Should I give this a shot and how should I go about doing this if my only chance to see her is at work?
Q. I have a crush on my dentist and want to ask her out, just for lunch for starters. I'm a 55yr. old male and she looks to be early 40s'. I'm not married and am financially ok so it's not about going after her money I'm doing alright on my own. My pr...
A. 8 August 2010: So you lost nothing by asking - and if you hadn't dared you would have wondered forever whether...... etc etc..... Congratulations on getting up the courage to risk rejection. ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him want me and find me sexier?
Q. been with my boyfriend for a year, we love eachother very much, always cuddling. our sex life use to me so good, we had sex up to 4-5 times a week, sometimes 7 days a week (everyday) i know that in relationships sex will become less, but these past ...
A. 1 August 2010: Not enough sex sucks. Interesting it's you the woman complaining - most such complaints come from the men.
Couldn't you try organizing one day off a week completely without any work in the apartment - total relaxation for a whole day ?
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I no longer get any sex because she wants us to work on our spiritual bond! Help.
Q. I am engaged and me and my fiance have had sex many times before but she doesnt want to anymore because she wants to try and get back on the right spiritual path. I know that i should respect that and i do but i just hate it. i mean im sorry but i ...
A. 1 August 2010: She's talking nonsense and you have to have it out with her.
If she doesn't want to continue having the sexual side of the relationship she has to come up with a better excuse than this nonsense.
If she can't discuss what's gone wrong ratio... (read in full...)
How can I unleash her libido?
Q. Hi,i m sad and need your help.I just found a new girl friend who turns out to be a sex guru..She does lots of sexy things to me during a blow job wish gives me satisfaction.She hates using protections and i love her for that,i intend f****** the ...
A. 1 August 2010: I would be VERY worried about a woman who objects to condoms.
Effectively you are risking disease from every man she has ever been with - that could be a lot of men. ... (read in full...)
Internship people are asking me quit my job! I need advice fast! Please help.
Q. Hi there, I have a bit of a big dilemma. This is more about a career thing, but i've came here for a lot of problems before and have received so much help. I'm not sure where else to go in such short notice. I hope you can help me! I am currently ...
A. 1 August 2010: You are already doing 4 days a week at the Internship - that is almost full time.
Why does it matter to them SO much for you to work the extra day for the next 7 weeks? I feel they are being unfair to put so much pressure on you to quit your lon... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I tell my mom I'm gay???
Q. Hey, I really want to tell my mom about what I'm going through with my sexuality (I think I'm gay) but I need some advice on how to go about doing that. So any help would help a lot. Are there any teens out there who feel the same way? I'd love to ...
A. 1 August 2010: Well you don't say what you think her attitude would be to it . You might have some idea from things she has said.
Eg have you watched GLEE together and does she like the Kurt character ?
Also - you don't mention your Dad - is he livi... (read in full...)
Do you think once he sees my bump he might change his mind and stay with me?
Q. Hi I am 35 and my bf is 46. I was married before but not children. He does not have either but said that want a family and kids. We have been dating for 7 months and by accident I got pregnant. He was furious and wants me to terminate it. I ...
A. 1 August 2010: I agree with Cheeks.
As a male myself he comes across to me as unreasonable - but that is how he is and he is not going to change because you defy him and have the baby.
You say you don't think you can bring up a baby alone : but your atti... (read in full...)
Why won't my girlfriend touch me?
Q. My girlfriend will not touch me. We've been together almost seven months and I'm depressed every day. We recently started being more sexual, and I touch/please her, but all I get in return is making out. I don't think this is fair, but I don't want ...
A. 1 August 2010: If you're not prepared to threaten leaving her over this then you need some urgent couples counselling.
Or a total heart to heart talk . If you can't have full on sex with her then in what sense is she your gf ?
And what are you getting ... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy's respect after sleeping with him straight away?
Q. Hey guys! Right, well i slept with this guy that i like, and have done for a while, were not in any sort of relationship though, me sleeping with him probably wasn't the best thing to do. How do i get this guy's respect after this? I'm hoping to b...
A. 1 August 2010: Are you sure he does disrespect you for having agreed to sex straight off ?
Personally I much prefer that in a girl to all the playing around, making you wait X dates approach loads of girls have - being made to wait doesn't increase my respe... (read in full...)
Have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not in your league?
Q. This is kind of a poll. Guys please be honest here. Have you ever dumped a girl for another girl who was better looking than your ex but not as interesting. To be more blunt have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not ...
A. 1 August 2010: Sex isn't JUST between the legs...... it's partly in the head also.
Ie personality counts for a lot and if you are attracted enough to be able to get a hard on and make it last with this woman I would hesitate before trading her in for some... (read in full...)
No matter what we try, I just can't have an orgasm
Q. my boyfriend and i who have been together for over a year and regularly have protected sex. but ever since we have been together, he has never given me an orgasm! i usually have to fake it because it makes him feel bad when he asks and i tell him, ...
A. 1 August 2010: Well first don't fake it or how will he ever know how to bring you to climax ?
2nd - you say you can finger yourself to climax well how exactly ? Whatever you do to yourself surely you could teach him to do with his fingers / lips after he... (read in full...)
Why oh why did this happen to me?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years, we've had sex a couple of times, not regularly though. Yesteday we were fooling around and things got heated up, i was hard, and we were about to have sex. But when we were about to, i lost my ...
A. 1 August 2010: Well if you've done it before (have sex with the gf ) you can do it again.
Tho as your confidence has taken a knock you maybe need to organize the next occasion in advance : ie somewhere where you're sure you won't be walked in on or have the... (read in full...)
Where are the best places to go to find a girlfriend?
Q. After a few bad relationships, I've decided to start going out again. I'm a single dude, age 24. I'm going out to clubs and bars to get myself out there. I see a few single girls there, but people advised me to stay away from those girls (STDS). ...
A. 1 August 2010: Have you tried organized singles holidays ?
Do you like youth hostelling ? In US or abroad they are good places to meet the opposite sex. And the same sex for that matter. Atmosphere is much more conducive to introducing yourself to ... (read in full...)
I don't desire daily sex, is there something wrong with me??
Q. Hey everyone:) I need some help; i love my hunny and everything and want to be with him, but i find myself not wanting to have sex everyday or everyother day for that matter. I enjoy like the quality time we spend together doing silly stuff but as f...
A. 1 August 2010: Well you could ask him what is the ideal frequency for him. I'm guessing he'll say at least once a day.
So would once every 2 days be a reasonable compromise ? Esp as you seem to like it once you get going ?
Is there anything specific you don... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 1 August 2010: Well if it's just fear of pregnancy take a tip from the Catholic Church's approved method of contraception : doing it during your infertile period of the month.
If your periods are regular you would normally be unable to conceive a few days eit... (read in full...)
I secretly masturbate but don't like doing this ...any advice?
Q. Hello, I have been living with My Girlfriend a while now but I secretly masturbate a lot. No one knows about this, I have porn magazines hidden behind the panelling on the bath in the bathroom and I masturbate to them sometimes. I also masturba...
A. 31 July 2010: Well surely a lot depends on how much actual sex you are getting.
If you are doing it every day or even every other day I would think you shouldn't need to masturbate as well ( isn't it usually second best to sliding up and down inside a gf's v... (read in full...)
Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?
Q. hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on h...
A. 31 July 2010: The point is : she is entitled to refuse to carry on with a sexual practice she in truth does not enjoy; but on the other hand if the sexual practices she does enjoy are not sufficient to fulfil your sexual needs then you are entitled to amicably ... (read in full...)
does sex hurt the uncircumsized male?
Q. does sex hurt when you are not circumcised?...
A. 31 July 2010: If it hurts there's something wrong and you should see a doctor.
Uncircumsized is the natural state and means the man's most sensitive part is protected from chafing in pants and so on - so gives the best sensations to the guy when the foreskin... (read in full...)
Why is he being so selfish wanting me to have an abortion???
Q. Hi, last week i found out that i am pregnant im 17 and my boyfriend of 16 months is 18. I told him that i didnt want to get an abortion, and at first he said he would be there for me no matter what and said he would move in with me and my parents, a ...
A. 31 July 2010: A lot depends on how far gone you are I would say - if it's too late for a pill abortion then it does become more difficult morally. So how far down the line are you ?
But without a dad the child if you have it would probably be better off b... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend's feelings towards me change if he knew I liked lesbian porn?
Q. I am a female in my early twenties and I like to watch lesbian porn sometimes. I'd say I watch it about 50/50 compared to hetero porn. I'm worried that my (serious)boyfriend will think of me differently if I tell him I do. He likes girl on gi...
A. 31 July 2010: If you do like lesbian porn I would come clean ( as it were ) about it to him.
After all it's the truth and it's hardly an offence these days for people to be turned on by same-sex sex. Plus he's into it from what you say.
If I were in... (read in full...)
What dirty talk do girls like?
Q. What r some dirty things I can whisper to my wife during sex to get her off? She's real good at the Nastybtalk during sex, and I really like it. Problem is, I am not sure what to say to her. What do girls like to hear. It's easy for girls, "fuck ...
A. 31 July 2010: Well if you both like the scenario where you fuck one of her friends that could be a good place to start.
And maybe you could work out how to transfer that from fantasy to reality ? That would be a pretty big turn on....
What about anal ? Have... (read in full...)
How long should a guy last in bed?
Q. To the ladies what's the least a guy should last in bed?...
A. 31 July 2010: Even if you don't last very long before your orgasm you can still give her one finishing off with your fingers... ( or getting hard again after a while and going back for seconds ).
... (read in full...)
Guilt about cheating...
Q. Can a relationship survive one partner's guilt over being unfaithful, and keeping it a secret? Will our relationship be able to grow and survive if I don't tell my partner that I cheated on her and vow to myself to keep it a secret forever and never ...
A. 31 July 2010: No don't tell her. Zero good will come of it.
If you feel guilty then that's your punishment.
But do check up whether you contracted any STDs - then you would of course have to tell her.
If you feel the need to confess go to any catholi... (read in full...)
Do you women think this could have happened?
Q. Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...
A. 31 July 2010: You must be mad to be giving yourself - and her - grief over something that happened BEFORE YOU WERE MARRIED.
Even if he managed to penetrate her and have full sexual intercourse with her IT WAS BEFORE YOU WERE MARRIED.
The only thing you w... (read in full...)
He says he can't love before sex!
Q. My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...
A. 31 July 2010: Of course he wants to 'get into your pants' . Isn't that what all normal teenage boys want to do with their gfs? I bet you wouldn't like it if he told you ( or if someone else told you ) that he didn't find you sexually attractive !
I think th... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 30 July 2010: What is supposed to really drive you wild is his penis in your vagina so if you are still postponing that for some reason I would give it a try. Meanwhile, as to the oral techniques / swallowing : you ( both) might like to try mutual oral - ie... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend going into the military?
Q. I'm currently in a relationship with my 23year old 2nd cousin and he is going into the military and I don't know how to react to that. we have had sex many times and that makes it even worse because I won't get to see him yet I want him more and ...
A. 30 July 2010: Erm..... are you planning to marry him ?
Aren't there lots of genetic illnesses which arise in the case of children of cousins ?
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend heading off to college, how do I keep up a long distance relationship without being paranoid?
Q. Alright so my boyfriend is a year older and heading off to college in a 2 weeks. While he's not a hardcore party junky, I'm sure he'll attend a few over the next year, and make new friends, some of which will inevitably be girls. My question is...
A. 30 July 2010: Sorry not to be encouraging but I think the great likelihood is that this will not survive the distance and him being around a load of other girls.
It's v unlikely ( if he has normal male desires ) that he will be able to resist the temptati... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gags when she tries to give me head! Is there anything I can do to help her?
Q. Hello all I need your advise my girlfriend says she can't give blowjobs as she gags on my penis his 6 and a half inches and was wondering if there's owt could do to stop her gagging on him as she won't do them know more because of it Is it me am I ...
A. 30 July 2010: There's no need for the whole 6 inches to go inside her mouth - just the glans penis - the purple 'helmet' is all she needs to suck on ( while gripping the shaft as tight as she can ) for you to get as much excitement and pleasure as possible.
... (read in full...)
I cant wait until I am 25 to have sex! So how do I convince my girlfriend we will be together forever so having sex now is ok?
Q. My name is Alex. I'm in this situation Where I want sex and she wants to wait until Marriage. It's hard for me to wait. I'm thinking I'm probably going to marry this girl one day, I Love her more than imaginable. We've never gotten into a serious f...
A. 30 July 2010: The apartment scene will be good: you'll be constantly tooling around with an unsatisfied erection - and she'll be pretending not to notice it.
Good luck with that one ! ... (read in full...)
Was what he did with me considered cheating? And how can I get over the feeling of being used only for sex?
Q. Hello everyone! Soooo I have a bit of a problem... This summer was a pretty crazy one for me. I lost my virginity to my bestfriend. We didn't start dating or anything, but I didn't expect him to be talking to another girl. Throughout the summer i...
A. 29 July 2010: I reckon he's experimenting and getting as much sex as he can wherever - which is actually probably how most teenage boys behave if they can find girls willing to take part.
It's up to you whether you want to be a part of it - so far you seem... (read in full...)
I cant wait until I am 25 to have sex! So how do I convince my girlfriend we will be together forever so having sex now is ok?
Q. My name is Alex. I'm in this situation Where I want sex and she wants to wait until Marriage. It's hard for me to wait. I'm thinking I'm probably going to marry this girl one day, I Love her more than imaginable. We've never gotten into a serious f...
A. 29 July 2010: This relationship is all wrong for you.
Even if you did manage to persuade her to have sex with you it would be only a few times a year as you are geographically separated most of the time.
So you would still be aching for sex when at Coll... (read in full...)
Have I found my perfect partner too young?
Q. I'm in a fantastic relationship at University. My girlfriend is as nice, attractive, good looking, healthy and trustworthy as I could hope for. There is no doubt in my mind that she is totally in love with me, she seems to be my number 1 fan, and ...
A. 29 July 2010: INteresting that you describe her as your no 1 fan - not the other way around.
If you are even having these thoughts tentatively then there is no way it would be wise for you to settle down with her - even if there weren't the little matter o... (read in full...)
Would I be living in a sexless marriage if I was to marry this girl?
Q. My problem is very specific. I love my girlfriend and we are together for almost 4 years now. I have plans to marry her and to start a family with her in about two years and she agrees. We have been living together for 2 years, so we know each other ...
A. 28 July 2010: I don't think there is any more you can do - you are throwing good time after bad.
She just doesn't seem to be physically attracted to you and whatever else the relationship might bring that's a deal-breaker.
Better luck with the next gf.
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Housemate hates my bloke...why?
Q. I'm in love with a fantastic man, who can't do enough for me. He's handsome, fun to be with, smells fantastic, intelligent, a mind blowing lover, he adores me and we're the best of friends too. There's nothing that I can't say to him, we're totaly ...
A. 28 July 2010: Well can't you give her a month's notice to leave ?
Citing the fact that you want to feel relaxed when you invite the bf around but that you cannot knowing of her disapproval.
If she creates more of a mood during the notice period couldn't... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't really know much about her own body, so what else might turn her on?
Q. Hey, from my past experiences with girls some like being bitten lightly or having teeth run across their erogenous spots. but I dont quite know what to make of my girl...the other day while exploring some things about each other I found out that she...
A. 28 July 2010: Two suggestions:
1] How can you be so sure it is not worth asking her ? She must have some thoughts / fantasies when she masturbates so you could ask her ( I would suggest a good moment to whisper that question would be while you are maybe ha... (read in full...)
Should I give this a shot and how should I go about doing this if my only chance to see her is at work?
Q. I have a crush on my dentist and want to ask her out, just for lunch for starters. I'm a 55yr. old male and she looks to be early 40s'. I'm not married and am financially ok so it's not about going after her money I'm doing alright on my own. My pr...
A. 28 July 2010: I think you will end up with a rejection because I think the ring on the chain ( not on her finger) is there for health reasons.
But you are too far gone mentally not to find out and I don't see what harm can come from asking her for a lunch da... (read in full...)
My cheating past......
Q. I know most of you will think I'm a dirtbag, but I really am not. I got engaged a little over a month ago to the best woman, who I truly love. I'm having a problem though where I'm feeling some guilt over something I did about a year ago. My ...
A. 28 July 2010: There are two ways of looking at the Q of whether you ought to tell the fiance'e what you did: the moral one - 'would it be the right thing to tell her the truth ?'
and the practical one ' in practice is this secret going to cause me so mu... (read in full...)
If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby?
Q. If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby? ...
A. 26 July 2010: I would say a lot depends on how many weeks or months old the foetus is.
If it's just a few weeks you could still have a pill abortion.
If it's 3 or 4 months then it's closer to being a real baby and you are going to have guilt feelings forev... (read in full...)
We used to have 2-3 X a day and now hardly ever!
Q. Hey i really need some help, me and my boyfriend have been going for about a year and a half, its was fantastic for about 7-8 months thn we started argueing alot. we had the most amazing sex life we did it about 2 3 times a day and it was amazing...
A. 26 July 2010: To be brutally honest I would say you have already lost him
That is not to say there is any fault on your part - just he has gotten bored with the relationship and needs to move on to try other girl friends. Plenty of men do need to 'spread ... (read in full...)
He's bisexual, but I love him, how do I get over this love?
Q. I am absolutely in love with my best guy friend, but I really can't be. I've had strong feelings for him for about 3 years now and at the beginning of the year I told him how I felt. The problem comes in because I told him that I wanted to lose my ...
A. 26 July 2010: You have offered to have sex with him.
He has declined.
That is because he doesn't want to have sex with you -if he did those pants would have slid off his legs pretty pronto, believe me.
Sounds like he is in the closet to himself but th... (read in full...)
What does a women look for in a man?
Q. What is one of the first things or characteristics a women sees when looking at a man for the first time(potential boyfriend)?...
A. 26 July 2010: Masculinity: strength of character; sense of humour; openness; a tight ass.
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Would I be living in a sexless marriage if I was to marry this girl?
Q. My problem is very specific. I love my girlfriend and we are together for almost 4 years now. I have plans to marry her and to start a family with her in about two years and she agrees. We have been living together for 2 years, so we know each other ...
A. 26 July 2010: Frankly it's time to call it quits.
You have given her the best years of your youth and all you are getting out of it is sex 1 to 3 times a month - NO WAY is that enough - maybe for couples in their 70s or older.
Have you really not been ... (read in full...)
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