Should I wait for him to come back

A female age 30-35, *s.error. xD writes:

i got this guy, he has been the one helping me out when my ex-boyfriend broke up with me on his birthday. i have been doing crazy things that night because i didn't want them to see my sadness, but this guy, let's call him *john* he knew what i feel and he refuses to believe in what i've been showing them, so he asked what he could do to help, i asked him to put a closure on my breakup. he agreed. after a few days from the party, he started courting me, many things happened after that day so fast because i had 2 guys over me because i became close to them on the birthday apart from *john* the other one was *renz* but *john* won me over. after a few weeks, *john* and i started to have problems because he claims he doesn't have time for me anymore. one day he broke up with me, i didn't want to accept it so i ran away from him, then i was so regretful of that childish act. after a few weeks, my bestfriend helped me talk to him, she says *john* had been miserable when we broke up, always drunk, shouting my name and punching walls.so i agreed, it's what i want after all, second chance. but when we talked he denied everything my bff said, so one of our friends walked out(i think because he knows the truth). he continued telling me about how hard his time management is. i told him it was okay as long as we're together but he refused, so i gave up but when i did, he sat by me, then leaned on me--my bff moved away so we could talk. he said he could come back, maybe some other time, he asks if i would still be there for him, i said yes. then he said he loved me, i said i loved him too. and i ran for my friends because of too much happiness. but then after that he never talked to me again,so i started losing hope again. another night we were together with friends he ignored me, so i did to, i also made it obvious i was mad at him. so when we were going home he followed me, i ignored his questions but then he said that i should accept that he would neer come back. so i started running again, he followed me. then i bursted out all my insights about what's happening to us, he couldn't explain. then after a few months he texted me, he asked if i was available at sunday afternoon, i said yes, and we met. we didn't talk about "us". he said he cared for me still because i was a friend, that hurt me too much. so after two weeks when he didn't contact me again, i texted him and asked if he would ever come back. he never replied.

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