What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room?
Q. What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out. Three possibilities come to mind for me: 1. Sh...
A. 22 March 2011: You know, if she's dressing to work in a way that lets her thong be visible, I don't think you should feel bad for looking. Women have to more cognizant about men's biology; it's not right to dress in such a distracting way at work. Women can argue ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room?
Q. What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out. Three possibilities come to mind for me: 1. Sh...
A. 21 March 2011: Could she be adjusting her underwear or worried her pants rode up her, forgive me for this word, 'crack', so she's covering the line? ... (read in full...)
I finally met my ldr, why do I feel like we keep drifting after our first meet?
Q. For those of you who want to read my original question here's the link. I recommend you read it to understand what this question is about. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/after-4-years-i-finally-met-my-ld.html I posted that a week ago now. ...
A. 20 March 2011: If there's one thing I've noticed in people when they're discussing what's on their mind, it's usually that the very LAST thing they say as an afterthought is what's truly bugging them. Your whole post is following one train of thought about why ... (read in full...)
I randomly binge and I can't stop myself! Help!
Q. Every so often, without warning I'll break my carefully moderated diet in a big way and binge on everything in sight. While I'm stuffing my face I'm euphoric, it isn't until afterwards that I realise I haven't actually enjoyed a single mouthful - ...
A. 20 March 2011: Did you know you have a finite amount of willpower each day? I mean if you wake up and go to work and deny yourself one of the donuts that somebody brought in, that costs maybe a unit of willpower. Then you push back your lunch an extra half hour so ... (read in full...)
Am I bipolar?
Q. Is this bipolar disorder or what? My mood swings have been all over the place since i was young... but i'm not sure if that is hormones or an actual disorder. For example, i'll be really happy and hyper and then next minute boom! I'm depressed fo...
A. 19 March 2011: I think everybody can say they've experienced crazy mood swings for what seem like no reason. If no one in your family has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and you have not had an abusive or traumatic childhood, it's unlikely that what you've ... (read in full...)
Should or can I ever trust her again? she's had a more colorful past than I knew.
Q. i'm 34 and she's 21. We're married for 15 months. we're fated, have everything in common. however, a few weeks back i asked her which friend she talks to most about stuff. she said no one really, and certainly would never spill details abou...
A. 19 March 2011: "We're married for 15 months. we're fated, have everything in common. however, a few weeks back i asked her which friend she talks to most about stuff." "not believing that garbage, i inquired to a few mutual friends." None of us know her sid... (read in full...)
Should I contact my father? My mom has fiercely protected me from him all these yrs, because he had sexually abused my older half brother and half sister...
Q. When i was 6 years old my biological father was put in prison for sexually abusing my older half brother and half sister. After this my mum took out an injunction preventing him from coming anywhere near me until i was 18 years old. After this he ...
A. 18 March 2011: Do you fully understand that this man sexually abused two underage human beings in his care? Two human beings who relied on him for welfare and guidance? Put yourself in your half-siblings' shoes. You walk home from school with the dead weight of ... (read in full...)
I have a tight foreskin, do you think my girlfriend will mind it?
Q. My foreskin doesn't pull back at all, it only has a very small hole in the end. Do you think my girlfriend will still want to give me a hand job or oral sex when she sees it?...
A. 18 March 2011: I can't say for sure, but you should have this looked at by a doctor. A tight foreskin like yours could be a breeding ground for bacteria if you can't pull the foreskin back enough to wash the area properly. In this case I think the smell and taste ... (read in full...)
Do you think he will want biological children in the future?
Q. My boyfriend and I, both 24, were talking about kids yesterday and he said that he wanted to adopt 3 kids. And he wanted one to be named after him. And I asked him if he wanted to name his biological child after him. He said his mom tells him that ...
A. 15 March 2011: What kind of mental illness does your boyfriend's father and sister suffer from, exactly? ... (read in full...)
18 years old, getting married in a few months and questioning it! What should I do?
Q. I have run into a problem. I am a person who can be told not to do this (ex. if you ride that horse, you're going to get bucked off), but I still get on. I always have to learn the hard way. I am at the tender age of 18, and I am engaged and gett...
A. 11 March 2011: One of the most common reasons for divorce from a marriage is because one or both parties during their engagement realized the other person was wrong for them but said nothing because they felt the wedding plans were too far along. Realize that it's ... (read in full...)
How do I acheive a flat stomach?
Q. Dear Cupid...if a person wants to have a flat stomach, how many situps would you advice them to do a day? Thank you...
A. 11 March 2011: Situps alone are not going to give you a flat stomach. In order of importance: 1. Most important: you need to reduce your bodyfat all around (there's no such thing as spot reduction, i.e., losing fat in just one area). That's the ONLY way you're ... (read in full...)
Do I leave my abusive wife or stay and suffer for our kids?
Q. My wife and I are from different religions. We have been married for 16 years and have three beautiful kids together aged 8,10 and 12. Initially things were great but the last eight years have been the most miserable of my life because she has been ...
A. 9 March 2011: largentsgirl is exactly right about the effects on the children. I also want to mention that if you were a woman and your husband was the one victimizing you, we'd all be screaming at you to get the hell out of that marriage and away from the abuse. ... (read in full...)
Ladies, if you’re with a well endowed man, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect?
Q. Ladies...if you are with a man who is well endowed, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect? If it is his size, what specifically about his penis is the most enticing? Seeing it and looking ...
A. 9 March 2011: "now that I think of it, "enticing " is not a word that I would apply for any size of penis... they remind me of some obscure sea creature, the kind you'd find in some cheap sushi joint."
CindyCares, your response is gonna make me die laughing... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is mad because I did not share a secret with her. What do I do?
Q. What do i do when my girlfriend of 6 months doesn't trust me any more due to me just finding out a secret from my past? As soon as i found out the secret i told my present girlfriend and she is upset because i didn't tell her sooner but i am just ...
A. 8 March 2011: Yeah, if the secret is something like an STD, I would be pretty mad if I were your girlfriend.... (read in full...)
Ladies, if you’re with a well endowed man, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect?
Q. Ladies...if you are with a man who is well endowed, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect? If it is his size, what specifically about his penis is the most enticing? Seeing it and looking ...
A. 8 March 2011: When I think of a well-endowed man I think,
"Oh, baby, look at those throbbing veins and giant penile papules! I'd like to inject some local anesthetic into my jaw and just choke on that hairy unwashed piece of meat, oh yeah. And then I can't wa... (read in full...)
Is her discomfort an excuse for not wanting more?
Q. So I read tons of stuff on here about girls being able to go for round after round of sex, and Its left me with a lot of questions. My girlfriend and I have, from what I can see, a very good sex life. Though we are both in high school, we do it...
A. 8 March 2011: "She's been a sport about it a few times and been able to do it about 25 minuets afterwords, but she said it was "a bit" uncomfortable, not unbearable, but not like the first time at least."
For your own sake, stop looking at this like an equation... (read in full...)
Is her discomfort an excuse for not wanting more?
Q. So I read tons of stuff on here about girls being able to go for round after round of sex, and Its left me with a lot of questions. My girlfriend and I have, from what I can see, a very good sex life. Though we are both in high school, we do it...
A. 8 March 2011: NO, your girlfriend is not faking. This is very common. After I orgasm I almost can't handle being touched, fondled, stroked, licked, whatever, pretty much anywhere. It's just too sensitive and ticklish, and sometimes painful. You might some... (read in full...)
Why can't my friends just be happy that I am dating?
Q. I've recently started seeing a guy and am shocked at how my friends are behaving. One of my friends seemed extremely jealous, then started talking about a guy she knows. (A male friend of hers- they are not even dating!) Another friend wanted to ...
A. 3 March 2011: Wow, Cerberus is SPOT on. That's exactly what I would have said if I had gotten here first. Cerberus, it's like you know the female psychology better than most women...
"OP as happy as we are for our friends when they get new partners, the fact... (read in full...)
I cheated on him when drunk but I suspect he cheated too!
Q. Okay, I'll probably get judged for this post but what the hell my head is FRIED!! I could seriously do with some non-judgmental advice, oh and by the way, don't tell me to break up with my bf cos it ain't gonna happen. Okay... Me and my bf have bee...
A. 3 March 2011: I agree with CaringGuy and mean no disrespect by this, but you need professional help. I know you don't want to break up with your boyfriend, but you sound like you're in a difficult place emotionally right now and need to find some inner stability. ... (read in full...)
Anal sex with no condom, should I be concerned?
Q. Last night me and my boyfriend were having regular sex when the condom broke (I'm on the pill so no worries about being pregnant, we usually just use condoms anyway to be on the safe side) so for the first time we tried anal sex. No condom, no lube, ...
A. 2 March 2011: If you're going to do anal sex, just make sure he never sticks his penis or fingers back into or around your vagina after they have been around your anus!!!... (read in full...)
Female input needed!
Q. For women only. How would you feel if a guy that you are interested in had 9 inch long penis?...
A. 2 March 2011: That would be too long for me, sorry, don't want to be in pain the next day... ... (read in full...)
Overweight and unhappy!
Q. Okay I'd really like some help on this. Something that has got me down for about 4 years. I'll shoot straight into it. I'm overweight. I'm not huge but I feel it. I don't wear anything that reveals my arms (because they are gross), and i don't wear ...
A. 2 March 2011: Can you give us some more information?
1. What is your philosophy on dieting and nutrition?
2. What is a rough outline of your diet? What did you eat more or less exactly in the last 3 days?
3. Are you taking measurements? Weight, inches, ... (read in full...)
What do women think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend?
Q. Hey i was just wondering what girls think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend (yes, a virgin aswell), do you consider it pathetic? I dunno im a sweet guy, i'd dare say attractive, im just a lil shy, i guess it's true what they say: ...
A. 2 March 2011: "I hate it when somebody says you should proactively search, not just wait for it to happen to you. That is BS. Finding the right person is, in fact, a matter of chance, something that happens to you."
This is coming from a 26 year old woman wh... (read in full...)
Love my girlfriend so why do I keep having crushes on others?
Q. I have a girlfriend, we had been quite steady together, I really love her a lot. However, I tend to have a lot of random crushes on other girls and really would like to be with them them. Please give me some advice on this!!! I need to get it out of ...
A. 2 March 2011: I think a lot of us in loving, long-term relationships feel this way too. I can 'fall in love' with a guy for 5 minutes or a month because I recognize his unique qualities and believe, in another lifetime, we'd be great together. This doesn't in ANY ... (read in full...)
I'm worried this may be termed as incest???
Q. Ok so, I'm 22 years old and living in Canada. My dad's uncle George (my great uncle) has lived in the US for like 20 years. When he moved to the US he married an American woman named Kate (my great-aunt by marriage I guess?). Kate has a sister, ...
A. 2 March 2011: No, this is definitely not incest. You two are so far removed from each other that statistically your genetic profiles would likely not be much more similar than to any of your neighbors'. Plus, it's believed to be healthy for a child's immune ... (read in full...)
What do women think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend?
Q. Hey i was just wondering what girls think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend (yes, a virgin aswell), do you consider it pathetic? I dunno im a sweet guy, i'd dare say attractive, im just a lil shy, i guess it's true what they say: ...
A. 1 March 2011: It sounds like you're waiting for the right girl to 'happen to you' when what you need to be doing is PROACTIVELY searching for and meeting girls you click with. It's likely that no girl, let alone the right girl, will decide out of the blue that ... (read in full...)
What birth control do you use and why?
Q. Birth Control... I'm a virgin, have no desire to get BF yet and I am happy to finish living my childhood for the time being as I know when it's gone I'll miss just been young. But i see alot Qs about BC (birth control) and I'm just curious re...
A. 25 February 2011: I use the Paragard copper IUD. It can stay in for 12 years and has no hormones or side-effects.
I used to use the pill (Yaz) but found that it gave me headaches and destroyed my sex drive; I was also worried about messing with my hormones like tha... (read in full...)
I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!
Q. hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he ...
A. 24 February 2011: You're lucky you overhead him! Plenty of women are victims to guys like this but they don't find out until AFTER they've had sex and he never calls again.
Sending big hugs your way!... (read in full...)
External genital abnormalities in females
Q. I have recently married a woman who is 50. I have noticed that she is nearly missing all of her labia majora (outer lips of vaginal opening), and other parts that are usually located within the labia majora. Additionally, her clitoris and its hood ...
A. 24 February 2011: Logic, I'm sorry for my first response, but you only gave us half the story! Reread your original post and ask yourself if it doesn't SOUND like it was written by a controlling husband. You didn't tell us at first that you decided to see the ... (read in full...)
Getting headaches with my new healthy eating regime... is this normal?
Q. I've recently started to eat healthy and cut out all the rubbish that I used to eat. I decided this would be the best way for me to lose weight as I have gained quite alot in the past year. I cut out all the coke and fizzy drinks I used to drink as...
A. 23 February 2011: Yes, most likely because you're eating fewer refined sugars and caffeine and your body is going through a mild withdrawal. Make sure to drink plenty of water and have a piece of fruit or a spoonful of honey when you feel a headache coming on. ... (read in full...)
External genital abnormalities in females
Q. I have recently married a woman who is 50. I have noticed that she is nearly missing all of her labia majora (outer lips of vaginal opening), and other parts that are usually located within the labia majora. Additionally, her clitoris and its hood ...
A. 23 February 2011: These are NOT abnormalities; your wife's vagina sounds completely normal. Every woman's vagina is different, that's why the gynecologist didn't say anything. Make no mistake, the gynecologist has seen many, many, many more vaginas than you have, and ... (read in full...)
Why did my wife get upset when I saw a topless sunbather on a beach?
Q. This may be a funny question to ask but my wife got so mad on a trip we took to Mexico when we saw a woman laying out topless. Why is that? I am not the guy who makes comments about other women or takes long stares at them; I have always been very ...
A. 22 February 2011: You sound like a very good husband; all of us women should be so lucky to get a guy like you!
Ordinarily I would say that most people resent it when you bring up what you have done for them, but in this case I say you should try to remind your wif... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like oral sex because of the taste. What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend has only "gone down" on me once, and it was for about ten seconds. He had talked for a while about how the idea turns him on a lot. After those ten seconds, he never really said anything or did it again. He randomly told me while we ...
A. 21 February 2011: The best way to make yourself taste better is to eat more yogurt and definitely stop 'deep cleaning,' because that can give you a yeast infection as the soap can change your vagina's pH and wipe out your good bacteria. The vagina is very effective ... (read in full...)
I have a large labia. Is that unattractive?
Q. This is kind of embarrassing for me, but I am very self-concious about my vagina. I have a rather large labia and fear that men would find it unattractive. Though I've never had sex, I've been sexually involved with a couple of guys in other ways ...
A. 21 February 2011: "With the way beautiful women are portrayed in the media- to have perfectly tight areas"
If you're referring to porn, many of the women in professional porn have cosmetic surgery done to their private areas, from vastly reducing the size of the l... (read in full...)
Should I become promiscuous?
Q. I will come out and say it: due to a bad and nonexistent upbringing, I used to be the "nice guy" with very little luck. I am 24 years old and I have been with only 7 women in my life (mostly due to luck). Due to fortune and the great advice from an ...
A. 20 February 2011: @Jamen, the whole nature of your post still sounds like you feel you are 'owed' something by women. It really does sound like you feel you got screwed over because you came to realize your ideals about women were false. Everyone goes through this ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel this way during anal sex? Is it harmful?
Q. Ok here goes nothing. I am a cross dresser married to a delightfully beautiful woman, who knows and approves totally. This is my second marriage. Recently, she confessed to me that she desired to play the male role in the bedroom. While it was init...
A. 20 February 2011: When the walls of the colon feel enough internal pressure (usually from collecting feces) it will induce peristalsis, which is a radial relaxing and contraction of the smooth muscle to propel the material through the colon. So although you say ... (read in full...)
Should I become promiscuous?
Q. I will come out and say it: due to a bad and nonexistent upbringing, I used to be the "nice guy" with very little luck. I am 24 years old and I have been with only 7 women in my life (mostly due to luck). Due to fortune and the great advice from an ...
A. 20 February 2011: Most of my friends, male and female, including myself, are around your age and have only ever been with one or, less commonly, two people. By my standards you're pretty promiscuous, so don't feel TOO sorry for yourself. Maybe you are buying in too ... (read in full...)
Need your opinion on a dress!!
Q. Ok, so i have found 4 dresses i really like and i need your opinion! i'm about 5' 3 and 100 lbs. fair skin, can tan pretty easily though, dark hair and hazel eyes and fit into a size 2 if it's a corset dress. i kind of think i want a pink dress but ...
A. 20 February 2011: Thoughts:
#1 Fun bodice, but will make your waist look the widest out of these four.
#2 Beautiful bodice, safe choice to look elegant.
#3 Most waist-slimming bodice and unusual bust-line. I have to say, I don't like to wear green too much b... (read in full...)
Shouting at my girlfriend caused her to break up with me! Help!
Q. Can anyone offer me ANY sort of help please? Yesterday, me and my girlfriend were having fun like normal! Having phone calls, chating about absolutely everything! Then we started messing around with those new Facebook page banners! She set one on my ...
A. 17 February 2011: Your girlfriend doesn't sound very mature, does she? She might be unhappy that you yelled at her, but trying to break up with you because of something as trivial as this, something SHE started, is manipulative and extremely juvenile. Does she know ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 17 February 2011: "my chiefest question went totally unanswered: If two men have equal performance, is the man with the significantly larger member better? Do most women feel less pleasure going from big to average?" Ok, I'll answer you. It's not a good question, b... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: This question is so annoying. It's like men just refuse to GET IT. Any man who has to ask if size really matters to women just isn't good in bed, I can tell you that right now. They don't know what they're doing and they don't know anything about ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: "I notice that the answers have been largely designed to make the poster feel better, rather than address the question. "
You obviously didn't really read the responses in those threads, because many women were honestly answering with what is ... (read in full...)
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