I cant trust my sister and my boyfriend to be alone together anymore, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with my older sister, but then I took him back. He somehow convinced me that it will never happen again and that I should work on my trust. I was really convinced that he would never hurt me again. But, then I found out my ...
A. 28 July 2010: Finish with him . End it comepletley - neither he or your sister respect you ., They are cruel and nasty. I so hope you find the strength to leave this horrble man. Cut your sister off too. What nasty people you have around you. Please try to cut ... (read in full...)
Our 'dates' are all at his house but I want us to go out
Q. Ok... Ive been seeing this guy recently. Date 1: We was supposed to go out for drinks. He called after he finished work saying he was tired but i could come round his place. First off i said no and said we would do it another day when he was less ...
A. 28 July 2010: he is either broke until pay day as he said OR he is tight with his money. I would tell him you are getting bored staying in, and see if he takes you out after payday... (read in full...)
How do I know if my online guy feels the same way?
Q. Well, I have been speaking to this guy online. I am from England and he is from Germany... and I really like him. We have been speaking for quite a while and we talk quite a lot but I don't know if he likes me like the way I like him... I don't know ...
A. 28 July 2010: Ask him if he has a girlfeind? and woud he like to meet when he comes to lond.. have you seen his photo? natmariexx... (read in full...)
I don't like guys, but enjoyed this encounter, why??
Q. Me and my best friend sometimes watch porn together, but every time we do my friend always starts to get curious about what it feels like to have a blow job and things like that. I don't think his intentions were to actually get one from me, but he ...
A. 23 July 2010: Don;t worry about it!! its nice to make your freind happy. :o) ( make sure he gives you one back though.. Lol... (read in full...)
I think I might be pregnant, can't tell parents, can't go to the doctor!
Q. I have a feeling i might be pregnant. I recently had unprotected sex - with my now ex-boyfriend - but he did not ejaculate inside me. I know that this is not a safe way of contraception, but it just happened and it is the only time it ever hap...
A. 22 July 2010: Hi. If you have done six pregnancy test you can be 99.9% certain that you are NOT pregant. You are so stressed that your periods have stopped. Do 2 more tests, I bet they are negative too. Can you go to a hospitla and get one done? I can bet that ... (read in full...)
Where do people get the strength to finish with people that are no good in there life
Q. my boyfriend is very selfish and only thinks about himself he wants his own way all the time and i think he just is useing me. i have tried to finish with him many times but then he says he is sorry and i forgive him only for him to start again wh...
A. 22 July 2010: I am in the smae situation as you - except I do not live with the guy. I think that eventually, your body and mind just give up on the person, but it doesn't happen until you have had absoulutely had enough. Try and start believing at first in your ... (read in full...)
Why cant he treat me at least as a friend in front of other people?
Q. Hi Me and my bf are dating for the past 6 months. We usually talk in phone in daily basis and we work in the same company but different location. I know his friends, they know me too. Whenver i visit his office he bahaves as if he doesnt know me....
A. 21 July 2010: he is out of oder doing this, and disrespecting you. I think you should take your courage and ask him why he is doing this, and tell him how you feel. It is not good enough and you deserve better than this. Is he hiding something do you think? if he ... (read in full...)
Is this guy just stringing me along?
Q. i need help as im really torn up... i met this guy about 2 months ago and he started coming to mine and we text every day.. after about a month i started sleeping with him... when hes here he acts like he likes me its like i can tell and the way he ...
A. 20 July 2010: hey. I'm really sorry this is happening to you. My heart goes out to you, and I hope you'll start feeling better in time. How's it going? Are you stil seeing him? Natmariexx... (read in full...)
I just cannot stay away from him, he is the best I ever had and is very well endowed!!
Q. Ok so me and my ex-bf are still having sex!! We broke up in 2002 and we still have sex on the REGULAR I mean 3 or more times a week! Problem is me and him both are in relationship with other people now, but we both still love each other a lot and ...
A. 20 July 2010: I so understand where you are coming from.!! it must be very verh diffuclt!!Maybe you should both split up with your new partners and get back together? have you ever discussed that? why did you split? I have an ex who I would love to see for sex, ... (read in full...)
He just stopped talking to me!
Q. so the guy i was dating for 7 months just out of the blue stopped talking to me... it all started when one weekend he went to get his stuff from his ex that he was with for almost four years (they havent seen eachother in 9 months or have even ...
A. 20 July 2010: Hey, I'm so sorry he didn;t text you back. but at least you tried. Delete his number now. I have a feeling the minuite you start 'letting him go' he will try to come back. Weather or not you take him back is another thing xx Please try to look ... (read in full...)
He just stopped talking to me!
Q. so the guy i was dating for 7 months just out of the blue stopped talking to me... it all started when one weekend he went to get his stuff from his ex that he was with for almost four years (they havent seen eachother in 9 months or have even ...
A. 20 July 2010: I think it is selfish and nasty for someone to just dissapear like that. Sorry.xx no excuses.xx... (read in full...)
He just stopped talking to me!
Q. so the guy i was dating for 7 months just out of the blue stopped talking to me... it all started when one weekend he went to get his stuff from his ex that he was with for almost four years (they havent seen eachother in 9 months or have even ...
A. 19 July 2010: I am so sorry you are going gthrough this. I really think you need to text him and say ' If this relationship is over, I at least thought you would have been polite enough and man to have let me know' .. then see what he says . You may have to ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he's really interested without embarassing myself or jeopardizing my job?
Q. I recently started a new job as the manager of a small, all-male department of a large corporation. Almost immediately, I found myself attracted to one of my subordinates and lately it's become extremely distracting. A couple of weeks ago he did...
A. 14 July 2010: Hey!! that;s funny. Just let him know in a subtle way you like him , then pass him your phonenumber when he leaves.. Simple!! Good luck!! natmarie xx... (read in full...)
Need help on internet dating!
Q. Does anyone know a good dating site? I've tried several ones, and found none appealing. If any of you have had profiles that have been a hit, please let me know. Also, what is everyone's input on online dating? Does it work? Am I wasting time?...
A. 13 July 2010: No you are not wasting your time"!! try 'plentyof fish.com Good luck!! Natmariexx... (read in full...)
He refuses to take my calls, is angry and uspet, but won't give my stuff back! Why?
Q. Hi all, I have been in a relationship for around six weeks with a lovely guy. Alot has happened during that time- and I have met his parents and been on holiday with him.he came on very strong, and his mother told me that he is in love with me. An...
A. 13 July 2010: Hello all, Thanks so much for your advice and answers. I really appreciate that you have taken the time to answeer me. I have an update... He is now texting me around four times a day, saying that he wants to give me the holiday photos, and that ... (read in full...)
He refuses to take my calls, is angry and uspet, but won't give my stuff back! Why?
Q. Hi all, I have been in a relationship for around six weeks with a lovely guy. Alot has happened during that time- and I have met his parents and been on holiday with him.he came on very strong, and his mother told me that he is in love with me. An...
A. 9 July 2010: Ok girls. Thanks for you help. I am going to really have to try hard to get over this. it; horrible the way he has done his. i would rather him not conact me at all than keep doing little things to keep it going. it;s pretty nasty. I feel sick, sad ... (read in full...)
He refuses to take my calls, is angry and uspet, but won't give my stuff back! Why?
Q. Hi all, I have been in a relationship for around six weeks with a lovely guy. Alot has happened during that time- and I have met his parents and been on holiday with him.he came on very strong, and his mother told me that he is in love with me. An...
A. 9 July 2010: Hi All, Me again I.m afraid. he sent me a tetx last night... saying Hi, I'm sorry I could not send you the photos yesterday, There are to many to fit in the file, I wil send them over to you tommorow. :o) xxx
I opended my email this morning,... (read in full...)
He refuses to take my calls, is angry and uspet, but won't give my stuff back! Why?
Q. Hi all, I have been in a relationship for around six weeks with a lovely guy. Alot has happened during that time- and I have met his parents and been on holiday with him.he came on very strong, and his mother told me that he is in love with me. An...
A. 8 July 2010: Hi all, Thanks for your answers. I have an update. he has now asked for me to be added to his Yahoo IM contacts.about 30 mins ago. why? I am very confused now, and not sure what he wants. ?... (read in full...)
The man that interviewed me now keeps calling and wont leave me alone, what should I do?
Q. I have a big problem!!!! I had this interview and the interviwer was way too flirty. I tried to cut him off and canceled but he doesnt get it and keeps calling what should i do?????...
A. 6 July 2010: Tell him point blank you are not interested. If he keeps going tell him that it is harrasement - if he keeps going after that threaten to tell his boss he is harassing you, if he keeps going after that - tell him you wil tell the police. ( swear at ... (read in full...)
He walked out promising to get in touch the next evening but I haven't heard from him.
Q. I have been with my man for 6 months , he moved in a few weeks ago, to keep it short, he was doing a job for my boss, which they argued about, he walked out on me the same evening, promising to talk the next day, he didnt and since then i have had ...
A. 6 July 2010: Good for you - I''m glad you sre sending him that text. He will see then that you mean business. Dont; be afraid of losing him..I don't think you will somehow. he wont; come and colect his things - but he needs to know that he cannot treat you like ... (read in full...)
He walked out promising to get in touch the next evening but I haven't heard from him.
Q. I have been with my man for 6 months , he moved in a few weeks ago, to keep it short, he was doing a job for my boss, which they argued about, he walked out on me the same evening, promising to talk the next day, he didnt and since then i have had ...
A. 6 July 2010: I think he is being selfish, and maybe you should offer him an ultimatum? try texting him saying ' Since you are not polite enough to answer my messages, I assume the relationship is over? since that is the case please arrange to come and collect ... (read in full...)
Is there anybody out there like us?
Q. Me and my best friend are extremely close to one another. I am a straight girl and he is gay. We do every thing together and are happy with life. Everybody including his mom say we act like a couple. His mom swears that we are in love but in denial. ...
A. 25 June 2010: I think you need to go out and find a boyfreind personally. I mean he is.I know you are both close but don;t let this take up then next few years of your life, as it seems to be all consuming. I have had relastionships like this with gay male ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends behaviour is very confusing...not sure what to do...
Q. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship, usually. We have a 2 year old little boy, a fab house and we're currently planning our wedding for next year. When he's had a drink, he gets loud (which I can deal with) but if I don't want to continue...
A. 24 June 2010: Suggest he goes to AA as soon as possible, . If he refuses - tell him you will need to rethink the marriage and infact rethink the whole relationship, as you cannot have you children growing up with an alchoholic that also acts out in a nasty way. ... (read in full...)
Have I blown my chances with her?
Q. So i work with a girl, we've been very good friends for a long time and we had been growing close but i hesitated to make a move before i was more sure so after a night out she offered me the chance to crash at hers. I said no thinking it mean...
A. 18 June 2010: You might have done, as she thinks yo have rejected her. if you are serious - ask her our for a drink, or meal.. Quickly!! GOOD LUCK - but MOVE FAST before she loses interest comepletley. XXX Nat MAriexx... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend possessed?
Q. Hi, I've been in a world of hysterics, and I'd really appreciate your help. Lately my boyfriend has been acting very strange. He and I first started going out a few months ago, and he was really nice to me and was very loving. Things have since ...
A. 2 June 2010: I think he has serious mental health issues. Please get out of this relationship now, and save yourself, meaning no more contact, changing your number, and informing the police if he stalks you. Please get out now. Nat Marie... (read in full...)
Was there anyway I could have found out what this guy was like before I slept with him?
Q. Hi all, Sorry this is so long, I'm 42, and the bloke that has torn my confidence to shreds is 44. I have been single for a year now, i decided to have a complete break off blokes, which was going great, But then i met one that made my tummy fl...
A. 2 June 2010: You should act as if you don;t care, and in fact , i think you shouldn;t care!! He has gone weeks before now without contacting you, and is now picking you up and dropping you as he pleases. Do not give him the pleasure . That's not good enough. ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend broken up with me?
Q. Hello Cupid My bf and me were together for past 1 year, started as best friends and then went into a relationship. Our relationship was going on fine till saturday. He used to call me or ill call him in a daily basis and we chat for an hour or s...
A. 12 May 2010: It sounds like he may have broken up with you. You are doing VERY WELL ot have stayed away and not asked him. Well done. You obviously have a very strong charahcter. However, he has disrespected you by not giving you an answer. You could email him ... (read in full...)
I'm in love but he's gay.
Q. I dont; know what to do..I have a boyfriend and im in love with him hes my age and everything. But then ever since i joind an acting class i have fallen in love with a guy who is five years older than me! I am obbesedded with this guy! I cant stop ...
A. 13 April 2010: Hi. I totally understand your problem. I have had this tiwce in ly life, and I am now 41!! it is really hard, but you must must try and respect the fact that he is gay, and cannot be any other way. leave the acting calss if you have too - there are ... (read in full...)
I think I might have an eating disorder.
Q. hi, im 17 and have had a problem with my diet since i was 13. this was when i started to put on weight,nd so at 14 i went on a diet. this diet got very extreme though, and by the end of it i was doing about 6 hours of exersize a day and eating as ...
A. 13 April 2010: You need to go andf talk to your doctors about this asap, and ask him what help he can give you, and if he can send you to a support group. You are young - you have time to nip this destrutive problem in the bud now. If you don;t - be warned - IT ... (read in full...)
Questions about dating and talking on the phone......
Q. This is a two part question. When I am talking to my boyfriend on the phone at night, if it gets to be maybe 12 or 1 in the morning he insists that I go to sleep and get some rest, but I almost feel like he's trying to get rid of me and I'm a lit...
A. 23 March 2010: It sounds like yo may be a bit afraid of his moods? and what you can and cannot talk about? It seems there may be underlaying issues here. it sounds a bit familiar - as I had a boyfriend like that. x... (read in full...)
How do I cope with getting so wet?!
Q. [Moderators Note - Op's own title] Ok, my problem is this, my vagina gets extremely wet when kissing and even before intercourse. When my boyfriend kisses me, my panties will be completely soaked and sometimes it seeps through to my skirt or my tr...
A. 23 March 2010: No, there is nothing you can do!! Don;t be shy of it at all!! it just proves you are a very sexy woman. It is comeplety natural and most guys would find it huge turn on. Don;t worry!! XX... (read in full...)
I'm woried that anal sex on my bf might turn him gay!
Q. I am a young lady thats enjoys anal sex every once and a while. I also like to perform anal sex on my guy( it turns me on in a weird and powerful way). However,it seems that he really enjoys it now. B4 he did for my benifit.I used to have to begg ...
A. 23 March 2010: Just because he enjoys anal sex - it does not men he likes men and is gay!! You could broach the subject and see what he says, but tread carefully, as you do not want to offend him. Nat Marie x... (read in full...)
Why do we hurt even if we're in love?
Q. Why is it that even if you and the person you are with are in love why does it still hurt ? i just try to understand that but i can't. i know he love's me. but why do we go through all the thing's we do ?...
A. 22 March 2010: Thayt is such a good question. I often ask this to people. Love is like this horrible feeling of anxiety for me most of the time. Can it really be called love if it hurts? I think that 'real ' love is what people share when they have been together ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance she could be bisexual, or is she just being friendly?
Q. I am a 26 year old bisexual female. I have been attracted to a friend of year or so. We started hanging out, and our friendship grew from there. My situation is that, it seemed like we were attracted to each other, but nothing has come of it ...
A. 21 January 2010: I think you should send her a text and find out how she feels. Have you found out since you posted this?!!... (read in full...)
What is the meaning of kisses on the end of text messages?
Q. So, I'm guessing all you guys and girls get "x" or "xx" or even a "xxx" after texting somebody you like or you care for i.e. mom, brother etc. The whole reason I'm here is because of a girl, I really like. I think she likes me because she flir...
A. 21 January 2010: Hey, I think she likes you personally!! I would keep calling her hun and other nice things and texting her loads of xx's, and maybe ask her out on a date?!! go for it - it sounds promising. :o)... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over my ex?
Q. my girlfriend ended our long term relationship 2 months ago and i'm still struggling to get over it. We live in a village/small town and so I do occasionally bump into her. Because of this we have kept in contact - maybe once a week/fortnight w...
A. 17 November 2009: Stop responding to her texts - go cold turkey. You will get over it. I promise:o) try not to engage her in conversation when you do see her for a few months. Give yourself time to heal. Look after yourself - maybe try going on a few dates, even ... (read in full...)
Conflicted in having to choose between my girlfriend and my out of state job offer
Q. I'll keep it short: I am 20 and I live in Texas. I have an oppurtunity for a good job in New York doing what I love doing. My girlfriend of several years, however, is reluctant to move out of Texas. I love her more than anything, but I'm having ...
A. 16 November 2009: All the best and good luck. :o)... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend want sex all the time?
Q. y does my boyfriend want sex all the time and am not confortable with that...
A. 13 November 2009: Have a chat with him about it. He is probably just really really attracted to you!!... (read in full...)
Is there anyone out there not looking for sex?
Q. I am a gay guy that doesn't drink alcohol, but has nothing against it. It tends to be the reason i can't find friends. It also effects my love life. Why is it that all of the friends that I meet eventually just want to have sex with me, then after ...
A. 29 October 2009: hey, why not check out an evening class, take up some hobbies, get to meet some new and interesting people. I'm sure there is lots out there also tailor made for the gay community - that way you won;t meet drinkers who just want sex with you. Also, ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I lied about my dad dying?
Q. I’m in a real dilemma. I met this guy about 4 years ago. He thought he met the love of his life. Me, I was just coasting. I’d just been dumped from a long term relationship (six years). My head was all over the place. He always bent over backwards ...
A. 9 October 2009: Hi. What;s done is done. Dont; tell him aboutthe lie!! Why not send him a cheque or arrange to have the money paid into his account, then email him telling him you are too busy to meet at this time, then don;t meet him until you are ready... if ... (read in full...)
Do you think my boyfriend has a drink problem?
Q. Do you think my bf has a drinking problem? I am quite worried about him for his own health, as well as our relationship because his drinking habits is placing alot of stress on it. We have been in a relationship for 5 months, and I...
A. 21 September 2009: I'm sorry to hear that. I think you need to suggest he get;s help asap, or else you may have to rethink your relationship with him. It is best to tell him straight how you feel, and let him know that you cannot and will not put up with this ... (read in full...)
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