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writes:ive falling in love with my best friends partner i have know her for 9 years and we have always been very close with unspoken feelings a few year ago we kissed and we never spoke about it but we grew closer 9months ago we started a relationship . and she tells me she loves me and cant lose me , she tells me shes not having sex with him i dont know how true that is.we are spending 3 days a week together and the 3 of us spend time on the weekend i hate what we are doing to her boy friend but i cant help how i feel about her she has told me she cant leave him until she finishes her uni degree at the end of the year and i know she not a strong enough emotionally to deal with the break up and that worrys me. i dont know what to do i love them both but i have falling in love with her and i know i will lose my best friend but i love her . will she leave him? i dont know what to do? she is 33yr iam 45 yr
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): I firmly believe "Once a cheater, always a cheater". She's a cheater. If she leaves him for you, she will leave you for the next one--count on it.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (11 September 2010):
have been in this forbidden love train wreck
before and i assure you mate it has nothing but pain and agony all the way,
lets assume she broke up with him and became your gf
do you think that she well not blame you for that atleast once in a while ?
infact she might even leave you and go back to him after missing things up with all of you
my adivise to you is to tell her that you feel that you are doing the wrong thing and try to reduce your contact with them both get your self very busy
and by then even she might fix things up with her boyfriend
and that would be very good for all of you even if it did make you feel sad at first
and it might make her rethink what and whom she realy wants
and therefor even if she broke up with her recent bf after making her mind
you are not to be blaimed by any one and you can have a clean startup
Good luck
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