My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands
Q. My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...
A. 25 October 2010: Oddi, I do agree with you. The need for more than 2-3 children is unusual in today's developed societies (and current global recession)... let alone more than 6!
Everyone here is saying the real issue is that you chose to draw the line on how m... (read in full...)
How do I know if I smell normal "down there"?
Q. Hi all, you must get this question all the time... sorry... Ok here goes... how do I know if I smell normal down below?! After a day not showering it smells like... scampi fries... sorry... also a bit tangy. Now is this normal? It's not hugely o...
A. 24 October 2010: Eat plain, natural yogurt every day if you're worried about odors, taste and infections down there. The bacteria in yogurt (L. acidophilus) neutralizes your vaginal pH balance and helps keep your Candida albicans (the guys that cause yeast ... (read in full...)
DO women have better sex than men???
Q. My partner was basically saying in not so many words that I should be jealous that women have better sex than men. I.e. better and longer orgasms. I felt quite annoyed about this, as I had never really thought about it until this conversation. No...
A. 23 October 2010: I guess she's one of the lucky few women in this world who experiences real, intense orgasms. I'd say 60% of the time I don't climax with my boyfriend, and the 40% I do, it's weak; like an itch rising to a peak and then just ending in a few ... (read in full...)
My co-worker's dirty little secret is really starting to get to me!
Q. I've worked with this guy for 2 years, been friends for 18 months. We work in an office in a close environment and recently he has been telling everyone how he is going to propose to his girlfriend on their one year anniversary. Everyone keeps...
A. 22 October 2010: Under most other circumstances I'd suggest you anonymously inform his girlfriend; wouldn't you want someone to tell you? But as you are co-workers, you have to be prudent. This guy may have friends in high places or one day you might even be working ... (read in full...)
Why would he act this way after an accident like that?
Q. Every October our whole family gets together for a week long vacation with my parents anniversary, my brothers and sister and all their families attend. This year my 21 yr old niece Lyndsay brought her new boyfriend, Jace (he is 24). He seemed like ...
A. 22 October 2010: Poor guy, he was probably mortified and, as the only non-family member, thought you'd all be saying and thinking horrible things about him for being too physically rough with your niece. As for pushing Lyndsay away, I'd say it was because he was a ... (read in full...)
What's the point of a woman being confident if there's always going to be another woman that's better-looking than you?
Q. hey iv just had this question in my head a few days and i just wondered what mabye you guys thought ? whats the point in woman being confident if theres always going to be another girl thats always better looking then you ? theres perfect girls ev...
A. 22 October 2010: You really only take confidence in the way you look?... (read in full...)
What does "wandering eye" really mean?
Q. What does it mean by "wandering eye"? I've read a few posts here about women who are upset that their boyfriends/husbands are "looking" at other women. I've never read anything about a man who is jealous that his girlfriend/wife "looks" at other men ...
A. 21 October 2010: I don't know why people care so much. I look at both men and women if they're good looking... or bizarre looking. It's just something to look at. I have a twin brother who has been confiding in me about 'hot women' forever (he will even call me up ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant knowing my fiance doesn't want another child?
Q. My fiance and I have 3 boys (5,2,1 week), i just gave birth to a baby on 10/14. I desperately want to try for a girl and he doesn't want anymore children. 2 are his and 1 is from a previous relationship. He now wants to use condoms and get me on ...
A. 21 October 2010: ...And then men are still forced to pay child support. It boggles my mind...... (read in full...)
Is it really right to strike someone in this situation?
Q. I was surprised and a bit shocked by some of the responses to A recent post about a guy wanting to know if women found it attractive when a guys junk happens to show. Several of the women say that they would slap the guy in the face if his junk ...
A. 21 October 2010: Would I slap a guy for showing his junk accidentally? No. It's obvious when it's accidental. Would I slap a guy for deliberately showing his junk if he's 10 feet away from me? No, I'd walk away.
Would I slap a guy for moving into my personal... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands
Q. My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...
A. 21 October 2010: Is she going through menopause or is she on hormonal birth control?... (read in full...)
Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?
Q. Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to ...
A. 21 October 2010: No, definitely not. If a man was allowing any part of his groin to be visible in public I'd think he was perverted and possibly disturbed. I'm sure many women would consider it sexual harassment. ... (read in full...)
Wife isn't sexually attracted to me anymore! Any advice?
Q. I'm 41 and have been married to my wife for 16 years. We waited 6 years after marriage for kids to make sure we were compatible; we don't believe in divorce. Our 2 children are ages 10 and 8. I am above average-looking, slim build.....I have never ...
A. 14 October 2010: With the medications, depression and hysterectomy I'd be shocked if your wife DID have a sex drive! Anti-depression medications are especially renowned for killing libido. I don't think attempting to rekindle the romance is likely to work on your ... (read in full...)
I get so upset when he leaves on business!
Q. Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 18 months has gone abroad for three weeks on a business trip. I get very upset when he leaves usually and he is aware of this. This time in order to stop me getting upset we have been talking everyday. I call him becau...
A. 14 October 2010: I've been in a LDR for 17 months (we went to different grad schools out of college) and we've long since dropped the long, forced conversations. Instead when we're both at the computer we keep Skype open so we can chat now and then and hear and see ... (read in full...)
Why would my coworker act this way?
Q. Why would a man do this? Theres this man where I work who has really been pushing it with me lately. He initiates conversations with me then starts asking me about whether I watch porn, that I should go browse dvd stores with my partner, and sta...
A. 14 October 2010: I really have no idea, maybe they're just looking for a rise out of you or the satisfaction of thinking they've 'violated' you. I've had strange men start walking next to me while clearly trying to make sure I can see they're holding a pornographic ... (read in full...)
Raised my stepdaughter as my real child up until I caught her having sex
Q. I am 44 and have been happily married for 10 years. I have no children of my own, but my wife has a daughter from a previous marriage. I love her to death and raised her as my own since she was 6 years old. She is now 16, turning 17 in 2 months ...
A. 13 October 2010: All the others here have given you good advice: the best course of action would be to seek professional counseling. I just want to STRESS that your thoughts are only 'wrong' because you cannot think such things about your daughter and still function ... (read in full...)
Horny while on period?
Q. Is it ok if i feel horny though i got my period?What to do?haha...
A. 11 October 2010: I wish there was a way to get the message out to everyone: having sex on your period is good for you! There are numerous health benefits from having sex on your period. For one, the prostaglandins in semen cause uterine contractions which not only ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend ejaculates but doesn't orgasm. Any suggestions?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the past 6 months and we are having problems in the bedroom. He has never had an orgasm, he still ejaculates but he doesn't orgasm. I didn't even know that they were two different things until I met him. ...
A. 11 October 2010: Your boyfriend may have unrealistic expectations about what orgasms are supposed to be like. This is a problem many women also have. Movies, pornography and even ads all depict orgasms as mind blowing experiences. Look at the actors; their faces are ... (read in full...)
Is having PMS a reason to act like a spoiled brat?
Q. Hi, I have a question regarding my girlfriend and her PMS. I know that it is a stressful time for a girl as the hormones are running wild, but should it be an excuse to act like a spoiled brat? Me and my girlfriend, who are both 20 years old, we...
A. 11 October 2010: I don't think PMS is an excuse for your girlfriend's emotional displays; it's just the reason. However, I can't really comment on how much she may be running away with (over-dramatizing) her PMS, because the only PMS symptom I ever get is sneezing, ... (read in full...)
Very worried because my LDR girlfriend suddenly disappeared!
Q. guys im really freaking out !! my LDR gf just disapeared!! its been 4 days now , we used to talk like every single day , but now she is not online anymore , i tried to call her but her fone is jst ringin !! no one is pickin it up , i called her ...
A. 10 October 2010: Have you called your girlfriend's sister to find out if her sister or parents have heard from her???... (read in full...)
After sex she has burning sensation,what is this from?
Q. my girlfriend is on the pill and everytime we have sex her vagina starts to burn when we are finished is my sperm doing this?...
A. 10 October 2010: She's too dry. More foreplay and get a good lubricant.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to want to have sex on her period?
Q. I have been with my partner for 3 years, we are happy and enjoy a fulfilling sex life. She loves having (unprotected) sex on her period and in fact we have done so regularly almost every month since we started going out. In fact this is when she is ...
A. 9 October 2010: Nope. My boyfriend and I have sex, both intercourse and oral, on my period as well. We are both most aroused during this time and my boyfriend loves it even more than I do. There are many health benefits as well, including shorter and painless ... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with someone else
Q. I know I will seem like a very selfish person but I need some advice. I am a 28 year old mother of two daughters and I have a wonderful husband who would do ANYTHING for me. He has always been respectful and tried to show his love. He is also a ...
A. 9 October 2010: "I really want to leave because I love this other man so much and can envision a wonderful life with him."
Did you not feel like this with your husband once upon a time? ... (read in full...)
it a natural desire not to have my boyfriend go to something like this without me?
Q. My boyfriend's dad invited him to go to a conference that is for dancing. Although the event is not advertised as a place to meet people, the dancing sessions are set up man and woman, so if a single man is there, they will couple him up with a ...
A. 8 October 2010: Have you ever been to one of these dance things? Almost everyone there are people who dance professionally or as a serious hobby; they've literally, truly, absolutely only got one thing on their mind: dancing. They are some of the geekiest (but ... (read in full...)
I'm ready to give up all together!
Q. How can I get over sex and men? I hate my body it's so disgusting. I'm a bit fat but working on it, although I'm not overweight, but almost. The problem is I have a disproportioned body, I have big hips, big butt with cellulite and thighs with ...
A. 7 October 2010: You want to get rid of cellulite and feel better about your body?
LIFT. WEIGHTS. AND. HIIT.
Forget the treadmill and 2-lb weights; you need to push yourself. Barbell squats, weighted lunges, knee tucks, squat jumps, split jumps, clap push... (read in full...)
I stole money from my date and now I'm scared!
Q. I need help! I meet this guy at a bar we exchanged numbers went on 2nd date. He has a bit of an ego but I kinda liked it. But he turned me off because he kept talking about all the money he had that he had everything he wanted. We went to a hotel ...
A. 7 October 2010: Have you ever been diagnosed with kleptomania? Items with significant monetary value (like money, of course) are not usually items a kleptomaniac would steal, but your stealing sounds obsessive-compulsive by the hectic way you described it. Perhaps ... (read in full...)
Bullied out of my job by a colleague! Is there anything I can do?
Q. Hi all, I have to get this out or I'll lose the plot! I've just been bullied out of my job. I am an extremely hard worker i.e. at work early every morning, believe in teamwork, frequently help others with things that aren't part of my job et...
A. 7 October 2010: How many times are you going to post this question? This is the third time I've seen it and I responded on both of the previous ones. You don't even respond to the people who take the time to post answers...... (read in full...)
Pregnant and the father says there is no way we can have it!
Q. Im 20, and i have just found out im pregnant, the father wants a abortion and we arent together. I have a full time apprenticeship job, which is a really good career. But the thought of killing my baby makes me sick, the father says theres no way we ...
A. 7 October 2010: jmc930, I did not mean the mother should abort it so the father can exert his (non-existent) rights. I meant your suggestion that she should force him to pay child support is not fair. ... (read in full...)
We've been together for 3 years but we've never had sex...
Q. I have been with my partner for three years now. As a partner he is wonderful, he respects me, he is loyal and we love to spend time together. I am 25 and he is almost 40. He is my first serious relationship and I have not had sex with anyone. ...
A. 5 October 2010: Yeah, I'm guessing it's a problem like what the poster suggested, or he's found he can no longer achieve an erection. It's more likely he's guarding his ego (hence his defensive anger when you broach the subject) than that he's not attracted to you. ... (read in full...)
My little 7 year old daughter has turned nasty. What can be done?
Q. Hi,can anyone help.My 7 yr old daughter who is usually a happy little child,has turned into an moody arguementative and basically nasty.She has just started junior school and i have a feeling it could be this.She has been split up from all her ...
A. 5 October 2010: I have no reason to suspect this, but JUST IN CASE, can you sit her down and ask her if anyone has been touching her inappropriately or hurting her? You said she's gotten into junior school so I'm assuming most of the kids there are older than her. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and the father says there is no way we can have it!
Q. Im 20, and i have just found out im pregnant, the father wants a abortion and we arent together. I have a full time apprenticeship job, which is a really good career. But the thought of killing my baby makes me sick, the father says theres no way we ...
A. 5 October 2010: That is so unfair, jmc930. So the father gets absolutely no say in what happens? If the mother wanted to abort the fetus and the father wanted to keep it, there would be nothing he could do. He'd lose his child. But if the mother decides she wants ... (read in full...)
There's something about me that attracts bullies!
Q. I have been the victim of bullying so often in my life, especially in my working life, that I've lost count. There's something about me that attracts bullies like flies to shit! I am an extremely honest and hard working person. I'm not a ...
A. 5 October 2010: Is this woman a minority race? The only reason I can figure they'd want her so badly is because they must have an affirmative action agenda. Otherwise, it's got to be nepotism; she's got a family member somewhere in the company.... (read in full...)
What the hell is she thinking? Am I just paranoid?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been through a lot. We've been together for 2.5 years and we're both 20. Back in May we broke up (although she thinks we broke up in April) and we were apart for three weeks. After getting back together things were ...
A. 2 October 2010: I can tell by the way you write that you are far more self-aware than most 20 year olds. You've come here looking for advice, but you already know exactly what the situation is, what you feel about it, and what you need to do. Your girlfriend is ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend started crying after 1st time sex and now still won't talk to me about it?
Q. I've been dating an incredible girl for about 2.5 years. She's a year younger than me, so I'm in college and she's in high school. When we first started dating, she was a virgin and I wasn't. We agreed to wait until she was ready and the time was ...
A. 2 October 2010: It sounds like she may have been sexually abused in the past. I have no experience with victims of sexual abuse, but at this point I would not demand to know why she reacted the way she did. Just show her plenty of love and take a few steps back ... (read in full...)
Wife taking 24 condoms on holiday when she is going with 3 other women.
Q. hi my wife and i have funny kind of marrage (i think we have been married a lot of years) yes i know how many 30. each year she and 3 old (well same age girlfriends go away on holiday for a week. this year they are going on a crusie and i was...
A. 1 October 2010: I don't know, but she COULD be taking the condoms for innocent reasons. I sometimes put a condom over my vibrator if I don't want to bother with lubricant or the texture plus vibration is a little too rough on me, or if I'm in the shower while using ... (read in full...)
How can you justify looking at violent or rape porn?
Q. I don't just mean like being beaten and screaming, I mean the stuff where the woman gets her head shoved in a toilet, where the guy does anything until she cries or gags, etc... Why is that OK to get off on so long as it's not child porn or ...
A. 1 October 2010: I cannot understand how someone would find someone else's pain and humiliation arousing, but I'm sure plenty of people do get off on it.
As to why it's more acceptable than child porn or bestiality, think of it this way. Unless the footage ... (read in full...)
How do I control my thoughts about my future sister in law?
Q. Hello, I'm a 22 yo student, happily engaged with a beatiful girl, currently living at her parents' place. This is a choice we mae a couple of years ago, because we know we couldn't get enough money to live in an apartment while we study, so we st...
A. 30 September 2010: It sounds to me like your girlfriend is testing you. She wants to see that you'd never, under any circumstances, sleep with another girl, even if she gave you the OK. It's a messed up way of testing how devoted you are to her and it's not fair or ... (read in full...)
Can anyone decipher what he is saying?
Q. A friend of mine and I have been exchanging sms and chats for sometime now. Recently I suggested that we meet for lunch, and added in jest ' unless you prefer dinner' to which he replied ' Either is fine !..I am not scared of you " I just didn't ...
A. 29 September 2010: I think he's just being silly.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!
Q. Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... ...
A. 27 September 2010: I think birdynumnums said it best, however I don't think in this case it's a matter of choosing to improve yourself and your feelings of jealousy. You brought up a very valid point when you said you feel cheated out of the experience of having your ... (read in full...)
I don't want to trap him, I just really want a baby!
Q. Hi, I'm 29, really keen to have children. I have a new bf of a few weeks. I really like him and things are going great. I'm so broody, though, I'm thinking of trying to get pregnant without telling him. If he wants a baby, great, if he doesn't, ...
A. 27 September 2010: Yes, it would be immoral to trick your boyfriend into getting you pregnant. You know it's immoral, or you would ask him for your help. The fact is, even if your boyfriend doesn't want a baby, he may be a stand-up sort of guy who will feel morally ... (read in full...)
She just doesn't seem interested so what can I do?
Q. i am 19 yrs old and i told a 18yr girl ive known for years that i was into her, that i was attracted to her and that i thought she was beautiful. ( she's single,never had a boyfriend ) i told her this when i was on vacation through e-mail. When ...
A. 26 September 2010: You need to tell her to her face you like her and you want her to be with you. It sounds to me like she's avoiding the issue because she's nervous. You made it easy for yourself by telling her your feelings through email, behind the safety of a ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for breasts to be flat when a woman is lying down?
Q. I have a somewhat silly question I haven't seen asked here before. I have size C breasts - good enough when standing upright, but when I lay down they go flat...too flat for my liking. I wish they defied gravity haha! So my question is, do ...
A. 25 September 2010: Real ones do..... (read in full...)
I'm 15, I lost a child and I'm still craving one!
Q. I'm 15 years old and I'm craving a child. I know many other people have asked about this but I feel my situation is somewhat different and would like specific advice please. 11 months ago today I had a miscarrige; I was almost 4 months pregnant...
A. 23 September 2010: Cindy said it best. Moreover, you should realize that a craving for a child when you are too young to financially support it is not maternal or parental behavior; it's pretty selfish. It sounds like you yearn to 'accessorize' yourself with a ... (read in full...)
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