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writes:How do you get over a broken heart? Over the past 12 yrs of dating guys including 4 long term (between 1-5yrs) in that time but I've never been in love before. I recently met someone and I fell head over heels for him but then I did something that I believed to be right thing to do but it turned out it was the wrong thing by him. I had no intention of hurting him and honestly thought I was making the right choice. Now he says he can't be with me cause he'll never trust me and won't look at it from my perspective. It hurts so badly cause I want to be with him so much. I know it's all my own fault that I've lost him and it's taken me 12 years to feel like this about anyone so I just wonder how do I walk away? I just hope it doesn't take 12 yrs to feel like this about anyone again. On top of this numerous bad things have happened in my life and I feel all alone and don't know how to put the pieces back together again. Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 I used to sit down with a gallon of Rocky Road ice cream (whatever ur fave is) a spoon, and the sappiest love movie I could find and cry my eyes out until my tear ducts dried out. Next nite went to my best friends house and a cheesy girls slumber party...Its not entirely ur fault either bc he's not being logic and trying to see both sides. Well, I know ur at a point in ur life when everything is going wrong but u know what let everything bad happen, let someone break ur heart (hate first loves) then when the bad things stop happening. Trust me they will then u can take back ur life, spirit, and especially ur heart bc he doesnt own it, and jump feet first back into the dating scene patrolling for love.
I was in a similar situation happened in 08 and now im happily married.
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reader, jodie-alice-x  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 Ah, broken hearts.
Well I'm afraid that nothing but time heals wounds. But time will heal all wounds no matter how big or small they are, and sometimes things take longer or shorter amounts of time to get over depending on how badly your hurting.
Just be brave, grab the tissues and cry it all out - then who knows what will be waiting for you sweetheart.
All the very best. - Jodie-Alice.
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reader, natmarie +, writes (4 August 2010):
 It kind of depends what you did...
Say sorry , and mean it. Make sure he has your contact details, then all you can do is pray and hope he will come back to you. Make sure he knows exactly how you feel.. it probably wouldn;t do any harm to tell him that you have not felt this way about anyone for 12 years.If you have lost him, make sure never to make that mistake again, and you never know , you may feel that way about someone else sooner than you think - you cannot rule it out, as you never know who or what is round the corner. I wish you luck. let us have an update if you can. NatMaire :o0 xx
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