Girlfriend has a low sex drive
Q. I'm 27 and I've been with my girlfriend, 26, for almost 3 years. I love her, but there is a big lack of sex; averaging once a month or less ( we sleep together almost every night). In fact we never really had a lot. Every once in a while, we would ...
A. 1 December 2010: Is your girlfriend on hormonal birth control?... (read in full...)
Is this cute and quirky or just plain weird?
Q. Hi everyone. So this a kind of a weird questions and its a bit embarassing, but i'd just like some guys opionions. I have a little mole on the side of my vagina - like on the skin next to it. Will guys find this quirky and cute or is it just plain ...
A. 19 November 2010: I doubt any guy would notice it (I also have one there and my boyfriend is oblivious), but you do need to keep an eye out on it to watch for changes in size, color and texture in case it becomes malignant. You should also get your doctor to look at ... (read in full...)
I really think I should start taking birth control.
Q. I have a question about birth control. Im not having sex yet but I think I will be and one of my biggest concerns is getting pregnant and im scared to talk to my mom about it because i dont know what her reaction would be? but I really think i ...
A. 19 November 2010: It's great that you're thinking of getting on the pill at your age! Some of the many common benefits of hormonal BCs include:
* hair loss or changes in follicle (thinning)
* weight gain
* migraines
* nausea and dizziness
* loss of sex drive
... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin male..will this help me find a better class of a gf, in the future?
Q. My friend has told me that not dating and being virgin through highschool will help me meet a better class of women. Do you think not going through the highschool drama will help me in the future?...
A. 18 November 2010: Yes, it can definitely help you. My brother deliberately waited until he was in his last year of college until he nabbed a popular Bond-girl-type dark-haired beauty from Eastern Europe who is an academic star in math and our class valedictorian. ... (read in full...)
Am I the only woman who doesn't want children or the perfect "white picket fence" life?
Q. I'm 23 now and even since i can remember i've never been interested in having children, i mean, at all. Sometimes it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me. Whenever i've been around friends or family and they're all fussing over one of ...
A. 17 November 2010: I feel exactly the same way. My boyfriend wants kids some day, when we are done with grad school and married and have secure jobs, but I am constantly trying to subtly (or not so subtly) change his mind about it.
I just don't think I could ev... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a woman to think a guy is very attractive yet not be sexually attracted to him?
Q. I've been seeing my girfriend for a little over a year. (I'm 46 and she's 34) The sex was great at first, and she couldn't keep her hands off me. But, she's gradually lost interest over the past 3-4 months, and does't want to do much of anything ...
A. 17 November 2010: If you think she's restraining herself to maintain the purity of the relationship, why don't you try slipping in some light dirty talk and ultra light 'man-handling' during sex and see how she responds? Maybe she needs you to treat her like she's ... (read in full...)
I actually prefer masturbating than having sex with my girlfriend!
Q. I actually prefer masturbating than having sex with my girlfriend. Why? Because she's never in the mood, and when she is she always gets tired fast, breathless and pain in her stomach. (She's not overweight and my penis is only 7" long and 6" girt...
A. 16 November 2010: Is your girlfriend on hormonal birth control? That can have a lot to do with it. ... (read in full...)
How do women define maturity?
Q. Why do women put so much importance on a guy's hobbies and possessions to decide if he is "mature" or not? To me, maturity should have nothing to do with anything as superficial as collecting action figures, reading comics, not owning a car for ...
A. 15 November 2010: Tisha-1, I just have to say AWESOME response. It's actually the best response I've seen on this site for any question, period. If I could rate it 10 stars I would. If I'd seen this before I posted I wouldn't have even bothered. Cupid Boy, look no ... (read in full...)
How do women define maturity?
Q. Why do women put so much importance on a guy's hobbies and possessions to decide if he is "mature" or not? To me, maturity should have nothing to do with anything as superficial as collecting action figures, reading comics, not owning a car for ...
A. 15 November 2010: I think you might be doing exactly what you're censuring these women for doing: going after the 'bad' girls!
I myself deliberately look for one thing in guys, and it might sound a bit weird. I look for ones with 'mother' instinct. ;) My current ... (read in full...)
Will cum on my stomach wash to my vagina in the shower?
Q. Alright, so yesterday I was giving my boyfriend a hand job, when he ejaculated on my stomach. I was wearing underwear and pajama pants, and wiped it off with some toilet paper ( and the cardboard roll part because the paper was gone). Some semen got ...
A. 15 November 2010: It's good you're being so careful, but there is no way you'd become pregnant with that much precaution.... (read in full...)
We can't date anymore because I'm so amazingly, dependable, caring, and kind?
Q. Asking for help is hard to do... but I've found my way here, where it seems good advice is all around. A little about me: I'm a solid guy, no emotional baggage or other major life issues hanging around me - been there, done that, learned my lesso...
A. 13 November 2010: She says she wants a risk taker; take a risk. Step outside of your boundaries and ask her to do things with you you wouldn't normally do. Don't take no for an answer. This is the kind of woman who wants a leader, not an equal. She wants you to push ... (read in full...)
Does manipulation give a sense of empowerment?
Q. Okay, well. Today I was on IM chat (MSN) with my girlfriend. I had just got back from work and had only spoken to her once, for 2-3 minutes, that WHOLE day. On IM, I was laughing and sharing demotivational pictures and enjoying myself whi...
A. 13 November 2010: It's not really manipulation; your girl is testing your boundaries. Deep down she wants to see how much you'll put up with. If you apologize and grovel for failing her tests she will experience a shallow victory and punish you for failing to 'man ... (read in full...)
Is activating your dating account cheating?
Q. if you met someone online and made your account inactive when things progress between you both is it classed as cheating if you go back online and re-activate your account and look at other profiles without the other persons knowledge? ...
A. 13 November 2010: Come on, I think people are hypersensitive about what constitutes cheating these days. You are, in every way, in an unofficial relationship with this guy. You are not engaged. You are not married. I gather you are not yet living together, lending ... (read in full...)
Aren't I supposed to feel something?
Q. So this is a strange question I know, but about a month ago I lost my virginity (we used protection, no worries) and it didn't hurt at all. Whenever I hear stories I always hear about it hurting the first time. And I know sometimes it doesn't hurt ...
A. 13 November 2010: I don't know, I think some people are a bit dramatic. I didn't feel any pain my first time other than a bit of dryness. I also always hear girls complaining about how painful, even debilitating, their period cramps are, but I rarely consider mine ... (read in full...)
Ladies, is therea way to shave down there that isn't equivalent to self-torture?
Q. I prefer the look and feel of having no hair down there. Multiple times in the past I’ve attempted to shave, but I’ve never been able to keep it up for more than three days. It’s just so uncomfortable. For the first day it feels fine, but within 24 ...
A. 10 November 2010: Do you just try shaving it every so often, or do you really keep at it every day for weeks on end and it still itches? I shave every time I take a shower (every day). It takes me less than 30 seconds and I never get any burn or discomfort. Sometimes ... (read in full...)
Will swallowing sperm help me to conceive?
Q. Is it true if a girl swallows sperm can it help her conceive? I was told it helps you get pregnant. Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?...
A. 10 November 2010: Also, the people here are grossly simplifying the digestion process. One also swallows birth control pills but they affect your ability to become pregnant, right? Bottom line, swallowing sperm will not increase fertility, but has been shown to ... (read in full...)
Will swallowing sperm help me to conceive?
Q. Is it true if a girl swallows sperm can it help her conceive? I was told it helps you get pregnant. Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?...
A. 10 November 2010: Swallowing your semen won't increase your girl's chances of falling pregnant, however, research suggests that exposing herself to the antigens and unique proteins in your sperm will both reduce the risk of pre-eclampsia and increase the likelihood ... (read in full...)
Why do I seem to attract players and man whores?
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles! I have been noticing I attract players and man whores. Sure I admit it, I have large breasts, curves, and I'm (unfortunatly) very skinny. I don't want to be this way, I eat like a cow yet, I never gain a pound. I'm extre...
A. 9 November 2010: How do you dress?... (read in full...)
How can a girl's breasts grow bigger without pills?
Q. my gf has big boobs ( which i like alot!!!) and she says she wants them to get them to a bigger size and i'm for it but how can they grow naturally without taking said pills or exercise devices that claim to increase breast size ...
A. 7 November 2010: Birth control pills can increase a woman's breast size by a full cup.... (read in full...)
I'm pretty, why don't I have a boyfriend when ugly fat girls have one?
Q. All of my friends continue to tell me to ask outthe guy I've liked for 6 years. They continue to say I'm pretty and the refer to me as the 'hot one.' I do believe I'm pretty, but, these over weight, ugly, and mean girls have boyfriends, yet I have n...
A. 7 November 2010: While sentiments like "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and "it's personality that counts" are nice, your real problem is in the very first thing you said:
"All of my friends continue to tell me to ask out the guy I've liked for 6 years." ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move, or is he no longer interested?
Q. I'm in a complicated situation. I recently met a man and started dating. All was going great - he was taking me out for dinner, coming over and cooking me dinner, going for moonlit walks. It was very early days but I was feeling really optimistic. ...
A. 6 November 2010: I hate to disagree with shania, but I'd say the ball is in YOUR court. It can be very difficult to deal with people who are freshly grieving; I'd say this guy was behaving appropriately by giving you space during this time. He was also giving any ... (read in full...)
I am not sure what to do now… any suggestions?
Q. Background: I work full time and take online class part time for my certification. My gf is a full time graduate student. Today: Unfortunately it’s me again. While I was at work, my gf called me to say “hi” after she had gotten off school. It w...
A. 6 November 2010: "Somehow, I feel like I have been set into a trap…"
Read that over 5 times then read your post again. Your whole relationship sounds LADEN with death traps. I don't even know where to begin! The very notion of having to celebrate an annivers... (read in full...)
I find myself in love with my wife's sister
Q. suddenlly i feel that i love my wife's sister who is already married and has 2 pretty girls, i do not know how come, but that feeling really squeezing my heart, i do not want any sexuality cz really i do love her, and if i have sexual feeling i will ...
A. 6 November 2010: Do you still love your wife? Do you think her sister might remind you of your wife, particularly of her good qualities? I would imagine so many husbands and wives fall in love with their spouse's sister or brother because that person reminds them of ... (read in full...)
My friend lied about how far she went with her boyfriend, should I talk to her about it?
Q. Hi. I found out recently that my friend lied about how far she'd been with her ex-boyfriend. We were at a sleepover and she told all of us that he'd fingered her and she'd given him a blow job. Im friends with her ex-boyfriend and i had a feeling ...
A. 5 November 2010: Edit: I didn't realize you were in the 13-15 age range. If you're worried that your friend has been coerced into sexual acts she's not ready for at her age, you are a very good friend to worry. You might want to ask her about it in ways that pick on ... (read in full...)
Is the only option I have to leave this relationship? I just cant cope with his child, his ex and the disappointment that I wont be the first to give him a family...
Q. heya. i am very distraught an confused. i have been with my boyfriend for 14 months. he is the type of boy who had slept around.....A LOT! with me he changed an is totally devoted to me, an has never cheated. but about 7 an a half months ago. he ...
A. 5 November 2010: If you can't cope, you can't cope. There are millions of other great men out there who don't sleep around and don't have kids out of wedlock and don't have baggage. I meet them one after the other and would love to get to know them all if I didn't ... (read in full...)
LDR, when we do see each other he goes so fast during sex!
Q. Hi, whenever I meet my boyfriend during the week days and we have sex, I don't enjoy it bcos he comes within just 2mins and I don't even get to climax. Though if we make out on weekends I enjoy it and it lasts longer. The problem here is we are on a ...
A. 5 November 2010: He's telling the truth. I also only get to see my boyfriend for a couple of days every 4-6 weeks (we go to different grad schools) and the first couple of times we have sex, during penetration, he can't last more than a minute or two. Because of ... (read in full...)
How do I become more than your "nice guy" ?
Q. I will be 25 within the next couple months and have never had a girlfriend. I've kissed two girls and by some miracle lost my virginity a few years back, so I've had sex a total of one time in my life. I don't really go around broadcasting this ...
A. 5 November 2010: I'm going to be honest; just by the way your post is worded I get the sense you're a 'boring' guy in public. That's not to say you don't lead a fulfilling life or have interests of your own, but I'm willing to bet that the way you PRESENT yourself ... (read in full...)
Tall and short women hate short guys equally
Q. Why do taller women have so much hate for the shorter guys who approach them only to complain themselves about being single and the lack of quality available men? Is it so wrong for a short guy to be attracted to a woman more than a couple of...
A. 2 November 2010: It's all about your attitude. Although a taller guy is aesthetically appealing, if I think about all the guys I've ever been attracted to, most were around my height (5'6"), give or take a couple of inches. I have always gotten on well with guys; I ... (read in full...)
Opinions from guys & girls needed! What to do when you accept his proposal but don't like the ring!
Q. This is a question for both guys and girls. Girls - If your boyfriend proposed to you and you accepted but you truly did not like the engagement ring as it was the complete oposite of what you like, would you tell him and risk breaking his hea...
A. 2 November 2010: One of the safest ways to let your feelings known and to work through a problem is through humor. In my opinion, shared humor is absolutely vital to a relationship; hopefully, if you're getting married to this guy, you two can laugh over things ... (read in full...)
I waited for him for years but he had sex with someone else!
Q. hay im Thorn im 15 (sorry im bad at spelling) and i have a love hate thing with my boyfriend who is alot older than me and im not gona say how old altho im only 15 im very mature and i think things throuh im not the kind of girl who dose things ...
A. 29 October 2010: Is ANY of this story true? You expect us to believe that you gave each other promise lockets as kids and then this guy hit his head and lost his memory of it? Do you have any idea how rare that form of retroactive amnesia is? I don't even think what ... (read in full...)
Just not interested in sex..what do I do to help both of us?
Q. I don't know what to do really about this anymore so I thought I'd ask for help. I just don't like sex. My boyfriend is attentive and very good at what he does, but I just don;t ever feel like it. Well I do and I initiate it but then I just lie ...
A. 28 October 2010: Look up how hormonal contraception increases your levels of something called SHBG (sex-hormone binding globulin). SHGB both interferes with production of free testosterone and also binds with available free testosterone, making it unusable in the ... (read in full...)
My friends always say the teacher is staring at me
Q. hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...
A. 28 October 2010: You got plenty of replies on your original post. We told you that if your teacher is really flirting with you then it's inappropriate, predatory behavior. However, that's IF he's really flirting with you. From your post it sounds like a bunch of ... (read in full...)
Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?
Q. This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...
A. 27 October 2010: I think you're driving yourself (and your boyfriend) crazy with these suspicions. Lighten up, or to all your future ex-boyfriends you'll be known as the 'bunny boiler'!... (read in full...)
I don't feel comfortable at my boyfriend spending the night with her ALONE!
Q. My boyfriend has a female friend, who he was in love with before he met me. Nothing ever happened between them, except that eventually he told her how he felt and they talked it over. Now his feelings for her are platonic and he's been with me for ...
A. 26 October 2010: "It's my firm belief that he still has very strong feelings for this other woman."
Agree 100%. If I were you I would deliver an ultimatum: if he goes to visit this girl, either you get to go with him, or you consider your relationship over. It... (read in full...)
Worried about this persistent discharge
Q. Alright. It's been about, what? 3 months? going onto 4? And I feel horrible and disgusting. It started after my period in august. There was A LOT of discharge. I thought it was normal at first, because my period just ended. But for the rest of ...
A. 26 October 2010: I just want to add if you can't get an appointment earlier than your Nov 11'th one, you can do the following until then: If you wake up one morning and it's raining heavily or even snowing, call up the GYN office and ask if there were any canceled ... (read in full...)
Worried about this persistent discharge
Q. Alright. It's been about, what? 3 months? going onto 4? And I feel horrible and disgusting. It started after my period in august. There was A LOT of discharge. I thought it was normal at first, because my period just ended. But for the rest of ...
A. 26 October 2010: I am sorry for being harsh before, I know it's scary at first to start making your own appointments and dealing with strangers over the phone. But it gets very easy; you just pick up that phone, tell the person on the other end (politely) what you ... (read in full...)
She gets depressed when her period keeps her from having sex!
Q. My girlfriend is very sexual and we have sex almost daily. Her period can be irregular at times, although it is never very heavy. The problem is that she gets VERY upset and depressed when her period comes because she doesn't like to have sex ...
A. 26 October 2010: Why doesn't she like having sex during her period? I'll paste the same response I paste to every question like this and maybe you can inform your girlfriend:
I wish there was a way to get the message out to everyone: having sex on your period i... (read in full...)
Worried about this persistent discharge
Q. Alright. It's been about, what? 3 months? going onto 4? And I feel horrible and disgusting. It started after my period in august. There was A LOT of discharge. I thought it was normal at first, because my period just ended. But for the rest of ...
A. 26 October 2010: Okay, I'm going to sound harsh here, but is your age really 18-21? If so, I don't know why you're still waiting for your sister to make your appointments for you; you are an adult and this is your health and therefore YOUR responsibility. You should ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands
Q. My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...
A. 25 October 2010: Oddi, I do agree with you. The need for more than 2-3 children is unusual in today's developed societies (and current global recession)... let alone more than 6!
Everyone here is saying the real issue is that you chose to draw the line on how m... (read in full...)
I need help, I just want him out of my life!
Q. There's this guy who has a creepy obsession with a close friend of mine. He's head over heels for her, but she simply isn't interested. Well a little while ago I was at her house, we were just chilling. She got a call from the guy that likes her and ...
A. 25 October 2010: I'm assuming you've been ignoring all his calls. Whatever you do, don't pick up on the 31st call, or he'll have learned it only takes 31 calls to get you to pick up. ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I smell normal "down there"?
Q. Hi all, you must get this question all the time... sorry... Ok here goes... how do I know if I smell normal down below?! After a day not showering it smells like... scampi fries... sorry... also a bit tangy. Now is this normal? It's not hugely o...
A. 24 October 2010: Eat plain, natural yogurt every day if you're worried about odors, taste and infections down there. The bacteria in yogurt (L. acidophilus) neutralizes your vaginal pH balance and helps keep your Candida albicans (the guys that cause yeast ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want sex and says I can have one night stands
Q. My wife is 51 and I am 48. She says that she no longer feels like sex with any man, although she will reluctantly have sex with me to keep me happy. She has orgasms about half the times we have sex, but says twice a week is too much and that I ...
A. 21 October 2010: Is she going through menopause or is she on hormonal birth control?... (read in full...)
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