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I am currently single having had 2 failed relationships.

I got dumped the first time because I was in a long distance relationship, and she just couldn't wait!

The second one was because she hurt me, insulted me, took the mick out of my disability, and told me I was too ugly (looking at my pic girls, what do u think?!)

Just drop me a message if u feel like you're in the same boat

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Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   4 April 2008: She rang me last night, I asked her how he was, and she said he was okay when she sees him (apparently only Fridays for an hour or a night - he says he's always busy other times). I said to her last night that she's got to talk to him otherwise it ... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   31 March 2008: I talked to her last night and she told me that she was p_____ off. She had a go at her bf about putting his hobby (horse riding) before her too much and she said he promised her he'd cut down, but she told me he hasn't. She only sees him Fr... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   12 March 2008: She texted me on Monday to tell me she was alright and she added she hasn't seen her bf for a week. She rang me Monday evening; I asked her why she mentioned her bf (she never normally does). When I asked her how she was, she said 'ok, I suppose'... (read in full...)

Does an age difference cause arguments?

Q.   My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?...

A.   21 February 2008: Somebody said to me the reason why most 18, 19 yr olds won't go out with ppl my age (28) is they're scared of the partner having more experience in all walks of life. Is that true?... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   12 February 2008: She rang me last night, and she said that his sister apparently doesn't like her and told my friend to dump her. But anyway they're back together now, so I'm gonna just be a good friend. But she said if this happens again, he can just go to h... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   11 February 2008: She rang me on Saturday night, again on Sunday night, I didn't answer both times, so if she rings again tonight, I'll report back tomorrow... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   11 February 2008: On Saturday morning, I texted her to say I was going to take her out, but then she texted back and said she was back with him - when will she learn?!... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   8 February 2008: she hasn't called me since Monday night, but she does call me (even at 1am just to talk! - I was awake!) Is she playig hard-to-get, just very friendly, or does she want me as a lover? (She rang me on Monday at about 9.30 just to see how I was)... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   8 February 2008: My friend texted me at 10.48pm just to say goodnight, she rings me almost every night, she giggles at me; the problem is there's 10 yrs between us. She said she couldn't go with me because of my age and 'her parents would disown her'. As you know ... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   6 February 2008: She made a point of texting me last night at 10.48 to say goodnight to me - prob only means friendship but who knows?!... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: She said to me ages ago she'd be uncomftable me being her boyfriend because of the age and her parents as well! I don't want to upset them! If I do tell her, I've got to somehow let her parents know or let her parents know without telling her! I ... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: The only problem is with the age difference, and the fact that she said her parents would 'disown' her if they knew she was dating a 28 yr old! I can see their point... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: Something else to add - she told me that he would ask her to stop talking to her male friends! Whether he was jealous I dont know... (read in full...)

I'm a 20yr old male virgin, am I weird?

Q.   Hi, would this make people think i'm weird. i'm 20, about to turn 21, and basically i have had no experience with intimacy. Like i've never even kissed anyone intimately, let alone had sex. I've been kissed but thats when i was heaps younger, and it ...

A.   5 February 2008: Mate, I'm 28, and still a virgin. If a girl really likes you, then gets to know you, and you don't rush, she wont pressure you into it; in fact, she'll admire you more for waiting for the right person. ... (read in full...)

He says he loves me, but I wonder, in what way?

Q.   Hi cupid righ now im riding a big rollercoaster of feelings. im in love of my best friend we already had something twice. but still we kept as good friends. but i cant stand to watch him with someone else..and i think he takes me for granted..he ...

A.   5 February 2008: It depends how much you know this guy; take the plunge and tell him how you feel, u'll feel a damn sight better even if the answer is not what you wanted... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: do you think though. it's appropriate for me to take her out for Valentine's Day??... (read in full...)

Does an age difference cause arguments?

Q.   My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?...

A.   5 February 2008: She's 20 now, I'm 28. When we first started going out, she was 18 and I was 27. We're not together anymore, but I'm hoping we will be again!... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   5 February 2008: Sheppey is about 2 hours from me (I dont drive) but 1 hour if I did drive. I'd love to be with her; I was thinking of going down and buying her a Valentine's Day meal!... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   4 February 2008: I think she knows how I feel about her - there are a few obstacles though: She's 18 and a half - and I'm 28 She lives down in the Isle of Sheppey (and I live in Otford, Sevenoaks) And she pretty much knows how her parents would react ab... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   4 February 2008: I hadn't thought of that actually - but why would he cheat when he said he loved her? I'm only her friend, but if Iwent out with her, I would never cheat; also he never brought her stuff (thats what she told me); once again, if she was my first gf, ... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   4 February 2008: To give you an update: She texted me on Saturday to say her and her bf split - I texted her back cheekily and said You have so many arguments and you'll be back together again tomorrow - she texted back and said no we won't! (Before this ne... (read in full...)

Did she make the right choice taking him back?

Q.   Is there any truth in the saying eopards don't change their sports, once a cheat always a cheat? I now talk to my ex on MSN and she told me now she's back with this guy who she was with before me. I asked her why he hurt her in the first pl...

A.   29 January 2008: Let me give u some more info They werr only together for a year - I'm not sure who ended it though - from what I've read on here, women 'crave' more emotional support than men, and, if it was her who broke it off, it may just have been that she... (read in full...)

When it comes to love, I feel a bit left out...any advice?

Q.   When it comes to love, I feel a bit left out: I'm 28 now and I only discovered girls about 2 years ago, because I wanted to concentrate on my career and education. Why do I feel a bit left out?...

A.   23 January 2008: Laura, I wasn't saying that - I was just saying up until I was 26, I wasn't that iunterested in girls... (read in full...)

Was there something else?

Q.   My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...

A.   21 January 2008: My friend seemed fine until after New Year, and then I got a phone call, on the Sunday. I missed it, so she phoned me on the Monday, telling me what I told the readers of this website. She rang me every night that week (like old times, I used to c... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   10 January 2008: Thats one thing you can apply in life for definite, not necessarily maths or science etc, but relationships, def!... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   10 January 2008: Yes, I remember somebody saying we get told how to do and go about other things in life, but not relationships! There isn't a 'big book of relationships - I wish there was!... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   10 January 2008: If I did go out with my ex again, I wonder what my life would be like now! The only other question I was wondering about is: when we were together, she asked me not to ring or text her about 8.30 at night. Why do you think this is? And wou... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   10 January 2008: Just a question, would most women give that answer?... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   10 January 2008: Her friends said she was very serious about me... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   10 January 2008: She didn't really explain it - she just said it happened!... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   9 January 2008: We did talk about the age difference before we started going out, but obviously that didnt make much difference!... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   9 January 2008: Before we met up, we started chatting in a chat room, and then we just met up and seemed to click - never thought she'd cheat on me... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   9 January 2008: We were only going out for 2 months, she lives 3 hours away, I did go and see her, but it obviously wasn't enough!... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   9 January 2008: I was 27 and she was 18 when we met. Do you think, because I'm older, I was getting too serious for her?... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   9 January 2008: I've read through the answers, and because my ex lives 3 hours from me, I think thats why she did it. Of course, I went up to see her, but I think she must have got fed up, or something. What do you think?... (read in full...)

Was I a fool?

Q.   i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to ...

A.   2 November 2007: I was in a long-distance relationship for about 2 months - Kent to Yorkshire, when all of a sudden I found out she was seeing another guy. Even though it was only 2 months, I was devastated. The ball's in the other court now - he cheated on her a... (read in full...)

Should I go to more chat meets??

Q.   I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not ...

A.   26 October 2007: There's a chat meet on tomorrow night. My friend, who helped me through my break-up with my ex, is not going because they don't like her, but I wont go into that. But now she tells me I cant be friends with both of them, her or the chatters... (read in full...)

She hurt me so much. Why do I still want her back?

Q.   My ex hurt me a lot, cheated on me, lied to me, deceived me, and yet part of me still wants her back. When she's hurt me, why does some of me still want to hold on?...

A.   24 October 2007: If she wasn't raped, why would she make it up?... (read in full...)

She hurt me so much. Why do I still want her back?

Q.   My ex hurt me a lot, cheated on me, lied to me, deceived me, and yet part of me still wants her back. When she's hurt me, why does some of me still want to hold on?...

A.   23 October 2007: I've just read your 'I'm doomed' answers. My ex was like that too. When she got hurt by men, I was her 'fall-back plan', or at least it seemed that way. Also, what struck me from one of the answers was the rape part. My ex told me she has a hi... (read in full...)

She hurt me so much. Why do I still want her back?

Q.   My ex hurt me a lot, cheated on me, lied to me, deceived me, and yet part of me still wants her back. When she's hurt me, why does some of me still want to hold on?...

A.   22 October 2007: I'm trying to do some of those suggestions, but, she has this habit of ringing me or texting me when she gets hurt by men, and thats when she wants me back. She's a good-looking girl, and she uses her looks to her advantage (which can be a good and ... (read in full...)

Should I go to more chat meets??

Q.   I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not ...

A.   22 October 2007: My ex is going to be there on Saturday - I'd love to get back together with her, should I just play it cool?... (read in full...)

Should I go to more chat meets??

Q.   I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not ...

A.   19 October 2007: Nope, I produced a tenner and they told me to put it away!... (read in full...)

Should I go to more chat meets??

Q.   I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not ...

A.   19 October 2007: and meeting people I wasn't sure of!... (read in full...)

Should I go to more chat meets??

Q.   I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not ...

A.   19 October 2007: I suppose I was a bit shy to start with yes; going into a place wherwe I wasnt quite sure of!... (read in full...)

Should I go to more chat meets??

Q.   I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not ...

A.   19 October 2007: As my ex is going to be there, shall I just play it cool, I dont want to force anything... (read in full...)

Should I go to more chat meets??

Q.   I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not ...

A.   19 October 2007: One more thing, I offered to pay, but I had drinks brought for me as well!... (read in full...)

Should I go to more chat meets??

Q.   I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not ...

A.   19 October 2007: They've invited me to a Halloween one next week - and my ex is coming apparently, and she's single again ! Should I make a move?... (read in full...)

My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'

Q.   My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'. How can I make myself more attractive to women or I am I taking things to heart too much?...

A.   18 October 2007: I suppose I don't know how to react properly around girls, probably cos I've only had one gf before this, and that didnt last long! I need some tips on how to keep a girl interested!... (read in full...)

How long with it take my ex to get over the guy who just dumped her?

Q.   My ex left me for another man, also down in here in Kent, and he dumped her after eight months, claiming that it was too far to go and see her (3 hours away), which, just to stop going to see her like that is a lie. Anyway, how long would you say ...

A.   21 September 2007: As she was with him for eight month, and they've been apart a month, she'll be over him now won't she?... (read in full...)

How long with it take my ex to get over the guy who just dumped her?

Q.   My ex left me for another man, also down in here in Kent, and he dumped her after eight months, claiming that it was too far to go and see her (3 hours away), which, just to stop going to see her like that is a lie. Anyway, how long would you say ...

A.   19 September 2007: She liked him a lot - they were friends before they got together... (read in full...)

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