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Does that count as cheating?

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Question - (24 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

my girlfriend was texting a guy and met him and even text him immediately after pleasing her is this cheating

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (24 November 2010):

sappygirl agony auntwhat do you mean by pleasing her? Oral sex?

Um,..yeah. If it's just simple text, then it has to be what is being said. They could be sexting and to me that counts as cheating too.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2010):

Well you said he had been pleasing her. If she did something with him, then she cheated.

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2010):

it is not cheating UNTILL NOW

but such kind of connection if not cut immediatley

most probably would turn into an affair

so i sugest that you convince her to cut this connection with this guy and the most important try to find out what make her make this sort of connection

because if her attitude continued she might make another

friendship/relationship with someone else and she would

be more cautious about it next time so you wouldnt know

so take care

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010):

Well what do you mean by "met him?" Is he just a friend she went to see or was it something else? How did you find out? Did she tell you she was going to meet up with him?

Obviously if she met up with this guy behind your back and had sex with him, then yes that would be cheating.

Going to need a little more info.

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