgy doesn't it?... (read in full...)
How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?
Q. After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...
A. 19 May 2008: I made the mistake of calling my friend (who's a girl) a girlfriend last month, and she wouldn't even let me explain! To me, thats petty! Thats another reason for not trusting women fully. What do you think?... (read in full...)
How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?
Q. How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...
A. 19 May 2008: There's this girl who has just started at my local newsagents, that I really want to ask out, but I'm still very nervous! I work on Sat mornings, and only see her when I go and get our elevenses. Any advice?... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 25 March 2008: Why do I now feel like I'm going through all the emotions again that I was going through when we split up a year ago?... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 21 March 2008: I see your point I want to add: I use Facebook quite a lot, and she knows I look at her profile quite a lot, and I saw she was single. It did cross my mind that maybe she is telling the truth, she wants to make her ex think she's single again ... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 21 March 2008: I'd like some advice
My ex is on Facebook - and on Wed morning, I went on to find her relationship status had changed to single again, and I secretly thought now's my chance!
Last night we had a conversation and she wanted to tell me something an... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 25 February 2008: Sorry, I should have explaimed myself better!!
When I said she feels she can tell me anything, we don't talk about the relationship she was in, we both, strangely enough, talk about when we were together!
... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 25 February 2008: I got an email from her this morning, saying that she feels she can tell me anything, so that is good to hear.
As I said before, I'm a bit hesitant about getting back with her, that's if she wants me back (not that I don't want to). If she does... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 20 February 2008: I wish I'd found this site in summer 2006 - then I think my ex and I would still be together.
This is an 'if' question but if it does happen, I want to be prepared
She has moved now, to Oxford (again, roughly the same distance), but i... (read in full...)
How long with it take my ex to get over the guy who just dumped her?
Q. My ex left me for another man, also down in here in Kent, and he dumped her after eight months, claiming that it was too far to go and see her (3 hours away), which, just to stop going to see her like that is a lie. Anyway, how long would you say ...
A. 21 September 2007: As she was with him for eight month, and they've been apart a month, she'll be over him now won't she?... (read in full...)
How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?
Q. How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...
A. 21 September 2007: From my point of view: Its because I llke a lot Although she's worth more to me than anything the money factor is a factor as I dont drive. ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?
Q. How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...
A. 20 September 2007: Except they are 3 hours away!... (read in full...)
How do I get back together w/ my ex? I don't want to sound desperate and scare her off!
Q. I want to get back with my ex, I think she wants to as well, I'm not sure (you got to take risks in life though!). What is the best way to do this (I dont want to sound too serious and desperate so as to scare her off)?...
A. 20 September 2007: Would it be better to go through the 'friends' bit again first, or if I do that, will I risk losing her for good? Even if I ask her out again will I risk losing her for good?... (read in full...)
How do I get back together w/ my ex? I don't want to sound desperate and scare her off!
Q. I want to get back with my ex, I think she wants to as well, I'm not sure (you got to take risks in life though!). What is the best way to do this (I dont want to sound too serious and desperate so as to scare her off)?...
A. 19 September 2007: I went out with her before - why am I so nervous to pick up the phone and ask her out again?!
I was actually thinking about asking her in a text, or maybe that's too impersonal!
And that suggestion Little Miss Helpful made is a very good suggesti... (read in full...)
How long with it take my ex to get over the guy who just dumped her?
Q. My ex left me for another man, also down in here in Kent, and he dumped her after eight months, claiming that it was too far to go and see her (3 hours away), which, just to stop going to see her like that is a lie. Anyway, how long would you say ...
A. 19 September 2007: She liked him a lot - they were friends before they got together... (read in full...)
How do I get back together w/ my ex? I don't want to sound desperate and scare her off!
Q. I want to get back with my ex, I think she wants to as well, I'm not sure (you got to take risks in life though!). What is the best way to do this (I dont want to sound too serious and desperate so as to scare her off)?...
A. 19 September 2007: If she says no, should I leave it for good, or wait?... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 17 September 2007: I know I can be a bit gullible, but she seemed so sweet at the start, back in May, don't really know what changed; maybe she planned it, maybe she didn't, maybe she just can't help herself... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 14 September 2007: When we first met, she sounded and seemed so nice, she said that she loved me (so early on?!) and wanted to be with me for a while. If I'd have carried on, I would have got more and more hurt... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 14 September 2007: Tommy
What do you actually mean?!... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 13 September 2007: I didnt mean it to come out as it did! I meant why are some girls like this? Its a mystery to me how anyone would get a kick out of hurting someone emotionally... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 13 September 2007: Why do girls do this to people? Do they get a kick out of it? I don't want anything more to do with her, and I mean it this time... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 13 September 2007: I don't know why she'd admit it, but last night, she admitted using me for money; initially, it was for sex, but when she didnt get her own way she resorted to plan b.... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 12 September 2007: She cant even give me a reason as to why she's upset with me!, another reason why I'm getting out. Oh, how I'd like to sing Dirty Love by Thunder to her right now. If you dont know, here are the words: I see you, walking by, You've got ... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 12 September 2007: I've decided that, as hard as it is, I've got to forget her. I can't keep on like this. As my sister says, every time I come back from meeting her I mope around, because she's hurt me again. I'm just fed up with her constant lying, deceiving, ... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 10 September 2007: I know I shouldn't have done this at all, but last week she asked me out on a date, so, we arranged to meet on Friday at Maidstone. I met her and took her to lunch in Wetherspoons.
We had a laugh about how my friends say I'm more of a woman beca... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: I've just read duce's answer; sorry to be over-analytical here, but when you say 'let her find out for herself', what do you mean exactly? (I sort of know)... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: As you know, my ex only goes for guys who are good-looking and she says she's been cheated on a lot! I think looks do matter as you said, but personality counts for a lot more. I heard a phrase once 'looks change, personality doesn't'... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: My ex-gf went out with me, and then we broke up cos she cheated, and one day she suddenly said she wouldn't date me again because of my looks! I have a feeling she's going to get hurt because she chooses looks over personality... (read in full...)
He called her a b#@#h.
Q. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...
A. 28 August 2007: She texted me last night to say that he dumped her because he said she acted like a child in front of his parents and friends. She sent me the texts he sent her. One of them read:
'U was chilidsh over Dan (I guess thats a friend) coming and u sh... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 21 August 2007: It's so annoying sometimes to know, if you want someone back, that you have to be friends again before something could happen.
I just feel like seizing the day before it's too late!... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 17 August 2007: As I don't want to be a shoulder to cry on, how else can I play it cool? I want to get back with her, but I don't want it to be obvious!... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 17 August 2007: Thanks for the advice.
As you know I want her back, but I'm just going to be there for her and be a good listener, I have told her, as a friend, that if she wants to talk, she can (but still, why would she talk to her ex about this?)... (read in full...)
I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.
Q. My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...
A. 17 August 2007: I am going to play it cool, and just be there for her as a shoulder to cry on.
If I did decide to get back with her, how should I play it?... (read in full...)
Why does it take so long to find out someones cheating, and does it happen more in LD relationships ?
Q. When a man cheats (or the other way round) why does it take ages, sometimes, for the other personn to find out that they are having an affair. And when they do find out why may they give them another chance, possibly for them to cheat all over ...
A. 16 August 2007: I have just found out that my first ex has just been cheated on by the man she dumped me for!... (read in full...)
He called her a b#@#h.
Q. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...
A. 13 August 2007: Apparently, she told me they've sorted it out and they're all alright now. I want her to be happy and she seems to be, but I am concerned that he may (I dont think he will) do it again... (read in full...)
How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?
Q. After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...
A. 10 August 2007: Would writing a letter to her help?... (read in full...)
He called her a b#@#h.
Q. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...
A. 10 August 2007: They've been dating 3 months now - and he's sworn at her twice in argunents - once, as I said, bitch, and the otbher he said the f word; maybe its a bit too soon for me to let her know that she shouldn't put up with it, or is it unacceptable, no ... (read in full...)
How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?
Q. After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...
A. 10 August 2007: When we first started going out, she used to text me all the time saying 'I love you'. Although she doesn't like clingy people, she texted me 3 times in 8 minutes once! And then when I do something to upset her, she puts up emotional barriers... (read in full...)
How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?
Q. After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...
A. 10 August 2007: We have been together 3 months - I haven't got much experience with women either!... (read in full...)
He called her a b#@#h.
Q. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...
A. 10 August 2007: well, she texted me last night to say that her bf only called her a bitch because he was drunk. I texted her my opinion, which was, it doesn't matter whether you're drunk or sober, no woman should be called names. Wonder what she'll say to that!... (read in full...)
He called her a b#@#h.
Q. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...
A. 9 August 2007: To the anonymous reply, she's got my ex, she's just a good friend who helped me when I was going through a break-up... (read in full...)
How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?
Q. After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...
A. 9 August 2007: I have asked her by text and email; no reply since she left on Saturday; so the only other think I could do is go down to her Mum's house and ask her to give a written letter to her from me... (read in full...)
He called her a b#@#h.
Q. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...
A. 9 August 2007: But then she's going to turn round to me and say 'I really love him, I can't leave him'!... (read in full...)
Lack of sex and she is in contact with her ex's.
Q. Ok, this is a bit of detailed problem, but bear with me, I feel if i set the scene a little it will give the scope for better advice (well I hope because I'm really at my wit's end). I've been seeing a girl since last september when we started ...
A. 9 August 2007: I made the mistake of letting my ex stay the night last Friday, she was getting on well with me on Friday night and on Sat morning, she seemed upset at me, didn't talk, and hasn't contacted me since. She saw other men while she was with me, because ... (read in full...)
How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?
Q. After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...
A. 9 August 2007: The problem with my second gf was that, when she was in a mood with me, she wouldn't tell me what the problem was. For example, when she stayed the night, we would be getting on well and having a laugh that evening, and next morning, she'd go ... (read in full...)
Why can't i get over her?
Q. It's been 7 months since my first ex and I broke up, why can't I get over her?...
A. 25 July 2007: I know I should let go, but I find it hard to, and now (I dont know for certain but it sounded like all the signs of cheating - do you think it was?) with that revelation, its put me off girls a bit!... (read in full...)
Why can't i get over her?
Q. It's been 7 months since my first ex and I broke up, why can't I get over her?...
A. 25 July 2007: I found out on Mon night from a friend she was cheating on me all along. I dont really know why she asked me out! My friend asked her 'I hear you're seeing Tom?' She said yes, but to keep it quiet. Now, when you start going out, you dont want to ... (read in full...)
Why can't i get over her?
Q. It's been 7 months since my first ex and I broke up, why can't I get over her?...
A. 23 July 2007: She was my first girlfriend as well... (read in full...)
When you masterbate, why does your penis hurt afterwards?
Q. When you masturbate, why does your penis hurt afterwards?...
A. 13 July 2007: Why does the penis hurt after sex too?... (read in full...)
I get bored with him as soon as I get the guy I want
Q. i have a problem as u may tell. I will say i really like a boy and then one of my mates will tell him then he will ask me out but then after a week or two i get really bored and i dont want to go out no more. I just want a relationship with someone ...
A. 20 June 2007: This is like a girl I really like. She's 19, and she went and slept with another man 3 days after I refused her!... (read in full...)
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