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writes:MOD NOTE: USER SAYS HE IS 15 AND NOT THE AGE STATED.I want to go into foster care but i'm not sure how to go about it.. i've told my mum i want to and she seems angry but says if thats what i really want she's going to take me to some place in town to see if i can get put into care but knowing them they'll try to resolve issues between me n my mum which i don't want happening because she hits me when she gets angry with me and i don't even have to be doing anything wrong.. i'm just fed up of all of this and want to move out ASAP. what can you suggest i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntAnya +, writes (22 May 2009):
Heyy!!
I kind of understand u!
I don't get on with any of my family but they don't physically abuse me! When I told a friend that I wanted to go into fostering for a while she laughed, but she hadn't realized how difficult I was finding life!!
I found a usefull website called www.there4me.com good and you can speak 1-2-1 with a councelor or talk/find out about other people with similar issues and how it was resolved!
If ur going through a rough patch or need some cheering up feel free to send me a message =)
Don't worry yourself! There are people who can help you out! Just try and put the bad stuff behind u when ur not being abused and concentrate on the good stuff in life!!
Best wishes
Anya xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): hi!y do u wana go into foster care?one thing u need to get is that all teenagers hav problems with parents and its gona end.all u need 2 do is hang in there jst lyk the rest of us and u shall see that all will be good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): good call on Childline Olivia.
the website is:
http://www.childline.org.uk/Pages/default.aspx
- what has happened in particular that has caused this problem now?
it doesn't help much, but I know when my sister was growing up she and mum did not get on - but now they are brilliant together. it will improve... hang in there.
Star.x.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (22 May 2009):
 You can call Childline 0800 1111. its a free call and you can talk to someone and if need be they can put you into care.
If you go into care the chances are that the police will be called on your mum for hitting you. Your mum is going to be upset and angry that you want to move out after all you are her child.
I would advise you both seeing a counciler insted of going into care, if you go into care you are on your own and can't change your mind to go back to your mum.
Livia
xoxox
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