13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 5 May 2009: They only tell social services so you can have support and benifits so the child has a good quality of life. You won't be in trouble, i've had friends who have had children.
Go to the doctor who will keep it confidental and you can get a abortion... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 28 April 2009: Go to your local family planning clinic.
Ask your school nurse for details of where they are.
If you want a private abortion they cost about £450.... (read in full...)
B/f watches porn and doesn't care how I feel about it
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now and the other day i found out he had been watching porn on my computer and lying to be about what he was doing. I was so incredibly hurt by this I cried non stop for days, it feels like im not good ...
A. 14 April 2009: Most boys look at porn for all different reasons.
Some are to find different things to try during sex or to just think about something while they are masterbating. This doesn't mean that he would rarther be with another woman. Your boyfriend love... (read in full...)
How do I become dominant? I thought I was but he considers me submissive!
Q. So today is my one year with my boyfriend and he's always said that he love having sex with me, but it bugged me one day when I was trying to be the dominant one he said that i was submissive. This was a while ago and tonight i want to show him that ...
A. 14 April 2009: Buy handcuffs and tie him to somewhere is always a good dominant thing.
Make him do things to you. Make him get on his knees and tell him what to do to you.
When your having sex get on top and shout at him let him know exactly how you like it ... (read in full...)
How do I become dominant? I thought I was but he considers me submissive!
Q. So today is my one year with my boyfriend and he's always said that he love having sex with me, but it bugged me one day when I was trying to be the dominant one he said that i was submissive. This was a while ago and tonight i want to show him that ...
A. 14 April 2009: Buy handcuffs and tie him to somewhere is always a good dominant thing.
Make him do things to you. Make him get on his knees and tell him what to do to you.
When your having sex get on top and shout at him let him know exactly how you like it ... (read in full...)
How do I become dominant? I thought I was but he considers me submissive!
Q. So today is my one year with my boyfriend and he's always said that he love having sex with me, but it bugged me one day when I was trying to be the dominant one he said that i was submissive. This was a while ago and tonight i want to show him that ...
A. 14 April 2009: Buy handcuffs and tie him to somewhere is always a good dominant thing.
Make him do things to you. Make him get on his knees and tell him what to do to you.
When your having sex get on top and shout at him let him know exactly how you like it ... (read in full...)
How do I become dominant? I thought I was but he considers me submissive!
Q. So today is my one year with my boyfriend and he's always said that he love having sex with me, but it bugged me one day when I was trying to be the dominant one he said that i was submissive. This was a while ago and tonight i want to show him that ...
A. 14 April 2009: Buy handcuffs and tie him to somewhere is always a good dominant thing.
Make him do things to you. Make him get on his knees and tell him what to do to you.
When your having sex get on top and shout at him let him know exactly how you like it ... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't love me! How can I make her love me?
Q. How can you make someone you girl frnd who is telling you she dont love you love you....
A. 14 April 2009: You can't.
Talk to her and get to know her as a friend but you can't make someone love you.
Livia
xxx... (read in full...)
He's started making comments about large woman on tv..is he dropping hints to me?
Q. I am a large woman. I was a large baby, child and nothing much has changed. A couple of times in my life, I lost a lot of weight but it always came right back. I have been with my husband for almost two years now and have put on a few more po...
A. 14 April 2009: I have always been slightly large and tried to lose weight but always end up the same.
Ask your husband why he is making comments about this woman being overweight and if it bothers him that you are slightly larger. If he is don't just lose wei... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 14 April 2009: I'm not going to judge you as i know what its like to try to fit in. You need to learn to be yourself and don't pretend to be someone who you are not. I bet your a lovely person, try to find yourself. You were made to be individual.
Havin... (read in full...)
I had sex today without protection, could I get pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex today just about, maybe 11 hours ago. We didn't use protection(I thought he had a condom on but he didn't so please no rude comments) anyway, We started it "doggy style" but while we were doing it doggy style, He didn't ...
A. 12 April 2009: your clitors is just above the opening of your vagina.
washing your vagina won't stop sperm from finding their way into you.
If a boy cums on your vagina there are millions of sperm cells and it only takes one to get you pregnant.
Get yoursel... (read in full...)
What kind of signs does a guy give out to a girl to show he's interested in her?
Q. How does a guy show a girl he's interested? I mean like signs.. eye contact, smiling. ect. ...
A. 11 April 2009: Every guy is different.
Some guys have more confidence than others and will be flirty and talkative with you.
Then you have the guys to are just silent and don't do anything to show they like you.
If you like a guy, talk to him, get to know ... (read in full...)
I still love him but what do I do next?
Q. Just over 3 years ago i found out i was pregnant. I assumed the father was the guy i was sleeping with and not my husband. I left my husband to be with my new man. In this time i suffered with depression and was seeing a counsellor, i ended up...
A. 11 April 2009: Send him messages explaining that it was a hard time in your life and you didn't really know what you were doing but it has made you realise that you love him and hes the one you want to be with.
He loved you and he got hurt, he is probs scared o... (read in full...)
I just lost my virginity but I couldnt orgasm with her!
Q. ok so heres my story.. i am 16 years old healthy lil man.. i dance(breakdance)and am fit no health problems anyway its was october when i "lost" my virginity and i ve done it outside.. no the beach about 4 am the woman i had sex with was olde...
A. 7 April 2009: You need to relax before having sex. I think this is your problem, you were worried about it and not relaxed enough to enjoy it.
Take things slow. Talk to your partner about it and how you feel selfconsious about it, she will understand! Us girls... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a man 25 years older, and I am concerned about it.
Q. My daughter is 20 years old and is away in college. While there, she supposedly accidently bumped into her former best friend's father, who now lives in that town. She told me about it but at first I didn't think too much of it. Eventually she ...
A. 7 April 2009: Parents always want to protect their kids but your little girl is a woman and wants to make her own decisions in life.
I know its hard for you to except that her boyfriend is 25 years older but you have to look at the possitive side of it, hes ... (read in full...)
Am I right to want to break up with him?
Q. Check out my other posts on my huge fight with my boyfriend this weekend. But I have another huge problem. My boyfriend lied to me last night. He told me he was going out for coffee with his guy friend, and I talked to that guy friend toda...
A. 7 April 2009: I would talk it over with your boyfriend to find out what he was really doing with that girl. Be straight with him and say your not going to lose it you just want to know the truth and why he lied.
If he was having sexual contact with her then you... (read in full...)
I love her but she makes me jealous - How do I fix it?
Q. I was walking with my girlfriend of 4 months now and we have gotten pretty serious. We love each other and I tell her that as much as i possibly can (not in a... creepy way). So she is beautiful and has tons of guy friends... I am not that jealous ...
A. 4 April 2009: Your girlfriend does love you!
Just think to yourself if she wanted any other guy she would be with them but shes with you so she doesn't want anyone else but you.
What you need to understand is that your girlfriend will find other people attra... (read in full...)
Why does the guy I'm dating have problems in bed?
Q. Dear cupid. I am a 23 year old women who is dating a 31 year man. We have a great relationship. We bond really well. The problem is, there are time when we have sex and he orgasims. However, let's say we have sex the next day in the morning or ...
A. 4 April 2009: Its not his age, hes 31 which is still very young.
Some men take time to build up sperm, give it time :)
Everyone is different and its not your fault at all he can't orgasm the next day!
If your really worried about it then go to a doctor ... (read in full...)
My friend gave a blow job and now I can't help but be disgusted by her!
Q. Ok, so here's the deal. Recently one of my friends gave her bf oral sex. I asked her over text and she ignored it. Then, rumors went around school so everyone knew basically. Then I found out it was true because she admited it. Shes only 12 and im ...
A. 4 April 2009: It doesn't make her a different person to what she was before.
Everyone does things with people at some poin in their life, shame shes only 12 tho.
Try and forget about what shes done and confort her, how do you think she feels with rumours lik... (read in full...)
Do antibiotics affect contraceptive pill? Could I be pregnant?
Q. another "could i be pregnant" question, sorry. I know you guys get a lot of these but i have read through a few and not found any like this, so here goes. Im on the contraceptive pill but have been taking antibiotics for over a week now, Will t...
A. 31 March 2009: If she hasn't mentioned anything then ask your doctor on monday if it messes with your pill.
Better to be safe than sorry.
If you are still having your periods on your 7 days break then you shouldn't be pregnant.
Livia
xxx... (read in full...)
Do antibiotics affect contraceptive pill? Could I be pregnant?
Q. another "could i be pregnant" question, sorry. I know you guys get a lot of these but i have read through a few and not found any like this, so here goes. Im on the contraceptive pill but have been taking antibiotics for over a week now, Will t...
A. 31 March 2009: You could be pregnant.
I would go back to your doctor and ask if the antibiotics can effect your pill.
If your doctor says they can then ask him to do a pregancy test on you.
Good luck
Livia
xx... (read in full...)
How do ask someone to be in a threesome?
Q. My boyfriend and I want to have a threesome with another guy but don't know how to ask. How do I ask a gorgeous guy to join my boyfriend and I for a threesome?...
A. 25 March 2009: Have you really thought this through?
Is your boyfriend going to be paranoid about you going off with this guy or think you are enjoying it more with him.
Make sure you talk everything through with your boyfriend.
If you are certain you want... (read in full...)
How can I relax and enjoy myself??
Q. I have been single for 4 years and now I have a special someone i have met. We want to have sex but its been so long since ive been intimate with somebody its like I'm starting all over again. i don't know what to do , say, how to act. my mind race...
A. 25 March 2009: Talk to your partner and talk things through about what you are going to do, when and where.
Before you jump straight into sex play around with each other. Find out what each other likes. Trying different things will help build trust and make you... (read in full...)
We broke up because of my young age, should I wait for him?
Q. do i wait? i recently split up with my boyfriend and he said he would wait till i was 16 because of the age what should i do? ...
A. 25 March 2009: You haven't mentioned how old your ex and you are.
If i was you i wouldn't wait. It hurts to accept this but if he really loved you he wouldn't care about the age difference.
Age is just a number, its about the person you really are which... (read in full...)
Can fingering cause pregnancy?
Q. My fiancé has last her periods on the 12th of February 2009, after which we have not be much sexually active, but yes we have had some fingering/masturbation session, and i don't remember if I touched my genitals b4 I fingered her, but have not had ...
A. 25 March 2009: No. if you have a period you are not pregnant.
Livia
xxx... (read in full...)
Can fingering cause pregnancy?
Q. My fiancé has last her periods on the 12th of February 2009, after which we have not be much sexually active, but yes we have had some fingering/masturbation session, and i don't remember if I touched my genitals b4 I fingered her, but have not had ...
A. 24 March 2009: If you had sperm on your fingers there is a chance she could be pregnant.
Also worrying if you are pregnant or stress can delay a period.
Get two tests and do one then wait 48hrs then do another one to get a more accurate result. If they ... (read in full...)
He grabs me and calls me his girlfriend!
Q. ok i have a problem non of the lads in my school like me except on i saw him the other day and he grabbed me and calleddme his girlfriend since then every time he sees he he grabs me and tries to touch me the weird thing is it makes me feel good ...
A. 18 March 2009: Do you like this guy at all?
It probs makes you feel good about yourself because hes giving you attention letting him know that he likes you.
If you don't like this guy, calmly explain to him that you are not his girlfriend and to stop trying t... (read in full...)
She still doesn't really want to perform oral sex on me!
Q. I have been with my Fiance over 2 years now and about 6 months into our relationship I posted a question about how to get her to enjoy going down on me more. She was borderline forced to preform oral in her previous relationship. Your responses ...
A. 18 March 2009: Sex is about both of you enjoying it, you can't force your Fiancee to do something she doesn't want to do. Oral sex might not turn her on.
Try and play around and find out abit what each other likes. Try kissing her neck and ask her to do the same... (read in full...)
Is this a sign of an STD?
Q. hey like 3 weeks ago i was having lots of sex with my GF once a day at least but like recently ive found red spots that arent bumpy they go if i dont have sex/BJ for awhile but come back when i do, me and my GF where both virgins. is this a seri...
A. 16 March 2009: It sounds like you do have an STI from your description but you should go to the doctors to get it checked out.
Don't be scared to go to the doctors, its their job to help you with your problems and believe me they have seen it all before.
If ... (read in full...)
What's it like swallowing for 1st time?
Q. what is swallowing semen like for the first time? i want to swallow my boyfriends but im nervous ill gag. ive heard a lot of people dont like the taste and gag from it. i just want to know what its like because i want to swallow i just dont want to ...
A. 16 March 2009: Everyone is different.
Semen tastes like a very thick, salty liquid and because it tastes of salt it makes alot of girls gag.
You don't have to swallow it if you don't want to. If you want to try it then go for it to see if you like it.
Start o... (read in full...)
Too early?
Q. I was due for my period on the 14th. Is it too early to take a pregnancy test?...
A. 16 March 2009: Periods can be late all the time for different reason.
Stress is one of them. If you are having a hard time at work or if you are worried that you are pregnant this can delay your period.
Some woman find that their periods only settle down ... (read in full...)
Guy's completely shaved pubic hair..opinions?
Q. Hey, pls How do girls feels when a guy completly shaved his purbic hair. Is it attractive to girls and i have been with 4girls now and each time we are about to have sex , they will ask me if i love them. So i want to know if it is a common ...
A. 16 March 2009: I don't think girls really care if you have hair down there, its all natural.
Girls tend to get rid of hair down there on themselves because the consider it as unclean.
Girls will ask you if you love them before having sex so they know that yo... (read in full...)
Women's intuition tells them they are pregnant before taking test?
Q. Is it true that women have this strong intuition that let's them know they're pregnant even before taking a pregancy test?!?...
A. 16 March 2009: Well having unprotective sex, missing more than one period and getting pregnacy symptoms can tell them they are pregnant before doing a test.
Some woman just have a feeling. There must be a strong link between her brain and body activitys where as... (read in full...)
Sperm filled fingers!
Q. I am just wondering this is really weird for me to even have to ask.. I started my period on the 1st of March yesterday was the 15th.. me and the boyfriend where having sex and well I ended up with quite a bit of sperm on my fingers. Instead of ...
A. 16 March 2009: Err sorry didn't read your question properly.
If your period doesn't come after a week do a test :)
But don't worry because this might delay your period which will cause you to stress.
Livia
xxx... (read in full...)
He bought me a diamond ring but I still want to have the abortion
Q. I am completely torn about whether or not to have an abortion. I could really use some adivce because I haven't told many people I am pregnant.I am 21 years old, and my boyfriend is 25. He has a good job and could support a baby, and has lots of ...
A. 16 March 2009: None of us on here can tell you what to do, the decission is completely up to you.
You need to think what would happen either way.
If you had a termination you would be able to go and train to be a doctor, work on the relationship wit... (read in full...)
He bought me a diamond ring but I still want to have the abortion
Q. I am completely torn about whether or not to have an abortion. I could really use some adivce because I haven't told many people I am pregnant.I am 21 years old, and my boyfriend is 25. He has a good job and could support a baby, and has lots of ...
A. 16 March 2009: None of us on here can tell you what to do, the decission is completely up to you.
You need to think what would happen either way.
If you had a termination you would be able to go and train to be a doctor, work on the relationship wit... (read in full...)
Cheating on my wife of 27 years..is it lust? Or love?
Q. I am 50 year old man self employed married to a beautiful lady since 27 year father of 3 daughters doing MBA in my orginization a 25 year young beautiful lady made advances towards me and made friendship with me on mobile and SMS this was 3 years ba...
A. 16 March 2009: You have been with your wife 27 years. That is love.
Think of all the things she has done for you like give birth to your 3 daughters, look after the family, cook and clean and support you in every way possible and you repay her for this by chea... (read in full...)
I'm 14, want to date an 18 year old. How to tell my mom?
Q. hey guys. thing is there is this guy I like, he's 18 and I'm 14, he sed he likes me and I like him too and he asked me if i'd go out with him. I said yes, he also said that he would push me into anything and would respect me, (I would let him pu...
A. 16 March 2009: My friend has the same problem as you. Girls mature faster than boys so you are at the same maturity level as an 18 yr old boy!
I am 14 aswel and my boyfriend is 17. I just told my mum and she seems fine with it and lets him sleep round whenever... (read in full...)
Sperm filled fingers!
Q. I am just wondering this is really weird for me to even have to ask.. I started my period on the 1st of March yesterday was the 15th.. me and the boyfriend where having sex and well I ended up with quite a bit of sperm on my fingers. Instead of ...
A. 16 March 2009: Yes you could be.
Sperm will stay alive aslong as it has contact with your body at 37c.
There is a chance you could be pregnant.
Get a test from your local supermarket and do one then do another one 48 hours later to make sure the results are ... (read in full...)
I'm four months pregnant and I feel so not sexy
Q. I'm four months pregnant and I feel so not sexy. The worst is that I feel like my husband does not want to have sex with me anymore. I've put on 8-9 lb and I feel like he does not like the way I look now. He still tells me I'm beautiful when I s...
A. 16 March 2009: Guys don't really understand what girls go throw being pregnant. When your pregnant your body is dealing with supporting you and your baby which means you will have alot of hormones flying around your body which will make you feel less sexy and ... (read in full...)
Baby names...
Q. My bf and I were talking about baby names we want something unique and different but still cute. What do you think of the following names? BOYS: Flynn Owen (Owen is my bfs dad) Sloan Owen Makai (Ma-Ki) Owen Girls: Makenna Joy Arizona Jo...
A. 16 March 2009: I don't see why everyone thinks a child will get picked on because of their name.
I've been to different schools, Private and state and i've not heard once someone get picked on. Lots of people i know have different names i have a friend called A... (read in full...)
Baby names...
Q. My bf and I were talking about baby names we want something unique and different but still cute. What do you think of the following names? BOYS: Flynn Owen (Owen is my bfs dad) Sloan Owen Makai (Ma-Ki) Owen Girls: Makenna Joy Arizona Jo...
A. 15 March 2009: I personally love the name Flynn Owen! It sounds so cute and Makenna Joy is very unique!
Flynn means Heir to the redheaded and is from the Celtic/Gaelic Origin.
Makenna Joy is from the name Mckenna which means son of ken or kenna which is al... (read in full...)
My problem is when I cum I squirt!!!
Q. I am 20 years old and started dating a new guy about a month ago. We haven't had sex yet but I know it is going to happen soon. My problem is when I cum I squirt, the first time it happened I had never even heard of it and had to look it up onli...
A. 15 March 2009: You lucky girl! Most girls would kill to do that during sex!
It won't put your boyfriend off. He loves you and if he loves you enough to have sex with you he won't care what happens aslong as you both enjoy yourself!
I think it will turn him on... (read in full...)
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