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writes:i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt love her...i cared for her a lot and really struggled a lot to push her away and i have broken all contacts ...she meant a lot to me and it was so painful to dump her ...somehow i have been able to reduce the addiction and stay away from her ...tommorrow is her exam for which she has been preparing since a year..it is her very crucial exam of the year which will get her admission in mbbs..we had discussed about it a lot when we were together and i guided her with few things ...obviously she will expect me to ask her how it was ...so should i call her or shouldnt i ? as things have cooled down a bit so i am afraid that it will reignite that spark again ...i hope it doesnt worsen the situation if i dont call ...i was thinking to call after few days and wont make it a habbit to call her on time..wat say ? please reply asap i'l be waiting ...thanks tc
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): Ah mate i knows how u mean, my boyf had the same. I sent him a good luck ecard, it kindda shows u care, but at the same time is really light hearted so not too in depth. I really enjoy sending my friends ‘Good Luck’ greetings, I think it is such a nice touch as it shows you are thinking of them and hope the very best for them. I started to find that paper greetings were getting more and more expensive which really wasn’t good! So I looked for an alternative, and found a really cool a href=”http://www.ecards.co.uk/category/151/good-luck-ecards.html”free Good Luck eCard/a site that I adore. There are so many cards to choose from so I have not become bored, and they always seem to be updating the site which is cool. There are quite a few sites out there, so it might be worth taking a browse around yourself, but I found this site really helpful. i wish u all the best
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reader, dozymare25  +, writes (11 May 2009):
instead of calling her why don't u send a text or email. i've been in the same person and if my ex had phoned me i would got my hopes up. he sent me an innocent text few days after my finals and when i got my degree result.heshowed me he still cared but as a friend. good luck x
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (11 May 2009):
 I care about my ex boyfriend in a friend way. I don't like him in that way.
I'm sure you care about your friends so what stops your from being allowed to care about her still.
You can never really stop caring about someone after a good relationship
Livia
xox
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (11 May 2009):
Yeh i would call her to say good luck with it and then afterwards. It shows you can be mature and even though you have split up you can still care for her.
I think she would be happy to hear from you if you talked about this exam. You guys can still be friends :)
Good luck
Livia
xoxox
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reader, Anil D +, writes (11 May 2009):
Anil D is verified as being by the original poster of the question we have decided to become friends after we get over each other completely.........so does it make any sense to show the care if we have anyways broken up ? i still care but if i call her on time she may again keep hopes and that endless cycle which was hard to break will be formed again...i am confused ! please do reply .......
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): first of all- why did you dump her if she meant so much to you.
If you really want to call her, then act casual and make it clear that you do not want to get back together
with her.
Hope I helped
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