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30 November 2007: Ok, a lot of people say that they like players and that they wanna get with the player but if you get with a player he/she will just break your heart stupid!!!! I dated a player and he just broke my heart. So girls/guys,dont date players,...
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I'm autistic and I start thinking I wasn't meant to be with anyone, not even have a real first date. I feel very sad and lonely, what can I do to feel better about myself?
Q. Well I try to talk to most girls, some just ignore me, some turn me uninterested.I believe it is my facial expressions or the way I look, or what I say sometimes... I understand that everyone has a busy life and don't get time to meet, and stuff. ...
A. 24 December 2007: ok,dont feel bad about yourself.hating yourself isnt gunna help.you could go to counceling or a phsychiatrist.if you wanna be happy being single for the rest of your life then you should.get some of your friends together and go to movies,the ... (read in full...)
My step brother and I are having sex! what should I do?
Q. im Annabelle and im 14. about 3 nights ago my brother (jayden) and i were home alone and he got me drunk. i remember him getting into bed with me. jayden is 16. he started touching me and then kissing me, but because stupidly i was drunk i kissed ...
A. 24 December 2007: ok,this is a lot of pressure for you.your step-brother is a dirty pig who needs to take a bath.poor jesse,you really should break up with him.if he asks why,just say that your doing him a favor.as for jayden,tell him "no" or to "stop" because you ... (read in full...)
My crush told me in a dream that it's not meant to be, what does this dream mean??
Q. A couple of nights ago, i had a dream about my crush. It took place at school in the art room. He was sitting on te counter top and i was standing on the ground handing him like paints or something to put away in the cabinets. Then all of a sudden ...
A. 24 December 2007: well,dreams arent just dreams.have you ever thought that it wasnt meant to be before the dream?if you want to figure out,then tell him how you feel.and see if he asks you out.
i hope i helped
love and kisses
feel free to message me when ... (read in full...)
I really enjoy talking to her, but how do I tell her I like her??
Q. ok my friend met a girl but wants nothin 2 do with her anymore i like her alot after meetin her i dnt know how to tell her can you help? we talk on msn all the time i no that is nothin but i enjoy talkin 2 her alot nd she say she like talkin 2 me ...
A. 24 December 2007: just tell her how you feel.i know its scary,but it would be worth it.if she doesnt feel the same bout you then just move on.but you have to tell her before anyone else gets her.
i hope i helped
love and kisses
feel free to message me if yo... (read in full...)
Why Does My Mum Blame Me For Losing The Person She Loved?
Q. why does my mum blame me for the person she loved going to prision? i know what he did was wrong, and i know my mum loved him, and i know she'd choose her childen over him, but why does she still blame me for losing the person she ever loved? ...
A. 24 December 2007: i know how you feel.my parents are getting divorced over something that happend between me and my dad.he said that part of the reason hes leaving is because of me.he just cant take responsibility for what he did to me.my mom and him are either ... (read in full...)
My parents are divorcing! Is it my fault because I'm such a handful?
Q. ok,my mom and dad have been fighting for awhile and they are getting divorced after christmas.my dad isnt even gonna be with us for christmas hes just gunna stay home or go with his friends.i think itll be kinda weird without a dad.i feel like its ...
A. 22 December 2007: thank you guys for all your support and answers.i really appreciate it. love always muffy... (read in full...)
He's black, I'm white and my parents are racist! What should I do?
Q. A while ago a guy in my class started flirting with him. But cos guys at school never flirt with me a did not believe it and always took it as a joke. We have been chatting on a local chat site alot and have gotten to know him and start gettin...
A. 22 December 2007: ok,stay with your boyfriend cuz if you go with the black guy,then your causing him trouble cuz your parents will be pissed.your true love is your boyfriend ok so stay with him.
hope i helped
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He says he loves me but just doesn't want to date me..now he's dating another girl! .what's the deal here?
Q. Well i went out with this boy in January and we split up a month later.. then about 5 months later in July he told me he still loved me but he didnt want a relationship at the moment.. then about a month later he started going out with this girl and ...
A. 22 December 2007: tell him exactly what you just said.tell him that you love him and if he loves you then you guys should go back out!when he broke up with you,that means he wanted to take a break and test the waters,which i think is totally stupid cuz if you love ... (read in full...)
I hate my bf's loser, low class friends! How do I handle this?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. My problem is his low class friends. I am from a good family and so is he but his best friends are all the guys almost 30 years old with no life and no class and of course they are dating the girls ...
A. 22 December 2007: ok,how bout you talk to his friends by yourself when your boyfriends not around.tell them how you feel but be nice.give them advice like, tell them to get a job,stop smoking so much,and get an education!tell your boyfriend how you feel but be nice ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my girlfriend as I'm not happy with her but I don't want to break her heart
Q. Hi. I am currently in an unhappy 2 and a half year relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and i am so terrified at breaking her heart. I know what to do but i just need some support and advice on ...
A. 18 December 2007: ok,when you break up with her,be nice and tell her why.me and my boyfriend went out for a month or 2 and i was sohooo attached to him.we broke up 6 times so i was used to it.but when he broke up with me the 6th time,it was for good!i was soo ... (read in full...)
It feels like I'm being stuck in the middle all over again.
Q. i have recently broke up with my boyfriend and ive become really good friends with his best friend, he has also just broke up with someone so he can understand what i am going through but i KNOW i have fallen for him, he has just got together with ...
A. 11 December 2007: ok hunny, that really sux! but you have to know that he was drunk and you dont really know what your doing when your drunk. let him know what he did and tell him how you feel. tell him hes messing with your head but be nice. talk to his ex! tell her ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to be more physical? Any tips?
Q. hey! ive been going out with this guy for about two months and we havent really become physicaly close. i mean we're only 13 so im not looking for full on sex just a cuddle or kiss. hes given me a peck on the cheeck once but were going to the cine...
A. 11 December 2007: ok,im 13 as well and im not looking for sex either! what you should do is kiss him first. guys don't always like doing the work, so you should make a move on him and whatever happens happens. cuddle or kiss whatever it is your thinking just do it! ... (read in full...)
Should I keep waiting for him to sort everything out?
Q. hey i need help you see this guy im good friends with has recently broke up with his girlfriend, who i used to be frinds with. me and him met up a few times and he told me he has fallen for me, i have also fallen for him, he wants to b...
A. 10 December 2007: i know how feeling upset and depressed is like when your not with someone you want to be with. dont wait forever though,just wait a little bit. ask him if he sorted everything out but dont bug him cuz guys dont like that and if you have to wait for ... (read in full...)
How do I get our friendship back?
Q. Hey everyone. Happy Holidays!! Ok so i need some help getting my friendship back with one of my exs. Here is my situations though: So we are both freshman at a college of about 14,000 students. We had a relationship going for about the...
A. 10 December 2007: well, fixing friendships arent that hard but they're not that easy. if she doesnt like bringing you around her friends,then confront her about it. just say "hey,why dont you bring me around your friends but you bring other guys? "but be nice or she ... (read in full...)
I cannot phone or message him - what can I do to get him back?
Q. We dated at the end of 2006 and then again in June 2007. But we broke up because I didn't greet him when he saw me at the mall. He smsed me and told me to "Get Lost". I still love him and would do anything to be with him again. But when I see him I ...
A. 10 December 2007: hunny,if he broke up with you because you didnt "greet"him at the mall,then hes not worth it! that is the stupidest reason to break up!! find a new man that wont dump you for not "greeting" him at the mall.trust me,hes not worth a mili second of ... (read in full...)
Her Facebook messages seem to indicate more than she admitted...can I trust her again??
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for just over 3 years, but for the last 6 months I have been very depressed which has affected our relationship. She has to commute quite a long way for her job and so stays over at least once a week in a hotel. ...
A. 6 December 2007: well,you never know if you can trust someone.if shes cheating on you and sleeping around then thats not loyalty or trust.your relationship is already messed uo so you might as well tell her to kick rocks.dont make her quit her job because it is ... (read in full...)
Is this the end of the road??
Q. hi, Me and my gf/ex-gf had a break a month or so ago, we've tried 2 remain close. We've had fun being friends and its even come to the occasional kiss and cuddle, now i hear, and am certain that she's been seeing another guy although we said we ...
A. 6 December 2007: Well doll face,sounds upseting.if you think shes dating another guy then just ask her.tell her how you feel about her ignoring you and making excuses because if you dont show your feelings then she'll never know and it could possibly be the end of ... (read in full...)
My hormones are killing me and I want to know if it’s all right for me to date even though I’m still married officially, or is it considered cheating?
Q. I have been separated from my wife for over a year and looking forward to get divorced soon. My question is this: My hormones are killing me and I want to know if it’s all right for me to date even though I’m still married officially, or is it ...
A. 4 December 2007: ok,first off,it's ok to date but whatever you do dont lie to the girl because she will find out and it will ruin everything.just tell her it is officially over with you and your wife and that your interested in her.if shes the right one then she'll ... (read in full...)
I really like him but he's a bit of a "whore!"
Q. I LOVE this guy, but he's a bit of a whore but that's his personality. He's kinda camp but he's deffo not gay. I really like him, I have no idea if he knows or not but we do have the occasional flirt and a kiss. I have no idea what to do help ...
A. 30 November 2007: well if he's a whore then your gonna have to get over him.all he will do is break your heart even if it is just his personality.personalitie's are very important in a relationship.and if you guys are kissing and flirting,then go out but make sure he ... (read in full...)
One of my boobs are bigger than the other. Is this normal?
Q. My boobs dont look the same. One looks bigger than the other. Is that normal? Will I ever grow out of that? please please please help me!!!! thank you...
A. 27 November 2007: thank you guys sooo much for answering my question.you guys made me feel sooo much better about my body.
love and kisses
muffy... (read in full...)
I lied to my long distance boyfriend....
Q. hi, i just turned 18 not too long ago and im in a long distance relationship with someone, but i lied about my looks a little, i sent a real picture, only one and it was with really good lighting, im not ugly or anything its just i lied about my ...
A. 26 November 2007: hey sweetie,i know how you feel.i tried to make all my pictures look better then i did when i sent them to my long distance relationship.i always thought that i looked bad so i tried to make the picture better.If he really loves you, it wont matter ... (read in full...)
His sexy talk makes me feel cheap
Q. my boyfreind talks dirty to me whenever i give him a blow job and its making me feel cheap. i dont mind it sometimes in bed, it can be hot, but he does it nonstop when im giving him oral sex. he says stuff like do you love my big co*k, and suck me ...
A. 26 November 2007: sometimes guys are just stupid and say stuff because they are enjoying it.dont feel cheap just have fun. i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
I want to make her first time incredible.
Q. Me and this girl are going to have sex tomorrow night, we're kind of in an open relationship (that's all you can get in college these days). It's her first time, and she is a virgin, so I was wondering if anyone knows of away I can rock her world ...
A. 26 November 2007: its her first time so take it easy on her.it could hurt her and then she wont be so interested in you. make sure you let her have some fun by doing the things she wants to do to you.and just have fun i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
When I have sex with a man will I not enjoy it?
Q. Loads of my mates talk about masturbation and I tried it but it is really painful and uncomfortable when I fingered myself, is this odd and does this mean that when I have sex (with a man!) will I not enjoy it?...
A. 26 November 2007: well maybe you did something wrong.maybe you werent turned on so you werent ready so it hurt.but you probably will enjoy it cuz a lot of people do. i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if he cums inside my anus?
Q. um.. okay I'm just gonna come right out and ask it... if my boyfriend comes inside me while giving me anal can I get pregnant????????...
A. 26 November 2007: listen to what everyone else says.use a condom until your ready to have a baby. i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
I want her sex now!!
Q. I have this woman who's been a long time friend, although we have not been very close. I became sexually attracted to her since the day she tried to have sex with me. At that time I was young and dumb and didn't realize what was on her mind. For 1 ...
A. 26 November 2007: just ask her.if she wants to then she will.its that simple. i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
Should I break off this online romance or see what happens?
Q. I am in my teens and have been chatting online with this boy for a couple of years. I think I know almost everything about him, and sometimes I think that I have fallen in love although I know most people would say that I'm still to young to know ...
A. 26 November 2007: well im 13 and i hate it when people tell me that im to young to know what love is because i do know what it is.if you really love him and you know a lot about him then wait a little while.i made a mistake kinda like that one to but its not the same ... (read in full...)
Did my ex fiancee propose, just so I would feel better about having sex before marriage? What do you think?
Q. I know I kind of asked this question a little while ago. But, it keeps resurfacing in my mind. I broke up with my fiance a month or so ago, but I want to know if he proposed just so I would feel better about having sex before marriage? We had sex ...
A. 26 November 2007: well just ask him.he probably was proposing to you because it was against your beliefs and he didnt want you to feel bad about going against it so he asked you.or maybe he just loves you.but just ask him. i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
I was in the wrong and I still love him! How can I get him back?
Q. here goes about 3 months ago my ex of 8 years broke up with me i have 4 children whom he has claimed his own for the last 8 years i was mean to him called him every name in the book i came from an abusive marriage of 20 years before him. this all ...
A. 26 November 2007: let him know that you were wrong and that your sorry.tell him you were in an abusive marriage before him.tell him how you feel.tell him that you still love him.things could get better or youll have to move on.sorry to tell you that. i hope i helpe... (read in full...)
I don't have a boyfriend. Is it ok to show up at this party alone?
Q. So, I got invited to this party. All of the "popular kids" are invited. None of my friends did. They dont mind if i go. But, I really dont have anyone to take. I dont wanna mix my friends with the other group, It'll be a disaster if i do. I w...
A. 26 November 2007: go.have fun.who cares if your single.go be with your friends that are at the party if any of them were invited.but just have fun. i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
The ex is pursuing me but claims he doesn't want us to get back together. However, he still wants to have sex with me!
Q. I just need a bit of advice about my ex boyfriend. My ex boyfriend and i have been broken up since june 07 after 6 years together and a 3 yr old child together . since then we both have had relationships with other people, and my feelings have cha...
A. 26 November 2007: Well, dont have sex with him. Save yourself. If he doesnt wanna get back together then why would he wanna have sex with you? Be with him and your son on Christmas and be nice, but dont screw him. He would just be using you. i hope i helped ... (read in full...)
Is there something else I can use instead of a condom?
Q. Is there something else i can use instead of a condom?...
A. 26 November 2007: why?is there something wrong with condoms?... (read in full...)
Am I gay or is it common for straight women to be turned on by other women's bodies?
Q. I have been wondering about my sexual orientation for quite some time now. I understand that doubts about your own sexual identities are common for teenagers, but I am already in my 20s and this question has lurked in the back of my mind for many ...
A. 26 November 2007: just because you like girls bodies instead of boys doesnt mean your not straight.i think its ok because your used to boobs and ass on a girl more than a boy because you have boobs and an ass as well and guys dont.dont worry.maybe you can be bi ... (read in full...)
Should I screw him or not? Please help!!!
Q. I'm only 13 and a certain guy wants to screw me. I said okay but he'd have to wait. I said okay because I liked him and I just tried to impress him and it worked too much. I really wanted to screw him but he's changed. He is so fake around his ...
A. 25 November 2007: thank you gys so much for helping me.i have chosen not to do it because you guys were right.i dont wanna lose my virginity to some guy that is fake and i dont even like him.so thank you i really appreciate it.
love and kisses
muffy... (read in full...)
How can I make friends easier?
Q. Hi, I'm 17 and I started college 3 months ago. I thought I would make friends on the 1st few days but I didn't. I still haven't really made friends. I just sit with a few people on my table but I don't really know them cos I can't talk in big ...
A. 25 November 2007: its easy to make friends.its actually not that hard to talk in a big group.listen to what they are saying and go with it.dont talk a lot but just talk as much as they are.youll eventually catch on.ok.
i hope i helped
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Sometimes I break down and cry all of a sudden at the thought of not having her around. How do you move on when the feelings are so strong?
Q. I think of her as the best person in the world the ideal partner, she's the first thing on my mind in the morning and last thing at night , some times i will just break down all of a sudden and just cry and cry at the thought of not having her ...
A. 25 November 2007: OMG!!! that is exactly my problem.my ex boyfriend broke up with me 6 times and weve only gotten back together 5.i cant stop thinking about him,i cry,i try to talk to him but the sad part is that he doesnt even wanna be friends with me or talk to me ... (read in full...)
Does he really want her back?
Q. After a great night of passionate sex with my boyfriend, he starts dreaming of his ex-wife. I know this because he started talking about how lucky they were to have their daughter, and then he starts pushing his body up against mine, and says wow ...
A. 25 November 2007: ok,you can never be to sure when a guy does that.maybe he is still getting over her.it does kind of take awhile to get over a marriage.if he says all those things to you,then he must love you.but,sadly,yes,you must confront him.tell him and see what ... (read in full...)
The connection isn't there the way it was with my ex. What should I do?
Q. I have been with a guy for 2 years and a lot of the time he can treat me quite badly and can be very selfish but the connection we have is unbeleivable. We click and understand each other so well but after the two years together the way he would ...
A. 25 November 2007: if your uncomfortable with a guy,then its time to say bye.if you dont have a good connection with him then why be with him because youll just be wasting your time.and hunny,you cant make your feelings grow to like anybody.if hes not the right guy ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I am pleased for him without him thinking I am jealous and that I want him back?
Q. Me and a boyfriend split up a year ago. I ended it because he was a bit possessive and he wanted me to quit my job. Anyway we tried to remain friends but that didn't work out. He went on a few dates and kept telling me about them. I didn't mind be...
A. 25 November 2007: well,your situation isnt that difficult.your rigt,dont make a guy up because it is childish.ive tried it and nothing turned out good.so just tell him your happy for him and if he says your jealous just tell him your not and move on.if he doesnt ... (read in full...)
How can I make the day after we make love a romantic one?
Q. I want to plan a romantic day for my boyfriend to follow after the night we first make love. I could use your advice. After waking up next to him in the morning how can I suggest taking a shower together and making breakfast together in the nude? Sh...
A. 25 November 2007: your ideas are great!!you could do any one of those ideas and it would be romantic.screw in the hot tub,screw in the shower and screw while making breakfast.it would be fun and sexy.ESPECIALLY in the shower.take him bra and pantie shopping and make ... (read in full...)
He doesn't care about my sexual needs, does this mean he doesn't care about me?
Q. I feel that my BF is selfish as he doesn't try to make me orgasm when we make love. I have bought toys, showed him numerous times, tried to talk about it...He is aware and says he will try, but everytime we make love, and he's had his share of ...
A. 25 November 2007: well don't leave him.maybe he wants you to start.take some handcuffs and cuff him to the bed.do what you please this time and then let him have his fun when your done.and the whole porn thing,yea,guys watch porn all the time its just nature.so do ... (read in full...)
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