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WELL I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT QUALIFYS ME TO HELP OTHER PEOPLE REALLY OTHER THAN PEOPLE I KNOW SAY I GIVE GOOD, FRIENDLY ADVISE ALTHOUGH SOMETHINGS SPEAK FROM THE HEART, AND AM VERY PASSIONATE ABOUT CERTAIN SUBJECTS THAT CAN SOMETIMES MAKE ME COME ACROSS AS HARSH OR BROAD SPOKEN BUT I NEVER USUALLY NIT PICK OR CRITISISE A PERSON, I LIVE IN THE UK AND I AM IN A HAPPY LOVING RELATIONSHIP ALTHOUGH EVEN MY RELATIONSHIP HAS HAD ITS FAIR SHARES OF UPS AND DOWNS BUT THIS ONLY ADDS TO THIS EXPERIENCE THAT WE ALL CALL LIFE! LOL I AM BUBBLY AND HAVING A CARING PERSONALITY... SOME PEOPLE SAY I'M A PEOPLE PERSON BUT THAT DEPENDS ON THE MOOD YOU CATCH ME IN.... LOL JUST KIDDING I ALSO HAVE A TWO YEAR OLD LITTLE GIRL WHO IS 2 GOING ON 22 AND SHE BRINGS JOY AND EVERYTHING THAT COMES WITH PARENTHOOD. |
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I keep sending him emails and texts after our break up, I want him to feel the pain I do, how else can I deal with the pain ?
Q. Is this the month for being DUMPED, well at least I dont feel alone- lol My ex dumped me a few weeks ago, over email, and I dont have the courage to chat to him, Im afraid of what I'll say. and I dont wanna hear his voice ever, ever again, I'm ...
A. 7 June 2006: I'd say don't bother with all that. It doesn't show you're over him and that he's lost out, quite the opposite in fact. It shows him you're immature and definitely not over him . . . so in effect, you're feeding his ego still!!!
hi babe
The bes... (read in full...)
I cant seem to deal with pain of breaking up, I see my Ex all around and its killing me please help!
Q. I saw my ex in town last night in the passenger seat of her new b/f's car. I thought I had got over it, but it sent a searing pain through my body to see her with someone else. I'm having real difficulty coping even though its been ages since we ...
A. 7 June 2006: Hey there sweetie
firstly i'm sorry to hear your so sad :-(,its a painful place your at right now; everyone at one time in their life has been there where your at its not nice.... but i will try my best to help you through this ok.... well ... (read in full...)
I really like him, but how do i get him to notice me!!!
Q. Hi I have a quick problem I hope you can help me with I really like this guy but I just can't get him to notice me, I talk to him and stuff and we've been out in the same places but I just can't get him to notice me in that way, I know hes not gay ...
A. 7 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well you really need to just bite the bullet and ask this guy out, have some fun.... what you waiting for seriously you sound like a confident person so stop worrying how he will react ok sweetie personally i would say you should j... (read in full...)
How can I let her know that I Love her!?
Q. hi all just need to now wat a guy has to do to make a girl relize that i love her...
A. 7 June 2006: Well sweetie
my advise is if you love this girl tell her.. but alternatively you really need to just bite the bullet and ask this girl out, have some fun.... what you waiting for seriously you sound like an amazing guy all very sweet for worrying... (read in full...)
We have been together for 4 years, I want a baby he doesnt, he doesnt want to move in, am I wasting my time ?
Q. hi i am going out with my boyfriend 4 years i have a child from another relationship i would love a baby with my boyfriend but he doesnt want 1. i have my own house and he doesnt want to move in i am 31 and he is 33 am i waisting my time with him he ...
A. 7 June 2006: Hey there
Well i agree with dr psych i am also just your age and have a ittle girl with my man but this only came about whenhe finally relised his mother was indeed createing a wedge btween us, but back to your prob i think maybe your guy has comm... (read in full...)
Should I wish my ex happy birthday as I still have feelings for her
Q. Do you think I should text my ex fiance to wish her a happy birthday - even though its been several months since we have spoken and the relationship ended poorly? I still have feelings for her even though she is now with someone else......
A. 6 June 2006: Hey there
absolutely sweetie text her happy birthday, as dr pete quite rightly says what have you got to loose here nothing at all, you are just showing her you are adut enough to move on and still wish her a happy birthday despite how things e... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me or is it just sex?
Q. Hi im a 19 year old girl whos had a bit of a "thing" with a guy for the last 8 months. We've recently started sleeping together, but always only when we're both drunk. Last night my friend heard him slagging me off and saying he has me wrapped ...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey sweetie
i'm afraid to say i have to agree with the other aunts here the only way to get your point across to him is stop having sex with him don't let him manipulate you get some self respect sweetie tell him to get stuffed, tell him straight... (read in full...)
I am working very hard but my partner picks faults
Q. I'm working my guts out at the moment,long hours and plenty of stress.When i come home my fiancee sometimes gets on my nerves by moaning or even picking faults. It usually ends up an argument things are said to each other which hurt ie name calling. ...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Well where to start here i understand the pressures and stresses from work can really drag you down but the arguing at home isn't helping the situation either is it... i know it takes two to argue and if she is anything like i used to ... (read in full...)
Me and my ex may get back together, but he has some girl sitting on his lap...
Q. My ex and I are sex buddies, but we agreed to renew the situation in a month when we've both sorted our lives out and maybe get back together. In the meantime we're not exclusive, but we haven't spoken in over weeks. For two days in a row i've seen ...
A. 6 June 2006: Hi sweetie
i have to say i have to agree with the other aunts here cause you agreed to the "not exclusive" thing, so in effect he's not doing anything wrong at all... i doubt he's trying to rub your nose in it either... i think you should talk whe... (read in full...)
He takes advantage of my feelings for him, how can I help this?
Q. How do you stop yourself from loving someone? I'm in love with this guy who i seem to think is the nicest guy in the world. I want so badly to stop loving him, because even though he makes me the happiest person in the world when i'm with him, ...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Firstly lets start by putting a few things straight here ok... You don't deserve this idiot treating you this way and putting you through this mental abuse you are a person with feelings and emotions sweetie you deserve so much bet... (read in full...)
Is it true that you can get over a heartbreak?
Q. Is it possible to never get over someone? They say time heals and all that, but is it a definite thing that heartbreak will end?...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey there
hi sweetie... it is true what they say time does in fact heal but only if you give it a gentle hand along the way as other aunts have saaid get rid of all photo's teddybears gifts or cards that person ever sent you i always figured ... (read in full...)
He takes advantage of my feelings for him, how can I help this?
Q. How do you stop yourself from loving someone? I'm in love with this guy who i seem to think is the nicest guy in the world. I want so badly to stop loving him, because even though he makes me the happiest person in the world when i'm with him, ...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Firstly lets start by putting a few things straight here ok... You don't deserve this idiot treating you this way and putting you through this mental abuse you are a person with feelings and emotions sweetie you deserve so much bet... (read in full...)
He posted a question on this site about his ex and he keeps denying it!
Q. i have a serious problem, well my boyfriend does (scoutzor), were both 17, an weve been together for 2 yrs june 2nd, BUT i found out that he went to talk to his ex girlfriends, valerie, mother because he wants to start talkin to her again, but ...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey there
hi sweetie... you say ou have been with your guy for 2 years right? so he posted a question on here about his ex so what? i can maybe understand that you are a little jealous that he wants to talk to his ex but you should be able to ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friends girlfriend!
Q. Hi, I have a major problem. My best friend's girlfriend recently told me that she is in love with me, and I feel the same way about her. I know that they had been having a few problems of late and that she wasn't happy with the relationship. Sh...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey there
hi sweetie.. this is a tricky one cause you don't want to loose this lady you have feelings for but you don't want to hurt your friends feelings either, your a very sweet guy for considering his feelings thoughout this situatio... (read in full...)
Is the semen ment to run out?
Q. hi i just want to know something me and my boyfriend have sex but when he has ejaculated inside me when he gets off of me the semen seems to run out of me is this normal because i would like to know because me and my boyfriend are trying for a baby?...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey there
hi sweetie well yeah i agree with dr psych some of it will always run out but try having sex with a pillow just under the arch of your back, this will higher your pelvis slightly inhanse the intercourse and should help your problem ... (read in full...)
I pay her alot of attention but she says i dont!
Q. I think my girlfriend wants to split up, im not sure though so i need some advice from you very helpful people...... Basically we go back to my mates place and have a cup of tea then we leave and my g/f gets in the car and i notice shes gone all ...
A. 6 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie women can be very tempremental creatures, i don't doubt your word that you give her alot of attention you sound like your a sweet guy who actually thinks about your g/f and her feelings especially blowing your mates off for ... (read in full...)
My wife is depressed and I don't think I can be supportive anymore.
Q. Sorry this is so long, but it is quite difficult to explain in just a few sentences. My wife has been going through depression for a long time now (over a year) and I don't know how to be supportive anymore. Days go by without us even talking bec...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
i am so sorry for the situation you find yourself in at the minute... its a tough one, right now you are carrying the burdon of your whole family around your neck and thats an aweful lot to take on for anyone, i understand your hav... (read in full...)
My step-sister is blackmailing me for money and sex
Q. I am a 12 year old boy from the uk and my problem is that my 14 year old stepsister caught me smoking cannabis 3 months ago and ever since then she has been blackmailing me by threating to tell my mum at first she was only demanding money but since ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
hi sweetie you poor thing :-(, what she is doing to you is child abuse honey and not right! you have to put a stop to this she can be charged criminally for forcing you to have sex with her its actually a crime she is breaking the law ... (read in full...)
I think I have caught my BF cheating.
Q. dear cupid, i really am very down at the minute. while i was pregnant i found a photograph of a mystery girl in my boyfriends wallet, on the back of the pic it said i hope you like it keep it with you claudia!! i thought this was very disrespectful. ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey sweetie,
Firstly i'm really sorry to hear about your situation and the shit of a guy your with, i know you can't help who you fall for, you poor thing you must of been heartbroken and crying typing to the other women huh? you have to be stron... (read in full...)
My boyfriends female friend worries me!
Q. Hi There, I am not sure if I am overreacting or if I have every right to be suspicious. My boyfriend of a 1 1/2 years is the best thing that has ever happened to me I love him dearly and vice versa, the only problem is his female friend. She to ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
Well i have to say you sound just like me because i would be tripping now to if she rang him all hours when she'd had a drink etc, i think if i were in your situation here i would sit down with my man and explain to him that he has to p... (read in full...)
I slept with a new guy after the shock of a break up
Q. Did I give the wrong answer to his question? I have posted a few questions on this website before as have had a very difficult three months trying to get over the shock of my 4 year live in boyfriend dumping me out of the blue. Following advice I ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
hi sweetie no i don't think you answered wrong at all in fact you sound alot like me speak from your heart and wear your heart on your sleeve thats not a bad thing at all you were just being honest with him in my opinion, maybe he just ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him I'm scared about getting pregnant, what should I do?
Q. i'm 15yrs old and my boyfriend is 23 he's already got a daughter, and i've been pregnant before but miscarried. when we have sex he doesn't use condoms and i don't want to get pregnant again, he says he wants me to have his kids but only when i'm ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie, lets be sensible here huh... you seem very mature for such a tender age, you are obviously not stupid are you.. but you do have a duty to yourself her honey forget about what your partner wants at the moment we will go ... (read in full...)
She still glances at me and I still fancy her, should I get her new number?
Q. BABY GIRL can you please help me?. two years ago a girl and i realy liked each other, each night we would text each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times per week and ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie to be honest here whats holding you back this girl is obviously still into you in a big way due to all the quick glances etc... you say one of her mates asked you if you still liked her? you can bet she put her mate up to as... (read in full...)
He'd rather have a one night stand than have sex with me
Q. My boyfriend is not interested in sex with me. I feel like I'm constantly pressuring him into it all the time, then I don't enjoy it, but I have a really high sex drive!!! I'm 19 and he's 28. This causes more problems because he's had so many one ...
A. 5 June 2006: HEY there
Sweetie whats wrong with this picture? if YOU are not enjoying the sexual side of things and HE is causing you to doubt your own self confidense and body image and proformance in the bedroom then why are you still with him? he obviousl... (read in full...)
How can I tell if, he is just be a rebound?
Q. I was just wondering if you guys think I'm on the rebound. I think I might be as I broke up with my b/f a few months back and still miss him and think about him A LOT. But this new guy has been messaging me, we have been out on one date and tonight ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Well my advise to you would have to be forget the ex he's in the past you are moving on with your life... you have found someone who sounds very sweet and very genuine, like you say in yoyr letter you enjoyed being cuddled up to this ... (read in full...)
Why would she tell her kids that we're not going to be with each other anymore?
Q. I just gave my ex a letter that expressed exactly how i feel about her. I put the definition of love and other definitions of the word and then i said no matter how you define it this is exactly how i feel for you. she called me and said that she ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
Honestly i have been at the place your ex is at and its so hard to trust again after a kick in the face but give her the time and space she has requested and let her find her feet without pressure honey ok, i think she told her kids wha... (read in full...)
If there's something wrong with me, he'll start yelling at me
Q. hi !!! i'm eebie. well i've been dating my bf for almost 17 mmonths now! i've known him for 6 years. He's my best friend, i just couldln't be with someone else, he's all i know. But lately he's been acting really mean towards me. If there's ...
A. 5 June 2006: and make sure you tell him that honey.. ok
I hope my advise helped you a little, Good luck sweetie, if you ever wanna talk or just more advise feel free to email me i'm always here for you ok would love to hear from you again
You Take Care... (read in full...)
If there's something wrong with me, he'll start yelling at me
Q. hi !!! i'm eebie. well i've been dating my bf for almost 17 mmonths now! i've known him for 6 years. He's my best friend, i just couldln't be with someone else, he's all i know. But lately he's been acting really mean towards me. If there's ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
Hi sweetie, firstly i can understand that you love this guy and could not imagine life without him but babe, he should'nt be shouting at you whether he needs t relax or not that is not an excuse for him to be treating you this way who ... (read in full...)
what if he thinks of me as his sister
Q. hi, i need urgent help cuz i realized that i have a steamin crush on my older brothers best friend.hes four years older to me,and i really like him.hes the guy i want to be comitted with.but m afraid ,wat if he thinks of me as his sister aswell?and ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie you have a crush on your brothers friend, i can remember those days cause i bet his friend is there all the time huh? you get embarrased can't look him in the eye but will do things for them like coffee's toast etc... j... (read in full...)
Visit my dying uncle or take my English exams?
Q. Hi I have English exams on the 6th and 8th of June. I am really streesed about it because I found out yesterday that my uncle had 48 hours to live, so I guess that means 24 now. The problem is I want to see him before it's too late but he lives ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey there
firstly sorry to hear about your uncle :-( but in honesty here sweetie you must follow your heart go and see your uncle this is the only chance your gonna get to do that say your goodbyes before its to late and you will regret it forev... (read in full...)
My friends hassle us like we should be "serious" in our relationship, but I'm only 12!
Q. Hi I am the one who wrote about my boyfriend not acting like a boyfriend and I totally accept that he might not be ready yet and that he's comfortable where he is. But my friends are bothering us into acting like we're 16 and having a relationship, ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well firstly you sound very level headed for such a tender age, your quite right to be happy with how things stand between you and your b/f, don't fall victim to peer pressure from your friends don't let them tell you how to run your... (read in full...)
I'm depressed and he's forcing me to tell him why
Q. hey, ive got a big problem, my bf an i have been together for about two months. things have been getting me down, and im starting to get abit depressed. because of this, sometimes i may seem abit off, and just lately i haven't been seeing my bf as m...
A. 4 June 2006: Hey there
Sweetie this is tricky but i will try my best to help you ok, firstly just because you are an item with this guy you don't have to tell him everything about yourself you are quite right to want to keep somethings personal and deal wit... (read in full...)
Problems with my ex who ruined my life
Q. Ok here goes..about 4 months ago myself and my girfriend of 3 years broke up out of the blue b/c she wasn't happy anymore..i thought there was something wrong, i sensed she might be cheating, ect ect..she never wanted to talk about anything, try to ...
A. 4 June 2006: Hey there
Well firstly i'm sorry she broke it off with you and you feel so sad :-(, honey we have all been where your at right now you need closure and i can fully understand that before you can move onto your future, i completely understa... (read in full...)
Are my breasts too small for the boys?
Q. I am a teen girl, and I want to know if having small breasts turns off a guy. I'm 32b, tall and slim, considered quite pretty, but it seems like the only girls getting boyfriends are the ones with big chests. Is that what really matters to most tee...
A. 4 June 2006: Hey Sweetie.
Its hard being a teenager, you are trying to explore the world understand your emotions and the opposite sex and i understand how hard on you it can be, but honey this is really only a confidense thing you feel uneasy about your bod... (read in full...)
My sisters half my age and pregnant
Q. hi i am lou age 26 and my little sister age 13 is very out going and she is settled with her boyfriend as she says. the other day i was looking after her while her mum was out and i went in her room to ask her what she wanted for her tea and she was ...
A. 4 June 2006: Hey there
Well i agree with my friend dr psych to be honest you have thought you saw the result but inadvertidly saw something else instead, but either way 13 is really young to be pregnant and responsible for a whole nother person inside you know... (read in full...)
How should I ask her out online?
Q. I have been talking to this girl online and i am starting to get feelings for her. We both trust each other because we talk about personal stuff and we have things in common. The thing is i want to see her and hang out with her... im 16 and she is ...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie where to start here, i think you should judt be as open and honest with her as you can you say your quite close already so, but to avoid the whole safety issues of net met ups and there are a few issues sweetie explain ... (read in full...)
How do I make the butterflies go away??
Q. Hi I was wondering if you could help me, I really like this guy and he knows that I like him, he says he has no time for a girlfriend, and thats okay, my problem is that I have regular contact with him and I want to know how to get over him as when ...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey there
I think we have all once had love thats unrequited but sweetie i'm sorry to say you have to just get on with life as normal treat this guy like he's your brother then hopefully the feelings will subside but i know it hurts to try and ... (read in full...)
How do I avoid looking like a fool??
Q. I'll be going to a party soon with famous people and local celebtities. I'm not a celeb myself. How do you behave, or what can I do or say or talk about that will make these people think that I'm not such a bad 23 yrs of age,young, smart successful ...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey there
Well i honestly agree with pheobe i think you should just be yourself sweetie, nobody should have to put on a false front or an act to to be liked or talked to by normal people or celeb's i mean after all they are human too...
they will... (read in full...)
How do I end this mental torture??
Q. I have this boyfriend who i have a feelings cheating on me people have told me they see him with other girls at clubs even though there just dancing it hurts. He calls me names and tells me i can never do anything right i feel like i'm no longer g...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Firstly lets start by putting a few things straight here ok... You don't deserve this idiot treating you this way and putting you through this mental abuse you are a person with feelings and emotions sweetie you deserve so much bet... (read in full...)
How do I avoid looking like a fool??
Q. I'll be going to a party soon with famous people and local celebtities. I'm not a celeb myself. How do you behave, or what can I do or say or talk about that will make these people think that I'm not such a bad 23 yrs of age,young, smart successful ...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey there
Well i honestly agree with pheobe i think you should just be yourself sweetie, nobody should have to put on a false front or an act to to be liked or talked to by normal people or celeb's i mean after all they are human too...
they will... (read in full...)
Am I an alien or is it the alcohol?
Q. I keep having a recurring dream. I'm an alien, I recently landed in this country and have found everything to be so different from home. There is something called grass in places thats green (weird or what) and there's all this crazy stuff ever...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey sweetie
THIS IS PLANET EARTH... HELLO I HOPE YOU COME IN PEACE.... DON'T MAKE ME SET WILL SMITH ON YOU AND CREATE INDEPENDANCE DAY ALL OVER AGAIN...
YOU TAKE CARE X... (read in full...)
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