My problem is when I cum I squirt!!!
Q. I am 20 years old and started dating a new guy about a month ago. We haven't had sex yet but I know it is going to happen soon. My problem is when I cum I squirt, the first time it happened I had never even heard of it and had to look it up onli...
A. 15 March 2009: You lucky girl! Most girls would kill to do that during sex!
It won't put your boyfriend off. He loves you and if he loves you enough to have sex with you he won't care what happens aslong as you both enjoy yourself!
I think it will turn him on... (read in full...)
I don't feel the love for him I once did
Q. I met my current boyfriend in the 7th grade when I was dating his older brother. He has liked me since then(i'm now a senior) well we started dating almost a year ago and he from the first week has been telling me he loves me and wants to marry me. ...
A. 15 March 2009: Its not fair on either of you staying together.
Its not fair on you because you feel you have to stay with him to make him happy. Its not fair on him because he thinks you still love him when you clearly don't.
I think it would be a good idea if... (read in full...)
What are the signs of a true female orgasm?
Q. I want to know what the signs of a "true female orgasm" are. I know that there are some people who say that you can't tell but I don't believe that. So someone please help me by making this clear to me....
A. 15 March 2009: Some girls find it hard to orgasam during sex so they try and fake an orgasam.
An orgasam is basically controlled by the involuntary, or autonomic, nervous system and is mussle contractions in the lower pelvic muscles which surround the primary ... (read in full...)
Latex allergy or something else? Temporary relief?
Q. I had sex the other day with a new partner and we used a condom, and a vibrator. I took all the proper precautions, it wasnt my first time. But as time passed i started feeling dry and itchy and swollen. This has only happened to me one other time...
A. 15 March 2009: Put some gental moisturiser on it or some talcum powder which should help. Also wear cotton underwear which will be softer down there.
Try and book a doctors appointment for as soon as possible because you do need a professional opinion on it.
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How can I make it up to him?
Q. I'm not sure how to word this so I'll just tell the story and hope for the best. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now, and, up untill yesterday, everything was perfect. We only really see eachother once a week on a saturday...
A. 15 March 2009: Being a teenager you have so many hormones going around your body so it will cause you to have alot of emotion and get annoyed at the simplest things. I think you just need to talk to your boyfriend and just say your sorry and didn't mean to a... (read in full...)
Period sex days late
Q. dear cupid, my period is late normally i am late but i am now about 6 days late and i am worrying, two weeks ago i had a courseowrk deadline and i stressed out abit but i dont think it was that bad i would skip a period.also i starting m...
A. 15 March 2009: Some peoples periods don't settle down into a cycle until they have a child.
Your completely normal! When you are a teenager your periods can have a cycle from 26-52 days!
Even a small amount of stress can delay your period. For your GCSE Co... (read in full...)
I can't seem to find that special someone
Q. I am feeling frustrated about my singlehood. My last relationship was 8 years ago and after that relationship, it seems like I can't seem to find any nice guy who wants to be in a relationship with me. I have been to single activities, go for casu...
A. 15 March 2009: Love finds you when your not looking.
Find some new hobbies that you want to try like going to different clubs. Try sailing because you will be in a small space with about 5 other people and believe me you make life long friends and get very pers... (read in full...)
Have been with over 20 men in the last 18 months..sexual addiction!
Q. Hi, Have been married for over 20 years. 2 years ago husband started working away from home. Was very lonely and turned to chatting on the internet. Met a man. He was everything I could have wanted. And sex was wonderful. Short story my husband f...
A. 15 March 2009: This isn't fair on your husband that loves you.
Just think to yourself, hes loved you for 20 years and your repaying him by sleeping with men you have met on the internet.
We all get lonely when our partener is away but you have got to stop your... (read in full...)
Latex allergy or something else? Temporary relief?
Q. I had sex the other day with a new partner and we used a condom, and a vibrator. I took all the proper precautions, it wasnt my first time. But as time passed i started feeling dry and itchy and swollen. This has only happened to me one other time...
A. 15 March 2009: Condoms contain a lube. You may be experiencing an alergic reaction to this. Change to a different make of condoms this may help. I advise you to go see a doctor about this and they can help you better. Livia xx... (read in full...)
How do I trust her when I know this guy wants her?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 years. Recently she has made friends with a guy who I think just wants to get into her pants. She wants to go and hang out with him. She says she won't let anything happen and I do trust her but she ...
A. 15 March 2009: Your girlfriend has a right to see anyone she wants. If you act controlling towards her it will just cause arguments.
If she wanted to do things with this guy why would she be with you? She loves you and if she wanted anyone else she wouldn't... (read in full...)
Sex hurts for her afterwards
Q. me and my girlfriend have been very close and even intimate on a few occasions, however when we do have sex she gets a pain down below once we finish. she thinks its "probably just a cut or something" and not to worry about it. but weve stopped ...
A. 15 March 2009: Your girlfriend is experiencing pain because you are going through her hymen.
For some girls they have a thick hymen which can cause alot of pain when having sex.
Where as some girls have harderly no hymen at all.
To help stop this pain try fo... (read in full...)
What are the chances I'm pregnant?
Q. Well I'm 15, and on Thursday I had the implant put in. I am still taking my pill every day, but on Saturday I had sex twice without a condom. What are the chances I'm pregnant? I don't think they are very high but I'm still kinda worried... Please I ...
A. 15 March 2009: If you are taking the pill correctly you have a 1 in 100 chance of getting pregnant.
Taking the pill correctly is having one every 24hours without being 6 hours late.
Just because you are on the pill does not mean you suddenly forget condo... (read in full...)
I'm not experienced..what should I do next?
Q. I need some advice regarding a fella I have liked for a while. We work together and we started to flirt about three years ago but we never really spoke until about two years ago, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out without an excus...
A. 14 March 2009: Don't just have sex with someone. Make sure you are in a loving and commited relationship before you do or you are at risk for being used by him.
Invite him out for a drink or go and watch a movie. Get to know each other more and you might ju... (read in full...)
Should I visit her or not?
Q. This girl just brokeup with my bestfriend now she is calling me frequently that i should visìt her and to buy something for her while coming. I tryd to avoid her but she kept persuading me to come and she îs stayin alone. I have told my ...
A. 14 March 2009: Do you want to be with this girl or not?
If you do then go visit her but if you don't stay clear of her because visiting her would give her the wrong impression, she obviously still likes you and wants to get back with you or she would leave you ... (read in full...)
How can we tell my parents we want to live together when they don't like him?
Q. Well am only 17 years old this year am going to be 18. I'm the only girl my parents have out of 5 kids so they take care of me alot. But I've been dating this guy for about 1 and half year. My parents don't really like him so at first we both ...
A. 14 March 2009: When your 18 you are legaly an adult and you can do what you like without your parents consent.
I would invite your boyfriend over and sit them down and calmly explain that you are together and love each other very much. Make sure your boyfrien... (read in full...)
She's a couple days late, but we are so scared. What are the chances?
Q. I live in the US. My GF of 17 months might be pregnant, we had intercourse 7 days ago today. she is worried cause her period was suppose to happen and it hasnt yet. I did use a condom with spermicidial lube..but after i came, i kept going. and i ...
A. 14 March 2009: Your girlfriend could be pregnant.
I know people may know everyone in your community but you do need to go and get her a pregancy test. Get her to do one then do another one 48 hours later to see if the results are the same.
If she is pregnant ... (read in full...)
No confidence! Don't know how to meet people?
Q. Hi folks, I am stuck in a bit of a rut. My belief in my ability to find a relationship. I used to believe the main issue was being overweight. But I realise whilst it might be a factor, it isn't the single thing that prevents me from finding so...
A. 14 March 2009: You will find someone :) Just socialise with anyone, anywhere where you go. Say hi to someone on a bus or even the people in your uni just start a random coversation believe me it will make them smile. I used to have big confidence issues and my... (read in full...)
I want more than one boyfriend!
Q. how can a girl who has never had boyfriend get a few boyfriends? I would like some advice from the males. like flirting,clothes,makeup,how to talk to guys etc...
A. 13 March 2009: Don't change yourself just to get a boyfriend. If you change yourself you will find someone that won't love you for you they will love the person that you are pretending to be. If you want to find someone who you can have a relationship wit... (read in full...)
I think my buddy had sex with my girlfriend
Q. I need help me and my gf are both 15 and we've been going out for 8 months, we love eachother (not sexually active yet)... but im a little concerned, let me tell you the background of the story: she went to a latenight party last n...
A. 13 March 2009: I would go to your friend chad and ask him did he sleep with your girlfriend. Explain to him that you won't be angry with him you just want to know the truth. If they did sleep together don't have a go at both of them because that makes thing... (read in full...)
He made me feel like a dirty little slut
Q. Hello Friends! I have a scenario that I would like your opinion on. I was having a nice conversation with my boyfriend last night, and the topic turned to Hollywood actors. I was telling him who my favorites were. And then I said, Johnny Depp is ...
A. 13 March 2009: Explain to your boyfriend that you love him any no one else matters. Surely he knows you were only joking, most of the female population love Johnny Depp. Was he just having a bad day and kinda flipped? Phone him up tomorrow and just start ... (read in full...)
I'm not circumcized and amafraid of what girls would think
Q. I found out that i am not circumcised when i was about 12 or 13 and my mom told me to wash my skin good. I am mad at her that i am not circumcised because i think everybody i hang out with are circumcised and they think if you're not circumcised ...
A. 13 March 2009: Girls are not going to care if you have a foreskin or not. Don't have sex with just anyone, find someone who you love and care about and you should feel more relaxed. Girls won't laugh at you because of what you look like down there. We are scare... (read in full...)
300 calories weekdays, 3000 cals weekend. Will I lose weight?
Q. heyx i am on this new diet where i eat 300 calories and do half and hour exersize everyday. though one day a week, i eat 3000 calories, just so i can go out and have fun and EAT once in a while!! would i lose weight from this diet? (I want to lose ...
A. 11 March 2009: I've done the 2,4,6,8 diet which is kinda similar to this and it DOES NOT WORK!
As soon as you start eating again you put weight on quicker.
If you want to lose weight you have to do it over time for it to stay off.
Go speak to your doct... (read in full...)
I think I upset my teacher
Q. I'm afraid that I've upset my teacher. Our class was in the library today and we were supposed to be doing research for an upcoming project. I'd checked out a few books for it and felt pretty good about the whole thing, so i decided to read ...
A. 10 March 2009: Everyone goes on different sites at school other than the ones they are ment to. I've been in trouble alot for it but don't worry about it as long as you get your work done thats the main thing.
Why are you worried that you have upset him? Bec... (read in full...)
Our long distance relationship is taking its toll on us, how do we stop the silly arguments?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years we met while on holiday and live 200 miles apart we are in love and do want to be together but the distance is takin its tole on us. He moved in 3rd december and he recently moved back ...
A. 10 March 2009: I'm in a long distance relationship to with a boy who i met on holdiday. We used to have silly arguments but all we did to stop them was to talk everything through, like if one of us had a bad day insted of taking it out on each other we would ju... (read in full...)
Girlfriend too moody recently...
Q. Dear all, My girlfriend and I have been going out for 9 months. We're 2 school years apart but I'm 20 and she is 17, but the age difference never shows and I'm very happy in the relationship. More recently though, she has been going into moods more ...
A. 8 March 2009: At 17 girls have lots of hormones going around their body giving them mood swings. Be paitient and give her little compliments, it will make her feel better about herself as she is probs going through a stressfull time at the moment.
When you are ... (read in full...)
I'm only 21 and I have lost the passion for sex in my relationship.
Q. I am a 21 year-old female who has lost the passion for sex in my relationship. My fiance wants it all the time, and is beginning to feel rejected. If I am not in the mood it's no fun for either of us, so what should I do?...
A. 8 March 2009: Talk to your Fiancee about this. Say your not enjoying sex as much as you used to because of how much you do it.
Try and have sex twice a week and things should get better.
Say to him you will only have sex on lets say Tuesdays and Saturdays. M... (read in full...)
Are condoms enough?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a while and we have decided we are ready to sleep together, he knows that I am not on the pill (I don't want to) and he says a condom will be fine, which I sure it will be but I am a little concerened....
A. 8 March 2009: Condoms are safe as long as you use them properly.
This means you put them on correctly and don't put things like soap on them, don't ask why soap my doctor just said don't put soap on them :s
They do affectively protect you from STI's and Pr... (read in full...)
He can't maintain an erection and it's killing both of us!
Q. I've been patient for far too long now... I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. We don't live together and he's an hours bus journey away. I'm 23 and he's 24 and we've never successfully had sex :( when we went on our first ...
A. 8 March 2009: Explain to your boyfriend that you love him but this is getting you down. Say that you don't mind that he has a problem but he needs to get it sorted.
It sounds like hes scared to go to the doctor but believe me they have seen it all before a... (read in full...)
25 years old and never had a boyfriend...
Q. I need some help/advice. I am 25 years old, have never had a boyfriend, I have only kissed a bloke once (never anything else). I really like a guy I work with, it's the first time ever that I have actually been attracted to anyone, the thing is I ...
A. 8 March 2009: Forget the books and dvds. Everyone is different.
Get yourself out there and chat to him.
Say to yourself that you are going to be in a loving relationship by this time next year and have it as your goal.
Do something everyday which scares you... (read in full...)
What can I do to give him pleasure?
Q. I need some girlie advice, I have been seeing this amazing guy for about two months and we have just snogged and touched each other, I want to give him pleasure but as I have never done this before I need some advice. How do I start it, should I use ...
A. 8 March 2009: Heyaa
I found sex was alot better talking it over with my boyfriend before i did it.
Experiment with each other first and find out what each other likes. Something that drives my boyfriend crazy is when i kiss his neck and chest.
Be in contr... (read in full...)
Boyfriend beats the hell out of me
Q. My boyfriend beats the hell out of me when I get him upset (he says I'm "getting fly.") He choked me when I was 8 months pregnant (outside), and he beat me up in front of our 2 daughters and my lil sister. I have been kicked, punched, slapped, head ...
A. 8 March 2009: I know its hard to leave someone who you love.
But think about this. One day he could get so angry and beat you and leave you for dead. What will your daughters do? They need a caring mum.
If you stay with him when you daughters grow up he could... (read in full...)
Pregnant by precum followed by sex?
Q. Ok, silly question, how possible is it to get pregnant from pre cum? Followed by sex? We used a condom but needless to say there was some rubbing before the condom was put on and now I'm late. ...
A. 3 March 2009: I had the same problem as you.
I would go get checked but sometimes if you are too worried about it that will delay your period.
Good luck babe
Olivia
x... (read in full...)
23 year old male virgin needs your input
Q. Hello. I am a 23 year old male, heterosexual virgin with no relationship/intimate experience. My problems in these areas resulted primarily from social anxiety and an overall lack of self-confidence. Simply put, I have never taken the initiative ...
A. 3 March 2009: First of all your not a "Loser". Lots of people wait until they are married to have sex so your not alone being a virgin at 23.
If you find it hard to talk to girls mabey set up an account on a dating site. Also try and do something each day that... (read in full...)
Views on virginity
Q. Hey, I was just wondering what age did people lose their virginity and having lost it at that age do you wish you had been younger/older when it happened? I'm not thinking of having sex or anything quite yet, I'm just curious :) Thanks x...
A. 2 March 2009: I was 14 when i lost mine. It was on halloween and i have never regreted it.
I lost it to my boyfriend who i'm still with now :)... (read in full...)
Should we have sex or not?
Q. Im really young but my boyfriend and I want to have sex. we have fooled around naked but never did it for real. should we go for it or wait. [Moderator's note: Please add your real ages in case you registered with a wrong age which is the one that...
A. 28 February 2009: How old is really young? If you feel safe with having sex with your boyfriend then go for it but make sure you wear a condom. Talk things over with your boyfriend, believe me it helps you feel even more safe with him. Good luck Livia x... (read in full...)
Why is he such a playboy?
Q. I know this guy (22), you could call us friends I guess. We we drunk and ended up kissing one night. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I found out the very next night he tried to do something with a random girl! And we went to a party ...
A. 28 February 2009: Some guys just sleep with random girls for the fun of it.
I know it sounds weird to girls but its just what some boys do who arn't ready to settle down with a serious relationship.
Well done for saying no. It proves you respect yourself. If... (read in full...)
I'm worried about what people think about the age difference
Q. Im 15 nearly 16, i am going out with a girl 2 and a half years younger than me (13 nw). i really like her and think that the relationship may go somewhere. I do not mind the age difference and neither does she but when my friends found out they were ...
A. 24 February 2009: Don't listen to your friends. They will get over it in a while.
My boyfriend is 17 and i'm 14 and we have been together for ages now.
If you think this relationship will work then go for it. Age difference doen't matter.
Good luck.
Olivi... (read in full...)
How do I make my boobs smaller?
Q. okay so im 13 years old and my boobs are ridiculously huge(about 44DD!) And i really hate it. no 13 year old should have boobs that big. I can't wear any cute clothes because my boobs are too big to fit in them. and boys are always staring at me and ...
A. 23 February 2009: Don't go on any majoir diets. I'm 14 and when i was 12 i had a 36C and i went on a majoir diet to try and make my boobs smaller because i felt out of place but i just made my problems worse. I stopped eating and it just ended up in hospital. I don't ... (read in full...)
I'm desperate to have sex, any ideas?
Q. i want to have sex but im 15 and want to have sex but cant find a girl who live close to me and i cant find anyone on the web who is close to my age, what should i do?...
A. 16 February 2009: Don't have sex with people just for the fun of it. It will give you a cheap image and believe me you will regret it because no one will want to be in a relationship with you because they will think you are just after sex.
If you really want to ... (read in full...)
I need help with an erection problem, any suggestions from the guys?
Q. Hey I'm 15 and the other day me and my girlfriend went to have sex for the first time. It would of been my first time ever, but I couldn't get an erection and even when it got a little hard it just went again. I'm really attracted to my gf and alw...
A. 15 February 2009: Don't worry this is normal.
When my boyfriend and i first started to have sex he couldn't keep an errection but its nothing to do with you not being attracted to your girlfriend its because your nervous.
When you next try, take things slowe... (read in full...)
Dump or no dump?
Q. Today is Valentine's Day and I got a Valentine e-mail from the guy I've been dating for a year. I know things are tight, but come on... For Christmas, he asked what I wanted and I said I wanted charms for my bracelet. Guess what he got for me? ...
A. 15 February 2009: Some men arn't very good at picking gifts out but at least he tried to buy you something and at least he sent you a email on valintines day, its better than nothing isn't it.
Are you really going to ditch your boyfriend because you didn't like wha... (read in full...)
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