So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 17 February 2011: "my chiefest question went totally unanswered: If two men have equal performance, is the man with the significantly larger member better? Do most women feel less pleasure going from big to average?" Ok, I'll answer you. It's not a good question, b... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: This question is so annoying. It's like men just refuse to GET IT. Any man who has to ask if size really matters to women just isn't good in bed, I can tell you that right now. They don't know what they're doing and they don't know anything about ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: "I notice that the answers have been largely designed to make the poster feel better, rather than address the question. "
You obviously didn't really read the responses in those threads, because many women were honestly answering with what is ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to need time to get used to my boyfriend after being apart for so long?
Q. I am in a LDR for over 2 years, we see each other every 4 months and when we are apart, we are constantly on Skype (we probably talk an avarage of 4 hours a day on week days and probably the double of that on weekends). We miss each other like crazy ...
A. 16 February 2011: I am in EXACTLY the same situation as you; it could have been me who wrote it. We were together in the same college but went to different grad schools so have been LDR for almost two years. We leave Skype on all the time to talk to each other and ... (read in full...)
Best friend is pregnant and no longer wants me as a friend...and I really don't know where Iv gone wrong
Q. I am single and not really dating, my BF is happily married but I thought we were best friends. We have been friends for over 3 years. When I moved to town and met her at church she instigated the friendship and I felt overwhelmed by h...
A. 15 February 2011: I want to elaborate on this more later because I don't have the time now. My first thought is that if your friend is cutting herself off from not just you, but all of her friends, it could be a sign that she is suffering domestic abuse.... (read in full...)
Is my sexual fantasy sick?
Q. I have never felt sexually fulfilled in a relationship and I am ashamed that I cannot be normal. I have a shameful fantasy that I have never told a soul about because it seems too taboo to talk about. I have fantasies about tying my gf's wrist, g...
A. 15 February 2011: Don't feel ashamed, it's not sick; it's a very normal and common fantasy. In fact, 'being raped' is one of the top 5 sexual fantasies reported by WOMEN. In a college study, more than 50% of the women asked reported being raped as their top sexual ... (read in full...)
Threesomes, Texts, Truths and Drama
Q. Okay, I have this friend, we'll call her Moon. Now she and I have been friends for almost five years. I've seen her go through several boyfriends, as she has seen me do. Her boyfriends though, ranged from emotionally abusive, spoiled brats, t...
A. 29 January 2011: The reason why Moon can so easily forgive new boyfriends and not yourself is because you two have an established friendship that's taken years to build. In a long-term friendship you have a right to expect things like honesty and loyalty from each ... (read in full...)
Telling someone you cheated in the 1st 2 weeks after being together for 2 years?
Q. Ok so this is just one about cheating and being unfaithful I would like to ask the females since I'm a guy. If you cheated on someone in the first two weeks of a relationship because it was long distance and you didn't think that person would last ...
A. 28 January 2011: I totally agree with Cerberus. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to tell me either.... (read in full...)
For the girls -- shaving?
Q. hey everyone ! so i have a question for the girls , do you most of you shave the hair from your vagina? most guys i know do not like hair. so i want to shave mine, but ill shave it one day it will be smooth and the next day the hair will grow ...
A. 27 January 2011: I guess some people feel so passionately about this issue that they have to call others' well-meaning advice about what personally works for them 'nuts'? Nice. First, I'm not suggesting the hair grows back fully every day, just that there will ... (read in full...)
For the girls -- shaving?
Q. hey everyone ! so i have a question for the girls , do you most of you shave the hair from your vagina? most guys i know do not like hair. so i want to shave mine, but ill shave it one day it will be smooth and the next day the hair will grow ...
A. 26 January 2011: What works for me is to do it in the shower every day. It takes 5 seconds to do. Your skin will eventually grow used to it and you won't have those bumps anymore -- if you do it every day. I do not use a shaving cream, just soap, and I use the cheap ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with women's bodies.
Q. Hi I have just returned from a day out with my boyfriend of 18 months followed by yet another row. My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with women's bodies. I am slim and considered pretty and he always compliments me and what I wear. I used to have ...
A. 26 January 2011: I don't get what's wrong with looking? I'm a straight female, but if a really good looking woman passes me by, I look - because she's beautiful to look at. She catches my eye. Same with cleavage or long bare legs; you can't help it, you just look, ... (read in full...)
Why will he not go down on me?
Q. my boyfriend wont go down on me, his never done it before, and says it doesn't appeal to him. so I've stopped giving him oral sex to try and make him but he still won't. what else can I do? ...
A. 20 January 2011: I agree with Odds, but do NOT douche. Douching is unnecessary and makes the vagina more susceptible to yeast and other infections, as well as pelvic inflammatory disease which can cause infertility. The vagina has its own means of cleansing itself ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to leave bruises during sex?
Q. My Girlfriend wants me to leave bruises during sex? I am not sure what to take of this we have been dating over a year now. She wants me to hit her.. I dont know what to do is it normal?...
A. 19 January 2011: I agree with tennisstar. I'm not saying your girlfriend's sort of sexual fantasy makes her unhinged, but you never know, a girl who likes to take pain may have no qualms with inflicting pain on others, including you. If she decides to take revenge ... (read in full...)
I'm a shell without my twin!
Q. I'm hoping some of you here have twins so you know what I mean when I say the bond between twins is indescribable, like that of soulmates, a secret club, epic... I have a fraternal twin brother (I'm female, we're 24) who I know will always be the ...
A. 15 January 2011: Wow, thank you guys, this has been really helpful. I thought for sure everyone would say to follow my twin as he is the most important relationship in my life, but you guys have really helped me get a better perspective and you are right. ... (read in full...)
How do I find a girl with my same interests at my college?
Q. Its been about a month since my bad break up with my girl friend of two years whom I thought was "the one." She started dating another guy almost immediately after we ended things which seriously hurt and broke my self esteem a bit. But now I...
A. 9 December 2010: You are right though. It will be MUCH harder to find a girl once you're out of college and in the work place. ... (read in full...)
How do I find a girl with my same interests at my college?
Q. Its been about a month since my bad break up with my girl friend of two years whom I thought was "the one." She started dating another guy almost immediately after we ended things which seriously hurt and broke my self esteem a bit. But now I...
A. 9 December 2010: Well, one thing you could do is look for a girl who looks like she doesn't spend more than half an hour on her looks every morning, however that's not always a good thing. I do have to comment that many girls who seem like the partying type may be ... (read in full...)
13 year old son sexting. What should his punishment be?
Q. Just caught my 13 year old sexting with a girl in his class. They sent each other pictures of each other and everything. Not sure what his punishment should be. His phone was taken indefinitely. Not sure what else I should do. What do u all think?...
A. 9 December 2010: I would not handle this delicately. If it was my son I'd get one of my male buddies to pose as a cop (or one who actually is a cop) and scare the living daylights out of my son by informing him that what he's doing is actually making and ... (read in full...)
I've got a unique situation involving my BFF, and a guy we both like!
Q. My BFFL and I both like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. My BFFL doesn't know I like this guy, but I know she likes him (she told me). This guy likes me but, like I said, he has a girlfriend. You might be thinking "If he dumps his GF, and asks ...
A. 9 December 2010: Bros over hos. While you both like the same guy, I'd say you both agree neither should have this guy given the opportunity because it would inevitably cause a rift in your friendship. I've made this agreement with friends before. I've also had two ... (read in full...)
How can I lengthen my penis?
Q. My penis is 5 inches long when erect,how can i lengthen it?...
A. 9 December 2010: Dr.Lance, you TOTALLY stole my post. I was going to write the same exact thing. :(... (read in full...)
Why do women play hard to get?
Q. I don't know if there's something wrong with me, but I get extremely angry when a woman is interested in me but she plays hard to get. Why do women do that? Why can't they just throw themselves at you if they are genuinely interested. It w...
A. 8 December 2010: Haven't you ever heard the saying "He chased her until she caught him."?... (read in full...)
Why is dating her so wrong!?
Q. My girlfriend is 15 and I am 19. We are not sexually active. Everyone is telling me it is wrong, but I don't know why. The only answers I have received so far are: -She is in a different part of life and we should have nothing in common. -I have t...
A. 8 December 2010: I don't really have an opinion on your relationship or know whether it's good or bad, I just don't understand why you're interested in high school girls? I'm 24 now, but I remember as soon as I got to college I felt I had nothing in common with high ... (read in full...)
Yasmin contraceptive pill instructions?
Q. Hey, really confused here! I'm on Yasmin contraceptive pill and earlier on I vomited about twenty minutes after I took it, so I took a another pill directly after and have kept it down. I'm just wondering if I'm on it for twenty days instead ...
A. 8 December 2010: Hi, although the bold print instructions will tell you you are usually still protected if you miss one pill, the manufacturer's fine print states that if you miss a pill by even 12 hours you should use a backup method for the next 7 days. This is ... (read in full...)
Are there any herbs, or tablets I can buy that help with premature ejaculation?
Q. I've suffered from premature ejaculation for years now and I finally plucked up the courage to go to the doctors about it. They prescribed me 30 Paroxetine (20mg) tables which is a form of antidepressant. I had one each day and literally after ...
A. 7 December 2010: First of all, I think you should get off those pills. Antidepressants have numerous side effects and I think one day you will regret ever getting on them for something as inconsequential as premature ejaculation. You could also stand to get better ... (read in full...)
I can't compete with his ex fiance!
Q. hey everyone :) Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months. Before i met him, he lived in america at uni for 5 years. he was with his ex for 4 years and they were engaged.he met me and split up with his ex for me, but i felt terrible about it!but h...
A. 7 December 2010: CaringGuy, sorry, my mistake! I thought I read somewhere that the OP's boyfriend's ex-fiancee lived in the US, but she actually doesn't say. Sorry for correcting you! :) ... (read in full...)
I can't compete with his ex fiance!
Q. hey everyone :) Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months. Before i met him, he lived in america at uni for 5 years. he was with his ex for 4 years and they were engaged.he met me and split up with his ex for me, but i felt terrible about it!but h...
A. 6 December 2010: CaringGuy, actually in the US you do not get automatic citizenship for marrying a US citizen. The process is a ton of paperwork and takes about 3 years. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want normal sex with me, but he can have cyber sex with other women!
Q. My story is kind of long so please bear with me. There is just so much I don't know where to start. I am going to try to make it as simple as possible. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. From the start he was never intrested in ...
A. 6 December 2010: "don't understand. I do everything for this guy. I cook for him, wash his clothes, clean, anything and everything he asks for I always do. It's not like I'm not offering sex, I'd love to but he always refuses me. Then when I leave he has cyber sex ... (read in full...)
My dad got mad because I wrote a guy's initials and a heart on my hand?
Q. ok so my dad just pissed me off...i didnt know where else to go to get my mind off it and get some advice. i have a friend named Jared who i REALLY like. he likes me but the thing is he has 3 other girlfriends and im afraid to get hurt. and also ...
A. 6 December 2010: You have a father who loves you. Deal with it!... (read in full...)
I'm not happy about my girlfriend's pregnancy, I don't want to let my dreams and goals go down the drain!
Q. I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20. We found out a couple weeks ago that she is pregnant, and she's ecstatic, I am more reserved. When we found out our reactions were very different, she was happy, I was upset. To cut a long story short she has decided ...
A. 6 December 2010: I really do feel for you. The laws are such that the man has absolutely no say in what happens when he gets a girl with child. If he wants to keep the baby and the girl doesn't, too bad, she'll get an abortion. If she wants to keep the baby and he ... (read in full...)
No, means no!
Q. I met this guy when I was walking home from university the other night, we talked and I ended up getting his number. Last night he came over to my place to "hang out" and he all but told me he loved me! We did kiss, and he seemed to want more as ...
A. 6 December 2010: It doesn't sound like you told him firmly NO, it sounds like you did the female thing of trying to let him down gently, as you still seem to be trying to do. Guys who are persistent will think this means they should keep trying until you say yes. ... (read in full...)
Why can't I orgasm when we have sex?
Q. when me and my bf have sex i just cant seem to orgasm. he alwas gets off before i can even come close to it. is there something wrong with me?...
A. 6 December 2010: Is your boyfriend taking the time to pleasure you through foreplay or is he just entering you and going until he's done? It usually takes women considerably longer to achieve orgasm than men, and they often need direct stimulation to their clitoris. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was nursing her 3 year-old!
Q. I have been dating a new gal for the last several months. She is wonderful in every way. She has a cute 3 1/2 year old son. I was at her house a week ago and she took her son upstairs to put him to bed. It took a long time, so I thought she may have ...
A. 6 December 2010: There's nothing wrong with breastfeeding to even 3 or 4 years of age. Extended breast feeding is taboo in the Western world because of the 'sex' hangups we have here, but there really is nothing sexual or odd about a mother breastfeeding a toddler, ... (read in full...)
He's TOO protective of his Facebook!
Q. My bf and I have gone out over a year now and have been thru ups and downs. I love him dearly and I believe he does. He loves facebook and is very active to a point I can not accept. He is very cautious and protective about his facebook, whenever he ...
A. 6 December 2010: He's definitely hiding something, so if I were you I'd just leave now. But if you want to know with who and how many girls he's been chatting up so you can throw it in his face before you leave him, then I'd check to see if his password to facebook ... (read in full...)
Can my boyfriend's laziness be cured?
Q. I'm just going to jump into this because I hate long intros. My boyfriend of 2 years constantly forgets to pick up after himself. He leaves clothes all over the floor, trash everywhere, always forgets to do the few chores I've put him in charge of, ...
A. 6 December 2010: No, your boyfriend won't change because he has no motivation to. Even if you gave up on the chores and let everything go to hell to make a point he probably still wouldn't get it. Most young men are absolutely fine with living in a mess. I know ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to strike a balance with his gaming?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for two years now; got engaged a year ago. We're getting married in March (St. Patty's Day theme) and he's obsessed with video games. Now, of course I understand that guys and girls alike have an immense interest...
A. 5 December 2010: I think Abella's post is spot on... if it was about someone OLDER. But come on, a young guy just out of his teens who stays up late playing video games must have an addiction? What young guy DOESN'T like to do this? Many people spend a ... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling angry?
Q. Yesterday was my Birthday; I feel the same as usual just that my age has changed(LOL). I have been feeling so angry lately and do not know why. I try to ask myself what makes me angry; maybe it's my family or other people. What I want to know is if ...
A. 5 December 2010: Constant angry feelings could be a sign of depression. How else do you feel? What's going in your life right now that you feel motivated about or proud of? ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to strike a balance with his gaming?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for two years now; got engaged a year ago. We're getting married in March (St. Patty's Day theme) and he's obsessed with video games. Now, of course I understand that guys and girls alike have an immense interest...
A. 5 December 2010: Why are you marrying someone who's boring and kind of a jerk??? The way I see it, if your relationship was mature enough for you two to marry, you would have talked this issue out and come to a compromise by now. Either you'd be playing games with ... (read in full...)
Almost two year old wont listen what do I do
Q. My almost two year old is driving me crazy she wont listen at all. Ive tried spanking time out everything even when i spank her and tell her no i say this is why u got in trouble i dont want u doing this anymore she still does it. Help idk what to ...
A. 3 December 2010: I hope you don't take offense to this, but a full grown dog's intelligence and psychological state is on par with a two year old human's, and many useful dog training methods have been designed with that fact in mind. The same methods can and have ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with these horrible girls in college?
Q. There's been a lot of drama going on! I try to ignore it, but they've been going back to the teacher saying that I've been saying these awful things about them, and spreading rumors that really embarrass me! I don't say anything to them, I just ...
A. 2 December 2010: How is this childish drama going on in your college and why is your professor putting up with it? She's not your babysitter. You're all practically adults and you should be working this stuff out on your own!
Your first step should be to stop try... (read in full...)
Do guys like girls way more than girls like guys?
Q. That's what it seems like. How come if a girl joins a dating site, within a couple of days she'll be flooded with more e-mails than she could ever reply to... but if a guy joins, he could send out two dozen e-mails and still get no replies? How come ...
A. 2 December 2010: You have to understand a few things. Women's lib is relatively only a recent movement and still generating great momentum under its own heat. For the first time we are seeing more women graduating from college than men, more women holding a job than ... (read in full...)
Do I really not have adult rights at 18?
Q. Do I really not have adult rights at eighteen? I went to the ER and they told me they needed my mom's signature. Then my mother told me she made an appointment at the gynecologist because I have irregular periods and told me the doctor will need to ...
A. 2 December 2010: I would think you do have legal rights over your health at 18, and no, your mother can't force you to see a doctor; certainly no one can force you to 'spread your legs' for one.
However, please consider that this is YOUR health and you're v... (read in full...)
How can I tell my children I'm gay?
Q. How can I tell my children I'm gay? I have 3 children, teenage girls, and their mother died a couple of years ago. I think it's the right time to be true to myself (for the first time in 50+ years) and look for a relationship with another man. ...
A. 2 December 2010: John, you didn't say if you and your daughters' mother were still married when she died. Had you been divorced or separated? Can you tell us more about your situation?... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has a low sex drive
Q. I'm 27 and I've been with my girlfriend, 26, for almost 3 years. I love her, but there is a big lack of sex; averaging once a month or less ( we sleep together almost every night). In fact we never really had a lot. Every once in a while, we would ...
A. 1 December 2010: Is your girlfriend on hormonal birth control?... (read in full...)
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