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writes:Hey. Need some help... well a few months ago my parents made me split up with my boyfriend. I've never been so hurt. I'm not allowed to talk to him, see him, or talk to anyone he knows... which really sucks. anyways thats not what I need help with.When me and "the ex" split up I kinda lost a part of me. My parents treat me like I'm 6 now. I'm the oldest (16 btw) and well they deleted my phone account and took my laptop away from me, and I only get my laptop back when I'm doing homework and I'm not allowed out at weekends. So I have a pretty bad social life. I've had fight after fight with my two best friends because they say "i've changed" which I totally agree I have changed. And not meaning to sound selfish but it isn't really my fault. How can I make things easier ????please help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): Tell your parents that you want to talk about it, and that you deserve an answer why they made you split up with him. And for your friends, tell them "I have changed, I know that, I wish I could change back but I can't, and if you were my friend you wouldn't treat me like this you would be right by my side with me." If that doesn't get their attention then they aren't your friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've tried talking to my parents about it but when we do we just end up getting into arguments. I called my friend up one night on my home phone and she said she didn't wanna talk about it on the phone.. so i went to school and she just ignored me. thanks for the advice :) x
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 May 2009):
Wow you must have done something pretty bad with him to lose that much trust.
Have you apologised to them for what ever it was you did?
Have you talked to them about it, and listened and talked to them about how you are not going to do it again?
Also, have you listened to your friends and tried to change back? It can't be much fun for them if you mope about and moan.
You have to talk to your parents and start rebuilding the trust with them.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (11 May 2009):
 You are 16, so you should have more freedom now.
Your parents only want the best for you but some parents show care and love in a way which annoys us.
You can go get a pay as you go phone which isn't that expencive and you can top it up when you want.
Speak to your friends, tell them whats happening and how you feel like you have lost all freedom. Also speak to your parents and tell them how you feel. Make a promise to do all of your homework to be allowed out on the weekends.
Good luck
Livia
xoxox
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