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How long should a guy last in bed?

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Question - (29 July 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *enty writes:

To the ladies what's the least a guy should last in bed?

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A male reader, rivi United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

Even if you don't last very long before your orgasm you can still give her one finishing off with your fingers... ( or getting hard again after a while and going back for seconds ).

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2010):

Miamine agony aunthahaha.. same here Gabrielle.. them 5minute jobs feel so respectfull and rewarding.. lol

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2010):

Miamine agony auntThe least.. that's easy.. untill you have enough orgasms to feel sleepy and hate sex...

Could be 5mins, could be an hour, could be a couple of days... it's a variable amount, based on your own situation, the strength of your commitment, how much sex you need and how much time you need.

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A female reader, cocoqueen88 United States +, writes (30 July 2010):

cocoqueen88 agony auntWell I start to chafe(sp) after about 15 mins. my bf has lasted for about an hour before and i told him that all that time is a little painful. so about 15 is good for me.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntIn my mind it's not duration as much as it's all about frequency. My goal is 4 times per hour don't always make it but I try and try again. No complaints yet.

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (29 July 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntWell ideally an hour or two but that's incredibly wishful thinking!!! My boyfriend has lasted about 15 minutes at the longest with me, sometimes less than 10 though.

Try using the 'stop start' technique to build up your resistance. Masturbate and, just before you get the urge to cum - stop. Squeeze your penis so nothing can come out. When the desire to cum has gone, start again and repeat the whole process.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (29 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI don't think there is a set timer for how long a guy should last... However I DO think it's nice if the guy can get the girl of BEFORE he's done.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010):

It depends, if your tierd or in a rush then a 5 minute quicky is plenty long.

If you have all night alone together and your both really enjoying it then go for as long as you can.

If your rubbish then hurry it up and if your amazing make it last ;)

You can usually tell if a girl is enjoying herself fully because she will be willing to change positions and move around etc... if shes having a rubbish time and wants you to come quick she will probably stay in one position hoping that you just do your business and get it over with.

Read the signs :P

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (29 July 2010):

BrownWolf agony aunt

It depends on the girl. If she is really into it, you don't stand a chance. Guys like to believe the can be better in bed than a woman...yeah right. The more excited a woman is, the faster you are done.

You want to give a woman a good time?? See how long she can handle foreplay :)

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (29 July 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntI assume you mean how long a guy should 'last' before he ejaculates.

As an inveterate sperm-lover, my answer would be no more than five minutes. However, most women are more patient than that and would expect half-an-hour of service at the very least.

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