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I keep sending him emails and texts after our break up, I want him to feel the pain I do, how else can I deal with the pain ?

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Question - (7 June 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Is this the month for being DUMPED, well at least I dont feel alone- lol

My ex dumped me a few weeks ago, over email, and I dont have the courage to chat to him, Im afraid of what I'll say. and I dont wanna hear his voice ever, ever again, I'm pretty intouch with my feelings and our split made me devastated, and I'm very sensitive now, and bitter and be4 i used to be a happy go lucky kinda guy. now im miserable.

I've been texting him to let him know how much hurt Im in, and letting him now just how heart broken I am, and that I feel betrayed and lied to. In short I want him to feel every pain that I feel coz i wasn't xpecting this split. I hate him so much, cant bare to even hear his name and voice.

Ive send emails expressing how horrible I feel with the intention of making him feel bad for what he did, and for all the lies, I cant stop, i feel that doing this makes me kinda cope with my pain, what else can i do?

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A female reader, Smiler +, writes (7 June 2006):

Smiler agony auntI'd say don't bother with all that. It doesn't show you're over him and that he's lost out, quite the opposite in fact. It shows him you're immature and definitely not over him . . . so in effect, you're feeding his ego still!!!

hi babe

The best thing to do is just forget about this and ignore him. One day, you will bump into each other, a pure coincidence, and then he'll see what he's lost out on. Doing things to get revenge only shows him he made the right decision in dumping you in the first place, he's hardly going to think "well there's a great guy, I wish I'd kept hold of him. so my advice to you babe is just move on and for get him.... its his loss cause i think you sound just great!

If you ever need a friend or just a chat or more advise don't hesitate to email me ok i'd love to hear from you again, Good luck babe

You Take Care Babe X

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