Was the advice good, did I do the right thing? Will I hear from him again?
Q. Ok, so I have had an on-again, off-again relationship with this guy. After dating and breaking up we tried being friends....I'm sure you can all figure out the complications that went along with that. We're good friends, when we both make the...
A. 27 August 2010: Hi, I am sorry you have had to go through this crap. I too have been going through this, and fainlly broke it off last week.it sounds like he knows you really like him, and he is taking advantage of that fact. Why not ignore him completley and see ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend hates me..so why wont he let me leave?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. we have gone through some really really hard things together. i have forgivin him for cheating on me...and lying about it and he forgave me for hitting him. which i feel bad for but in the moment i...
A. 27 August 2010: hey, I;m really sorry you are going through thism but it sounds ke a really abusive relastionship. How you getting on since this post? have you managed to get out of it yet?... (read in full...)
HELP PLEASE? Can you love someone too much?
Q. HELP PLEASE? Ive been with my boyfriend for 2and a bit years we life together and space all our time together i love this and really depened on him for happieness if hes not with me im sad and fell very depressed and lonely he says im controlling ...
A. 27 August 2010: Try not to concact him for tow weeks. Iknow it wil be painful, but you must prove to hin that you can live without him, as you are scaring him off. Yo uare actully making it worse by saying this stuff to him. Let us know how you get on. xx... (read in full...)
Have distanced myself from some close friends but don't seem to regret it. Is this normal?
Q. During this summer I lost a couple of close friends it all seemed to happen so fast. Although I think about them sometimes and good memories we had. I'm not that phased that we're not cool anymore... I sort of feel like... I don't really know how to ...
A. 27 August 2010: it;s normal. People change - you have just grown out of them that's all. Different people come into our lives at different times. Some for a week, some for a lifetime. You have nothing to feel guilty about -you'l meet new ones who are more suited to ... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight to get back with my ex!
Q. what are the best ways to make yourself vomit and how fast does it make you skinnier? because i want to get back with my ex and im just way to fat. so i need help and i think vomitting is the fastest way. ...
A. 26 August 2010: Hey , don;t lose weight for him, lose it for you. I lost 3 stone five years ago, by just changing what you eat -eg: more fruit, salads, fish, chicken etc - cut out the junk ,and only have it ssay every 2 months. You wil lose laods if you eat only ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a gay man!
Q. I am not exactly sure how to ask this question. I have become extrememly close to a co worker of mine. We just instantly clicked from the beginning. I absolutely love him. He is gay, but I was wondering is there certain degrees of being gay. I ...
A. 26 August 2010: Hey, this happened to me once to- I fell in love with a gay man, and I suffered for a year. Please try not to waste anymore time on this - he is essentailly GAY, and has a male partner. The line can be blurred with gay male to female freindships, I ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with a guy I briefly dated a year ago...how do I stop this???
Q. I am obsessed with this guy I briefly dated and it's tearing me apart mentally!!! I want it to stop. A year ago I met him online and I totally fell for him. He's in the military and soon after we met he had to leave on deployment. He was away for ...
A. 26 August 2010: Hi, I understand how you feel. you need closure, and the guy didn;t give you that. Why not just contact him directly, and say you need to know why he dumped you, as you need closure, as it has been bugging you all this time. I think that's a fair ... (read in full...)
How can I make this relationship work?
Q. I have been in an intense relationship for 5 months. We met the day he was released from prison after 2 years. Before he was my bf he seemed a little standoffish but I thought it was just b/c of everything he had been thru. Now however, since we ...
A. 25 August 2010: Hi, I;m really sorry you are having to go through this. i went through a very similar thing eg: the emotional and physical withdrawal from my BF up until last week when I broke it off for my own sanity. I still love him and miss him, but it hurts so ... (read in full...)
I'm becoming desperate for sex!
Q. i think im starting to become desperate for sex....is that possible after having sex alot with your ex...after not having sex can you begin to need to have sex.....i haven't had sex for only 3 months nearly and basically everything i read about a ...
A. 25 August 2010: I know how you feel, and it can be veryu frustating! You must put things into place -eg: Dildo, toys, porn mags, etc. Just try not to call him. !!... (read in full...)
Just can't say goodbye, why?
Q. what is wrong with me? I keep insisting that I remain in my ex-fiance's life. we broke up about a month ago. she just stopped all communication with me with no reason or anything. she has a disorder called ptsd and through everything, I still love ...
A. 19 August 2010: I am sorry to hear this. Try to blcok all lines of commuincation wiht her - that whay you won;t know if she has tried to conact you . That's what I am doing at the moment with my ex. I;m closing down one thing at a time eg: yesterday the IM mesnegr, ... (read in full...)
I attacked my Husband!!
Q. Today I got into an argument with my husband. The row started getting worse and then i pushed him and slapped him in the face. I also scratched him when he pushed me back. I've done this a few years ago and thought I'm over my 'anger' feelings...
A. 17 August 2010: I'm so sorry to hear this. You have to tell him you will get some help. Is there not a charity organisatin that can help you deal with these issues for free? it could take months or years for him to trust you again. Are you harbouring some sort of ... (read in full...)
Women, what kind of porn do you like?
Q. straight women, what kind of porn do u like?...
A. 17 August 2010: Guy on Guy too sometimes actully as well. Anything really. LOL... (read in full...)
Married with 2 kids but interested in men
Q. I am a married man with two kids, but I think I'm atleast bi curious. I have strong urges to find out what it's like to be with another man....
A. 17 August 2010: I think you should give it a go with a guy to find out and put your mind at rest, and no you don;t have to 'ceom out' to your wife unles it gets to a critcal point. EG: you are going to leave her for a guy. I mean, why tell her now and hurt her? ... (read in full...)
My husband is into BESTIALITY PORN!!
Q. Help!! I have just discovered that my husband of 30 years is into bestiality-porn!! I dont have a problem with him watching porn, which he has not lied to be about, but I have recently noticed that he has been downloading tons of disgusting images ...
A. 17 August 2010: Confront him, and ask him why he needs to watch that kind of stuff.. maybe he is just curious.... it doesn;t mean he is nuts. it might be just a passing phase. Most people that watch porn experiement with differnt types of porn at some point. Just ... (read in full...)
He beats me up... but I always forgive him.
Q. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND BUT HE IS ALWAYS ATTRACTED TO OTHER GIRLS.WE HAVE BEING TOGETHER FOR 8 YEARS AND HE BEATS ME UP.AND WHEN I LEAVE HIM N GO OUT TO STAY WITH MY COUSINS HE CALLS ME UP AND BEGS FOR FORGIVENESS.WHAT SHOULD I DO?I LOVE HIM SO MUCH SO I ...
A. 17 August 2010: You HAVE to leave him for your own sanity and saftey. PLEASE leave him. He is not a man - he is a boy. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do this for yourself. it will be ths single best thing you have ever done for yourself, I promise. if I ever met him I would ... (read in full...)
I know he's just using me for sex but I can't break things off!
Q. I like a guy but i know he's just using me for sex. I know the longer this goes on the worse it's going to be but i don't know how to stop seeing him. I've told him that i couldn't be "friends" anymore but everytime he makes me feel guilty and i ...
A. 17 August 2010: Ok Well done, but don;t punish yourself. Don;t delete him off facebook just yet until you are ready. if it gets really painful as it does sometimes. text him, but try to be strong. it;s so damm hard... (read in full...)
I know he's just using me for sex but I can't break things off!
Q. I like a guy but i know he's just using me for sex. I know the longer this goes on the worse it's going to be but i don't know how to stop seeing him. I've told him that i couldn't be "friends" anymore but everytime he makes me feel guilty and i ...
A. 17 August 2010: Sounds like he wants his own way. How you doing with cutting him off? Have you managed?... (read in full...)
Help needed! How can I get things back to the way they were?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we recently broke up 2 days ago. We both agreed we bickered too much and it was starting to take a strain on our love. So the only thing we didnt agree on was that I want to work things out and ...
A. 17 August 2010: Hey, sorry to hear that. I am going through the same thing. it is so hard. How you getting on? Natmariexx... (read in full...)
I love him and want to wait but the lack of communication is making me crazy!
Q. So confused. Plz help. I met my bf 6mnths ago online. He works away and I only see him every 5 wks. When we see each other it is wonderful and very happy, he then goes and we basically just text msg lots every day. When I actually speak to him I ...
A. 17 August 2010: Ask him what the hell is going on? Or call his bluff and ignore him and switch your phone off, then see what he does... (read in full...)
He initiated the relationship, and now he's telling me he updated his dating profile. wtf?
Q. I signed up for eHarmony just over a month ago and about two weeks in, went on my first date. It went well, and we've been seeing each other ever since. It seemed to me like he was moving really, really, really fast but I figured "to hell with ...
A. 13 August 2010: I had/ exacty the same problem. He sounds insecure. My now ex BF done the same. He even took me away to meet his family, and done all the BF stuff, but stayed on the sight saying he was 'just chatting to people'. Soooo.. I assumed a false profile, ... (read in full...)
I cant just put my life on hold, do I move on?
Q. hey my girlfriend and i have been together for 1yr and 4 months and about a month ago now she asked for space it killed me that she wanted it i thought everything was good. within the one month she only spoke to me a couple of times but now she ...
A. 12 August 2010: It's hard I know.
But maybe leave it for one more week, then send her a smiley face, and a kiss to let her know you are stil thinking about her, but not putting pressue on her. Then leave it again for a week, then if you hear nothing , text her ... (read in full...)
We got back together and he's gone cold and unloving, what can I do?
Q. Hello all,I wonder if you could throw some light on my situation. I have been seeing a nice guy for coming up to three months now. Anyway , we had quite a bad fall out four or five weeks back which was mostly my doing, and now we have kind of got ...
A. 12 August 2010: Hi Lublyuya, Thanks for your answer. I think hs is stil hurt, but it has been going on for 5 weeks now, and I am getting tired. he only ever responds to my texts and phonecalls these days, and comes over when I invite him over. He has not made ... (read in full...)
I've got stong feelings for this guy but he's using me for sex...
Q. few months ago ive been seeing a guy who i have strong feelings for but he's been using me for sex, and i told him i want more than this. its very hard to get a smile from him he wont have a normal convo, he's very disrespectful, why does he hate me ...
A. 10 August 2010: I think you need to delete his number right now, and go through the pain barrier. he is not a nice guy, and I am really sorry you are having to go through this.Do you love him or something? He is so rude to you -!! if you contiune letting him ... (read in full...)
We're both very insecure and its really affecting our relationship...
Q. Might seem like a pathetic problem but I’m worried. I been with my boyf 6 mnths and really love him. He was in a longterm relationship that ended a few months before we met. They drifted apart. He is 32 and I am 26. I’m a very insecure person ...
A. 10 August 2010: I am sorry to hear about this. I really wish I could advise you, but I am going through the same thing!!It is very painful. I always think my BF is going to leave me.. every single day infact, andI think he thinks I will too. I wil watch to see what ... (read in full...)
I experimented with another boy should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. hi. I have had a girlfriend for a year now, and I absolutely love her. I screwed up when I was in seventh grade and I experimented with another boy. It was the stupidest thing I have ever done in my life. Its been bugging me she doesn't know. Sh...
A. 6 August 2010: NO!!... (read in full...)
How long will the pain of a break-up last for?
Q. The man I have been with dumped me this morning after three years of dating . He stated he is depressed and blamed me. Said he needs to find himself . What want to know is how long does it take to mend a broken heart . I was /am. In love with this ...
A. 6 August 2010: Has he broken up with you before?... (read in full...)
I'm always the first one to make contact!
Q. "OP Own Title" Been with my bf for 6 months, its been going good but at a fairly slow pace which is good as I came out of a 4 year relationship before this. One thing I have noticed is that he is a very laid back chilled person and likes to enjoy ...
A. 6 August 2010: Hi, I'm in a similar situation. Maybe you are 'leading' this relastionship. Some guys do not like to impose. i wouldn;t read too much into it because as long as he is getting back to you and seeing you - he is interested. or else he wil not bother ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to vomit a lot after a loved one left you?
Q. I am deeply in love with someone I can never have. That special person left and I am very broken hearted. I start to do stuff, like, loose apetite and sometimes eat like I don't care at all. Everything reminds me of that person. I also vomit a lot. ...
A. 6 August 2010: Hi, I'm sorry you are still vomiting. I;m gald you wnet to the doctors. Have you talked to your Mom about how you feel? maybe she could help you out? or you could even try to find another boyfreind to take your mind off him? Nat Mariexx... (read in full...)
Can I get past the fact that I'm dating a man that has a feminine voice?
Q. [Mod Note - OP's own title] About a month ago I started to talk to a guy that I met online. When we talked on the phone, we really hit it off. When we finally met, our conversation flowed really well and we really have a lot in common. I have nev...
A. 5 August 2010: You will get used ot it. if he is lovely - keep him. xx... (read in full...)
Where are the best places to go to find a girlfriend?
Q. After a few bad relationships, I've decided to start going out again. I'm a single dude, age 24. I'm going out to clubs and bars to get myself out there. I see a few single girls there, but people advised me to stay away from those girls (STDS). ...
A. 5 August 2010: Try internet dating. :o) It can really work. it;s a numbers game - just keep going and look at it as a 'project' good luck!! Natxx... (read in full...)
How do you get over a broken heart?
Q. How do you get over a broken heart? Over the past 12 yrs of dating guys including 4 long term (between 1-5yrs) in that time but I've never been in love before. I recently met someone and I fell head over heels for him but then I did something that I ...
A. 4 August 2010: It kind of depends what you did...
Say sorry , and mean it. Make sure he has your contact details, then all you can do is pray and hope he will come back to you. Make sure he knows exactly how you feel.. it probably wouldn;t do any harm to tell... (read in full...)
Is it normal to vomit a lot after a loved one left you?
Q. I am deeply in love with someone I can never have. That special person left and I am very broken hearted. I start to do stuff, like, loose apetite and sometimes eat like I don't care at all. Everything reminds me of that person. I also vomit a lot. ...
A. 4 August 2010: Great. :o) xx... (read in full...)
I might actually act soon on my crush... but it's my best friend's boyfriend!!! Help!
Q. Hey people! I feel ashamed, its ridiculous but yes, i have a crush on my girl's bf! The worst thing is that he knows it and he always turns me on deliberately. He says that he loves his girlfriend and thats true but he also tells me that he wants to ...
A. 3 August 2010: Do nothing if you can. You will regret losing your best friend to that idiot one day.. mark my words!! Good luck with your resisitance.. xx... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I had sex with someone else during the break?
Q. I have been dating the same guy for 2 years. One time when we broke up he had sex with one of his good friends and I didn't find out till 6 months later. we broke up for about 3 weeks because i said i couldnt handle it but during those 3 weeks i had ...
A. 3 August 2010: NO!! Dont; tell him. What would be the point?... (read in full...)
Is it normal to vomit a lot after a loved one left you?
Q. I am deeply in love with someone I can never have. That special person left and I am very broken hearted. I start to do stuff, like, loose apetite and sometimes eat like I don't care at all. Everything reminds me of that person. I also vomit a lot. ...
A. 3 August 2010: I wouldn;t assume that your vominting is due to this. It has been three months which is a long time to be vomiting. Go see your doctor to rule out anything more serious. Natmariexx :o)... (read in full...)
Feel threatened by husband's friend; working in the same office. Found incriminating texts on his phone. Are they more than friends?
Q. I am a 26 yr old woman married for the last 2.5 years. My husband is great friends with this another woman whom he knows since before he met me. I would call this woman M in the rest of the email. 'M' and my husband 'A' used to work together in a ...
A. 3 August 2010: Instead of guessing, confront him now.YOu have every right to do ath - he is your husband. Ask him straight out, and tell him that freindship is making you feel uncomfortable, and that you have read the texts. You should be able to tell what's going ... (read in full...)
I think he's just using me for sex
Q. Hi All I think my boyfriend of over a year is using me for sex but I can't bring myself to dump him. He never has time to come see me unless he cames pick me up and we go to his place for sex. after that he wont see me for about a week till he wan...
A. 2 August 2010: Hi. I;m really sorry you are going through this. It sounds as if he is using you for sex. I know you really love him but is there any chance you could find someone eles to date whilse you are sroting this out? this might take your mind of it. You ... (read in full...)
Got clingy and drove him off
Q. Hey everyone i need a little help, my co-worker and i used to be the best of friends we were very close and at the time i was with my boyfriend who is long distance. me and my co-worker got really close and one day at a co-workers house we had a ...
A. 2 August 2010: Hi, Sorry to hear his. How are you getting on with your situation? it must be very difficult? Natmariexx... (read in full...)
Help!!! I don't know where I stand with him. Should I text him back?
Q. I was texting this man for 2 months, he used to text me every day and we had met up a couple of times but not lately, so last week I asked him in text where we stood and he replied "not too sure I find its best not to worry about it and go with the ...
A. 30 July 2010: yeah! text him back - with NORMAL conversation - and see what HE does after that. :o) Just follow his lead.... (read in full...)
Why do I date outside of my race?
Q. Help, I can't understand why I've never dated a guy my own race or age. It's so weird...the other day, a man asked me if he was the first white man I've gone on a date with. I said no and this led to me admitting I always dated outside my race. He ...
A. 30 July 2010: Dont; worry about it .. at all!! jut s get on with liking who you like !! xx... (read in full...)
I cant trust my sister and my boyfriend to be alone together anymore, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with my older sister, but then I took him back. He somehow convinced me that it will never happen again and that I should work on my trust. I was really convinced that he would never hurt me again. But, then I found out my ...
A. 28 July 2010: Finish with him . End it comepletley - neither he or your sister respect you ., They are cruel and nasty. I so hope you find the strength to leave this horrble man. Cut your sister off too. What nasty people you have around you. Please try to cut ... (read in full...)
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