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writes: Is this the month for being DUMPED, well at least I dont feel alone- lolMy ex dumped me a few weeks ago, over email, and I dont have the courage to chat to him, Im afraid of what I'll say. and I dont wanna hear his voice ever, ever again, I'm pretty intouch with my feelings and our split made me devastated, and I'm very sensitive now, and bitter and be4 i used to be a happy go lucky kinda guy. now im miserable.I've been texting him to let him know how much hurt Im in, and letting him now just how heart broken I am, and that I feel betrayed and lied to. In short I want him to feel every pain that I feel coz i wasn't xpecting this split. I hate him so much, cant bare to even hear his name and voice.Ive send emails expressing how horrible I feel with the intention of making him feel bad for what he did, and for all the lies, I cant stop, i feel that doing this makes me kinda cope with my pain, what else can i do?
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reader, Smiler +, writes (7 June 2006):
 I'd say don't bother with all that. It doesn't show you're over him and that he's lost out, quite the opposite in fact. It shows him you're immature and definitely not over him . . . so in effect, you're feeding his ego still!!!
hi babe
The best thing to do is just forget about this and ignore him. One day, you will bump into each other, a pure coincidence, and then he'll see what he's lost out on. Doing things to get revenge only shows him he made the right decision in dumping you in the first place, he's hardly going to think "well there's a great guy, I wish I'd kept hold of him. so my advice to you babe is just move on and for get him.... its his loss cause i think you sound just great!
If you ever need a friend or just a chat or more advise don't hesitate to email me ok i'd love to hear from you again, Good luck babe
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (7 June 2006):
 first off sending emails to him will make him think you still care and cant let go. Go out with your friends and enjoy your self do simple things that will take your mind off the pain e.g go on the chat up lines on internet like ilove.co.uk its free to join and its a laugh on there or justchat.co.uk thats free as well. I find keeping your self busy erases ex boyfriends from your mind. Just think to your selfits his lost not mine. Soon as he knows your enjoying your self and ignoreing him i have a feeling he'll start getting worried then. And it will take time but your be happy go lucky again my fiancee's ex g,friend chucked him out on christmas day and it messed him up but when he found me he was even happier than b4.
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