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I want to lose weight to get back with my ex!

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Question - (26 August 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

what are the best ways to make yourself vomit and how fast does it make you skinnier?

because i want to get back with my ex and im just way to fat. so i need help and i think vomitting is the fastest way.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntThis site is call Dear Cupid not Dear Dr. Kevorkian.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010):

vomiting is not the answer... believe me.. I've already done that... all it takes to lose weight is DISCIPLINE... :) control yourself fro eating too much if u really want to lose weight. also try BOXING! :) It really is a big help to lose weight :)

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A female reader, natmarie United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2010):

natmarie agony auntHey , don;t lose weight for him, lose it for you. I lost 3 stone five years ago, by just changing what you eat -eg: more fruit, salads, fish, chicken etc - cut out the junk ,and only have it ssay every 2 months. You wil lose laods if you eat only 1-1500 Kclas per day. Give it a few months, and you'll feel great, and then you probably wont; want him back anyway!!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2010):

That's not going to suddenly make your ex turn around and come back. Especially if your teeth are eroded because you've vomited so much. If your ex doesn't like you as you are now, suddenly changing your appearance won't suddenly change his mind. Whilst it's true that men do place value on a woman's look, it is a myth that we care only about that. If you want to lose weight, do it for yourself and do it in a way that won't damage your body as Tisha suggests. Don't vomit, because it won't in any way make you more attractive to him.

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A male reader, mrvhappy United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2010):

Hi,

Vomit to loose weight?....not the best idea in the world!!

Best way to loose weight & keep it off is to ensure that you excercise & EAT HEALTHLY FOOD...I know it sounds boring..but it will also make you look better.

I have found the best excercise is Cycling & swiming...easiest way of burning up the calories & minimizing damange to the joints.

Another tip for loosing weight is to drink 2 glasses of water before each meal...helps fill yr stomach into thinking that you are full so you eat less.

Finally, do it for yrself...not anyone else

Good Luck

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A female reader, MansonGroupie United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2010):

MansonGroupie agony aunt...Just to add; I also think you'll find it doesn't work, as I did...

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A female reader, StephJayne United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2010):

StephJayne agony auntMaking yourself skinnier isn't going to get you back with your ex :/

Your ex should love you for who you are, not what you look like, whether your fat, skinny, spotty, Anything. He should love you for you being you. You shouldn't have to put yourself through anything like that to impress someone.

You need to be how you want to be, no one should make you change who you are.

Plus, making yourself vomit can make you very ill - my friend was large, and she made herself vomit, and stopped eating and she became anorexic. She had to spend 7 months in hospital because she was so badly ill, and she had to be fattened up again. Also, she has been told that her chances of having children are slim.

It would be quite a bad idea in my opinion. Don't change yourself to impress someone else.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntAh yes, vomiting as weightloss aid. Hm. Let's look at that a minute.

Your tooth enamel will wear down because of the hydrochloric acid brought up from the stomach. So your teeth will look horrible. Not attractive. Also dryness in the mouth which can be caused by a parotid gland dysfunction or by a lesser amount of saliva. Cavities increase due to binge-eating. Nerves of the teeth are exposed because the enamel and dentin in the teeth are eroded. This will lead to temperature sensitivity.

Enlargement of the parotid gland may happen, which will make your face swell and look weird. You may actually look fatter in the face. Gum pain and/or bleeding which will make your teeth look bad, discolored teeth, an inability to swallow, heartburn, inflamed esophagus.

Lord, doesn't that sound sexy to a guy? "Wow, honey you look so ill, I simply have to date you." Nope, that is not what made him break up with you.

Tell your mom you are having these thoughts, this is not good, you are trying to retrieve control of the situation by throwing up. This is not healthy thinking, really and truly, this is starting you on a road to illness and possibly long-term health complications.

Please ask your mom for help, okay?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010):

You're wrong excersize is the quickest, eat 1800 calories a day but do an hours powerwalking, and I mean walking fast not slow strides

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A female reader, hunkydory United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2010):

Never make yourself sick to lose weight! This can lead to loads of side affects and can give you an eating disorder.

If you want to lose weight evercise daily and eat a balanced diet.

But you shouldnt have to lose weight to make someone want you, they love you for who you are and thats what should count.

If you want to lose weight do it for yourself!

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A female reader, MansonGroupie United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2010):

MansonGroupie agony auntYou are joking, right??

Take it from someone who has done, and ocasionally does still do it, it's awful and will make you very ill!

The backs of my teeth are black in places due to the stomach acid eroding them, I have constant acid/heartburn, and would give anything to not have started this vile practice in the first place.

Do yourself a favour, eat healthily and exercise. Boring, i know, but the only real way to lose weight.

Please don't become a bulimic, it will kill you eventually.

Take care

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (26 August 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntDon't EVER think that is an option for getting thinner. It'll leave your teeth looking disgusting because what is in vomit except for your bile? What is bile but acid! It'll leave you with a sore throat and stained teeth and bad breath.

Many people think to get skinny and they completely ignore the benefits of excercise. Just excercise, an hour a day at least. It'll leave you healthy, feeling fantastic and you'll look amazing. Instead of the skinny little weak things that you see in people who binge.

I hope that helps.

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