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writes: I like a guy but i know he's just using me for sex. I know the longer this goes on the worse it's going to be but i don't know how to stop seeing him. I've told him that i couldn't be "friends" anymore but everytime he makes me feel guilty and i give in. I just don't know how to let go. He says he just wants to be friends (he has a gf) but everytime i see him he comes on to me or when we do talk he always brings up sex. When i told him that he wasn't acting like a friend by being this way he said he didn't know what i meant and that he just wants to be friends. Reply to this Question
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Ok Well done, but don;t punish yourself. Don;t delete him off facebook just yet until you are ready. if it gets really painful as it does sometimes. text him, but try to be strong. it;s so damm hard
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSince then i haven't replied or contacted him, it's only been a few days though. I feel guilty for ignoring him even though i know i shouldn't. I still have him on facebook but can't find it in me to delete him.
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reader, natmarie +, writes (17 August 2010):
Sounds like he wants his own way. How you doing with cutting him off? Have you managed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, i told him how i felt and that what he's doing wasn't fair, i also said i couldn't be friends anymore. He said it was worth it and when i asked why he said "because we get on well and make each other smile" wtf does that mean? After that i deleted is number but he still sends me texts asking to be friends again. Thanks everyone for the advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): if he is using u leave him, idc if he is not in a relationship or how much u like him, one day it can b sex, the next he can purposly break a condom, leave him, ignor him, tell him either u start loving me n love me truely or no sex, sex isnt for those who dont love, its suppose to b between ppl who love eachother and care about eachother
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reader, prodigal0x +, writes (17 August 2010):
Urgh what a creep. From my point of view obviously its easy for me to say you need to get rid of him now, but I've been in your position before and I know its hard. You've acknowledged that its going to get worse and you know you need to end it but I think you need a real motive to take the action. If hes a good friend (which I highly doubt) then tell him straight up you can't keep sleeping with him, and if hes not I'd just cut him off. Delete his number etc, hes bringing you no good!
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reader, mariot4747  +, writes (17 August 2010):
you have to be strong and just explain it to him ( how you feel ) relationships based on sex arent exactly good.. lol especially if he has a girlfriend
you just have to be strong,you are letting him control you
do not give in,
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