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I am currently single having had 2 failed relationships.

I got dumped the first time because I was in a long distance relationship, and she just couldn't wait!

The second one was because she hurt me, insulted me, took the mick out of my disability, and told me I was too ugly (looking at my pic girls, what do u think?!)

Just drop me a message if u feel like you're in the same boat

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Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   16 September 2008: There was something wrong with my email yesterday, wasn't getting answer notifications! I wonder why she said she wasn't looking for a relationship then?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   15 September 2008: ok, my last 2 answers were refected for some reason. I summoned up the courage to buy her a coffee this morning in the same cafe as I go to sometimes in Sevenoaks, and she agreed to, then she's coming to join me for a drink at The Bull soon! [Mod... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   15 September 2008: I've just been to Sevenoaks and came home and read your reply, which oft of didn't make sense that much after what I did (finally). I went in the cafe that I normally go in and she was in there. (I'd seen her in there once before) After abou... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   15 September 2008: Thank you for your input. However, I do have some good news. I actually did manage to talk to her a bit at the weekend, but not that much because they were busy (just Hi Sarara how are you!) Then yesterday, one of my friends (she was a female) ... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: I could, but I don't have a lot of female friends!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: I like your idea but The Bull is more of a restaurant than a pub, you can just go in for a drink, but she's more taking orders than behind the bar... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: I espect she has got a boyfriend; I suppose I should be optimistic though!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: apparently, she's lived in the UK since she was 8, and my mate's mate told me she thinks she has got a boyfriend, but she doesn't know... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: I went for a meal last night, I was all psyched up ready, but she wasn't there! :-(... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   10 September 2008: Christian (Virgin Radio breakfast) rang up the breakfast host of a radio station in Croatia this morning - yes, because of the footie tonight - but is he subconsciously trying to tell me something?!!!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   4 September 2008: Every time I see her, she looks more gorgeous than the time before, so I've got to ask her out!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   2 September 2008: That could work, but if it doesn't, I've scuppered my chances, haven't I? And if I do do that, do I give it to her directly, or another member of staff? Thankyou for the suggestion... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   1 September 2008: While my mate was at the bar getting a drink, she came over to the room I was in to clean the tables. We were the only ones in there, but once again it was nerves!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   1 September 2008: It'll sound a bit weird asking her about her life in Crotia, won't it? (to her I mean)... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   1 September 2008: She just smiled; that was it... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   29 August 2008: well, I said 'hi' last night - I didn't say sarara. When you've never asked a girl out before, it's nervewracking!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   28 August 2008: Hang on - she doesn't know my name and I'm going there tonight! Won't Hi Sarara sound odd if she doesn't know my name?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   27 August 2008: won't me saying 'hi sarara' in passing sound a bit odd?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   27 August 2008: Thanks; I'd never thought of doing it that way! The only problem is, I don't want to wait that long otherwise she might get snapped up!! Also, I found it quite interesting you said 'soon you'll be slipping in the question has she a bf at home... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   27 August 2008: That's for the advice - I've always thought that that Russian Bride thing is a scam, and I'd never do it! That's a good point though, thankyou... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   26 August 2008: I know the gardener who works there - and he managed to find out her name for me: her name is Sarara, and she comes from Croatia. So all I have to do now is to ask her out for a drink!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   11 August 2008: I'm going down there for a drink tonight - any advice?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   7 August 2008: I went out to lunch today, and my mate and I have been for lunch there a couple of times, but I can't seem to pluck up the courage to ask her out, even when she comes and serves me. I suppose if I want her as my girl, I've got to do something about ... (read in full...)

What advice do I give to my friend about her boyfriend?

Q.   My friends boyfriend is messing her around - they got together a year ago, they've had their arguments, like all couples, and they've broken up more times than I care to think!! Two Thursdays ago she said he dumped her because she was, in his words ...

A.   23 July 2008: I've just talked to her and she said she took him back because his nan died - dont know what to say to that!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   24 June 2008: Yes, thanks. That's perfect! Won't she think that I'm cheesy for doing that though?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   23 June 2008: What I'm saying is that when she took my order I ordered scampi and chips!! What about complimenting her on how nice she looks? Yeah, I did mean the third finger from the left... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   23 June 2008: The only thing I've said to her is 'scampi and chips' when she took my order! She has got a ring on her finger (left-hand, third finger from the left). That may not mean anything, but what do you think? On the other hand, no pain no gain! ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?

Q.   How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...

A.   23 June 2008: More information - I went in to the pub on Saturday, was going to ask her but I lost my nerve. She has got a ring on her finger (left-hand, third finger from the left). That may not mean anything, but what do you think? On the other hand, no... (read in full...)

I can't trust him. Do leopards ever change their spots?

Q.   hi, i need some advice on what to do. i have this boyfriend, we've been going out for about 18 months, and its not exactly been easy :( he cheated on me right at the start of our relationship, i forgave him. then he told me he was still in love wi...

A.   6 June 2008: But I really love him? I can see this is tearing you apart, but if you stay with him it'll happen again and again, it's like saying 'yes, I'm alright with this'. I've had it done to me - my ex slept with someone else, said sorry, I took her... (read in full...)

He says I should turn a blind eye to his cheating, is he right?

Q.   i have been with my bf for 3 years, i knew he has been cheating. we have discussed why do men cheat? and he answered that man can have sex with other women but not having any feeling for them, so i should not get upset. as long as he is nice to me, ...

A.   5 June 2008: Hunni, this has happened to me, and it took me 6 months, then I got fed up with it and ended it. She'd tell me about having sex with other people. and she told me cheating was fun! I forgave her and forgace her, eventually I got fed up!! ... (read in full...)

I don't want to play his games, but I love him. What can I do?

Q.   I have been married to a wonderful man for 7 years. He is a great husband in all areas, except one: he wants to swing/have an open relationship. He's had them before with previous girlfriends, but didn't mention anything about it before we were ...

A.   5 June 2008: At the end of the day, if someones pressures you into doing something you don't want, they dont really love you, or if they do, they have a very weird way of showing it!... (read in full...)

I can't trust him. Do leopards ever change their spots?

Q.   hi, i need some advice on what to do. i have this boyfriend, we've been going out for about 18 months, and its not exactly been easy :( he cheated on me right at the start of our relationship, i forgave him. then he told me he was still in love wi...

A.   5 June 2008: Step back, chill out, think about what you are doing? Round the world for 6 months? Maybe lavishing other gifts on him? You're rewarding him for cheating on you!! Why? This guy uses you, he gets back with you, and then dumps you for no reason, ... (read in full...)

I am only 12, but look much older. Should I tell my 21 year old girfriend?

Q.   i recenty met a 21 year old girl and we really like each other only problem is im 9 years younger than her(i look a lot older than i am)should i lie about my age or should i tell her that i think we should just be friends until im old enough.If i ...

A.   5 June 2008: No No No! No to this full stop - this 'relationship' is very wrong. Enjoy growing up, get a good education, and then get into dating!... (read in full...)

Is a compromise possible here? I love dogs - he doesn't.

Q.   Hi I have a great relationship with my partner, but there is one huge thing we disagree on- dogs, and as time goes on, we realise we are both not budging on the subject! I have always had a dog since i was born, i was raised around many anim...

A.   5 June 2008: Relationships are all about compromise, if you didnt do that they wouldnt work (if they did, they'd be very one-sided!) If this guy says he loves you a lot, he'd be willing to compromise, so, as in all compromises, it's time to talk - good luck!... (read in full...)

If she likes me, why won't she go out with me?

Q.   i really like this girl at school and she's told me she really likes me so when i asked her out she said no so im a bit confused.Why did she say now after she said she really likes me?...

A.   5 June 2008: As Uncle Phil says, studying will always come first, maybe (I dont know this) she doesn't want to become more than friends because she has fears that being your girlfriend may jeopardise your friendship. Just ask her along to an activity with a ... (read in full...)

I'm desperate for sex with my boyfriend - how do I approach him about it?

Q.   Hi..am going to meet my boyfriend with a surprise visit in coming few days...and the guy i'll be dating is very busy these dayz...and don't even have time to sit and rest even...however..i know once i reach him....he won't deny for a date with ...

A.   5 June 2008: Before I can reply to this question, I (and other potential answerers) need to know how long you have been going out with this guy. As it's your first time, you're going to be nervous, but if your boyfriend really loves and cares for you, he'll resp... (read in full...)

She sees another guy as well as me. Should I put up with it?

Q.   Well, I'll just start off by saying that me and this girl have had a very long history (went to highschool together/played in a few bands together) and have known eachother for about eight years. Well the other night she came over to my house so ...

A.   5 June 2008: I've been in your boat. It's not a very nice feeling knowing that you two are not 'exclusive' I got told by a girl that she was seeing someone else, and I didn't like it one bit. Talk to him about, tell him you're not comfortable with him going ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?

Q.   How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...

A.   30 May 2008: Yesterday I saw this great girl (the waitress!) in the pub - and I was going to ask her out, by saying, when she took my order, I'll have scampi and chips, and your number! That sounds dodgy doesn't it?... (read in full...)

How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?

Q.   After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...

A.   19 May 2008: I made the mistake of calling my friend (who's a girl) a girlfriend last month, and she wouldn't even let me explain! To me, thats petty! Thats another reason for not trusting women fully. What do you think?... (read in full...)

How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?

Q.   How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...

A.   19 May 2008: There's this girl who has just started at my local newsagents, that I really want to ask out, but I'm still very nervous! I work on Sat mornings, and only see her when I go and get our elevenses. Any advice?... (read in full...)

My friend put the phone down on me for trying to help her relationship with her guy!

Q.   A bf of my friend apparently keeps messing her around. She rang me last night, I asked her how he was, and she said he was okay when she sees him (apparently only Fridays for an hour or a night - he says he's always busy other times). I said to ...

A.   29 April 2008: She rang me last night, and she told me he's still not seeing her and he isn't keeping his promises, next thing (and goodness knows why) she bought him a £400 laptop, and she tells me he never buys her anything! Now she's in debt!... (read in full...)

My friend put the phone down on me for trying to help her relationship with her guy!

Q.   A bf of my friend apparently keeps messing her around. She rang me last night, I asked her how he was, and she said he was okay when she sees him (apparently only Fridays for an hour or a night - he says he's always busy other times). I said to ...

A.   29 April 2008: She rang me last night, and she told me he's still not seeing her and he isn't keeping his promises, next thing (and goodness knows why) she bought him a £400 laptop, and she tells me he never buys her anything! Now she's in debt!... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   4 April 2008: She rang me last night, I asked her how he was, and she said he was okay when she sees him (apparently only Fridays for an hour or a night - he says he's always busy other times). I said to her last night that she's got to talk to him otherwise it ... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   31 March 2008: I talked to her last night and she told me that she was p_____ off. She had a go at her bf about putting his hobby (horse riding) before her too much and she said he promised her he'd cut down, but she told me he hasn't. She only sees him Fr... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   25 March 2008: Why do I now feel like I'm going through all the emotions again that I was going through when we split up a year ago?... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   21 March 2008: I see your point I want to add: I use Facebook quite a lot, and she knows I look at her profile quite a lot, and I saw she was single. It did cross my mind that maybe she is telling the truth, she wants to make her ex think she's single again ... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   21 March 2008: I'd like some advice My ex is on Facebook - and on Wed morning, I went on to find her relationship status had changed to single again, and I secretly thought now's my chance! Last night we had a conversation and she wanted to tell me something an... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   12 March 2008: She texted me on Monday to tell me she was alright and she added she hasn't seen her bf for a week. She rang me Monday evening; I asked her why she mentioned her bf (she never normally does). When I asked her how she was, she said 'ok, I suppose'... (read in full...)

Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?

Q.   Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...

A.   3 March 2008: I bet she asks me back when I've got another girlfriend! Also to the last reply, I agree, why would girls choose (of course, they dont know yet) to get hurt? ... (read in full...)

Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?

Q.   Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...

A.   29 February 2008: So do you think they'll split up again? She's a nice girl, but if I lived 3 hrs away from a partner, I wouldnt go back if they asked me!... (read in full...)

Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?

Q.   Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...

A.   29 February 2008: When I say the one she's with now is a 'bad boy' he's nowhere near as bad as the one she dumped me for, but she was with him before she met me (they had split when she met me) but she went back to him; the reason why they split first time was she ... (read in full...)

Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?

Q.   Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...

A.   29 February 2008: The bad boy who my ex was dating treated her like a piece of c**p, or so she said, and didn't want anything to do with her when he knew he was having her baby. She's now going out with another 'bad boy' instead of choosing me - the nice guy'!... (read in full...)

Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?

Q.   Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...

A.   29 February 2008: My ex was 18, I'm a 'good guy', she dumped me for a 'bad boy', now she's dumped him cos he mistreated her!... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   25 February 2008: Sorry, I should have explaimed myself better!! When I said she feels she can tell me anything, we don't talk about the relationship she was in, we both, strangely enough, talk about when we were together! ... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   25 February 2008: I got an email from her this morning, saying that she feels she can tell me anything, so that is good to hear. As I said before, I'm a bit hesitant about getting back with her, that's if she wants me back (not that I don't want to). If she does... (read in full...)

Does an age difference cause arguments?

Q.   My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?...

A.   21 February 2008: Somebody said to me the reason why most 18, 19 yr olds won't go out with ppl my age (28) is they're scared of the partner having more experience in all walks of life. Is that true?... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   20 February 2008: I wish I'd found this site in summer 2006 - then I think my ex and I would still be together. This is an 'if' question but if it does happen, I want to be prepared She has moved now, to Oxford (again, roughly the same distance), but i... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   12 February 2008: She rang me last night, and she said that his sister apparently doesn't like her and told my friend to dump her. But anyway they're back together now, so I'm gonna just be a good friend. But she said if this happens again, he can just go to h... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   11 February 2008: She rang me on Saturday night, again on Sunday night, I didn't answer both times, so if she rings again tonight, I'll report back tomorrow... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   11 February 2008: On Saturday morning, I texted her to say I was going to take her out, but then she texted back and said she was back with him - when will she learn?!... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   8 February 2008: she hasn't called me since Monday night, but she does call me (even at 1am just to talk! - I was awake!) Is she playig hard-to-get, just very friendly, or does she want me as a lover? (She rang me on Monday at about 9.30 just to see how I was)... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   8 February 2008: My friend texted me at 10.48pm just to say goodnight, she rings me almost every night, she giggles at me; the problem is there's 10 yrs between us. She said she couldn't go with me because of my age and 'her parents would disown her'. As you know ... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   6 February 2008: She made a point of texting me last night at 10.48 to say goodnight to me - prob only means friendship but who knows?!... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: She said to me ages ago she'd be uncomftable me being her boyfriend because of the age and her parents as well! I don't want to upset them! If I do tell her, I've got to somehow let her parents know or let her parents know without telling her! I ... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: The only problem is with the age difference, and the fact that she said her parents would 'disown' her if they knew she was dating a 28 yr old! I can see their point... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: Something else to add - she told me that he would ask her to stop talking to her male friends! Whether he was jealous I dont know... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: do you think though. it's appropriate for me to take her out for Valentine's Day??... (read in full...)

Does an age difference cause arguments?

Q.   My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?...

A.   5 February 2008: She's 20 now, I'm 28. When we first started going out, she was 18 and I was 27. We're not together anymore, but I'm hoping we will be again!... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: Sheppey is about 2 hours from me (I dont drive) but 1 hour if I did drive. I'd love to be with her; I was thinking of going down and buying her a Valentine's Day meal!... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   4 February 2008: I think she knows how I feel about her - there are a few obstacles though: She's 18 and a half - and I'm 28 She lives down in the Isle of Sheppey (and I live in Otford, Sevenoaks) And she pretty much knows how her parents would react ab... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   4 February 2008: I hadn't thought of that actually - but why would he cheat when he said he loved her? I'm only her friend, but if Iwent out with her, I would never cheat; also he never brought her stuff (thats what she told me); once again, if she was my first gf, ... (read in full...)

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Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   4 February 2008: To give you an update: She texted me on Saturday to say her and her bf split - I texted her back cheekily and said You have so many arguments and you'll be back together again tomorrow - she texted back and said no we won't! (Before this ne... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   21 January 2008: My friend seemed fine until after New Year, and then I got a phone call, on the Sunday. I missed it, so she phoned me on the Monday, telling me what I told the readers of this website. She rang me every night that week (like old times, I used to c... (read in full...)

How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?

Q.   How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...

A.   21 September 2007: From my point of view: Its because I llke a lot Although she's worth more to me than anything the money factor is a factor as I dont drive. ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out?

Q.   How do I get over my nervousness of asking someone out? (They have done it on the occassions before!)...

A.   20 September 2007: Except they are 3 hours away!... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   21 August 2007: It's so annoying sometimes to know, if you want someone back, that you have to be friends again before something could happen. I just feel like seizing the day before it's too late!... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   17 August 2007: As I don't want to be a shoulder to cry on, how else can I play it cool? I want to get back with her, but I don't want it to be obvious!... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   17 August 2007: Thanks for the advice. As you know I want her back, but I'm just going to be there for her and be a good listener, I have told her, as a friend, that if she wants to talk, she can (but still, why would she talk to her ex about this?)... (read in full...)

I'd like to get back together w/ my ex even though she cheated on me.

Q.   My ex cheated on me with a womanizer. they were together for 8 months and then he cheated; everyone warned her but she wouldn't listen! I still have strong feelings for her, and (very illogical) would like to get back with her).. However, I don't...

A.   17 August 2007: I am going to play it cool, and just be there for her as a shoulder to cry on. If I did decide to get back with her, how should I play it?... (read in full...)

How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?

Q.   After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...

A.   10 August 2007: Would writing a letter to her help?... (read in full...)

How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?

Q.   After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...

A.   10 August 2007: When we first started going out, she used to text me all the time saying 'I love you'. Although she doesn't like clingy people, she texted me 3 times in 8 minutes once! And then when I do something to upset her, she puts up emotional barriers... (read in full...)

How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?

Q.   After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...

A.   10 August 2007: We have been together 3 months - I haven't got much experience with women either!... (read in full...)

How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?

Q.   After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...

A.   9 August 2007: I have asked her by text and email; no reply since she left on Saturday; so the only other think I could do is go down to her Mum's house and ask her to give a written letter to her from me... (read in full...)

How do I trust women again after I've been cheated on twice?

Q.   After my last 2 girlfriends cheated, how can I fully trust women or girls again?...

A.   9 August 2007: The problem with my second gf was that, when she was in a mood with me, she wouldn't tell me what the problem was. For example, when she stayed the night, we would be getting on well and having a laugh that evening, and next morning, she'd go ... (read in full...)

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