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*ommy2k7
writes:I've got a close friend to me; she was due to meet a guy on Saturday who had claimed to love her for 3 years and said he even wanted to marry her and take her on holidays. However, she rang me at 1 Sunday morning (I was still up), saying that he didn't turn up, not even contacting her to let her know. Still no contact on Monday, so I phoned her last night and she told me that she'd talked to him and it turned out that he wanted her just for sex. (What I don't understand s that he claimed he wanted this girl so badly for THREE years!)Other men have used her just for sex. Why do they do it?
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (23 March 2007):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I am her friend, but I'd actually like to go out with her. However, she is very sensitive so I don't really know how to handle this
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (22 March 2007):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou Electra. As a good friend of hers, it hurts me to hear her say that men have 'loved' her for years and years, only to find out they are just using her. I can tell that she wants a boyfriend (like me!) who will love and care for her and not just use her as a playtoy as and when they want a bit! I think she needs a break from lads at the moment to 'get over' how she's been treated. I think what comforts her too is the fact that, as I ring her and text her almost every evening, she has a good friend on the other end of a phone who is there just to talk.
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reader, electra +, writes (21 March 2007):
 Hey there
Well sadly its not just a male thing there are some women out there who also behave in just the same way as this guy did towards your friend, its just a trait of the human race I'm afraid to say to take people belief an trust and just trample all over it, unfortunately these people are purely sent to test the rest of us who are actually genuine but when people trample all over other peoples trust it makes it a damn site harder for the genuine ones among us.... so my advice to you would be to go be a friend as u undoubtedly are being already offer her all the comfort and support that you can and try to help her trust again as there really are some good guys out there even if they are far and few between... keep looking and she will find someone who is actually worthy of her love trust and belief.... wish her good luck from me,
i hope my advice has helped you slightly to restore your faith in the good guys :-) they do exist i promise you....
if you ever need a friend to talk to or a shoulder to cry on don't hesitate to come and find me I'll always be right here for you OK :-)
Take Care...
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