I think he discussed me not giving him a blowjob with his friend, does this mean he was just using me?
Q. Im a sixteen year old girl, and hes a few months younger than me. But he goes on like hes a lot older because of the company he keeps. And i know all his best friends as theyre my friends also. I was kinda with this guy for a few months, but we ...
A. 22 July 2011: I think you need to keep better company. Ditch the whole lot of them.... (read in full...)
Can I get into college?
Q. Hey Everyone, I finished my freshman year in high school this past June. My GPA was a 3.15. I was just wondering, is this a bad GPA? Will colleges still look at me for acceptance? I don't want to got an Ivy league or anything, but I do want to go to...
A. 21 July 2011: I graduated from Bard College 2 years ago; PM me if you'd like and I can talk to you about it.... (read in full...)
Why are so many women so selfish? Even the great ones we love dearly!
Q. MY question is why do women expect us men to give them everything and anything they want that makes them happy, but they won't give us the simplest thing to make us happy; a blow job!? We go to all sorts of lengths, taking an interest in your...
A. 20 July 2011: I have to say, I LOVE this post (and I am female). I know some can't relate, but I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from.
First let me say, I am from a family where the women come first, always, and that's just the way it is. The men trea... (read in full...)
How do you overcome and push past relationship and commitment fears?
Q. How do you overcome and push past relationship and commitment fears? Because I really want to, but whenever i feel i'm getting close to a guy, i guard myself and start pushing him away. I try not to do it, but most of the time i do it subconsciously ...
A. 18 July 2011: First of all, almost everybody is scared to start a new relationship. I don't know why it is, but it's very scary when you're getting closer to someone and you know you're heading toward a relationship. The thing you have to do is just suck it ... (read in full...)
Please help...I'm in love with my best friend and he won't talk about it!
Q. Hi :) Here's the thing, I have fallen in love with me best friend (who's a guy), and i don't know if he feels the same. He told me that he likes me, and said that we should think about being together. We started spending more time together, still as ...
A. 18 July 2011: Are you actually bringing it up to him, though? Are you saying explicitly, "Look, I like you, I'm attracted to you. We made out the other night and I want to talk about this and about us." Or have you only hinted at the subject? You know oftentimes ... (read in full...)
Really romantic love songs?
Q. Does anyone know any really romantic love songs??...
A. 18 July 2011: Wicked Games - Chris Isaak... (read in full...)
I bought a new motorcycle and my best friend was really hurtful about it!
Q. My best friend's comment has me baffled. I emailed my best friend and told her I bought a new motorcycle. Her response to me was: "OMG!!! I am shocked that you bought a bike. DO YOU WANT TO BE KILLED???? ARE YOU NUTS????? YES!!!!! HELMETS...
A. 16 July 2011: My mom is a nurse in a hospital and I can't tell you how many young men she sees come through with serious motorcycle injuries. Many of them have left the hospital in a body bag. Recently she came home in tears because a young man ended up ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said porn stars are hotter than me!
Q. My boyfriend and porn. Ever since my boyfriend got a new job we've had less time for sex. Whenever we see each other we have a lot of sex. I'm not a prude, so with me anything goes (except threesomes). I let him do whatever he wants. I sometimes ...
A. 14 July 2011: Why don't you just find a new guy? Why are you putting up with this? I sure wouldn't, it's a no-brainer. My guy doesn't act like this at all; he worships my body. I have never even seen him glance at another girl walking by and we've been together 3 ... (read in full...)
Did my hymen break again?
Q. This is a really really weird question and everyone I've asked doesn't have any clue! Today I had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time. I was quite sexually active with my last boyfriend so it wasn't my first time. HOWEVER, when havi...
A. 12 July 2011: Actually xoxolost, some adult women's bodies are able to repair the hymen after it is damaged (all of us have this ability in childhood). ... (read in full...)
Did I break my hymen inserting a tampon?
Q. So the other day I was inserting a super and i think I might've broken my hymen. It was one of my last days and i was going to the beach so I put in a super. I used a cardboard one and had some difficulty putting it in. When i peed it kinda stung ...
A. 28 June 2011: I don't think you're too young to use tampons. I started using tampons two days after I got my first period, so I was about 13. I thought pads were sort of nasty. So anyway, good for you! I also agree with person12345. I think the stinging is from... (read in full...)
Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?
Q. Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...
A. 26 June 2011: Hollister, you're now trying to force your fiance to admit to watching porn by LYING to him about having called Comcast? Don't you think you are taking things a bit far? This is what interrogators do during things like a polygraph (lie detector ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says my sex drive is craven, not glutenous. What does that mean?
Q. Dear all,your views please! I have a high sex drive,and have been seeing my bf for four months. We had tons of sex at the start with both of us initiating. However,it now seems to be me starting things. Over the last few weeks,he has made me feel ...
A. 25 June 2011: craven means lacking courage. is he saying you're unadventurous in bed?... (read in full...)
Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?
Q. Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...
A. 25 June 2011: I may be wrong, but I think a refurbished phone would have been restored to its factory settings (and thus wiped clean), so I doubt your boyfriend found apps or visited links left by the previous user. It sounds like he did visit these sites ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my friend? I think she has been strealing from me and she is getting very controlling....
Q. i have been best friends with this girl for 5 years. But lately I've been thinking the friendship has been more of a poisonous friendship than an actual good one. I've been suspecting she has been stealing from me (I lose things at home and then ...
A. 24 June 2011: First of all, good for you for being so mature at your age and recognizing when a friend is toxic or poisonous. This is not always easy to do. You sound like a very self-aware and responsible girl.
I think you are on your way to bigger and bett... (read in full...)
Any name ideas for a little boy?
Q. Hey! I am pregnant and we've recently found out it's a little boy... We're running out of ideas for baby names so... Could anyone help us coming up with some ideas? Thanks everyone!...
A. 20 June 2011: I would try to pick a name that's clean and classic, with the traditional spelling. I know the trend these days is to mix up the spelling of your baby's name, but here's the rub: Even if you think your child's name is easy to pronounce just by the ... (read in full...)
His comment about my weight were rude and uncalled for, what should I say to him?
Q. I've been dating my bf long distance for almost 15mths now. Since I've met him, I've gained about 10-15lbs. Two nights ago, we were texting and I mentioned that I had started a new workout the day before and my body was achy because it was s...
A. 2 June 2011: Just a thought, do you often complain to your boyfriend that you're overweight? Do you keep repeating things like: "Oh, I'm so fat," and "Oh, I need to lose weight," and "Are you sure you don't think I'm too fat? You're sure?" That gets to a person ... (read in full...)
Last night I lost my virginity to him. Now I'm jealous of his past
Q. I'm 23 years old and lost my virginity to my 26 years old boyfriend of 7 months last night. He's my frist boyfriend, my first kiss, my first everything, but I'm not his first. I'll start at the beginning because it will be a little easier to follo...
A. 29 May 2011: Wow, why would you have sex with someone without asking their sexual history first? I don't care how much I care for the guy, if he's had sexual contact before me I would ask him to get tested before we do anything...... (read in full...)
Boyfriend spends all of his money on or for his mom. There's none left for me!
Q. I love my boyfriend but I'm so very sick of hearing sob stories he is always broke. He lives with his mom, pays all the bills, and also just gives money. I admire someone who can help their mom so much...but when it comes time for me, his finances ...
A. 29 May 2011: Ehhh, I'm sorry to say this, but your place in your boyfriend's life is not really clear yet; you're not his wife. You're not engaged. You're not his family. You don't mention how long you've even been together, but at this point, I'd say if you ... (read in full...)
Long distance and sex toys, will a vibrator keep me 'loose'?.
Q. hey Cupids. Basically I lost my virginity and I am now in a long distance relationship. I won't be seeing my guy for some time now. Would getting a vibrator help me from getting tight again and if so what would the best type of vibrator ...
A. 28 April 2011: She's talking about being tight where it's painful. What's good for the gander ain't always good for the goose, dirtball. :) Despite what they say, that sex doesn't make you 'looser', if you've recently lost your virginity or gone a few weeks ... (read in full...)
Masturbatio & Sex Duration worries/troubles
Q. I am a 27 year old virgin I do watch porn quite a bit too. What I have noticed is that when I masturbate, it takes a few strokes/seconds before I climax, and it is possible for me to do this 4/5 times an hour. Is this normal? If I ever have ...
A. 17 April 2011: More and more they're finding there is not a whole lot one can do for PE. Unless it is caused by anxiety or self-conditioning (see below), PE is a genetic trait that in most cases can not be overcome. The truth is you either have it or you don't. ... (read in full...)
Hard bump on my forearm. Any ideas?
Q. I have a hard bump on my forearm its been there for like 6 months and won't goo away, any idea what it might be?...
A. 17 April 2011: Ganglion cyst. ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my father in-law always brings up racial topics when I meet a new family member...How do I handle this diplomatically?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am engaged and soon to be married to a wonderful man. His family loves me very much and I love them too. The only thing is my in laws are very over bearing. I almost feel bad about this situation because most people aren't lucky...
A. 16 April 2011: My father is very much like your father-in-law. He is a very intense person and extremely well-read in history and has to bring it up all the time. Every time I mention a new friend or person in an anecdote, right away he asks, "What's the last ... (read in full...)
Marriage - why should any man bother?
Q. Women… why should any guy propose marriage? Full disclosure: I have never been married, but several family members and friends have been hurt by divorce, and I know of only a handful of happy marriages over one year old. My feelings for the...
A. 13 April 2011: Well, there are a few good material reasons to get married.
As I like to point out, currently more women in the US have jobs than men and are the major breadwinners in their home. Also, more women are graduating from college than men, so we can l... (read in full...)
Why is it that it's still a man's world, every porn mag is for men, every nude scene in a movie is of a woman? When are woman ever truly going to be treated as equals?
Q. I'm sick of the world that we live in, the expectations and pressures on women today, the young girls who suffer and have low self esteem due to the images we see everywhere, in films, magazines, billboards etc.. Why is it that it's still a mans ...
A. 12 April 2011: This is the best line here so far: "Men and women are NOT EQAUL, instead we are DIFFERENT and for good reasons too." I have been saying this for years. It's so true and I wish more people wouldn't be afraid of this concept. ... (read in full...)
Why is it that it's still a man's world, every porn mag is for men, every nude scene in a movie is of a woman? When are woman ever truly going to be treated as equals?
Q. I'm sick of the world that we live in, the expectations and pressures on women today, the young girls who suffer and have low self esteem due to the images we see everywhere, in films, magazines, billboards etc.. Why is it that it's still a mans ...
A. 12 April 2011: Come on, are you kidding? How many men's magazines sexualizing women do you see when you're standing on line at the grocery store? How many women's? Elle, Seventeen, Cosmopolitan, Vogue... all of these magazines show rail-thin, photoshopped, ... (read in full...)
Did I use bad judgment in loaning my ex money?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years and I live together. I have 2 children from my ex husband. My boyfriend and I have come to what is becoming a pretty big issue. My ex husband has been unable to obtain employment since december. In the past he was always ...
A. 10 April 2011: I think if your ex-husband was always financially responsible for you and the kids it was right for you to lend him the money. Not only is he the father of your children and someone you want to keep around for them, but you can also look at it as an ... (read in full...)
Did I use bad judgment in loaning my ex money?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 years and I live together. I have 2 children from my ex husband. My boyfriend and I have come to what is becoming a pretty big issue. My ex husband has been unable to obtain employment since december. In the past he was always ...
A. 10 April 2011: I think if your ex-husband was always financially responsible for you and the kids it was right for you to lend him the money. Not only is he the father of your children and someone you want to keep around for them, but you can also look at it as an ... (read in full...)
I asked him to wear a condom and he was "offended" that I didnt trust him! Now he doesn't want the relationship anymore!!
Q. I first met this guy in summer school...i didn't have any classes with him...but from the very beginning he started showing signs of interest...afterwards I think it was in September when he added me on face book...he kept on commenting on my posts ...
A. 9 April 2011: "few weeks later he asked me out which again wasn't very surprising..But since i wasn't really interested in him i refused..he seemed more insisting though...he kept on asking and i kept on refusing...exactly 7 weeks ago i decided to give it a shot ... (read in full...)
Why is my face getting thinner?
Q. hey everyone, i have a health question my face is gettin skinnier, like many people telling me that its gone too skinny, my body is still the same but my face is like really small and it looks long coz there is almost no meat on it. could this be ...
A. 7 April 2011: It could be part of your natural aging process. In the mid twenties most people's faces will appear to elongate and thin out. There are many, many naturally occurring partitions of fat under and over the facial muscles. These fat partitions are p... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 7 April 2011: That pretty much only happens in porn. NO women like to have their man cum in their face and most women would not even let their man try it. If you're reading about women who claim they like cum on their face on internet forums, know this: these ... (read in full...)
How do women view a male RN as a husband?
Q. Ok. Now that I've had the fun single life I'm 33 years old. I don't have any children, I own my own home and I would like to settle down with a good woman. I want a female perspective on this one question though. I have been in the field of ...
A. 4 April 2011: First of all, let me say this. I come from a family of women nurses (mother, grandmother, aunts) so if anyone should be biased against male nurses, it should be me. I was the first to break the cycle and went into computer engineering, but I admire ... (read in full...)
Why do all women shave down there?
Q. Why do all women, or almost all women shave down below? I read somewhere here on DC that even girls as young as 14 are doing this!...
A. 4 April 2011: I started shaving in my teens because I'm a very active, athletic person and, let's be honest, women do sweat down there. If there's hair and it gets sweaty, it stays wet, and then it starts to collect odors throughout the day, and because we all ... (read in full...)
Why do so many women hate porn?
Q. Maybe I'm opening a can of worms here, but why are so many woman so vehemently against porn? What is there about it that makes it so evil? I read so many questions from women who are disgusted by their partner's porn use. Some consider it as b...
A. 31 March 2011: Emotions are often not rational or logical; most people at some point in their lives will find they have no rational explanation for feeling the way they feel; they just feel. Many women feel deeply and inexplicably threatened or hurt when they ... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous if my girl sits in my friends lap (innocently)?
Q. Hello Everyone. I have been dating this girl for about a year and a half and so far we haven't really fought over anything major, at least rarely. Recently, after saying I would stop being jealous over stupid stuff, might have been a bad idea, she ...
A. 31 March 2011: I disagree with these comments that it's okay for your girlfriend to sit on a guy's lap in certain circumstances. It's NOT okay. Your girlfriend is not 5 years old; she's a sexually active young adult and unless she's been living in a cave she knows ... (read in full...)
Should I mention to my girl friend that I might like to try a 3some or a 4some with her friends?
Q. Okay well heres the deal. Ive been dating this girl for about 2 years and this april were going to the beach with 2 of her girl friends..were going to be drinking while were up there. I'm not sure if her friends are bi or not but I like the idea...
A. 27 March 2011: Try to gauge her moral views on sexuality before you ask. If she's always been adamant about being sexually monogamous and about only having sex with someone she's already in a serious relationship with (no FWB or one night stands), chances are she ... (read in full...)
Father's strange behaviour is making my life so difficult!
Q. I feel like my father is trying to drive me to a breakdown. I think he has severe mental problems, but he has never been diagnosed. When I was growing up and well into my twenties, he would give me and my Mum the silent treatment (but not my ...
A. 27 March 2011: You obviously need to get out of that house. In the meantime, you should stay out of your father's chair. It's his house, his chair. You know the reaction you get out of him when you sit in his chair, so you are clearly looking for a fight when... (read in full...)
Why are there such huge differences in attitudes towards sex between the USA and Argentina?
Q. Well, I am from Argentina, South America. Our culture has its roots in Spain and Italy pretty much. We salute with a kiss on the cheek (properly, not a silly "air kiss"), we are very affectionate towards others and very emotional. Our parties get ...
A. 24 March 2011: Hi, I don't know what the hell is wrong with Charlotte, NC. I grew up in upstate NY and I've never seen behavior like that (though I've heard of it), but then again it probably depends on what sort of people you hang out with and where you grow up. ... (read in full...)
Too scared to have sex because of my penis size!
Q. I'm 17 and my penis is only 3inches long I am sooo scared to have sexual relations because of my size Please I need tips and advice what to do...
A. 24 March 2011: Hi link, don't worry about your penis size. My man is a little below average and usually can't last more than a minute. He sometimes tells me this must be a problem for me but I have no idea what he's talking about. Between all the kissing and oral ... (read in full...)
Why do guys beep their horns at girls? It is really embarassing!
Q. Everytime I go out, with my mom, my friends, ANYONE, people would do that whole 'I beep the horn because you're attractive' thing. Before, when I was an insecure person, i would feel really flattered. Now, it's just really embarassing and my parents ...
A. 24 March 2011: You shouldn't be smiling or waving back because not only will that encourage honkers, but whoever you're with will think you welcome this type of behavior. Also note that while you say you don't dress 'revealingly,' male and female opinion o... (read in full...)
Why am I jealous of my son spending time with his girlfriend?
Q. My 16 year old son has his first serious girlfriend whom he has been dating a few months. At first I liked her well enough but lately they spend so much time together I have been feeling jealous of the time and affection that he gives to her and not ...
A. 23 March 2011: I'll try to help you by telling my own experience with this. My dad had and still has the same problem you do with my fraternal twin brother's girlfriend. She is my brother's first and only girlfriend since he got with her at age 20; they've been... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room?
Q. What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out. Three possibilities come to mind for me: 1. Sh...
A. 22 March 2011: You know, if she's dressing to work in a way that lets her thong be visible, I don't think you should feel bad for looking. Women have to more cognizant about men's biology; it's not right to dress in such a distracting way at work. Women can argue ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room?
Q. What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out. Three possibilities come to mind for me: 1. Sh...
A. 21 March 2011: Could she be adjusting her underwear or worried her pants rode up her, forgive me for this word, 'crack', so she's covering the line? ... (read in full...)
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