Dump or no dump?
Q. Today is Valentine's Day and I got a Valentine e-mail from the guy I've been dating for a year. I know things are tight, but come on... For Christmas, he asked what I wanted and I said I wanted charms for my bracelet. Guess what he got for me? ...
A. 15 February 2009: Some men arn't very good at picking gifts out but at least he tried to buy you something and at least he sent you a email on valintines day, its better than nothing isn't it.
Are you really going to ditch your boyfriend because you didn't like wha... (read in full...)
My b/f insists to have sex with me, I'm underage, should I give in?
Q. im 14 and i have a 18 year old online boyfriend, but every time we chat online he says that he wants to have sex with me, but i kind of want to have sex with him but im not sure if i should, so should i have sex with him or not?...
A. 15 February 2009: It is illeagal if you do have sex with him as you are under age and he isn't.
I'm the same age as you and my boyfriend is 17 but he never pushed me into doing anything.
If you want to have sex with him then be carefull and use protection but y... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer blondes over brunettes?
Q. do most guys perfer a pretty blonde to a brunette. any guy i have known always went for the blondes heavy or thin. do guys not like brunette are we not good enough or pretty enough like the blondes...
A. 11 February 2009: I don't think it bothers guys to much about hair colour but different boys have different views. Most boys like Brunette i've found. But be unique don't just die your hair to fit what most guys like. i Tried dying my hair blonde and because i've ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex..strange symptoms & pregnancy concerns!
Q. hi. im 17 years old and had unprotected sex 5 times in the last week (stupid thing to do i know). im due my period in two days . i am now experiencing -nausia-fatigue-cramps-pimples-light headaches-etc.....someone told me that it could be my hormo...
A. 11 February 2009: If your period doesn't start, give it about a week then get a test. Do a test and if i comes back negitive and your period still doesn't come do another one because they arn't 100% certain. I know what youre going throught i had exactly the same... (read in full...)
What does it mean for a man to agree with birth control?
Q. Cuious -Does this change our relationship in any way? My bf and I talked about me getting back on birth control. I'm wondering if this defines our relationship as more serious? How does a guy feel about this? ...
A. 10 February 2009: Your boyfriend may suggest for you to go on birth control because hes just not ready for a child yet. It shouldn't change your relationship in anyway because he still loves you he just wants to wait to have children. If this is worrying you a l... (read in full...)
The hardest decision of my life... help me.
Q. I am 30 years old. I have 3 little boys which I love and adore more than life. I was married once and divorced and then remarried 4 years ago. We have 2 of the 3 sons together. My husband is 15 years older than me and after our last child I cou...
A. 8 February 2009: I would get your husband to go and see a counciler. I know it will be a bit embarassing at first but the councilers are there to help people through the harder times in their lifes, they won't laugh because its their job to help.
I can't even beg... (read in full...)
Should I be worried or is he just too comfortable?
Q. My bf has become quite distance lately, he only holds my hand if I grab it first and mostly only says I love you if I say it first. Should I be worried or is he just too comfortable? ...
A. 6 February 2009: This might just be the way your boyfiend is. Not all boys are confident with making the first move.
It sounds like he really likes you and is scared what you might think if he says "i love you" first or holds your hand, don't ask why boys are... (read in full...)
Is it unusual for a man to have more than one orgasm?
Q. Is it unusual for a man to have more than one orgasm? I'm in between relationships and started a FWB situation with a male friend of mine. While we were having sex, he pulled out and ejaculated on my stomach. Then he went back in and kept going. He ...
A. 6 February 2009: Your very lucky :)
Most boys have to stop after they "cum" but some boys can orgasm multiple times so it is normal.
Because you are in a FWB situation i would suggest you do use a condom because you are at risk of getting STI's or even getting... (read in full...)
Her Facebook says "single", but she says we're together, what's going on?
Q. well i am ( i think ) going out wit this girl we went to a disco not to long ago and she dumped me but the she wanted to go back so i said yea but now on her facebook profile it says that she changed her status to single (the time wen the thing was ...
A. 6 February 2009: Have you spoken to your Girlfriend about why her status is set to single? She might of just forgot to change it.
I would also ask her straight does she really want to be with you or is she just playing you?
Hope this helped
Olivia.... (read in full...)
Why would a guy who wants a girfriend party all the time?
Q. I dont understand this at all. This guy I know said that he wants something long term and he is not into hooking up anymore. But he still parties every weekend, why? I thought that guys party in order to hook up with lots of girls. I mean I know ...
A. 6 February 2009: Some people just go partying to have fun. Just because you go out on weekends doesn't mean you are looking for one thing. I am in a relationship but i still go out and party with my friends.
This guy just wants to settle down with someone and have... (read in full...)
My husband cheated, now refuses to leave, any help?
Q. I have been married 17 years my husband had a year affair and continued to see and talk to her for another year and a half with out my knowledge. Now he claims depression, stress anxiety disorder. I can't trust him. He wont leave. Tells me I'll be ...
A. 6 February 2009: In this situation i would see a solicitor.
They can help to remove your husband and get him to pay child support.
I'm sorry i can't give alot of advice.
Olivia.... (read in full...)
B/f depressed and I'm not sure how to help him
Q. My boyfriend gets really depressed alot and until now i've been able to cope with talking him through it even though alot of what he says to me really hurts. When hes depressed he will say things like theres not point us being together or i do...
A. 6 February 2009: I speak to him on average 4 hours a day but we text alot.d
and we have been intamate but i know for a fact hes not worried about sex. He does often say that he thinks i deserve better what should i say to him because i have stated that i love him... (read in full...)
I gained a little weight could that make my period late?
Q. well...basically im 13 and i started my period about 3 months ago and i start it around the 18th...the problem is i havent had it this month. I HAVENT HAD SEX the only thing that has changed is i gained a little wait over xmas...is this normal?...
A. 24 January 2009: I know how you feel. I started my periods very early in life at 9 years old. and i would sometimes go for about 3 months without a period.
When you first start they do take a while to settle into a regular cycle.
I would speak to your mum or s... (read in full...)
I really want to have a baby with my BF but my family will freak out.
Q. me and my boyfriend have only had sex once. And yes, we had protection he had already came in the condom and it broke, i had to have emergency contraception aka the plan b pill but i want a baby soooo bad. im only 13 tho... i will be 14 in june, i ...
A. 23 January 2009: Your 13 honey. Your way to young to have a child.
Having a child at your age will put alot of strain on your body.
Also having a child isn't simple. You have to do everything for it. It depends on you for everything.
Having this child could stop... (read in full...)
He called me his "f*ck buddy", what did he mean by that?!?!
Q. me and my boyfriend (who's immature and only 15!) were talking the other night and he said im his "fuck buddy" and laughed then knew he fucked up so he went completely silent and i hung up on him. should i call him? what did he mean by that!...
A. 23 January 2009: The term "F**k buddy" typicaly means that the person has only sexual feelings for you and all you do with them is basicaly sex.
If you love your boyfriend call him and explain to him that what he did annoyed you.
Hope this helped
Olivia.... (read in full...)
He wants to date other people but how can I keep him?
Q. I am dating this guy, will I use the term 'dating' loosely. He wants to see other people, and scared of losing him altogether I agreed. Then at a celebration we both went to we told each other that we loved each other, but we were drunk and said i...
A. 22 January 2009: Heya.
My advice would be to tell this boy straight that you love him and you want to be in a proper relationship with him because its hurting to see him with other girls.
If he really loved you he would agree to be with just you. If not its your... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 21 January 2009: A boy should never hit a girl no matter what she has done.
I know you must love him but i would advise you to get out of this relationship now because the odds are hes done it once hes going to do it again. He Shouldn't of hit you full stop. Go... (read in full...)
I can not reach an orgasm while having sex.
Q. My big problem is that I can not reach an orgasm while having sex. When I am masturbating, I reach my peak in not so much time, but having sex is completely different. I haven't had much experience; had sex four times without any orgasm. We do ...
A. 21 January 2009: Hiya Don't feel worried that you can't orgasm during sex, a lot of woman can't including myself. Have you tried different positions? You may find a position which would help. If you have sex on your period you can still get pregnant because y... (read in full...)
He no longer replies to my texts...
Q. This boy which is my friend's cousin. He laughs with me and we are really close at school. I thought he liked me but now he only answers my texts when he wants to. I hate sending him a text and him not replying any more. Do you think he knows that I ...
A. 21 January 2009: Have you told this boy that you like him? Maybe you should if you are really close to him.
If he isn't replying to your text it might because he doesn't have enough credit to reply to all of them. Try and limit yourself to texting him about 5 ... (read in full...)
Worried that my boyfriend will go off with my best friend if he has a 3some with me and her!!
Q. I am 15 and me and my boyfriend are having sex reguly,we've been dating for 3 mounths now but the sex is getting boring and my boyfriend asked if we could have a treesome with my best friend, I am ok with having a treesome but I'm worried that he ...
A. 27 December 2008: Hey, I wouldn't worry about your boyfriend leaving you for your best friend. She may be blonde and skinny but your boyfriend might not find that as attractive as your lovely red hair and curves. If he wanted to be with your friend he would but hes ... (read in full...)
I think I love him but he lives so far away!
Q. I think I'm in love. It's with someone I can't have. We live on opposite ends of the country now so we don't see each other at all. He used to live nearer to me but then moved to Surrey. He knows how I feel about him, and we both like each other a ...
A. 7 December 2008: Heya.
I met my boyfriend on holiday and we live about 200miles away. We spend Hours on the phone because we have free calls to each other and see each other about once a month. Long distance relationships do work as long as theres commitment and ... (read in full...)
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