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Alone too long...

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Question - (24 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2009)
A male Canada age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am a middle aged man who has let his sexual life become none existent. It has been ten years since I even considered getting close to someone. How long is too long without any personal physical contact or a relationship?

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2009):

ten years is not a little time,

but i want to tell you something that i am sure of,

some times things come so fast and easy then they well go as fast and as easy

but things that come after long waiting actually deserve all the waiting !! and well last forever mostly..

but you must do somthing to get it look arround you and try to hint ans someone

and hopefully so soon you well have the best spouse you ever wished for

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009):

That very much depends on you. It gets easier to do without after a while so maybe it is more peaceful the way you are? Maybe you are waiting until it's someone special? Not going with just anyone. Some people will get involved just for sex and then their hearts get broken. I would say middle-aged was older than you are.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2009):

Some people would say that a week is too long. Some people are content never to have someone.

If you want a lady in your life then go and find one.

If you don't then be happy and have great friends.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (24 April 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntHow long is a piece of string?? Nobody can answer your question as each individual has different needs and wants. Some people are happily celibate for their whole lives, while others crave physical attention all the time. Perhaps you just have not found a suitable mate yet and you are still young! Yes being in the age group of 36 - 40 is NOT middle aged!

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