Astrology test says we are made for each other, where do I go from here?
Q. so i download a stupid astrology test cuz i was bored and am intrigued by them. anyway i ran my own numbers, then looked at the report. bla bla, fairly accurate. so i did one for this girl i like, right. i then discover this program can compare. ...
A. 12 June 2009: If a guy showed me a astrology test saying we were perfect i would be a bit scared. Them things don't really work..
Spend time with this girl if you really like her. Be there for her and just be really nice.
You could ask her out on a date :)... (read in full...)
Is my vagina abnormal?
Q. I think i have an abnormal vagina. The labia are strangly larger than the rest of my Vagina and sorta hang down a bit. i have always been consious of this but even more so now when a guy described it as overgrown funghi. is it really abnormal ...
A. 10 June 2009: Forget everything that the stupid boy said, hes immature and been looking at to many porn mags.
Every girls vaginas different, they don't all look like the ones in mags or in porn movies. They come in all different shapes and sizes and yours so... (read in full...)
Her vagina had a fishy kind of smell
Q. I was with this prostitute and she started fingering herself on the floor. A strange smell came from her vagina when she was doing this. I don't know if this was the lubricant, or a sign she had a std. The smell was hard to describe. It kinda di...
A. 10 June 2009: The smell could of been an indication to an sti or it could be she doesn't wash properly down there.
Having sex puts you at risk or catching Sti's and because you had a crack in your finger that could also put you at risk because its an entrace ... (read in full...)
Are these symptoms of love or lust?
Q. so me and this guy have just recently been talking well actually more weve been on 2 dates already[they were back to back] and he wants to hang out again today:] on the 2d date he kissed me like 9 times for our first kiss i was walking in fron...
A. 10 June 2009: Lust.
Love is where you would do anything for someone and you want to be with them for the rest of your life. It takes a long time for people to fall in love and to be sure that they love them.
What your feeling is lust, have fun and enjoy th... (read in full...)
Can my partner get pregnant on the 3rd day of her period?
Q. my question is i just wanna know if is it possible to my partner to get pregnant that we have sex on her 3rd day of her period?? but i surely know that i withdraw my sperm outside of her vagina.. but im so scared in my pre-come and im not sure if ...
A. 10 June 2009: There is a small chance she could be pregnant.
The egg comes out in her urine when she is on her period, this may be the first day or could even be the last day you can't tell.
Pre-cum can get you pregnant and so can ejaculating arou... (read in full...)
Diet pills that burn fat?
Q. hey does anyone know of any diet pills that work and actually burn fat? or know anyone that has used some sort of diet pill that has really worked for them? i'm doing a diet but i want the extra push. ...
A. 9 June 2009: Most diet pills are very dangerous.
Speak to your doctor about it and he will either prescribe some or give you a healthy diet plan.
Livia
xoxox... (read in full...)
Do I have to tell my abusive ex that I am having his baby adopted when it's born?
Q. So I'm not even in my 20s yet and I'm three months pregnant. I told my parents about it and they of course initially freaked out but eventually calmed down. I never told them who the father is, though it's pretty obvious considering they know I've ...
A. 7 June 2009: Some people will argue that the dad should have a right to know about what happens to his child.
You should tell him after all it takes two to make a baby and dads do have rights.
Even if you can't bring yourself to tell him get a parent to ... (read in full...)
Wondering how people's 'first times' were?
Q. Okay so I've been awfully curious about how different first times having sex has gone. This isn't like an advice needed thing. I would just like to hear how male and female first times went. Did you regret it after? What made you feel like you were ...
A. 7 June 2009: I lost my virginity when i was 14 in the local park on halloween while there was a drugs raid in the houses close by. I'm not joking this really did happen.
I lost it to my boyfriend who i am still with now :)
I've never regreted it and i know i... (read in full...)
My wife has doubled in size, I've lost interest in sex..do I leave her to get her to get in shape?
Q. When I proposed to my wife she was 5' and a perfect size zero. She had lovely long hair and walked like a graceful lady. Exactly my type. Now after 15 yrs of marriage she's a size 14-16 w/ short hair and walks like a chimp. Doubling her weight ...
A. 7 June 2009: You do not deserve your wife at all.
You should of married her for personality because if you really loved her you would love her no matter what she looks like.
Size 0 is unhealthy. Size 14/16 isn't obest its called healthy and curvy.
Don't ... (read in full...)
I am 15, really like a 23 year old man, is he too old for me to date?
Q. hi there, i have a question for you all, well i really like this guy and he is 23 and im 15 some of my friends say he is too old and some say that aslong as he is respectful in my decisions and he doesnt push me into things then its okayy, but i...
A. 7 June 2009: To male anonymous reader.
The school has a right to keep all pupils safe and as he was picking her up from school they felt it was nessasary to contact social services.... (read in full...)
I asked if he loved me from the start and he just ignored me!
Q. Hey guys can you please help me my ex boyfriend and i we were trying to fix things and i asked him if he loved me from the start why he left.he got angry and left i tried to call and sms him but his ignoring me.i am so hurt because i dont even know ...
A. 6 June 2009: You have posted this question twice.
Look at the advice given from the other question.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-help-with-a-break-up-do-you.html
Livia
xoxox... (read in full...)
Broke up 3 years ago, after 3 years together, don't know if I am being used for sex, need advice?
Q. It's been 3 years since my first love and I broke off our 3 year relationship but I can't stop thinking about him and I know I still love him! We broke up because of distance and fighting and have both had relationships since then. We've always ...
A. 6 June 2009: Long distance relationships do work if you both commit to them, i am living proof!
It does sound like this guy is on a rebound though. If he really loved this girl then after the split he will be missing the love and attention she gave him and ... (read in full...)
Need help with a break-up, do you think we can fix this?
Q. Hey guys can you please help me my ex boyfriend and i we were trying to fix things and i asked him if he loved me from the start why he left.he got angry and left i tried to call and sms him but his ignoring me.i am so hurt because i dont even know ...
A. 6 June 2009: Sometimes when people split they don't get back together.
Give this guy a bit of space so he can think about things. If he changes his mind then he will contact you.
Keep studying for your exam, i know its hard but turn your phone off and tr... (read in full...)
I am 15, really like a 23 year old man, is he too old for me to date?
Q. hi there, i have a question for you all, well i really like this guy and he is 23 and im 15 some of my friends say he is too old and some say that aslong as he is respectful in my decisions and he doesnt push me into things then its okayy, but i...
A. 6 June 2009: A 23 year old man is way to old for you.
My friend is 15 and dated a 22 year old man and the school found out and contacted the police and social services and she was taken into care because social services felt she was unsafe at home because ... (read in full...)
An awful ordorless, goop comes out of my mouth, don't know what it is, any ideas?
Q. Hello DearCupid, I used to use this site quite often when I was a bit Younger when i needed Advice and found it Helpful, so maybe you All can help me with this occuring problem I've been having? I keep pulling out this white-ish Goop out of my m...
A. 6 June 2009: Mabey it might be something to do with brushing your teeth way to much?
None of us on here are qualifed doctors and we can't examin you so the best thing to do is to go see a doctor about it so they can tell you what is wrong.
Livia
xoxox... (read in full...)
Should I tell a one night stand I'm pregnant with him?
Q. We had sex a couple of weeks ago.. I wasn't really supposed to happen, but we were both drunk and I went to his home and that's pretty much how it happened. It didn't really mean that much to me, until I found out I'm pregnant.. I am on the pill, ...
A. 6 June 2009: Yes you should.
It takes to people to make a baby and he has a right as the father to know about his child.
Just go round there and don't look back. Be confident and tell him. If he doesn't want to know then at least you know you tried.
G... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife give me a golden shower?
Q. My wife wants to pee on me. Should I let her? It would probably turn me on, so I don't see any reason not to let her if it makes her happy and horny, I just don't want it in my mouth, which should be my choice. Any thoughts please?...
A. 6 June 2009: Its not us giving you permission to do it..
If you are happy with her doing it to you then go for it but just mention that you don't want it in your mouth and she should respect that.
Livia
xoxox... (read in full...)
Is it right that american girls do oral sex easily ?
Q. I am french, so please excuse my english which is not very good. I have heard that in USA, american girls do oral sex (blowjobs) easily, it's not a big thing for them. To make love with them may be hard, but to be sucked may be easy. Is that...
A. 6 June 2009: I'm not American but i can tell you that not all American girls are easy.
All girls are different, some will want to do things but others won't.
There are some easy french girls.
So no not all Americans will give oral out like candy.
... (read in full...)
Her vagina smells! What do I do?
Q. Help! I have been dating this girl for 3 months now and we are starting to get sexual. The only problem is her vagina kinda stanks. How do i tell her or what do i do???...
A. 6 June 2009: All girls have a slight smell down there when they are turned on but it should be inviting to men.
If you really can't stand her smell then you could give her hints that she needs to clean down there.
You could say that you want to take a s... (read in full...)
How can I hide birth control from my mom?
Q. MOD NOTE: poster age stated as 26, believe that is incorrect based on the info in this post. Okay here's a classic: How can I hide birth control from my mom? I know, I know. Half of you will read this and be like "Honey, you shouldn't hide t...
A. 6 June 2009: Why don't you have the implant.
Its a small peice of wire that gets placed into a vein in your arm and lasts for 3 years and then you don't have to hide pills from your mum. The implant sounds painful but believe me its not at all.
If you re... (read in full...)
Sex in the woods to lose my virginity?
Q. So me and this guy "Alex" have been talking all school year. We pass notes all the time and we always joked about having sex, especially because at my school, everyone think I get around. The truth is I'm a virgin. Well Alex asked me to go to a lake ...
A. 4 June 2009: I wouldn't do it.
This boy doesn't love you, hes using you for sex.
Everyone thinks you get around so he wants to take an advantage.
Virginity is something you can never get back once its broken. Save if for the person you love and are in ... (read in full...)
Doggy style versus woman on top?
Q. This is more of a sex question than a relationship one but recently i've discovered that i really like sex in the doggy style position andmy boyfireend really likes it when i'm on top. I was just wonderng what everyone else thinks about these ...
A. 2 June 2009: These positions are both for deep penitration which is probs why you both enjoy them.
Different people enjoy different positions, you just have to find the one that gives you the most pleasure.
I like doggy style :P
Liviaa
xoxox... (read in full...)
Falling in love with my sister
Q. My sister and I seem to have feelings for each other. She has a boyfriend and I also have a girlfriend. I feel like I should tell her that we can submit our feelings to each other. Can I give a try incest and what it feels like?...
A. 2 June 2009: No its not something you should even be thinking of.
Its is against the law and if you have a child with your sister it has a higher chance of being deformed or have problems inside the body.
You should go see a counciler about your feelings to... (read in full...)
Your hymen...
Q. Hi... I'm 13 years old, and I'm only here to ask this one question. I was told today that you can 'break your hymen' and i've been told too many things, and I'm not sure what is the truth.. Please, will someone explain to me... how do you brea...
A. 2 June 2009: Your hymen is a small layer of skin in your vagina.
This can be broken by tampons, fingering, exercise and sexual intercorse.
Some girls say it hurts alot when it bleeds and they experience some blood but others say that they don't feel it an... (read in full...)
My ex is still crushing on me--do I block him?
Q. I really like my boyfriend, and I don't want to date anyone else. But recently, one of my ex's told me he likes me again. This is the second time that this has happened, and the last time he tried to break us up by telling me lies about my ...
A. 2 June 2009: I would avoid this boy, he likes you and will do anything he can think of which might make you like him.
Explain to him in a polite way that you don't like him and you don't really care what he has to say about your boyfriend and for him not to t... (read in full...)
What is cam2cam?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a while and he wants to do cam2cam...i am willing to do this but i don't really know what happens during cam2cam. I know that it does involve getting naked but what else do you do??? please help because i don't ...
A. 1 June 2009: "Cam2Cam" is where you take your clothes off on cam while watching the other person and pleasuring yourself via webcam while the other person does the same.
Not the best idea. There is such a thing called print screan and he could video it. If h... (read in full...)
In love with my dad's 28 year old best friend, I am 14, please help?
Q. I am in love with my dad's best friend.The guy i love is 28 and i am 14.I love him so much but i dont want to tell him because i am afraid of my dad and i am afraid of losing the guy i love.What makes it worse is that my dad's bestfriend 23 yeal old ...
A. 1 June 2009: Don't go with him.
Believe me it will mess up your life.
1 - If your school or police find out then this guy will be charged and if they find out he does anything with you he will put on the sex offenders record and be given a police sentance whi... (read in full...)
Should I still go to the clinic to be on the safe side?
Q. me and my boyfriend had sex two days ago. i went to the clinic but they cannot supply the morning-after pill until tomorrow (which would be the third day after). he cummed in the same condom more than once when we were having sex and although i ...
A. 31 May 2009: Yes go to the clinic.
You should never use the condom more than once, If hes ejaculated into it once then you should take it off immediately because it will cause a small tear which will seep out semen. Even if you checked it there may be a small ... (read in full...)
In love with my dad's 28 year old best friend, I am 14, please help?
Q. I am in love with my dad's best friend.The guy i love is 28 and i am 14.I love him so much but i dont want to tell him because i am afraid of my dad and i am afraid of losing the guy i love.What makes it worse is that my dad's bestfriend 23 yeal old ...
A. 31 May 2009: Just keep it as a crush. Don't act on it, it will just cause problems.
A 23 year old man shouldn't even be looking at a 14 year old girl! My best friend was 14 and went out with a 22 year old and someone told the school and they got the police i... (read in full...)
Orgasms and virginity
Q. i've had orgasms a couple of times before but no one ever touched me and i'm about to have the first sex , i dont know if im a virgin or not, so can having orgasms affect my virginity???? and if i am , will it hurt or bleed?????? im really scared ...
A. 31 May 2009: You lose your virginity the first time a man puts his penis inside you.
You are still a virgin if you have had an orgasm or been fingered its only when you have sex you lose your virginity.
Sex will only hurt if your hymen isn't broken, th... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex 2 days before my period was due. Any risks?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend few days before i.e. 2 days before my periods.after having sex i had my periods at the right time.The problem is that even after having my periods safely,do i have chances of being pregnant.plz help..... ...
A. 30 May 2009: The two weeks before your period is when you are most likely to get pregnant. So there is a big risk that you are pregant.
Wait until your next period and see if its lighter than normal or if it even happens.
If it is lighter or hasn't shown ... (read in full...)
Why don't underage kids respect the boundaries that are put in place to protect them?
Q. just something thats bothering me. There are so many girls from the age of 10 - 16 having under age sex and not knowing a single thing about it then going oops could i be pregnant. its really depressing because when i was little i was content as a ...
A. 30 May 2009: I'm 15 and yes i am one of the stupid teenagers that just wants to grow up to fast and does everything underage.
You seem to put us under one label though.
There are girls that want to go out and have sex with any random person just for the fun... (read in full...)
I really want a baby!
Q. Im thirteen and i want a baby but dont want to have sex, what should i do ?...
A. 30 May 2009: DON'T HAVE A CHILD AT 13.
I can't stress enough what it will do to your life.
My friend got pregnant and had her baby at the age of 13 and she thought it would so cool, she could dress it up and it would be easy to look after.
She was so wr... (read in full...)
What is wrong with sex between brothers and sisters?
Q. Ok I know sex between brothers and sisters is considered wrong by most people. Why? I mean if they love each other and make sure they don't have any children, what is wrong with sharing that love physically? ...
A. 30 May 2009: This is talking about having sex with your sibling.
It is a BIGGG Sin in the eyes of God and also breaking the law.
It is wrong, your not ment to be attracted to your siblings.. Think of what your parents would think if they found out, how i... (read in full...)
Does a towel work as a contraceptive?
Q. Me and this guy hooked up wich was a total mistake, but i was wondering if you can get pregnant if he pulls out and cums and then after uses a towel continue having sex....
A. 28 May 2009: Pre cum is produced when men are having sex, this can get you pregnant. Men produce millions of sperms, it takes One to get you pregnant.
The pulling out methord does not work.
Go on the pill or the implant if you are having unprotective sex... (read in full...)
How important is it that a girl is pretty?
Q. i`m wondering how important it is that a girl is pretty? i`m a 17 year old girl, and i have never been in a relationship. i`m really ugly (people have called me man-face and so on) and fat, and have no selfesteam what so ever. i feel really alone, ...
A. 28 May 2009: Who has the right to call you names and comment about your appearance? The people who say things like that arn't perfect are they?
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. Don't listen to what other people think, people do find you attractive! Be yourself and let your... (read in full...)
15 & 23, too big an age gap or too big a risk?
Q. I'm 23 and have feelings for a girl I meet at a wedding 2 weeks ago. She is beautiful. I couldn't keep my eyes off her all night. Then the bomb dropped, I found out she is only 15! I felt so ashamed even though I didn't act on my feelings, there was ...
A. 28 May 2009: My friend is 15 and had a relationship with someone who was 22 and one person in my group got very worried about her and went to a teacher in school about it, they told her parents and informed the police and charges have been pressed against this ... (read in full...)
Ladies, do you prefer pubic hair on your guys or not?
Q. hey, I've been seeing a girl for about a month now, we've decided to move things on a bit and starting to do sexual stuff. Do girls prefer a guy with a bit of hair or not? I've not done anything before and do not want to be embarrised by my ...
A. 28 May 2009: I don't really care if a guy has hair or not down there.
All the boys i've seen "down there" have all had hair.
As long as you keep it trimmed and tidy then its fine!
Livia
xoxox... (read in full...)
In a long distance relationship, am I expecting too much?
Q. i have been speaking to this guy for a couple of years now and love him so much, we are the same age but live in different countries, we always say that one day i'll go over there and we'll get married and settle down, but how realistic is this, am ...
A. 28 May 2009: Long distance relationships do work if you are both willing to commit. I am living proof.
If you truely believe that it will work and you will settle down and have children then go for it and make sure you achieve it no matter what.
But if ... (read in full...)
Tips on what men like in bed....
Q. Ok I have been with my boyfriend for a good while now and this is stupid but I figured I could get tips and advice here... So anyhow I was wanting to know what are somethings men like while in bed! Our sex life is wonderful and full of passion but I ...
A. 28 May 2009: Men like different things.
My boyfriend likes it when i kiss his chest and neck and tell him things that i want him to do.
We have a rule that we can only use a sex position once in a week, it never works but it makes sex more fun when you try... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a step-brother and step-sister to have a baby together?
Q. is it illegal for a step brother and step sister to have a baby together?...
A. 28 May 2009: If you are step-brother and sister by marriage then it isn't illeagal to have a baby together because you are not blood related.
I'm not to sure about weather its leagal having a child with a blood related sibling.. Google it :)
Livia
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