Does anyone believe in fortune tellers?
Q. My question is quite short, I'm wondering if anyone believes in Fortune Tellers? xx...
A. 24 April 2009: We're not all con-artists :o)
I read tarot cards. I also have a working knowledge of runes, palmistry and tea leaves.
The posters below are quite right when they say you should NEVER pay money for a reading. It is a long standing debate ... (read in full...)
Unemployment is really getting to me!
Q. Going crazy waiting for unemployment. No work in meantime although I apply and apply..trying to stay postive...I am just absoluely miserable and hope I am not they only one on they edge of my seat ..jobless and feeling realy crappy like. Any ot...
A. 29 March 2009: Here in the UK, we're nearly hitting 2 billion unemployed. A pot-washing job in a bar in London recently got over 600 applications. It's a terrifying state of affairs. I was in the same situation as you early last year - it's awful, and I tot... (read in full...)
Why is my period late and should I take another test?
Q. Please! I am almost crying of panic! I am like a week and so late in my period. but i have not had unprotected sex, ever! what should I do? I had a pregancy tst done two days ago, and it came out negative.. so why is my period late and when should ...
A. 25 March 2009: Your panic might be the reason it is late.
Lots of other factors can make you miss your period, including stress, diet, illness, a change to your body clock.
Try and calm yourself down, take another test if it hasn't arrived in a week or so and... (read in full...)
Any way to make my penis grow faster?
Q. Okay i know you guys get frustrated hearing this type of question but...it's a world wide problem and issue that most guys face in there lives..." ihave a small penis" and it really sucks...i know your going to say im still going through puberty ...
A. 17 March 2009: It's a cliche I know, but size simply does NOT matter. Star is right, for your age, that is an average penis size, but it isn't your size that makes you good in bed - its how you use it!
http:... (read in full...)
Small red dots all under skin on legs
Q. I'm a little scared because idk what's wrong with my skin. I have been getting this small red dots all over the lower halves of my legs they're under the skin and are freckle-like but like really red. they don't itch but sometimes an area of my ...
A. 17 March 2009: Another possibility is something called keratosis pilaris
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keratosis_pilaris
Most people see dramatic improvements simply by exfoliating the affected areas regularly, and there are some lotions and potions you can ... (read in full...)
Lying so no one gets hurt
Q. I would like people's opinions on whether i am doing right by lying to a friend to ensure she doesn't get hurt. My friend and i were very close at one point but we don't really speak as much anymore, not as much as we used to anyway. Anyway, she ...
A. 16 March 2009: I hardly think how she got into a pub is crucial to the question ...
To answer a little more constructively:
How long do you think you could keep the secret from her? It's already tearing you up inside, that much is obvious.
You say you bot... (read in full...)
Too early?
Q. I was due for my period on the 14th. Is it too early to take a pregnancy test?...
A. 16 March 2009: It depends on when you think you conceived.
It takes around 2 weeks for your body to start producing enough hormones to make a difference, and it is these hormones a pregnancy test detects. Although there are some tests which claim they can test... (read in full...)
Women's intuition tells them they are pregnant before taking test?
Q. Is it true that women have this strong intuition that let's them know they're pregnant even before taking a pregancy test?!?...
A. 16 March 2009: Even at very early stages of pregnancy, a woman's body starts making some major changes in preparation. But it takes around two weeks for there to be enough of a change in hormone levels to experience any pregnancy symptoms. If you are particul... (read in full...)
Is this a sign of an STD?
Q. hey like 3 weeks ago i was having lots of sex with my GF once a day at least but like recently ive found red spots that arent bumpy they go if i dont have sex/BJ for awhile but come back when i do, me and my GF where both virgins. is this a seri...
A. 16 March 2009: It could be anything - a rash, a mild allergic reaction to condoms ( ... you are using condoms, right!) or worst case scenario, an STI, although if you were both virgins to begin with and have always used a condom, this is unlikely. I suggest you ... (read in full...)
I'm so depressed about my weight
Q. Hi guys... I know it's not so much of a love question but I really need help. I've been depressed about my weight now for a while [5 years to be exact!] and I don't know what to do. In the new year I decided that this was it and I was going to lose ...
A. 5 March 2009: You are honestly not the only one honey - I've struggled with my weight for years now and tried so many diets it's unreal. I have an incredibly active job, and I do eat pretty healthily all things considered but I just seemed to be stuck at a size ... (read in full...)
Pains in gallbladder.
Q. So this morning I started to have pains in the center of my abdomen like in below the heart and 3 inches above the stomach. It was so excruciating and my dad said he though it was probably my gallbladder getting back at me for eating a lot of fried ...
A. 3 March 2009: Go and see your doctor. End of. No arguments.
Agonising pain is NOT normal in any way, shape or form!
It might be your gallbladder, it might be something else.
Only a qualified doctor can tell you what is wrong, and give you the proper ways... (read in full...)
Don't want to marry him because of his mother's debt... cruel or smart?
Q. Hi, I am 21 years old and I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years. My boyfriend and I have not really talked seriously about marriage, as I have made it very clear that I do not want to get married until after I get my PhD (in 5-6 years). I ...
A. 3 March 2009: When someone dies, debts are recoverable from any assets or money left behind by the deceased. This is known as the 'estate'. No one else has to pay for the debts unless they are already liable under the terms of the original agreement, e.g. the ... (read in full...)
A negative test but positive symptoms, what does this mean?
Q. hi i stopped taking my pill a month and a half ago and started to have sex with my boyfriend nearly everyday unprotected, but i have not started my period now it been two week late. however i have taken a pregnancy test and it was negative, although...
A. 25 February 2009: I'd suggest you either take another test in a few days, or make an appointment with your GP and get a test done there.
Over the counter pregnancy tests aren't always 100% accurate, so its always worth getting it confirmed at the doctor.
If you ... (read in full...)
Breaking up and moving on
Q. How do you get over a breakup? Today, me and my boyfriend split up, i'm devostated and can't stop crying, please give me some tips on how to move on!? Thanks so much!...
A. 18 January 2009: It's only been a day honey, and I know it feels absolutely awful right now, but it will get easier ... I promise!
Don't be ashamed of crying - it's bound to be raw for the first few weeks or so. It's better to have a damn good cry when you need... (read in full...)
I have sexual feelings towards my own mother since childhood, what to do...?
Q. Myself 22 year old, I never asked this to anyone coz it's too weird but I want to ask you. I have sexual feeling for my mother since I was very small I use to smell my moms clothes left in the bathroom like her bra and panty I didn't know about ma...
A. 18 January 2009: Freud calls it the 'Oedipus complex' after the Greek mythological character Oedipus who killed his father and married his mother, albeit unknowingly!
It is actually a fairly common thing amongst male babies and toddlers - the idea that a boy's mo... (read in full...)
Should I have sex at the age of 14?
Q. im for years old i go to shaw high and my bf is well i really dnt kno how old he is but i kno he is in the 10th and go to shaw he respect the fact that i was not ready to have sex with him when i went over his house so we just kissed and just ...
A. 18 January 2009: I've said this many a time. I respect the law on underage sex, but if you truly feel you are ready then there isn't really anything a whole host of strangers can do to stop you! All we can do is advise you to make sure you are safe and protecte... (read in full...)
Do most men wake up "ready to go"?
Q. Whenever I spend the night at my boyfriends house, we end up having sex that night and as soon as he wakes up he wants to do it again because he says he's already hard. Do a lot of men do this too or is he just using this as an excuse to have sex?...
A. 16 January 2009: Morning glory can be a wonderful thing - since I moved in with my boyfriend, I don't need to go running in the morning as often ... :o)
Saves on gym bills too!
Fee... (read in full...)
10 days ago had sex, now maybe pregnant
Q. about 10 days ago, me and my boyfriend had sex and i think im pregnant. My boobs are sore, there is thick white discharge from my vagina, my period is due around the 1st of the month please help me as im really scared...
A. 16 January 2009: Take a pregnancy test either at your GP, clinic or buy one from a chemist. There is no point being scared to death when you have the capability to CHECK. If the test comes back positive, then you need to discuss your options with the doctor.
If yo... (read in full...)
I need a new me!!!
Q. Might be a superficial question but I'm very down about myself these days. It's because of the way I look and how I think this makes people treat me differently, earlier this week I decided I wanted a change, and I wanted to dye my hair dark instead ...
A. 15 January 2009: Oh I'd kill for a prominant nose ... mine is like a little button mushroom, and it just makes my face look ... squishy :o) But I've learned to accept it for what it is, and make sure I accent the parts of my face I believe to be pretty.
Every... (read in full...)
Is there an easy and secure way to avoid her getting pregnant???
Q. Hi, yesterday I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend. I didn't cum inside her, I came outside but after some minutes we started having sex again still without protection and without me having cleaned my penis. She is in her fertile period, ...
A. 15 January 2009: This has been debated several times that I have seen on this website, but even if you didn't orgasm, there is a chance you were producing precum which contains sperm. So yes, there is a chance she could be pregnant. If it was only 24 hours ag... (read in full...)
How to avoid rash shaving "down there"
Q. Hello, im 15 and i shave down there, and i get really bad shaving rash. i've tried creams and they don't work and i don't really want to wax, so how can i stop or minimize shaving rash? many thanks! x...
A. 15 January 2009: Ooh, if it were that simple hon! The following worked pretty well for me, but I got so sick of it I opt for waxing or epilating now ... bloody hurts the first time, but you get used to it! Best thing you can do is: * shave after a hot bath ... (read in full...)
Sexually molested--am I still a virgin?
Q. when i was a little girl of 11 years old , i got molested sexually by many people .i didnt know what that meant back then and honestly i dont know what it was like i mean if i was fully raped coz i didnt bleed. now im in a love relationship and ...
A. 15 January 2009: If your attackers assaulted you but did not physically penetrate you, then yes you are still a virgin. If they did penetrate you, then in medical terms, you are no longer a virgin. If you aren't a virgin, all you can do is explain to your bo... (read in full...)
Her period isn't due for another 5 days, can she be pregnant?
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time on Saturday. We used a condom and were really safe. I did'nt even cum. Now my girlfriend has cramps and her period is'nt due for another 5 days. Can she be pregnant?...
A. 14 January 2009: Can I first just congratulate you for using a condom - so many young couples just can't get it into their heads that protection is essential! The cramps could be simply be an indication that her period is coming up, or just her body's natural r... (read in full...)
Has anyone else noticed an change in eye colour when horny?
Q. This is a bit of weird question, but my boyfriend's eyes turn from a light blue to a deep green when he's horny. It's a real turn on but just wondering whether anyone else has experienced this? :) He's not realised this change until I pointed it out ...
A. 14 January 2009: Yep - mine change from blue to green too :o) not quite as intensely as you describe, but there is definitly a noticable varience.
Haven't yet worked out if it's a trick of the light or whatever, but I don't think it's uncommon to have variatio... (read in full...)
Her bad moods are bringing me down!
Q. I've been dating my fiance for over a year. We're engaged to be married in 5 months. I love her so much and she's warm and afffectionate 95% of the time. The problems is that when she gets stressed for frustrated, she snaps at me and gets bitchy ...
A. 14 January 2009: Roadman has made some smashing suggestions there! The only thing I would add:
Is she in the same age bracket as you have specified - 41-50?
And is this a recent thing, or has it been going on since you started dating.
Do you think it could b... (read in full...)
My mom will never talk to me again if she knew I need birth control! Help!
Q. Please please help me? My boyfriend and I lost our virginity with eachother a few weeks ago. We have sex quite a lot and we haven't had sex without a condom. We ALWAYS use one. There's no way I can raise a baby. We really want to use birth control. ...
A. 14 January 2009: Explain to your mum you honestly feel you are ready, and you would like some advice on birth control.
Tell her you have every intention to keep using condoms as well - and I do think this is a must.
You are a very intelligent girl for using th... (read in full...)
If you stop masturbating for too long can it hurt you?
Q. Well Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and I am sick of always having sex with him, sometimes if were just laying there watching a movie its all he can think about and I don't wanna be mean and then I feel bad when I say no so ...
A. 14 January 2009: Now the first thing that sprang into my head here was he might have been exaggerating a little to get you to break your no sex rule! I did hear somewhere that it can get very uncomfortable for a male if they ignore a hard on for too long ... I'v... (read in full...)
Valentines Gift Idea...
Q. Hiya, I know its fairly early to be thinking about gifts for valentines day but I'd like some of your opinions with regards to my gift idea.. Its mine and my boyfriend's first Valentines Day together and I really want to get him something differ...
A. 14 January 2009: I do love Valentine's Day, but it drives me mad when all you get is a bunch of flowers and a box of chocolates ... rather lacks in imagination, don't you think!
Your photo shoot sounds like a wicked idea - what man wouldn't want to see his girl... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 13 January 2009: Oh V, my head is telling me to tell you to give her the benefit of the doubt, assume she is a little insecure about sharing her network of friends because you are a groovy kitten and she is scared of losing either you or them, and just carry on with ... (read in full...)
Can I be pregnant if the guy didn't cum?
Q. Ive had lots of sexual experiences, but im really clueless about it to be honest! So Im wondering.. -Can i be pregnant if the guy didnt cum? -Would I notice if the condom breaks? -If a guy cums in my ass is there any possibility it might som...
A. 13 January 2009: Your first two questions have been answered spot on. But - noooooooo, no no no no ... no!! You can't get pregnant from anal sex - no way, no how! The anal passage leads to the bowels and all those bits and pieces - no where near your reproduc... (read in full...)
He cries, writes poems, and is a pansy - and he want me to have his baby!!
Q. Hello, I need help, ive been going out with a boy, im fourteen and he's fifteen, hes normal looking but... he writes poems, LOVE poems, he wears wastecoats and ties and says he's got the "italian look" he calls having sex "my expression of my love ...
A. 13 January 2009: Oh bless, he sounds like a sweetheart! But I suppose that's just from one paragraph - I can see how it could get annoying after a while ...
He might just be very in touch with his creative side, and trying to be romantic. On the other hand, yo... (read in full...)
I get no pleasure out of sex
Q. Ive had alot of sex, but ive NEVER had an orgasm with a guy. I think Ive had an orgasm while touching myself, but even then I was only rubbing my clit...and there was no "cum". Did it count as an orgasm or was it just me thinking I had one!? A...
A. 13 January 2009: If you are asexual, it doesn't mean you can't be *physically* attracted to men, it's about being *sexually* attracted to men.
There is just one thing that needs a bit of clarification ... do you:
a) enjoy sex, but find it frustrating/have... (read in full...)
Period 9 days late!
Q. Hi any advice would really help me I slept with boyfriend a few times without using any contraceptive. I know this was stupid so please do not point that out. But i am now 9 days late, but i have taken 3 seperate pregnancy test which all say ne...
A. 13 January 2009: Mommy is right - your nerves about it might be making you late. Stress and worry do funny things to a girl's hormones!
I'd go see your GP if you are worried - he or she will probably do a blood test rather than making you pee on a stick :o) and ... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 13 January 2009: I did sort of touch on it in my first answer, but the only other thought I had today (yes, you were on my mind at work today, V!) is that perhaps it might have something to do with your bambini's being in the same grade ... is your daughter a high ... (read in full...)
Pregnant during period?
Q. im not on my period, but i bled on my bf today during sex(alot to), im pretty sure he had a lil pre cum get on the outter lip of my vagina, but im not bleeding now, but if i am suppose to be on my period and im not bleeding can i still get pregnant?...
A. 12 January 2009: Oh, OK. It is just in your opening statement, you said you weren't on your period when you were bleeding ... I also never said you have an STI - I just said bleeding between periods could be an indication of a lot of things including an STI.... (read in full...)
Help with ex and strech marks
Q. I have two problems 1. My boyfriend of 8 months dumped me shortly after Christmas saying he wasn't too sure he loved me anymore. I thought I was over it, but he's had another lasses name on his msn and it got me really upset. I've taken all the st...
A. 12 January 2009: Break ups are always difficult hon, but the vast majority of us go through it and, as naff as it sounds, it does get better with time.
I'd suggest getting rid of the stuff under your bed for a start!
And don't feel bad about your emotions - ... (read in full...)
We've been together 11 months now but I want to be with someone else...
Q. I have a girlfriend who I have been with for 11 months, but I'm starting to feel like I'm losing the spark with her and I'm starting to get feelings for this other girl, Julie, who my girlfriend hates. I tell her I don't speak to Julie but I do and ...
A. 12 January 2009: Sparks fade hon - fact of life.
You can't keep on with your current relationship if it does not make you happy.
Tell her face to face with none of this "we need to talk, it's not you, it's me" bulls**t.
If you tell her the truth, you feel ... (read in full...)
What should I do about him now?
Q. We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving h...
A. 12 January 2009: Turn the tables - say it was your best mate in your position with her boyfriend, you'd think he was a tosser, right? You'd tell her to get rid, right? Sounds like he is the one playing games chick - emotional blackmail pretty much!. Spanne... (read in full...)
I get laughed at in work cause of my age gap with my partner!
Q. I am dating a man in scotland who is 19 years older than me, he knows I love him, but people at work take the mick out of me cause I'm 24 and he is 42, what should I do? ...
A. 12 January 2009: Tell them it is annoying you and ask in all seriousness what their problem is! Are these people your friends outside of work? Is it any of their business who you date? If it is a large proportion of the people you work with, I suggest keeping... (read in full...)
Boyfriend not off well financially but its draining me both financially & mentally--I'm tired of it!
Q. I have spent 5 years without a proper job since I graduated from university. Those have been the toughest times of my life. I was trying very hard to get a job but it was getting more difficult. I did part time jobs and went as far as writing for ...
A. 12 January 2009: I don't think you are being mean at all hon.
It's your sanity in the balance here, and it sounds like you have worked bloody hard to get where you are today and earn a decent salary!
You need to do what is right for YOU. Sit him down and tal... (read in full...)
If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?
Q. I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...
A. 12 January 2009: Perhaps she doesn't want to share her friends, or maybe she is worried they will prefer you to her. Maybe she is struggling to make friends herself at the club, and doesn't want you to know about it. Or, perhaps she thinks you will be b... (read in full...)
Pregnant during period?
Q. im not on my period, but i bled on my bf today during sex(alot to), im pretty sure he had a lil pre cum get on the outter lip of my vagina, but im not bleeding now, but if i am suppose to be on my period and im not bleeding can i still get pregnant?...
A. 12 January 2009: I'm going to be reasonably blunt about this sweetpea ... The moment a man penetrates you without protection, you could get pregnant. It doesn't matter if you are upside down, on a swing, in a bed or on an aeroplane - precum DOES contain sperm, t... (read in full...)
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