Is it illegal for a step-brother and step-sister to have a baby together?
Q. is it illegal for a step brother and step sister to have a baby together?...
A. 28 May 2009: If you are step-brother and sister by marriage then it isn't illeagal to have a baby together because you are not blood related.
I'm not to sure about weather its leagal having a child with a blood related sibling.. Google it :)
Livia
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What do people think about casual sex?
Q. I'd like peoples opinions on casual sex (one night stands and friends with benefits). Do you think either are morally ok? I am trying to make my mind up on weither i think they are accetable and would like some opinions. ...
A. 24 May 2009: I would hate to sleep with someone on a casual sex basis.
Sex is much better if theres love there.
If you sleep around then you will get a reputation and when you find "the one" do you really want that reputation following you??
Livia
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Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?
Q. ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ...
A. 24 May 2009: Most guys like no hair down there at all.
If you can't bring yourself to wax then get some hair remove cream! Its a good cheat :P
Livia
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What is it that tells you that an older guy likes you, I'm 14, he is in his twenties?
Q. How does a 14 year old girl tell if a grown man likes her? Cuz my friend tells me that this guy ( in his 20's acted like he liked me). Please give me some ways i could tell if a older guy likes me....
A. 24 May 2009: A older man in his 20's shouldn't even be looking at a 14 year old girl!
Don't get yourself into that, go for an older boy in their teens.
My best friend is 15 and dated a 28 year old guy and has been abused by him. Don't let it happen to you... (read in full...)
How do I get put into care?
Q. MOD NOTE: USER SAYS HE IS 15 AND NOT THE AGE STATED. I want to go into foster care but i'm not sure how to go about it.. i've told my mum i want to and she seems angry but says if thats what i really want she's going to take me to some place in...
A. 22 May 2009: You can call Childline 0800 1111. its a free call and you can talk to someone and if need be they can put you into care.
If you go into care the chances are that the police will be called on your mum for hitting you. Your mum is going to be upset... (read in full...)
Should I try to be cool or just be myself?
Q. Since the girl I like turned me down my friend wants to make me "cool". A High Schooler on my bus , who is a girl, says to be myself. I dont know what to do be cool or myself. ...
A. 22 May 2009: Always be yourself or they will fall for someone your not and you going to have to spend everyday pretending.
Find that someone who loves you for you!
Livia
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I'm in love with someone I've never even spoken to! :(
Q. hi, well bassicaly this is quite funny! but i swear im in love with someone ive never even spooken to!,its getting so bad i cant stop thinking about this boy 3 and the thing is i dont know if he likes me too but someway i think he does kinda, as ...
A. 21 May 2009: Your not in love, You have a very big crush on someone.
Love is where you love their personality and would do anything for them.
Talk to this guy! Theres no harm in getting to know him. Go over to him and say hi and give him a compliment and g... (read in full...)
I WON'T leave her!
Q. There is a girl in my grade that I like and she hates me. I will NOT leave her. Please help me!!...
A. 21 May 2009: I think you might have to leave her alone if she doesn't want to speak to you.
if you want her to like you, give her space and do the odd nice thing for her or say she looks pretty today.
Just give her space.
Livia
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How can I force my girlfriend into dropping some weight?
Q. Ive been dating my girlfriend off and on for two years. We are both in our 40's and she is a couple of years older than me and has two grown up kids. We get on really great and spend a lot of time together, although we don't live together. She is a...
A. 21 May 2009: HOW SHALLOW ARE YOU?
Your ment to love this woman no matter what! Looks don't come into it, its personality that matters.
If shes happy with how she looks then you shouldn't want to change her! She doesn't live to please you matety!
You d... (read in full...)
Help! I really want to go but I don't know how to tell my mum, and what their reaction will be...
Q. Ok.. well I really need help, I'm gay, my parents know and all they're not happy but they cope with it... Anyway I met some boy online and he asked me on a date, I really want to go but I don't know how to tell my mum, and what their reaction will ...
A. 21 May 2009: Its not safe at all to meet up with someone you met online.
My mum works with lots of people who have met up with teenagers they met on the internet and abused them.
My advice would be not to go. You don't know who this person is.
Your pare... (read in full...)
All the signs of pregnancy but all the tests are coming back negative!
Q. Help! I always have regular periods and i skipped my first ever one two weeks ago! I went to my local family planning clinic a week after it was due to be tested for pregnancy and it came back negative, they told me to wait a week and go back. I ...
A. 21 May 2009: Wait abit longer. It sometimes takes time to show up on a test.
If not you might be under stress which is causing your period to stop and giving you headaches.
Livia
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Are accidental burps/farts a turn off to guys?
Q. a bit of a strange question i know, but is it completely off putting for a guy when your girlfriend accidentally burps/farts while they're with them? and i dont mean on a regular basis, just a once off thing where its just loud and undeniably came ...
A. 21 May 2009: Everyone does it.
Just laugh it off with him, if hes mature enough he will find the funny side.
Livia
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Emergency contraception! Please Help!!!!
Q. emergency!!!!!!!!!!!! please help this is really urgent. im 15 and i had sex for the second time with my boyfriend about 2 hours ago. However he pulled out of me and the condom wasnt on him we found it just at the opening of me and the tip wa...
A. 21 May 2009: You can buy the morning after pill from the pharmasy even though you are under 16.
Any form of contreception can be sold to anyone over 13.
Go straight away and get it either from your doctor or the clinic.
There is a chance you could be ... (read in full...)
I need someone to talk to
Q. Hi... Is there anyone I can talk to about stuff? I'm a teenager, don't have many issues, but I do really need someone to talk to, because my family doesn't really care how I feel as long as I do well.. Thanks :)...
A. 19 May 2009: Feel free to message me at anytime, I'm always happy to help and talk through any of your problems.
Livia
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I need some advice about the age of consent!
Q. I am a 17 year old female. My boyfriend is 15 years old. He is a freshman in High school, I am a junior. I will turn 18 two months before he is 16. We live in Massachusetts and his parents are completely ok with us dating. Am I still legally al...
A. 19 May 2009: You are leagally allowed to date him but if anything happens sexually between you then that is illegal until he is 16.
Livia
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Pregnancy concerns, even been to doctor about it
Q. I have lately been worried about pregnancy. I haven't had my period in more than two months now, though my cycle is every 6 weeks. My boyfriend and I do have sex, but few times and we use a condom each time. When my period was late, i took a ...
A. 17 May 2009: If you have taken the morning after pill and the doctor has confirmed you are not pregnant then you are not pregnant.
Periods can be irrugular right up until you have children, its not unheard of.
Also worrying about if you are pregnant can del... (read in full...)
What does cum taste like?
Q. hey guys, I was wondering what 'cum' really tastes like? I have heard on here and friends that it tastes real bad and can anyone relate what it tastes like to a certain food or something? so then at least when the time comes I will be ready, so wha...
A. 14 May 2009: Really salty!!
Eating popcorn makes it taste better lol :P
Livia
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Do most marriages become sexless after 20 years?
Q. Do you think most marriages becomes sexless,after 20 years,and people just decide to stay together? Or it is just my therapist who says that? She says , just read any statistics, on this, people can't be sexual for 40 years..' She said it's no longe...
A. 14 May 2009: No.. You can be sexualy active as long as you want to be.
Lots of people are sexualy active all their life.
Don't believe anything that you read, its not true. If you find each other attractive and want to do it then you are right?
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Oral sex problems....
Q. my husband wants me to swallow but the taste is horrible...ive tried to get him to eat fruit but he doesnt like any kind of fruit...well here's the thing when he goes down on me he only licks my clit and never puts his tounge in me...if hes not ...
A. 14 May 2009: He can't make you do anything you don't want to do. Tell him straight that you don't like it and won't do it and thats the end of it.
But you can't also expect him to do things for you if you won't do it for him.
Livia
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Trying to have a baby! What are the odds?
Q. So me and my boyfriend are trying to have a child. While I was on my period we had sex and he came in me. The day after I got off he came in me, and yesterday he came in me and the day b4 that he came in me.. I just wanted to see if you guys that ...
A. 14 May 2009: In your cycle your egg is normaly is normaly relised about 1 week after you finshed your period.
So your chances of being pregnant and quite small.
You are most ferltile about 2-3 weeks after your period.
Good luck :)
Livia
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Too many times for oral sex?
Q. oral sex question i gave head for the first time the other day and im 15 i did it five times is that too much for first time or in general too much anytime? and should i have swallowed please help x...
A. 14 May 2009: If your boyfriend wanted to do it and you felt confortable with giving it then no its not to much.
You don't have to "swallow". Not all girls like the taste of cum, so most of them don't swallow it. You don't have to do anything you don't want to.... (read in full...)
If he wants anal then go gay!
Q. What is up with guys wanting to try Anal!! I am tired of every single guy i have dated wanting to try it. I am a girl I have a vag... If he wants anal go gay!!... Please explain how a guy sticking his dick in a butt hole with poop coming out of be ...
A. 14 May 2009: You don't have to be gay to try anal.
Lots of straight guys want to do it.
Boys like it because the hold is tigher than your vagina and gives them more pleasure. Some girls like the feeling of it and others hate it.
If you douche properly ther... (read in full...)
Peter Andre and Katie Price breaking up has really upset me. Help!
Q. I feel seriously pathetic and stupid for asking for adivce on this... but thank you guys for even reading the question. I'm sure all you people in the UK will have heard the news that peter andre and katie price are splitting up? Well it has real...
A. 12 May 2009: How many times have these guys split up? Shes always partying without her wedding ring.
You have looked up to them as role models and to hear they have split up has effected you because you have formed a personal relationship with them by reading ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and then he gave me an STD! Keep him or move on?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for three years. Hes always been the love of my life, until about a week ago i found out that he had cheated on me. Due to his dumb actions i now have an STD. He knows he messed up, and has apologized. I truely believe he ...
A. 12 May 2009: Your really going to hate me for saying this but he may be the love of your life but do you really think you are the love of his?
He cheated on you. Babe i'm really sorry but you don't cheat on someone you love and would give the world to be wi... (read in full...)
How do I forget past problems?
Q. I cannot stop thinking about some problems that stressed me very much at my past job, now I have a better one but I don't seem to be able to move on and relax my head about it completely any tips on how to manage??? thank you in advance...
A. 12 May 2009: You need to tell yourself straight what happened in the past is going to stay in the past and you are going to change things for the better now.
Everytime you think of a problem that happened you need to ask yourself why am i wasting my time thi... (read in full...)
I can't seem to compare to his ex. What should I do?
Q. I have been with my bf/finace for a year but we met a few years before that. When we met all those years ago, he had just come out of a relationship with a girl. From what I have been told (by him), she was the first girl that he was very serious...
A. 12 May 2009: The first thing to do is to stop comparing yourself to his ex. His ex girlfriend is history and you are presant.
Anybody who is in love will be very upset if they lose the person they love. I'm very sure your boyfriend would be very upset if he lo... (read in full...)
He got another woman pregnant...what should I do?
Q. I need some help. Last summer i was seeing this lad who is 4 years older than me for a few months, we got together, but because of the age gap it never went anywhere and we stopped talking. This January we got together properly, our relationship...
A. 12 May 2009: Relationships can work like this.
He has a right to have contact with his child after all it takes two people to make a child.
You can still make this relationship work, you can have kids with him and be together for life the only difference i... (read in full...)
Should I keep our baby? Please help me...
Q. I'm in a bit of a tricky situation. I'm almost 17 and my boyfriend is 19. I just recently found out i am pregnant, my boyfriend says he doesn't feel he's ready to be a dad and feels i should abort but says it's my decision, he'll be there no matter ...
A. 12 May 2009: None of us can make the decision for you, its something that you have to do yourself.
You can do a number of things.
Abortion - Not the most pleasant option and afterwards you might regret it as this child is a part of you. You will be sat in a... (read in full...)
How can we stay safe?
Q. Right, me and my mate and her friend (all of us 15) are going to a gig next weekend. The problem is its abour 200 miles away and we'd have to stay overnight on the street. We really want to go and we've planned the train journey and we have the ...
A. 12 May 2009: Talk to them and say how you feel.
Its not a good idea. As i have already written i've done this with my friends and i was with two adult boys and i was so scared.
You won't enjoy yourself because you will keep thinking what if something happen... (read in full...)
Will I ever find a guy who really likes me back?
Q. always picking a guy i really like who doesn,t like me but always likes some one eles.i mean a guy i really really like .will i ever find a guy who i really like who like me back.i,ll always be alone by the looks of it ...
A. 11 May 2009: Stop looking for people. Enjoy life and wait for them to come to you.
You will find find someone :) Just be yourself, join a few clubs which intrest you and you will find people just like you and you never know that special someone could be there... (read in full...)
How can we stay safe?
Q. Right, me and my mate and her friend (all of us 15) are going to a gig next weekend. The problem is its abour 200 miles away and we'd have to stay overnight on the street. We really want to go and we've planned the train journey and we have the ...
A. 11 May 2009: I did this not to long ago but we had a car to stay in so we were a little more safe than you guys will be.
I was still scared when i did this and we had two boys over 18 with us. When it gets dark the world is a whole different place. Whenever... (read in full...)
Shd I call her and ask how her exam went?
Q. i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt love her...i cared for her a lot and really struggled a lot to push her away and i have broken all contacts ...she meant a lot to me and it was so painful to dump her ...somehow i have been able to reduce the ...
A. 11 May 2009: I care about my ex boyfriend in a friend way. I don't like him in that way.
I'm sure you care about your friends so what stops your from being allowed to care about her still.
You can never really stop caring about someone after a good rel... (read in full...)
Parents made me split up with my boyfriend
Q. Hey. Need some help... well a few months ago my parents made me split up with my boyfriend. I've never been so hurt. I'm not allowed to talk to him, see him, or talk to anyone he knows... which really sucks. anyways thats not what I need help...
A. 11 May 2009: You are 16, so you should have more freedom now.
Your parents only want the best for you but some parents show care and love in a way which annoys us.
You can go get a pay as you go phone which isn't that expencive and you can top it up when you ... (read in full...)
Daughter will not speak to me because I dojn't like her boyfriend
Q. My daughter will not speak to me because, I dislike her boyfriend. My daughter has two children with him. Who I do not see. He has alienated her from me. Also he does not work she supports him and his family. I've tried to e-mail. Nothing works. I ...
A. 11 May 2009: Send her a letter just explaining that you miss her and you want the relationship you had with her back. Give examples of memorys you had together. Say you don't mind about her husband you just want her back in your life.
Offer to do simple t... (read in full...)
Shd I call her and ask how her exam went?
Q. i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt love her...i cared for her a lot and really struggled a lot to push her away and i have broken all contacts ...she meant a lot to me and it was so painful to dump her ...somehow i have been able to reduce the ...
A. 11 May 2009: Yeh i would call her to say good luck with it and then afterwards. It shows you can be mature and even though you have split up you can still care for her.
I think she would be happy to hear from you if you talked about this exam. You guys can... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time getting turned on by g/f
Q. Ok honestly is the best policy. I have had no trouble at all with any other woman previous to my current girlfriend of 4 months. We had wonderful sex for the first few times and now I'm having trouble getting turned on! And to be honest I tried it ...
A. 11 May 2009: "I tried it with a previous lover while i was with my girl to make sure it was still working" ... " i do LOVE her"
So you love your girlfriend enough to cheat on her with an ex lover? Is that what love really is to you? How hurt would she be if she ... (read in full...)
Texting me for sex
Q. Dear Cupid, Last week i wrote to you about the problem i had with my friend and the whole sex with benefits ordeal. After i wrote to you he contined to text me asking for sex, i said i was busy every time hoping he would get the message. Then yest...
A. 11 May 2009: Walk away from this guy, hes clearly a user and his new girlfriend will find that out sooner or later.
You don't want this boy to hurt you anymore so show him what maturity is and rie above him and move on.
You can't get your viginity bac... (read in full...)
Fooling around...and now I cant pee!
Q. My boyfriend and I were messing around last week. Afterward, it hurt a little more than usual in the next couple of days, and a pain kept lingering. Yesterday, we got... um... naughty in a pool and now every time I use the bathroom I feel a searing...
A. 11 May 2009: You need to go see a doctor.
This could be anything from cystitis which you can get tablets from your local supermarket to an STI which the doctor will have to treat you for.
None of us are trained doctors so we can't tell you exactly whats wr... (read in full...)
I'm apple shaped but he prefares pear shaped, what should I do?
Q. I am married to a man who is attracted to pear-shaped women. I am an apple-shape, and this has caused me to want to end the marriage. He always watches porn or looks at women that have a pear-shape. I can't change what i don't have. It has ...
A. 11 May 2009: You can't change what shape you are and you should love yourself the way you are because you were made that way which makes you beautiful.
You husband watchs porn, I think this is what the main problem is. Sit him down and calmly explain that thi... (read in full...)
Is she pregnant?
Q. Hey everyone my friend and I are a bit confused and need a little help she had sexual intercourse without protection in February but had what seemed like a period took a pregnancy test and it was negative then bled again in March but in April had no ...
A. 11 May 2009: If shes bleeding then she shouldn't be pregnant.
Worrying if you are pregnant can delay or even stop your period so just get her to relax about it.
Get her to take another test and then wait 48 hours and do another one. If they both come back ne... (read in full...)
Is anybody familiar with the idea of "peaking"?
Q. This is a sexual question. Is anybody familiar with the idea of "peaking"- building her level of arousal in steps. If so I would like some advice- I stimulate my girlfriends vagina, and then when she's close, I slow it down a bit, or tr...
A. 11 May 2009: The "Peaking" methord just isn't what some people want.
Stimulate you girlfriend slowly by touching her body all over and the concentrate touching her thighs then work up to her vagina and touch her softly and gentaly without touching her clit and... (read in full...)
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