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WELL I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT QUALIFYS ME TO HELP OTHER PEOPLE REALLY OTHER THAN PEOPLE I KNOW SAY I GIVE GOOD, FRIENDLY ADVISE ALTHOUGH SOMETHINGS SPEAK FROM THE HEART, AND AM VERY PASSIONATE ABOUT CERTAIN SUBJECTS THAT CAN SOMETIMES MAKE ME COME ACROSS AS HARSH OR BROAD SPOKEN BUT I NEVER USUALLY NIT PICK OR CRITISISE A PERSON, I LIVE IN THE UK AND I AM IN A HAPPY LOVING RELATIONSHIP ALTHOUGH EVEN MY RELATIONSHIP HAS HAD ITS FAIR SHARES OF UPS AND DOWNS BUT THIS ONLY ADDS TO THIS EXPERIENCE THAT WE ALL CALL LIFE! LOL I AM BUBBLY AND HAVING A CARING PERSONALITY... SOME PEOPLE SAY I'M A PEOPLE PERSON BUT THAT DEPENDS ON THE MOOD YOU CATCH ME IN.... LOL JUST KIDDING I ALSO HAVE A TWO YEAR OLD LITTLE GIRL WHO IS 2 GOING ON 22 AND SHE BRINGS JOY AND EVERYTHING THAT COMES WITH PARENTHOOD. |
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Am I an alien or is it the alcohol?
Q. I keep having a recurring dream. I'm an alien, I recently landed in this country and have found everything to be so different from home. There is something called grass in places thats green (weird or what) and there's all this crazy stuff ever...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey sweetie
THIS IS PLANET EARTH... HELLO I HOPE YOU COME IN PEACE.... DON'T MAKE ME SET WILL SMITH ON YOU AND CREATE INDEPENDANCE DAY ALL OVER AGAIN...
YOU TAKE CARE X... (read in full...)
How can I show my feelings to her?
Q. i am in love with this girl but do not know how i can show her my feelings. help?...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie you really need to just bite the bullet and ask this girl out, have some fun.... what you waiting for seriously you sound like an amazing guy all very sweet for worrying how she will react and that but personally i would sa... (read in full...)
I like one guy mate, and jealous that my girl mate likes another
Q. hi i am 18. i am undergoing a very miserable state nowadays because i just discovered that i like my very good guy mate,and i am not aware of his feelings. another thing bothering me is that one of my girl mates is tryin to hit on my guy mate who...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie if you are in fact keen on this guy what you waiting for... like martini says all fair in the game if you don't make your move you girl friend may just get in there before you, thats not what you want trust me cause you will... (read in full...)
I like one guy mate, and jealous that my girl mate likes another
Q. hi i am 18. i am undergoing a very miserable state nowadays because i just discovered that i like my very good guy mate,and i am not aware of his feelings. another thing bothering me is that one of my girl mates is tryin to hit on my guy mate who...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie if you are in fact keen on this guy what you waiting for... like martini says all fair in the game if you don't make your move you girl friend may just get in there before you, thats not what you want trust me cause you will... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, but I've never had one before!
Q. Hiya I am 19 years old and never had a boyfriend. I didn't mind before but since I have come to uni it's really started to get me down, as I feel there must be something wrong with me. Whenever I go out, despite trying to look my best, guys barely g...
A. 3 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie firstly there is completely nothing wrong with you at all that a confidense boost can fix... we have all been in your situation in life where you feel like your odd strange whatever but its not that hard to over come rea... (read in full...)
I got frisky with my friend, how do I get him to talk about it?
Q. I've been friends with a guy for about a year and 8 months now. We don't get to see each other too often anymore, what with university and everything. But 10 months ago, we were at picnic/party thing with some other friends we don't really see that...
A. 1 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie this is a toug one getting a man to talk about emotions and feelings at times can be like pulling teeth...lol but honey as my good friend yos has already said i would also tell him that you actually wanna talk about this an ... (read in full...)
My fella is always hanging round his ex still...
Q. EX ISSUES!! OK me and my man been talkin for 2yrs 1/2 and before he went with me he went out with this gurl name Ashley* and Ashley is his sister best friend. They went out for about a 1yr 1/2 and he said he thought he loved her but found out he ...
A. 1 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie we have all been there where you are right now the jealous of the ex thing, its a hard thing to deal with but i'll try and help you out as much as i can ok... fistly you have no need to be paranoid sweetie don't doubt yo... (read in full...)
Who should I choose?
Q. well.. I am sort of in a relationship with a guy, however it's not an actuel relationship, we just have deap feeling for each other and act as if we are in this relationship. (i know, kind of confusing huh!) anyway.. i met this other guy at a ...
A. 1 June 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie you certainly do sound very confused, my honest advise to you is just be good friends with the concert guy and concentrate your full attenetions to the 1st guy cause to be honest sweet that sounds to me that this is actually... (read in full...)
I cannot get over my ex
Q. I know this is a pretty standard scenario but I am struggling very hard to come to terms with the break up of my relationship. My b/f moved to the other side of the world 2 months ago after we had been together a year. He went while we were still on ...
A. 1 June 2006: Hey there sweetie
firstly i'm sorry to hear your so sad :-(, well let me say u are not obsessing at all, its a painful place your at right now; eveyone at one time in there life has been there where your at its not nice.... but i will try my best ... (read in full...)
My married friend has been kissing other men
Q. My friend and i have started going out to clubs more often. I have a boyfriend of 6 years and she has been married to her husband for 2 years. The problem is i am totally devoted to my boyfriend, however my friend has already admitted that she has ...
A. 31 May 2006: Hey there
I can completely understand where your coming from here... if your friend is found out you will be tarred with the same brush as she is particularly with your guy and her guy being close friends. i would advise you to do one or both of ... (read in full...)
I am in an abusive relationship and he makes me do things I don't like
Q. i am humiliated i am back again with the same old problem.the situation is unbearable my relationship is seriously faulty.everytime he looks at me or speaks to me he either shouts critisizes and has an obsession with my bum.he is continuously ...
A. 31 May 2006: Hey there
Hi sweetie, well firstly your completely not to blame in any shape or form here ok.... you are being physically abused by this guy i'm only amazed that you have stood it for so long, i was in an abusive relationship for 7 months and that... (read in full...)
What does beauty is in the eye of the beholder mean?
Q. what does 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' mean?...
A. 31 May 2006: Hey sweetie
my take on the saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder is that true beauty comes from inside, and that if you yourself portait a beautiful personailty and believe in yourself then other people will also be able to pick up on your ... (read in full...)
There's more than meets the eye with my guy's female friend!
Q. I wrote before about this girl moving next door that works w/my guy. Well, I did what he asked and tried to talk to her to get to know her but she was very short: yes or no! She answered my questions with no responding question. It was a one side...
A. 31 May 2006: Hey there
well sweetie i have to agree with wendy on this one it sounds like your reading more into this friendship than it is? you sound very paranoid sweet? have you been cheated on in the past at all? because that is understandable but even the... (read in full...)
Trousers: better tight or loose?
Q. Do teenage boys prefer girls in tight trousers or not tight trousers? I don't wear tight trousers. Will boys still think I am 'fit' even if I don't wear tight trousers?...
A. 31 May 2006: Hey Sweetie
Well to be completely honest with you here teenage boys will like whatever is in fron of them at that moment, what with times and fashion trends changing so quickly these days this is a tricky one to answer but my honest opinion ... (read in full...)
Meeting my guy in Spain soon, but is he brushing me off?
Q. I wrote in last week about a Spanish guy I met on holiday 2 weeks ago. He gave me his number and was deciding to ring him or not as he doesn't talk much English, so I plucked up courage and rang him. I spoke to his friend as he could talk more Eng...
A. 31 May 2006: Hey sweetie
well i didn't see your first question but as for this one well, the situation does seem a little suspect in my opinion the fact that he knows your coming but wasn't available to talk on the telephone to confirm details etc, my advic... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone says listen to your heart ?
Q. when people say 'listen to your heart' what does that mean? how do you listen to your heart?...
A. 30 May 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie my understanding of it is like this when someone says listen to your heart or follow your heart it means if something means alot to you deep inside you will feel it inside and this is whats meant by the sayings listen t... (read in full...)
Why do I think non stop about anyone that shows an interest in me, im confused!
Q. hi i ave a problem and its so annoying. basically if i meet a boy and i here he fancies me i start to really like him too. whatever boy shows any interest in me what so ever i start to always think about them non stop and i dont even fancy them!...
A. 30 May 2006: Hey sweetie
Sweetie my advise to you is that its completely normal to have these feelings it don't change at all as you get older trust me, but as martini quite rightly says its nice to have all this male attention for you to think about even if ... (read in full...)
How do I hide my sexaulity, without avoiding people I care about and becoming lonely and depressed ?
Q. When I was little I was always a tom boy. I'm 18 now, and I'm not TOTALLY like that anymore, but I have been hiding the fact that I'm homosexual for as long as I can remember. When I look back it's obvious that I've liked girls since I was in 1st ...
A. 30 May 2006: Hey there
hey sweetie don't be so sad :-(, come on smile just for me? i'll try and help you if i can ok, firstly my mom used to tell me something when i was younger and i feel the phrase fits you like a glove... don't hide your light under a ... (read in full...)
I really like him, scared to make a move as he works at my school, would it be wrong ?
Q. For the past few months, I have been growing increasingly close to a guy. From nothing I would now say I can consider him a friend, and I know that I have supressed feelings for him. The thing is, that he works..at my sixth form. I'm not yet 18, but ...
A. 30 May 2006: Hey there
Well sweetie you want my honest opinion? you go for it sweetie, if you like this guy as much as you say and you both get on very well by the sounds of it so why not? have some fun life sweetie as you'll soon find out is just to short no... (read in full...)
My BF says he's "busy" all the time. Does he mean we're over?
Q. I am confused... Me and this boy are meant to be going out and have been for a few months but haven't seen each other much. Recently I phoned him up to ask if he wanted to meet up but he said he was busy. Then a week later, I phoned him up ag...
A. 30 May 2006: Hey there
well hi there sweetie yes i'm sorry to say i think this guy is stringing you along without a doubt with all this i'm busy rubbish... if he really wanted to be with you sweetie he would simply make the time.... kick him to the kerb swe... (read in full...)
His ex's bits and pieces are still round his flat!
Q. Dear cupid I have started seeing a new man. He seems really nice but there is one problem. I went round his flat and he still has her shampoo and other bits in his bathroom and Her exercise and weight chart on the fridge. Is it something to wor...
A. 30 May 2006: Hey there
well speaking here from my point of veiw for a second well i can see where your coming from cause usually when a females relationship has just ended usually if any of her ex's stuff is lying around we get rid straight away don't to get c... (read in full...)
Should I call first or should I wait for him?
Q. There is this guy and we have only just met but i like him but i don't know if he feels the same or what he wants. We have hung out a bit and i don't know if i should be waiting for him to call or message me? I want to message him, but i feel as ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey there
Honestly if i were you and i wanted to test the water before jumping in i would just send him a general text asking how he's doin and if he wanted to meet up for coffee or something a general chat... if he reponds straight away you will... (read in full...)
Should I call first or should I wait for him?
Q. There is this guy and we have only just met but i like him but i don't know if he feels the same or what he wants. We have hung out a bit and i don't know if i should be waiting for him to call or message me? I want to message him, but i feel as ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey there
Honestly if i were you and i wanted to test the water before jumping in i would just send him a general text asking how he's doin and if he wanted to meet up for coffee or something a general chat... if he reponds straight away you will... (read in full...)
I fantasize about my girlfriend having sex with other men!
Q. Please help! I dont know whats wrong with me and Im really considering professional help for the sake of my relationship. I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year now and we both love each other INSANLY. I have had loads of girlfriends ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey there
Sweetie please stop worrying about this... the more you worry the more stressed out your gonna get ok.. calm down. You are completely normal most men fantasize about the g/f getting of with someone else and them watching from the side... (read in full...)
She thinks I have problems with commitment so she broke it off, but I want to be with her!
Q. I've been dating a woman 15 years older than me. I'M 20 AND SHE IS 35. we've been seeing each other for bout 8 months. She has told me that im young and am still unsure of what i want, but i know exactly what i want. i might only be 20 but ive done ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey there
well sweetie if she has broken things of with you because she has issues about things then there is not alot more you can do that you have not already done? there is a true saying out there if you love something, let it free and if its m... (read in full...)
I want her back, how do i make her realize what we had was great?
Q. me and my Lady just recntly broke up... I WANT HER BACK SO BAD! She says we can be just friends and if anything happens in the future it happens. but i dont know if i should give her space to possibly make her realize how great we were together(do ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey sweetie
I really feel for you here, cause i think we have all felt how your feeling at the moment its hard... but sweetie you have to be strong here.. there is a saying if you love something, set it free... basically i know its hard but you ... (read in full...)
We want to move in together but his mother just won't let go!
Q. I have been with my partner for the past twelve months and I feel it is time that we move in together. He is 15 years older than I am and is still living at home with his parents where his mum is having a hard time letting go of her son and also ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey there
I completely agree with my collegue above you have to offer you man an ultimatum here tell him its life as a momas boy or life with you its that simple... you could always reassure his mother by getting added security at her home ie ... (read in full...)
Internet guy Im dating is in a relationship with someone else with a daughter, any advice please!
Q. i need some advice.i am in a long distance relationship with this guy who i met over the internet.we have been together for six months now and have known each other as friends for a year all together.but just a few days ago he tells me that he has ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey there
well firstly sweetie i understand that you trust this guy and you have known him overall for about a year, but ask yourself here sweetie, if you have been having a exclusive (agreeing to see only each other and no one else) relation... (read in full...)
He has herpes and I dont want to get infected, do we have a future?
Q. Hi---I really need help...my bf recently had a physical examination and the doctor told him that it looked like he had genital herpes, but he also had a blood test to confirm whether or not he actually has it but results haven't come in yet until ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey there
well sweetie i think your are completely correct to react the way you have writing the letter detailing your opinionms and the options you gave him were spot on.... Where did he catch herpes if its confimed thats what he has? has he b... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship, but my ex wants me back, too!
Q. Please help me. I'm in a present relationship now at almost about 4 years. My ex-bf wants to win me back and I love him too. What shall I do? I love them both......
A. 29 May 2006: Hey there
hi sweetie just how confused are you.... lol well my only advice to you sweetie is that your ex is obviously your ex for a very good reason its best you keep the past in the past, i think if you do really love the guy your with as you s... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant even if the tests show a negative?
Q. Me and my partner have been trying for a baby for over 12 months. July last year I had a miscarriage, but since then I haven't managed to get caught pregnant. My period is now over 1 week late. I have done 3 pregnancy tests where they're all ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hey There
Firstly sorry to hear about your loss babe thats a hard thing to deal with and get over... you have my sympathy there honey. but as for the pregnancy thing well the home tests that are actually on the market now are usually quite sp... (read in full...)
Mixed race relationships.... What do you think???
Q. Hi, what does everybody think of mixed relationships, i.e mixed race relationships? Do you think that even in today's society, it is ok for lets say an Asian woman to date a white man, or a black girl to date an Italian etc etc. I ask because I find ...
A. 28 May 2006: Hey there
there is absolutely nothing wrong with mixed race relationships people all over the world are in mixed raced relationships and are very happy one famous example is dawn french and lenny henry happily married for 10 or more years now have... (read in full...)
Am i going too far for a 13yr old?
Q. im really frustrated.....some ppl think that 13 is too young to have there bf go yup your shirt.......i dont think so!! i need some opinions!!! i dont feel like im 2 young!! i wouldent let some random dude do that!! me and my bf have been going ...
A. 28 May 2006: Hey There
so your 13 and ready to take on the world huh? yeah i remember that age.... lol, but as my friends above have written yeah your a little young to be fumbling and fumbles lead else where even if you think they won't at the moment they wil... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I might cheat on him this summer...while we are apart. Any advice?
Q. me and my bf have been going out for a few months! weve known each other for years! and weve been best friends for about a year........we broke up once because he wasn't being a good bf......but 3 weeks later we got back together.....and things are ...
A. 28 May 2006: Hey there,
well firstly without sounding to old here? old old are you sweetie you sound young to me in your letter... and i feel that maybe what you and your b/f are experiencing is very special to you if you love each other as much as you say ... (read in full...)
We were going to get back together, but I am worried, I think he found someone else!
Q. My ex said he wanted to get back together with me but not until he's sorted his life out. He said to leave it about a month and then see how things are then. Thing is, we're losing contact with each other. We haven't spoken for about a week, which ...
A. 28 May 2006: Hey there
well i can understand that your a little anxious about this situation especially if you and this guy usually talk twice a week or more... if i were you i would sit down a do some soul searching sweetie do you really truely wanna ne with ... (read in full...)
Ladies... Briefs or boxers?
Q. DO girls prefer briefs of boxers???...
A. 28 May 2006: hi there boxers definately boxers ... (read in full...)
Not worried she'll cheat, but I'm concerned about all the male attention my girlfriend gets!
Q. I've been going out with a really great girl for almost a year. Everything's going really well and we love each other very much. But, I just have a couple of niggling doubts... The first thing was that she started to act a little weird around me ...
A. 28 May 2006: Well Hi There Firstly I don't think your in the wrong here at all..... its the whole " kind of liked someone else " thing, if she is comitted to being with you she should only have eyes for you not other people... then this whole "texting" thing ... (read in full...)
I'm contemplating divorce... here is my dilema...
Q. Should I finally get divorced to my wife? My wife and I have been married now for 17 years, I am 38 yrs old, she is 35 and we have one kid 16 yrs old. We got married early as you can tell if you do the math. The reasons I have thought about ge...
A. 28 May 2006: Hey Sweetie don't be sad :-( come on honey it takes two to make a relationship work well and you are doing all the work by yourself... thats not on! your wife needs to realise how close she is to loosing such a good man, i can't understand why s... (read in full...)
Does she want me to keep giving her space, try to restart our relationship... or what?
Q. I was seeing an older woman. The age thing never bothered me, and at first it bothered her but she soon got over it. Everything was going great with our relationship. Then about 6 months into the relationshipIi was a couple hours late getting ...
A. 28 May 2006: Hey There well babe where to start like you suspected this lady certainly has a problem with intimacy, but she is also comparing you to her ex and thats not a good thing either she can't seem to make her mind up how she wants you to act around he... (read in full...)
Feel like I might be the only virgin in my crowd!
Q. Help! I'm 18 and I think I'm the only virgin out of all my friends. They all have girlfriends and I've tried and failed to find someone. Even when I did it only lasted a month. The rest of my friends have been in relationships for 4 months at least ...
A. 28 May 2006: Hey There well firstly sweetie don't rush into sex for the sake of peer pressure, thats possibly the worse thing you could do....so you have not had sex so you are single, enjoy the feeling. don't be so hard on yourself here you don't have to do... (read in full...)
He yelled at me over his driving embarrassment, and now I just want thinks to be OK again!
Q. CUPID please help me! The new guy I went to prom with and now dating for 3 weeks, we were pulling out of school on our way in town and he turned soooo fast I flew across the passenger seat into him! I hit the steering wheel and we just bumped in to ...
A. 28 May 2006: Hey there Well firstly i kinda agree with irish, he shopuldn't be shouting at you for his mistakes i have been on the end of mens temper and its not pretty they are always sorry it will never happen again, etc...etc... and then for him to call ... (read in full...)
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