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WELL I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT QUALIFYS ME TO HELP OTHER PEOPLE REALLY OTHER THAN PEOPLE I KNOW SAY I GIVE GOOD, FRIENDLY ADVISE ALTHOUGH SOMETHINGS SPEAK FROM THE HEART, AND AM VERY PASSIONATE ABOUT CERTAIN SUBJECTS THAT CAN SOMETIMES MAKE ME COME ACROSS AS HARSH OR BROAD SPOKEN BUT I NEVER USUALLY NIT PICK OR CRITISISE A PERSON, I LIVE IN THE UK AND I AM IN A HAPPY LOVING RELATIONSHIP ALTHOUGH EVEN MY RELATIONSHIP HAS HAD ITS FAIR SHARES OF UPS AND DOWNS BUT THIS ONLY ADDS TO THIS EXPERIENCE THAT WE ALL CALL LIFE! LOL I AM BUBBLY AND HAVING A CARING PERSONALITY... SOME PEOPLE SAY I'M A PEOPLE PERSON BUT THAT DEPENDS ON THE MOOD YOU CATCH ME IN.... LOL JUST KIDDING I ALSO HAVE A TWO YEAR OLD LITTLE GIRL WHO IS 2 GOING ON 22 AND SHE BRINGS JOY AND EVERYTHING THAT COMES WITH PARENTHOOD. |
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Scared my lady will cheat when I am away
Q. i am 21 and in the army, i am due to deploy to iraq in november for seven months, my fiance tells me she will just have to cope, her previous relationships are riddled with her cheating, but she has not with me yet, i am scared and insecure?...
A. 24 June 2006: Hey Shawn
You poor thing :o( here's you going away to serve you queen and country this is the last thing you wanna be stressin about right now... personally i agree with irish why are you still with this girl when you have your doubts whether ... (read in full...)
Why has the sex dried up.. ?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months but have been having sex off and on for about 2 years. In the past 8 months we've been having sex 2-6 times a day. I went away for 6 days and when I came back he was all over me. a couple ...
A. 23 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Having been with your b/f for 8 months, I'm sure you feel as if you know him inside and out. That's why this no-sex issue is so puzzling: I'm sure he says he loves you and isn't seeing anyone else, yet he doesn't want you to go near ... (read in full...)
Why do western women hate their mother in laws?
Q. Why do western women hate it when their husband is close to his mother? Isn't that selfish? How can you hate the women who brought him into the world and raised him?...
A. 23 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Women typically complain that their mothers-in-law interferes in domestic situations, spoils their sons and expected them to perform traditional "wifely" roles while ignoring their professional status outside the home. A friend o... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him too, but i'm too scared to tell him! What are the signs he might feel the same way?
Q. Hello, i'm just wondering...what are the signs that a guy is in love with you but is too scared to tell you? Like a guy friend? Do hints mean anything at all..? Are there certain things he might do? Is being jealous of you with other guys normal b...
A. 22 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Falling in love with someone can be an amazing feeling, especially when it's for the first time. And it isn't always easy to be certain that he feels exactly the same way. It's natural to feel anxious about revealing your feelings... (read in full...)
When am I supposed to hug him and hold his hand?
Q. how do i know like ... when im supposed to hug him and hold his hand . i never know when its suitable and when he wants me to .?...
A. 22 June 2006: Hi :o)
Well i agree with both phoeboe and dr pete, you should do it when you feel the desire to do it ad whenever you want to, don't wait for him to ask you, just do it when the moment takes you do what comes naturally ok :o)
I hope my advice ... (read in full...)
Is high school meant to be the best time of your life? If so then why has it been miserable for me?
Q. Is high school meant to be the best time of your life? If so then I must be in for a miserable life. I go to hgh school in the UK (i'm 18 and now at the schools sixth form which is like college) and I was bullied really badly. This one guy from whe...
A. 22 June 2006: Hi Sweetie
I think of how every day, so many people are hurt by the words expressed from others, and indeed the actions of others too, as I feel bullying is on the rise and for a long time it has been neglected or not noticed. Sometimes when par... (read in full...)
Is high school meant to be the best time of your life? If so then why has it been miserable for me?
Q. Is high school meant to be the best time of your life? If so then I must be in for a miserable life. I go to hgh school in the UK (i'm 18 and now at the schools sixth form which is like college) and I was bullied really badly. This one guy from whe...
A. 22 June 2006: Hi Sweetie
I think of how every day, so many people are hurt by the words expressed from others, and indeed the actions of others too, as I feel bullying is on the rise and for a long time it has been neglected or not noticed. Sometimes when par... (read in full...)
How do I get confidence around girls?
Q. i am a teenage boy (15 yrs of age) i would like to know how i could build up my self confidence around girls as i get really shy and my face turns red. the other thing is that at school all the girls say im ugly and i would like to know why they say ...
A. 22 June 2006: Hey Babe
I'm sorry ur feeling so sad :o( There are ways to feel better about urself and gain confidence. Surrounding urself with positive people who value u can help to remind u of ur self worth. Talking with people u respect and trust - such as ... (read in full...)
Why does my partner lavish so much attention on his ex?
Q. Hi i have been with my partner for 5 years, he has 3 children and his exwife lives locally. She has partner. My partner keeps saying he'll divorce her but that he hasn't gotten round to it. When she asks, he takes her car to get serviced, leaving ...
A. 22 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Oh you poor thing you sound really down about this :o( don't be so sad, i can kinda understand that he has to be there for his children kids always need there dads, i would try and put a lid on your jealousy in that department in fact ... (read in full...)
I was nice and this guy never appreciated it. Now I'm interested in his friend...
Q. I started talking to this guy I knew from high school, and when we were in high school ( six years ago) he was so nice to me. I mean he and I never really spoke but all I know about him was that he was nice. Now as we became familiar with each oth...
A. 22 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Honestly no i don't think you have done anything wrong at all sure you 2 may have had a little flicker at things but he lost that chance when he took you for granted and did'nt appreciate your efforts thats his choice, the way i se... (read in full...)
What clues would suggest my husband might be gay?
Q. Are there signs that could tell me if my husband is gay?...
A. 22 June 2006: Hey Honey
Well to be honest its like the other aunts have said if he's checking out men when your out together or searching for them on the internet then you have some problems sit down and have a good heart to heart about this don't bottle t... (read in full...)
It was a mistake to tell her ex that she was my girlfriend, and now she's mad at me!
Q. Dear Cupid, we have broken up because my girlfriend has got annoyed because I have told the guy ex boyfriend that she is my girlfriend and the guy rung the girl and told her what I had told him. She rung me and said I had made a big mistake telling ...
A. 22 June 2006: Hey Babe
Well i have to say here again Dr.pete is spot on here as he usually is lol... i think ur g/f is outta order here. she has over reacted big time. why is she putting her ex's feelings above yours? why shouldn't you tell him she's ur girlf... (read in full...)
Is my 30 year old wife too old for this "playful frolicking" with her dad?
Q. Ok my wife is 30 yrs old and still sits on her dads lap and they cuddle and she gives him a kiss. Hell she still calls him daddy! Isn't she too old for this? Shouldn't all of this stop by the time shes like 10. It isn't sexual or anything, I just...
A. 22 June 2006: Hi Babe
Well this seems like very strange behaviour i mean i'm the same age as you g/f and i love my dad but would never dream of reacting like that towards him... ur completely correct this sort of affection should have stopped by her teenage ... (read in full...)
I've let my insecurities ruin a relationship!
Q. I did something really stupid. I had the perfect relationship with a guy i was completely in love with, but i fucked it up because of my insecurities within the relationship. He text me with 'just to say i love you' and i replied with 'i wish i ...
A. 22 June 2006: Hi there
Well i agree you need to work on your insecurities (we all have them don't worry) i mean nobody is perfect so, but what i can't understand is your b/f's reaction if he loved you as much as he said he did why did you opening your heart to... (read in full...)
The bastard dumped me and I want him to feel my hurt too!
Q. dear Agony aunts. I was dumped last month still have feelings of anger towards my ex, and I'm feeling angry because of lies and false promises. I really want him to feel bad, I know he felt bad when we broke up- shame, that doesn't help bec...
A. 22 June 2006: they seem to of added my answer like a few times sorry for the confusion they must think my advice is so good they need to repeat it over and over again lol :o) sorry again take care
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I suspect him of seeing other women, but really want him to just want me!
Q. I` ve been having an affair with someone with whom we were for a year just friends.Lately a lot of things have changed in the attidute he used to have towards me and I suspect that he is cheating on me and may be having another woman too.I`m in need ...
A. 21 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Don't be so sad :o( i feel for you right now honey i really do but i also agree with what the other aunts have said about needing someone, that really isn't healthy for you babe you shouldn't be dependant and need someone in order... (read in full...)
Mantrap!
Q. I want a boyfriend? Can i have advice to get one....
A. 20 June 2006: Hey honey
I have to say i agree with all the agony aunts above babe just stop looking cause otherwise you will come of needy and desperate and thats the last thing you want babe... you are who you are don't be in such a rush to do the whole b/... (read in full...)
Can't stop worrying about my boyfriend's ex! What's wrong with me?
Q. Help! I think I'm Obsessed! I have this thing, I can't get over my ex's girlfriend. I need help. It's been years and years. I can't work out what it is. He never even really loved her, but I can't stop thinking about her and trying to compete ...
A. 20 June 2006: Well sweetie
This is a tough one... firstly your not obsessive, so calm down yeah i think your so caught up with her because your self esteem and confidence at the moment is at an all time low you poor thing :o( thats not a nice place to be and h... (read in full...)
I just lay there during sex! I need some moves!
Q. Hello everyone, I will keep it short. I lost my virginity a few weeks ago so I am still kind of new at this. I have been with my boyfriend for awhile, but I just feel like I dont know what I am doing. I know what to do, but what else can I do ...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Try and get yourself a copy of the Karma Sutra this is a book which shows you lots of different sexual positions, enjoy the book together :o)! you and your man could have fun could have fun trying all the new positios and experime... (read in full...)
No one compares to my old boyfriend should I leave the new one?
Q. okay well im 12 years old and live in california. theres this guy i've been going out with since november and i really like him a lot. hes pretty much gorgous. and hes always nice to me. hes one of the nicest guys i've ever dated. i recently broke ...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey sweetie
I see you have a few questions posted on this site today so rather than answer them individually i'm gonna try and answer them all in one ok... Firstly why are you worrying about him masterbating, whether he is or he isn't shouldn'... (read in full...)
Which guy should I choose?
Q. I like two guys and I'm finding it difficult to decide between the two of them One of them (R) is my boyfriend. We've been together about 8 months so I'm afraid of throwing that away for the other guy when it might not last. At the same time my...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
If i were you babe i'd follow your heart which is indicating to me that your into (k) in a big way just going from what you've said, i mean yeah sure (r) may be hurt but he will get over it... trust what your heart is saying to you..... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but scared that she will cheat when she drinks.
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and i love her. she is 24 years old. there are things about her that i have found out that i cant understand though. she told me one day that she slept with almost 30 guys before she met ...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey babe
Honestly i think your girlfriend has a few problems she needs to address.. her blaming the drink is wrong when its purely an excuse, yeah sure drink can can be a big influence if you let it rule you like she is.. but she chooses to drink... (read in full...)
I want to wait for marriage but don't know if I like girls or guys?
Q. I'm single 22 male, and stuck in a cross roads with my sexuality. I'm confused about sex before marrage, but my problem is I don't know where i'm going and who I'll be compatable with, either a man or a woman. I'd like to wait to have sex with th...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well i feel sex before marriage is a very personal chioce it all depends on your wants and beliefs on the subject, nobody can say whether your morals are right or question your choices... that babe has to be up to you, but as for the ... (read in full...)
My neighbour watches me masturbate!
Q. My neighbour's daughter has a habit of hanging around at my place whenever i am alone at home. I have the habit of masturbating and she enjoys watching me. This has been going on for three years or more. Now I am getting attracted towards her and ...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Babe..
Well firstly her watching you obviously turns you both on (each to there own) its not odd :o) stop stressing over this honey ok...you to sound like your into each other in a big way she obviously likes you to cause she wouldn't be watch... (read in full...)
His porn is one thing, but his mate invites young girls back when they go out.. how can I make him see he's crushing my confidence!!
Q. My boyfriend and I are in our 30's. He masturbates to porn regularly and visits the pub twice a week to look at bikini girls who are about 18yrs old. His best mate is 21, they get very drunk and the mate invites young girls home after the pub. ...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
U poor thing i'm sorry your so sad :o( also sorry your b/f is an ass! one question... WHY ARE YOU PUTTING UP WITH THIS STUPIDNESS FROM HIM? all that porn does to any relationship is cause bitterness and resentment and not forgetti... (read in full...)
how to get over an ex?
Q. whats the best way to get over your x girl friend...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Babe
Firstly i'm sorry to hear your so sad :o(, its a painful place your at right now; everyone at one time in their life has been there where your at its not nice, it feels really crap.... but i will try my best to help you through this ok.... (read in full...)
I am jealous over my husband, what shall I do???
Q. hello, im 36 been with my husband for 14 years married four months ago, in all we have a good relationship,but i struggle with jealousy to the point i tried to end my life,my jealousy is sparked by his need to look at other woman either i...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey sweetie
Firstly i'm so sorry your really feeling this way :o( honey don't talk about ending your life... life is such a precious gift you should cherish every single second of it... sure your jealousy sounds like its getting you both down but... (read in full...)
Im confused about my sexuality, I find men and women sexy, how will I know if im gay or straight ?
Q. I'm single, 20, and slightly confused about my sexuality. I fancy one particular guy, but would never admit to it to anyone but myself, but I still chat upgirls. Some men are considered sexy by me, but girls are still seen as sexy. I've go...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey there
Hi sweetie well firstly i can fully understand your confusion and i'm so glad you have the sense not to sleep around.. :o) well maybe your just biosexual and find both sexes attractive, there is completely nothing wrong with that all... (read in full...)
Not sure what to do about my friend
Q. Hi, i got this friend and me n him have been spending alot of time together. We both like each other but the situation is really confusing as he's not ready to settle down and i'm not sure i wanna boyfriend. Its clear that feelings for each other ...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey sweetie
This is indeed very confusing, If i were you i would try just staying friends for a while longer take things slowly one step at a time you know no pressure on each other, there is nothing wrong with being close friends for a while lo... (read in full...)
Sex and dating terms confuse me
Q. so im just curious as to what all of your opinions are on what the bases are? like when a guy "gets to second base" or "third"....stuff like that. i have discussed this with a few friends, both male and female, and it seems the males have a very ...
A. 19 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
auntie claire is spot on with her answer above she is right about what bases mean what actions... ok don't let anyone lead you into thinking any different cause they'd be lying... don't respond to peer pressure either only go to which... (read in full...)
I'm cheating
Q. i have been going out with this girl for about over two years, things are great between us for the most part except for the sex. she is very conservative and timid when it comes to sex. she never initiates it and seems to have no sex drive ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Babe
I'm sorry this is probably gonna sound really harsh :o( so cause you weren't happy at home you thought the sensible way to fix things between you and your g/f is to cheat yeah? Relationships aren't just based on sex and physical pleasure... (read in full...)
I want to know if my boyfriend loves me
Q. hi i am 15 and i have this really nice boy friend and i love him very much but i dont know if he loves me so how would i know if he loves me? we get on really well but i just dont know if he loves me ? so if any one can help me i would be happy ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Sweetie 15 is such a tender age and its hard to discover love and all its meanings let alone whether he loves you or not... how do you feel about him? and how does he make you feel inside? does he sweep you off your feet make you laugh, smile... (read in full...)
I am trying to end my affair with a married man
Q. Eventually i thought of ending my affair with this married man. I did not reply his sms and answering his call n did not want to see him as well for three weeks already but the true is i still miss him deeply. Pls advice, i am already suffer ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Sweetie It has to be said again honey, you should really get your own man, why lower yourself to be the other women... why continue to be 2nd best your worth so much more than this, think of it this way sweetie if he can cheat on his wife, he ... (read in full...)
My wife changed when she was away and I am worried
Q. My wife of three years just returned from a month long trip overseas. She went overseas with a University group and had a wonderful time. While there, she discovered that she likes to go to clubs as well as drink. Prior to going, she never wanted ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey babe
I think your problem lies at her door really, she has tasted a new life and is enjoying it far to much, your trust is already shattered by the sound of your post, you need to tell her how its affecting both you and your marriage, you coul... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a bludger, or am I too focussed on money?
Q. Hello, my boyfriend and have been dating since November of last year. We go out at least once a week. The problem I have is that every time we go out, I am always the one who pays. To be quite honest, he has never bought me one thing. I know t...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Sweetie Yes honey, he's taking advantage.... 7 months of you footing all the bills will your out with him, i think deep down you alreadyknow the answer to this question but are just seeking someone to tell you your right... well in short i ... (read in full...)
Secretly in love with my wife's sister!
Q. I am madly in love with my sister in law. I have been madly in love with her for fourteen years. I have held it in all this time. She is now all I think about. We recently spent quite a good deal of time together because she was living with us a...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey there Firstly i'm sorry your so sad :o( you should never consider ending your life over anything... there is no good reason for that sweetie, now i'm going to give you my honest advice here ok it may come across harsh in some parts please don... (read in full...)
We waiting too long to break up, and ended hating each other. Can we ever be friends again?
Q. Nasty break up involving threats! I'm just looking for a yes or no. Me and my ex broke up about 3 days ago. We were together for over 10 months and I never could have fathomed that things would have ended the way that they did. My question is: Wi...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Sweetie Well babe question for you... Why would you want to be friends with this guy anyhow you two had a nasty split from what you have said he hurt your feelings and all the rest he must of done to you so i honestly can't understand why y... (read in full...)
Never been kissed, and I'm 19. I want to learn to be more confident with guys!
Q. hi, I'm 19 years old, and have never had a boyfriend or even been kissed. I would say I'm quite attractive but extremely shy when it comes to guys I fancy, except in a social setting though. How can I become more confident? I really do want to ...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Hey there, so you have never been kissed honey there is absolutely nothing wrong with a little innocense.. seriously its not the end of the world, your just lacking a little confidence here that is all, i agree completely with pheobe h... (read in full...)
Should I try to move on from the breakup, even if she wants me back...again?
Q. My girlfriend and I split up about a week ago. We have been together about two years, except we kinda split up a year ago too, for a very similar reason. This time she says it's different, but I'm still getting the same signs that she wants me...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Babe Well babe she is an ex for a good reason like you say you have tried to rekindle this once before and ended up getting hurt, if you try to rekindle this yet again babe i fear you will get rejected again all those old problems are sti... (read in full...)
Too many girls... How do I know which one to try for?
Q. I really like these 3 girls but I can't make up my mind of who to try and have a relationship with. I don't know if two of them even like me, but I like the two who don't like me more then I like the one who actually likes me. I'm confused...
A. 18 June 2006: Hey Babe Well you must actually like one of these girls more than the other 2, only you can know which of the 3 you would truely prefer to be with.. thats only a decision that you can make, you do sound very confused about this though sweetie. ... (read in full...)
Could there be an innocent explanation for his "love-bite" and excessive internet usage? He says it's just porno and soccer!
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend Ryan for 4 years now. Last month I found a love-bite on his back and it started to give me doubts to whether he has been faithful or not. I confronted him about it and he said he didn't know how it got there and ...
A. 16 June 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well honestly i think your quite right to be suspect him that whole love bite thing for a start! marks don't just randomly appear from nowhere let alone a bite mark and on his back... quite rightly you had doubts me i would gone up ... (read in full...)
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