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WELL I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT QUALIFYS ME TO HELP OTHER PEOPLE REALLY OTHER THAN PEOPLE I KNOW SAY I GIVE GOOD, FRIENDLY ADVISE ALTHOUGH SOMETHINGS SPEAK FROM THE HEART, AND AM VERY PASSIONATE ABOUT CERTAIN SUBJECTS THAT CAN SOMETIMES MAKE ME COME ACROSS AS HARSH OR BROAD SPOKEN BUT I NEVER USUALLY NIT PICK OR CRITISISE A PERSON, I LIVE IN THE UK AND I AM IN A HAPPY LOVING RELATIONSHIP ALTHOUGH EVEN MY RELATIONSHIP HAS HAD ITS FAIR SHARES OF UPS AND DOWNS BUT THIS ONLY ADDS TO THIS EXPERIENCE THAT WE ALL CALL LIFE! LOL I AM BUBBLY AND HAVING A CARING PERSONALITY... SOME PEOPLE SAY I'M A PEOPLE PERSON BUT THAT DEPENDS ON THE MOOD YOU CATCH ME IN.... LOL JUST KIDDING I ALSO HAVE A TWO YEAR OLD LITTLE GIRL WHO IS 2 GOING ON 22 AND SHE BRINGS JOY AND EVERYTHING THAT COMES WITH PARENTHOOD. |
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Could there be an innocent explanation for his "love-bite" and excessive internet usage? He says it's just porno and soccer!
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend Ryan for 4 years now. Last month I found a love-bite on his back and it started to give me doubts to whether he has been faithful or not. I confronted him about it and he said he didn't know how it got there and ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well honestly i think your quite right to be suspect him that whole love bite thing for a start! marks don't just randomly appear from nowhere let alone a bite mark and on his back... quite rightly you had doubts me i would gone up ... (read in full...)
I still work for my ex, I still sleep with my ex, and I still love my ex! How do I tell him?
Q. I want my ex boyfriend back, we split up in November 2005 and i haven't been able to get over him at all cos i still love him. He has his own business and i work for him and even though this is hard, i love my job and don't want to leave it even ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey there
sorry heres the rest... and go on to sleep with him? how does that fit into your plan to get over him? sweetie i don't mean to come across harsh on you at all but your not making things easy on yourself here? he may well of slept wi... (read in full...)
I still work for my ex, I still sleep with my ex, and I still love my ex! How do I tell him?
Q. I want my ex boyfriend back, we split up in November 2005 and i haven't been able to get over him at all cos i still love him. He has his own business and i work for him and even though this is hard, i love my job and don't want to leave it even ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie i do have to agree with dr pete here you have hardly mentioned anything about this guy... why did things end why did he become your ex? who ended things? i assume that you are split up for a very good reason which will sti... (read in full...)
Do I really love my boyfriend?
Q. I'm new to a long term relationship and I'm having these weird feelings like I don't know if I really love my boyfriend or if I do really love him. Also the feelings have been happening for a while. Is this normal and will my feelings come back?...
A. 14 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie this is a question only you really know the answer for but i will try to advice you how to get to the answer if that helps you any :o)... firstly you say your in a long term relationship at the beginning of your post lik... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex, period was very light, could I still be pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex, I got my period but it was very light compared to normal, even though I got my period could I still be pregnant??...
A. 14 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well i trust you know all about STD's then as you still continued the unprotected sex regardless of the several diseases out there, but having said that we all make mistakes... think safety in future yeah... now as for the pregnanc... (read in full...)
BF would rather masterbate than have sex with me!
Q. I am a very sexual person, and my boyfriend seems to be, but is not. He would rather sit at the computer and masturbate rather than have sex or fool around with me. It makes me feel very unattractive and depressed, even though he assures me that he ...
A. 14 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well you poor thing you :o( what the hell is his game... have you tried talking to him about this? i really feel for you and can completely understand how its making you feel... you need to sit your man down and talk this situatio... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex-fiance back?
Q. How can I get my ex-fiance back? She said she still loves me but we haven't got back together yet. ...
A. 14 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well with hardly any information in your letter but i will try my best with the little information that we have ok :o)
well as for the getting back together thing, firstly do you both think that this is wise cause if you are not both... (read in full...)
Worried my best friend and I will drift apart
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been best friends with this girl (let's just call her Erica) since before my memory can even recall (our moms have told us that we first met when we were four months old...lol). Through elementary school, we were practically inse...
A. 14 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie i know exactly where your coming from here so i'm talking from experience ok i'll try to help you get your head around this yeah :o)... firstly you and erica certainly sound like your inseperable, thats a good thing that you... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone and pretend they never existed?
Q. What is the best and quickest way to get over someone and move on as if that person never existed, and block them out? How do you get over an ex that you loved more than they loved you?...
A. 14 June 2006: Hey Babe
I'm sorry that you are sad right now :o( If i were you i would just give myself a little time to get over her. Then take up new challenges, and new interests. If she has moved that means you can to. Has she found someone else? and if s... (read in full...)
My ex has a new girlfriend and I just can seem to move on with my life!
Q. Hi just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to cope when an ex I'm still in love with moves on? We see each other every week as we have a child and last week he informed me that he has a new gf. I'm heartbroken and dreading seeing them tog...
A. 13 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
firstly i'm sorry to hear your so sad :o(,its a painful place your at right now; everyone at one time in their life has been in a similar place that your at its not nice.... but i will try my best to help you through this ok.... w... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a boy has an erection?
Q. hi im 15. if you were talking to a boy how would u know if they had an erection? or if they were just walking past, would you know if they had an erection?...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Trust me you will know when he is aroused and has an erection though if he is a typical teenage boy he will probably get all embarrassed at the fact that he's turned on so he will probably pull away act shy and go red in the face sli... (read in full...)
I want her number, but I don't know what to say!
Q. My crush has left school now and I never had the chance to ask her out or get her mobile number. We went out two years ago for 4 months but I broke up with her after 4 months (I'm so stupid!!!). I love this girl and miss her so badly. I dr...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well you really need to just bite the bullet and ask this girl out, have some fun.... what you waiting for seriously you sound like a confident person so stop worrying how she will react ok sweetie personally i would say you should j... (read in full...)
I know he just wants to be friends with them to get back at me....what can I do?
Q. Hi I am curantly in a relationship where at first it was just to get away from my ex boyfriend Cory. but no matter what I do he is always there. now he has decided to try to be friends with my close friend and cousin.I know it is just to get back ...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
I agree with you totally honey he's just doing this to get to you, you need to tell your mate and counsin exactly what his game is and how its making you feel he's well out of order if you ask me he needs sorting out he's just bei... (read in full...)
Im not as attractive as all my friends or as clever, how can I become more like them for acceptance ?
Q. My friends are amazing fun, and I love them all to pieces. However they always look better than me, wear better clothes, have nicer hair, and generally have a better appearance than I do. Also I'm really dense and say stupid things because I don't ...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
I think you sound great not at all dippy :o) thats the first thing but other than that i feel as yos says its low self esteem and lack of confidense,you sound like a lovely person and have a great personality so don't beat yourself... (read in full...)
How do I get through the World Cup ? Need some attention from him, any ideas!?
Q. I know many women will be able to sympathise with me on this problem - I'm sick of my man leaving me alone to watch the World Cup!!! He's mad about football but now, there's like 3 matches on a day and I never get any attention whatsoever!! Mos...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey there
well sweetie you and the rest of the females in the world :o)... but i do have a few suggestions that may help you out a little, i understand you have no interest in the football at all, but have you tried watching the odd england ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting about his best friend always being there? She just simply wont go away!!
Q. Case Of the Best Friend She Wont go away. I have been with my current bf 4 11 months and I truly am deeply inlove with him. How ever I feel like I can not be with him with his bestfriend around. She was inlove with him before we got together and...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie what a state your working yourself up to here come on don't be so upset over this girl :o) that is playing straight into her hands your giving her exactly what she wants you and your guy arguing and arguing over her, bab... (read in full...)
I slept with a man I like from work, help!
Q. there is a guy i work with we have been flirting and emailing all day long.i bumped into him on a night out and we ended up sleeping together and had an amazing night.i really like the guy but i feel that now he doesnt want anything more to do with ...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Well i have to say i completely agree with wendy here her advice is spot on as ususal, thats the only way your actually gonna know where you stand with this guy i'm afraid your gonna just have to bite the bullet and ask him :o)...
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How do we re-light the 'honeymoon period' spark?
Q. hi, I was in a relationship for 4 months and recently my g/f broke up with me as she said at first there was spark and now theres no spark.. whats the best way to work it out and relight the spark?...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey babe...
firstly sorry you two broke up so soon thats a shame :o(, but hey back to your question its hard to put that spark back into a relationship if only one of you is doing all the work (you) a relationship is a joint commitment where it... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything everytime I have sex! Help!
Q. Why is it that everytime I have sex I don't feel anything! I just don't know what sex feels like! Please help me!...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey there
Well hi sweetie you poor thing... maybe your just not relaxed enough to enjoy it each time your trying sex if your pre occupied thinking why am i not enjoying this? is something wrong with me? am i doin something wrong? then you are not ... (read in full...)
I found out I was pregnant the day I broke up with my BF!
Q. I found out I was pregnant the day I broke up with him! I love this guy and he assures me that he is serious with me. We had many problems and I thought he did not treat me right. He kept in touch with his ex but always lied to me that he has noth...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey there
i'm sorry that you are so sad at the moment honey :o( especially when this is ment to be one of the happiest times in your life, personally i think both you and you b/f should go to your local family planning centre where they can disc... (read in full...)
I think Im in love with my boyfriends best friend
Q. Hey I am so scared that my boyfriend has found out about me liking his best friend. I think that he knows but I am not sure.He hasnt come around in a while. He is kind of avoiding me, I guess that is how you could put it. I talk to his friends ...
A. 12 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well where to start babe if you only like the guy you are currently with and he is avoiding you anyway, sit down sweetie and do some sould searching think about which of the two guys you actually want to be with... if it is his frie... (read in full...)
How do you get true love out of your mind??
Q. they say that true love means letting go of sum1 you love but i can't seem to get him out of my mind, i still love him . . . . please help me ???...
A. 11 June 2006: Hey there
Well i don't think you can ever let go of true love its always there in the back of your mind but you will kinda move on from it when you are in another relationship and trusting someone else with your heart strings, but they say time... (read in full...)
I'm a great guy, I'm attractive-so what am I doing wrong that women are not interested in me?
Q. What is it that women find attractive about men? People always see me as a nice guy but I have heard that women prefer someone who is strong and sensitive. I always see "bad boys" with women that I know are fairly shy and sweet. Am I just doing ...
A. 11 June 2006: Hi sweetie,
Well its true what you say most women are attracted to bad boys who will one day break there hearts but there are some sensible women out there in this world to and the only way you are gonna find miss right honey is purely by being... (read in full...)
Boyfriend called off the relationship, how do I get over it?
Q. my fiancess of 3yrs has just broken up with saying he doesnt want to be in a relatonshipbecause he feels he is too young (he is 21). it hurts like hell and i want him back. i recently went to a pary with some friends for a laugh and knowing that...
A. 11 June 2006: Hey there
firstly i'm sorry to hear your so sad :-(,its a painful place your at right now; everyone at one time in their life has been there where your at its not nice.... but i will try my best to help you through this ok.... well babe they say... (read in full...)
How do I know when I've turned my boyfriend on?
Q. heya just wondering - how do u know when a teenage boy has an erection? do they act differently or have a different facial or body expression? do they give off any clues to having an erection? also second question me an my boyfriend have been tog...
A. 11 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie as said above if your kissing and cuddling closely then trust me you will feel when he is aroused and has an erection though if he is a typical teenage boy he will probably get all embarrassed at the fact that he's turned o... (read in full...)
Caught sending sexy texts to my 14-year-old girlfriend! Can the police really stop our love?
Q. Hi, I really really really need help. I've been kinda stupid. I'm 18 and I'm going (or was) going out with a girl who's 14. see my previous question (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/broke-up-with-my-gf-of-3-yearsnow.html) Since that (well ab...
A. 11 June 2006: Hey there
Well i'm afraid your not gonna wanna hear this babe but yeah they can actually get involved or her parents could indeed get an judement where you are not allowed within 10 feet of her or you could get charged with harrassment by her pare... (read in full...)
He says such wonderful things to me, but he's so far away!
Q. I have met this guy 3 months ago on a chatsite and we have been chatting and phoning each other a lot since then. We both live in the same country but in different towns. We have made plans to meet, but things just went wrong all the time and we ...
A. 11 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Well it sounds like your really into this guy, he also sound very into you...but my mom used to say this to me all the time... if you love something then let it go and if its ment to be it will return to you, this couldn't be more cle... (read in full...)
My wife is so upset about the porn images I've collected. Am I so wrong?
Q. My wife recently discovered an archive of pornographic pictures on my computer - the directory was accidentally opened when I was logged in. Initially she said she was fine and not mad at me at all about it and asked to see the whole directory. ...
A. 11 June 2006: Hey there
Well where to start here, i can understand your wife opinion here and just how much this has upset her, and i also understand that most men enjoy porn... but sweetie 99% of the time its better from a female point of view not to have thi... (read in full...)
I am a virgin and a bit confused about sex
Q. i am a virgin and im confused. when u have sex for the first time my mates have told me something pops when u have it to say u are not a virgin anymore. and apparently the thing that pops really hurts when it pops or something like that. what are ...
A. 10 June 2006: Hey there
hi sweetie, i completely agree with dr psych she is spot on with her advise as always, but just to add to it slightly, peer pressure about sex and stories to worry you about sex are all that your friends are trying to do if i were you... (read in full...)
My husband says that I stare at people, but I am not sure!
Q. Everytime my husband and I go out he ends up getting mad at me because he says I stare. It embarasses him and he thinks that "I'm looking for something else." I would stop, but I don't even realize that I'm doing it. I love him dearly and don't ...
A. 10 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well i think also that you r husband is just a little worried that your looking elsewhere, but maybe he is also a little paranoid as to why you have to look elsewhere when you have him you know, i understand that you say you don't re... (read in full...)
In love with one guy but thinking about somebody else
Q. I have two questions...firstly I think I am in love with my brother's best friend. He is 25 and I am 19. I asked him out once in an email, but it was just after he had split up with his girlfriend and he said it wasnt the right time. I have seen him ...
A. 8 June 2006: Hey there
Well lets tackle your second prob first ok yeah i agree with you he's just ahving a little flirting fun to make the day go faster although i'm not sure his girlfriend would agree cause he's out of order admitting he was attracte... (read in full...)
What should I say to my crush of 2 years?
Q. My crush has left school now and I never had the chance to ask her out or get her mobile number. We went out two years ago for 4 months but I broke up with her after 4 months (I'm so stupid!!!). I love this girl and miss her so badly. I dr...
A. 8 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well sweetie to be honest here whats holding you back your obviously into this girl and she used to feel the same about you due to all the quick glances etc... you say one of her mates asked you if you still liked her? you can bet she ... (read in full...)
Tried to make myself orgasm & this morning my bed was wet! What did I do wrong?
Q. I haven't had sex in a long time but have met someone over the Internet. We chat and txt and I try and make myself orgasm 4 him. I haven't managed to yet but this morning when I tried, my bed was wet! What did I do wrong and how do I stop it?...
A. 8 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Well it certainly sounds to me honey that you in deed had a beautiful, good, spectacular orgasm... :o) i hope you enjoyed it sweetie your internet friend will certainly be happy now you have mastered the talent... :o)
hope it made ... (read in full...)
BF says I only look good wearing make-up & mini-skirts!
Q. I would really like if someone could help me because I'm hurting really bad. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He is 4 years younger than me and when we first started going out he was doing all the running. Lately he is always ...
A. 8 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Firstly listen to me.... I'm sure that you are not ugly at all. this guy is an ass! i completely agree with my good friend Dr psych who is always spot on with her advise you need to sack this fool, kick him to the kerb where he belon... (read in full...)
Fallen for another man, am going to really hurt my current BF...am I making the right decision?
Q. Hello, I have a small(ish) problem. I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for 18 months but we aren't that serious, we only see each other once or twice a week usually, but we do love each other and get along well. However another guy has asked ...
A. 8 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Well i have to be honest with you here the guy who you have been with for 18 months, you say you are in love with him but yet you two are not serious? which in itself is fair enough we all know inside when we have actually met the one ... (read in full...)
Why is my skin so oily????
Q. I am a 28 year old. In the last few months my complexion has not been as it should be. I've always had oliy skin, and the odd spot here and there!! Recently my skin has got worse. I do wear a very light foundation on my face daily, I use oil ...
A. 7 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Well i agree with helpful girl, but i also have a few tips that may help you out ok if these don't work however you should go see your g.p maybe he can refer you to a specialist ok.... fisrtly i would remove all your make up and boil... (read in full...)
I don't trust him after I found all the sexual stuff he's been viewing.....what should I do?
Q. Just after some advice. I have been with my partner for just under a year. Recently I found him on a sex contacts website advertising for no strings attached fun - he had put that he could travel but couldn't accommodate (we live together) and that ...
A. 7 June 2006: Hey there sweetie
well firstly i completely understand where you are coming from here and i wouldn't trust him as far as i could throw him either, but you do sound like you are genuinely in love with this guy, its just a pity he is taking the mick... (read in full...)
9 years together but not serious, is he seeing somone else?
Q. My partner and I have been together for 9 years. I keep asking when are we going to make it serious. He gives me excuses. It has made me constantly accuse him of being with someone else, to the point of him telling me to leave him alone. Please ...
A. 7 June 2006: hey there
this is gonna be short and sweet honey i don't think he is seeing anyone else i just think he's taking advantage of you... i mean 9 years! personally i would sit him down and tell it like it is you either commit to me or basicall... (read in full...)
My parents won't let me live with my boyfriend
Q. I live in South Africa and am currently studying. I turn 18 next month and i want to know what age i am legally aloud to leave home and live with my boyfriend? my parents say i cant live with a guy until im married or 21! please help, i want out of ...
A. 7 June 2006: Hey sweetie
well i honestly think your parents are just worrying thats what parents do i'm afraid to say, i completely agree with dr psych its much better to have your folks concerned about your welfare than them not being bothered at all and lett... (read in full...)
Revenge the best medicine?
Q. I got dumped, and now I want revenge, problem is he is in another part of town and I cant go and flaunt my stuff, I want him to hurt real bad and I want him to feel guilty for hurting me. I wish he could come back and say he wants me so I can play ...
A. 7 June 2006: hey there
Sweetie you really need to calm down a little give yourself time to get over that bitterness and revenge that we all wanna do at one time cause you will on;ly get a small high and its only temp so its really not worth the hassle you will... (read in full...)
I keep sending him emails and texts after our break up, I want him to feel the pain I do, how else can I deal with the pain ?
Q. Is this the month for being DUMPED, well at least I dont feel alone- lol My ex dumped me a few weeks ago, over email, and I dont have the courage to chat to him, Im afraid of what I'll say. and I dont wanna hear his voice ever, ever again, I'm ...
A. 7 June 2006: I'd say don't bother with all that. It doesn't show you're over him and that he's lost out, quite the opposite in fact. It shows him you're immature and definitely not over him . . . so in effect, you're feeding his ego still!!!
hi babe
The bes... (read in full...)
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