Do you think my boyfriend has a drink problem?
Q. Do you think my bf has a drinking problem? I am quite worried about him for his own health, as well as our relationship because his drinking habits is placing alot of stress on it. We have been in a relationship for 5 months, and I...
A. 21 September 2009: I'm sorry to hear that. I think you need to suggest he get;s help asap, or else you may have to rethink your relationship with him. It is best to tell him straight how you feel, and let him know that you cannot and will not put up with this ... (read in full...)
Don't you think he should show me if he wants to be with me?
Q. Hello, I' m Artemis, and I'm gay. I ended my relationship with my boyfriend a while ago and I can't move on, I'm desperate because this whole situation is affecting every single aspect of my life, 3 weeks ago I saw him, we said hi and all that, we ...
A. 18 September 2009: Why not write him a really honest email or letter about how you feel. You have nothing to lose, and you certainly will not lose him by being honest. :o) he obviously still has feelings for you.
Forget any 'misplaced' pride. Life is short. Y... (read in full...)
Do I meet him and risk feeling broken all over again?
Q. Please, I need fast responses. I feel so sick about this, I cant focus on anything else. Quick summary, I was with my ex for almost two years, my first everything, only guy i ever dated. Same went for him. Everything was fine, we never fought a...
A. 18 September 2009: I don't think you should risk seeing him and setting yourself back. You must protect yourself emotionally. Please refrain from seeing him for at least six months, then see how you feel. Concentrate on you exams , and maybe getting a new guy to have ... (read in full...)
Is he shy or am I kidding myself?
Q. Ok well i'll start from the beginning, I've just been in Greece for 2 weeks, went with a male friend who used to be my boyfriend. I went with him because we get on well and wanted to see if we could get back together. Over the course of the holiday ...
A. 10 September 2009: Hello. :o) I personally think you should let the greek guy know of your situation. tell him that it was not your boyfrined, and that he was just a freind, and that you would LOVE to get to know him, and to give you call ( give him yur email address ... (read in full...)
I'm rubbish at socialising, how can I become more gregarious?
Q. I am a 27 year old attractive male, with a good job, nice flat, my problem is I'm rubbish at socialising and making friends, people seem to find me awkward or boring and I don't know how to change this or if I ever will be able to? My gf even broke ...
A. 1 September 2009:
It could be that you have been socilaising with the wrong people - It's a bit mean of people to call you boring. They don't sound very kind!!
If you don;t feel that confident, why not try going to the gym a couple of times a week - this will re... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling so nervous when I first meet my Internet date?
Q. hi all, id like to ask for advice on an internet date, blind date if you like. weve been talking for a month and a half, internet and phone calls. now were going to be meeting next week. il give you some background on the situation. We have both...
A. 27 August 2009: Hi. Have you exchanged phtos? try to do that before meeting up. This will help , as you know what you are getting then!! alos, try not to build up too many unrealistic expecatations, as you will come down with a bump if the chemistry is not there in ... (read in full...)
I'm always the one to call or text him!
Q. Okay, so I need your advice on two things: WHY is this boy being so weird and HOW do I get over him. I've known this guy for over a year now, but recently we were involved in something together so I got to see him a few times a week. He didn't ...
A. 26 August 2009: Hi, How are you geting on with this? I think you should back right off, as hard as It may be, but do not call or text him , and see what he does. This may wake him up a bit, and you will also find out if he likes you genuinly or not. Whne you feel ... (read in full...)
If I have an abortion,will I go to hell?
Q. Mod note] Two questions condensed. Hi,im 23 and a single mom,been seeing this lad for 5months now and his treated me better than anybody ever has,an i really am happy with him,the only thing is his only 20,i have my own house with my 2year old son,...
A. 20 August 2009: I'm sorry to hear you are in such a predicament. I would deiced what;s going to make you happy long term.A job is not everything - a child is. I personally think you should go and see you doctor asap who will refer you to an abortion councelllor/ ... (read in full...)
Is he likely to get back in touch???
Q. Hi If you were seeing someone on a sex only basis because you were both in relationships, would it be reasonable to assume that when one of you (i.e. him) goes on holiday with his girlfriend for a month, that he will not contact you during that tim...
A. 20 August 2009: What happened? did he get in touch again? x... (read in full...)
His interest seems to have really dwindled, what does that mean?
Q. So I have been dating this guy for 3 weeks. At first he called,text, etc all the time. We went on a date almost every night and he has even told his family about me (he wanted to invite me to a family function...but we had only been on one date at ...
A. 20 August 2009: Yes, it is rather confusing!! I agree!! are you sure he knows you like him as much as you do? he is not giving much away - but the bottom line is ,to find out , as the other answer states - jusy back right off, and see what happnes. Don;t be too ... (read in full...)
He does not return my texts, do you think I'm too clingy?
Q. I met him two days before I left and now that we are gone I think I am being clingy. Ok so before he would text me, but now we are on break I text him and get no reply, does this mean he is busy or is just tired of me being so clingy to him?...
A. 13 August 2009: Yes, try to back off. I know how you feel - it can be very hard to do nothing, but at least that way you will find out if he likes you. I think he is being a bit off whatever way you look at it - maybe since your post he has contacted you? NatMArie ... (read in full...)
Is she messing around on me or am I just being paranoid?
Q. I've been with this girl for about a year and a half. We have broken up a couple of times and have always gotten back together. She has always seemed just soooo into me, I know she is/was. Well the past few months I have just been suspicio...
A. 13 August 2009: Hi, it does sound a bit iffy.. you probably need to sit her down and ask her straight out who the text was from, and is she carrying on with someone else? she will be annoyed that you have checked her messages, but it seems as though you have been ... (read in full...)
How can I get closure?
Q. i met a guy on holiday, we got on brill although i could sense that he was possibly insecure and jealous by a couple of things that he did and said. 2 days before i was due to leave i had a talk with him, he said he would come on holiday to where i ...
A. 12 August 2009: Hey - really sorry to hear that, am going though the same. Did he contact you agin? did you conact him? NatMAriex... (read in full...)
He seems to be testing me to see if I like him!
Q. hi, im badly needing some advice as what to do without going mad! i met a guy on holiday we got on really well. he wanted to keep the relationship going when i returned home and keep travelling to his country and him come to mine sometimes. i told ...
A. 10 August 2009: OMG! I so understand what you are going through!! I am going though exactly the same thing, and am just starting to 'fix myself'. I'm sure it must very painful for you to be going though this.. BUT, The only thing to do is not contact him at all, ... (read in full...)
Are porn sites bad for me?
Q. When I was 11. I was goning on porn sites till I was 15. Why? Because I was curouse and I want to know if that it can change the way I act? Also, is going on porn sites is bad for you and me? If yes, tell me everything please. ...
A. 8 August 2009: Yes,!! if you watch too much of it.!! Limit yourself to one hour every three months. :o)... (read in full...)
Is the guy I met on holiday playing games with me??
Q. met a guy on holiday, we got on brill. he did show signs of being insecure and a bit jealous. and i think he liked me to chase after him. since i got home i txt him the other week and he did not reply to me although my text did not require a ...
A. 7 August 2009: What happend with this? are you still in touch? I am in more or less the same situation. The guy I had a holdiay romance with went funny on me too just two days before I left - It is all very confusing. I initiate all the contact, and he ... (read in full...)
Is he likely to get back in touch???
Q. Hi If you were seeing someone on a sex only basis because you were both in relationships, would it be reasonable to assume that when one of you (i.e. him) goes on holiday with his girlfriend for a month, that he will not contact you during that tim...
A. 7 August 2009: You sound just the way I feel right now. Have you ever read that book' 'He;s just not that into you' by Greg Berhardt and Liz Tucclliio - it does help a bit - even though it's silly in places. I think you need to delete this guys number so you don;t ... (read in full...)
Is he just afraid of his own feelings? I'm getting mixed signals.
Q. I don't understand my ex. He puts on the full court press and then I don't hear from him for 4 days. Is he just afraid of putting it out there again since he is afraid of his own feelings? word on the street, since I am new to the area is that he ...
A. 7 August 2009: Four days is not too long..but it is a bit too long if you get my drift!! Have you ever rea dthe book. 'He's just not that into you' by Greg Berendt & Liz Tuccillo? it really hleps, not saying that this guy is not into you though. :o) I don;t think ... (read in full...)
He walked out on me after I said one too many drunken things. Should I try and work things out ?
Q. hi, i have just lost my man of three yrs because of my jealousy and insecurity. I came home after 2 many drinks and told him i wanted to be by myself and i wanted him out of my life.well this is not the first time i have done this and now he is ...
A. 7 August 2009: Sned him a card saying sorry, and that you are going to start looking for some help outside, as you realise that this will end up ruining the relationship , and tell him how much you value him. I really hope he comes back. :o) XXX... (read in full...)
I have NOT dated anyone for the past years because I get too wet during sex! Any advice?
Q. I have a problem where for the past 7 years or so (Im 36 now), I get so incredibly wet when I masturbate and orgasm that I have NOT dated anyone since then because of it. Well, I also don't date because I've learned the hard way that guys just want ...
A. 7 August 2009: Hi - pls go to the doctor asap, and tell him all of your symptoms. You may have vaginal bacteritis, which is actully caused by washing too much down there!! and you may have a weak bladder. The doc wil be able to help you . :o) gd luck.! nx... (read in full...)
Totally confused woman!
Q. im from England, aged 24, and i used to work on cruise ships in 2007 and had the time of my life!!! i loved the lifestyle as i was constantly busy and meeting new people from all over the world. while i was there, i met a man who was from America ...
A. 7 August 2009: I'm sorry to hear that, and I totally understand how you feel, as the usa way of life is of stark contrast to ours. I'm wondering.. is there any chance he could or would consider moving to Engaldn with you in the future? at lease then there would be ... (read in full...)
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