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writes:i am 19 yrs old and i told a 18yr girl ive known for years that i was into her, that i was attracted to her and that i thought she was beautiful.( she's single,never had a boyfriend ) i told her this when i was on vacation through e-mail. When i came back from vacation i saw her at a party everybody hugged me to welcome me back, so did she but it was kinda akward... she doesnt feel comfortable around me.two weeks later, for her birthday i gave her gifts she really wanted to have and nobody else thought of, she was kinda emotional that i knew what she wanted. after that we joked around, laughed alot with friends i caught her starring at me sometimes... at the end of the evening she thanked me and gave me a sincere hug... i was happy that i had a good time with her. some days later its still akward at times when i see her or try to talk to her. she never seems intrested in me. can i do something so she'll like me like i like hernow its 2 months later, ive seen her at times we hang with others friends i dont know what to do after this ... pls help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni still havent told her... everytime i see her its akward, i feel akward she doesnt seem intrested altough i catch her looking at me ( probably thinking something bad about me )
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reader, angel_of_luv  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 I think you need to tell her face to face how you feel.
She may be nervous about how to be with you now or how to react with you.
It's nice you told her via email, but face to face is always best. Good Luck :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso am i too late or should i give it a try .. ?
thx for responding
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reader, Nime  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 You need to tell her to her face you like her and you want her to be with you. It sounds to me like she's avoiding the issue because she's nervous. You made it easy for yourself by telling her your feelings through email, behind the safety of a computer, and now it seems to you like you've thrown the ball in her court and it's her move to come to you. Most girls feel anxious with that much responsibility; you should have told her to her face.
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