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reader, sensational  +, writes (10 November 2009):
if you are a lesbian then my guess is no. not that you should worry as virginity is nothing but religious babble. however what we say does not matter much. it is for you to decide if you are a virgin or not once you have your intimate moment. take care.
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reader, confused4321  +, writes (10 November 2009):
yes you still are
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reader, Ravenxx91 + ♥, writes (28 October 2009):
 Ok uhm, from my perspective and theoretically you would still remain a virgin. If you are not just experimenting and want to always be in a lesbian relationship i think it could possibly count if your girlfriend uses a dildo/strap on with you? Basically commiting the act of intimacy together?
But not talking theoretically it depends on how you think it would be lost/ x
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reader, satindesire +, writes (26 October 2009):
 Um....then you wouldn't be a virgin anymore, I'm guessing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat if i want to give my virginity to my girlfriend? then what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): By traditional definitions yes, until a penis is inside you your a virgin, so you can relax...
For established lesbians (not teenagers who are experimenting) I'm not sure how they would define when a they're not a virgin any longer...
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reader, satindesire +, writes (25 October 2009):
Sunnycomet is right. Everyone has a different perspective about what makes a virgin and what does not.
What really matters is what YOU think. Don't take anyone else's views about virginity and what constitutes it. Make your own decision.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Yes you are.
You only loose your virginity when a mans penis enters your vagina.
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reader, sunnycomet  + ♥, writes (24 October 2009):
 It depends on the person. Some people say yes and other people will say no. It all depends on what you think is a virgin.
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