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30 November 2007: Ok, a lot of people say that they like players and that they wanna get with the player but if you get with a player he/she will just break your heart stupid!!!! I dated a player and he just broke my heart. So girls/guys,dont date players,...
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He doesn't care about my sexual needs, does this mean he doesn't care about me?
Q. I feel that my BF is selfish as he doesn't try to make me orgasm when we make love. I have bought toys, showed him numerous times, tried to talk about it...He is aware and says he will try, but everytime we make love, and he's had his share of ...
A. 25 November 2007: well don't leave him.maybe he wants you to start.take some handcuffs and cuff him to the bed.do what you please this time and then let him have his fun when your done.and the whole porn thing,yea,guys watch porn all the time its just nature.so do ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't seem to orgasm when I use my fingers, please help
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know whats wrong every time I finger my girlfriend she becomes stimulated but never actually cums and I'm pretty sure she never actually orgasms she starts moving her hips faster and then stops but I don't think that lasts lo...
A. 25 November 2007: well maybe shes just different.do you want her to have an orgasm?maybe shes just scared to go any farther then you already have.talk to her about it but don't make her feel uncomfortable and be nice about it.don't tell her that somethings wrong with ... (read in full...)
I like this guy who flirts with me but he likes another girl too, how can I let him know I fancy him?
Q. I really like this guy , but ive only met him twice and i know he really likes another girl, he always flirts with me should i ask him out? or ask him waht he'd say , any suggestions on what to say to him so he knows that i like him...
A. 25 November 2007: well how can he like another girl if he flirts with you a lot.just tell him that you really like him.don't ask what he'd say if you told him that because then hes going to know that you like him but hes going to think your being a baby about it.so ... (read in full...)
I met a girl I liked a month ago but I'm only just able to get her number, has it been too long to call her?
Q. I met this girl through a friend's girlfriend nearly a month ago, and I wanted to take her number from them later, but they were both out of town and have only just returned. But now it's been a month, so should I ask for her number or not? I mean w...
A. 25 November 2007: well if you really like her then get her number.call her and remind her who you are.its not really that weird just let her know why it took so long.ok. i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I've been in love with a 17 year old I barely know for three years, even though it's caused me nothing but trouble
Q. I'm 14, and I'm completely, totally, insanely in-love with a 17 year old boy. Well, at least I think I am. I don't even know him, I've never spoken to him, and I've only ever heard him talk once. It was kind of love at first sight. I've been 'in...
A. 25 November 2007: nothing is wrong with you.you are finally figuring out what love is.i should know because i have a problem like that as well.me and me ex have broken up 6 times and only got back together 5 but i am still madly in love with him.ive never even met ... (read in full...)
My best friend has been flirting with me lately and putting his arms around me, what should I do next time he does it?
Q. my best friend has been flirting with me alot. hes been sitting next to me at lunch, always wants to be by me and stuff like that. then when i was walking in the hall he came up to me and we started talking. then when it got all quite he put his arm ...
A. 25 November 2007: well if hes doing this then maybe he wants to be more then friends.if you like him too then do it back.put your head on his shoulder or put your arm around him if you like him too.but if you don't want him doing it then tell him to stop.tell him ... (read in full...)
My period is irregular but I'm not on the pill or having sex, what's happening?
Q. I missed my period for 3 months then i came on 4 2 days!! im not on the pill or haing sex WTF is going on...
A. 25 November 2007: well did you talk to your doctor?if not then go talk to your doctor and see whats going on.maybe its just a stage because my best friend's period is weird too.so go to the doctor. i hope i helped love and kisses... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hardly shows me any affection or romantic gestures but he's sentimental about his exes
Q. Hi..I've been with my boyfriend now for about 5 months. We met at uni a few years ago and have been friends and lived together, so we knew each other well before we got together. This also means I've met his exes and he's met mine. However, at the m...
A. 25 November 2007: ok this is where you draw the line!tell him how you feel and you dont appreciate what hes doing,or,what hes NOT doing.if he really loves you then hell show affection.but just because he doesnt treat you like a princess doesnt mean he doesnt love ... (read in full...)
I like two guys, one of whom I have a history with, the other makes me laugh. Which one do I choose?
Q. ok well... i really like these two guys!! problem is they both like me back and i dunno what to do!! its a long story but i've gone out with lad 1 twice alredy but broken up with him 4 reasons that arent important anymore as they have been sorted!! ...
A. 25 November 2007: hunney go with lad 2! he obviously makes you laugh and your happy.lad 1 you have already given 2 chances and so now its time to move on and meet new interesting people.but no matter what ,still be lad 1's friend. i hope i helped love and kisse... (read in full...)
Do I just let her go??
Q. hello, i broke up with my ex about 4 months ago... We argued all the time and made up just as often. She would say the sweetest things and would do anything i'd ask her to. She would always say she had tunnel vision when she looked at me., she woul...
A. 23 November 2007: yes.you should let her go.just because she says she loves you doesnt mean she actually does.actions speak louder then words.obviously she is interested in someone else and shes moved on.its not worth the time arguing when you could be spending time ... (read in full...)
Got a kind of crush on my BF's friend. He is flirty with me.
Q. I have a bf and he has a really close friend. This friend also has a gf. However, when my bf's not there, his friend, who is also my friend, flirts with me. He hugged me all the time, and finally kissed me on the lips recently where no one saw us at ...
A. 23 November 2007: well you shouldnt waist your time on this guy.he has a girlfriend so it isnt fair.if he brakes up with his girlfriend then theirs your chance but dont continue because youll get your heart broken and so will the girl.so put an end to it until he ... (read in full...)
Husband seems to have no interest in me.
Q. Hi everyone I'm new around here,and need some help on this issues!! I'm due to go to psychologist to get a professional help, but in the mean Time I'd like to share this with you and get different opinions. I've been married for 4 years, and...
A. 23 November 2007: ok i didnt read all of it but from what ive heard is that you are too young for him.hes too old for you.if hes staring at other women then hes not interested.hes not being fair to you or the kids.its not right.you need to find a man who is ... (read in full...)
..Still completely in love with my ex.
Q. My ex is four years older than I am and we dated for over two years, about a year of which became long distance when he moved to complete his education. When we broke up, he'd been going out with his current girlfriend for over half a year ...
A. 23 November 2007: well you should move on because the guy your with really loves you.if he cares that much then be with him.you shouldnt wait for the guy that moved because its gonna be awhile anyways.stay with your boyfriend and try to get over your ex.try to love ... (read in full...)
Am I justified in feeling like this or selfish??
Q. Hi, I have known my current boyfriend 4 years, we have been together on and off for periods of time over that four years and have a lot of history. He has a child from a previous relationship, who he does not currently see regulary, but ha...
A. 23 November 2007: well thats the problem.you need to let him know how you feel.and he has a son so of course its gonna be kinda hard for him not to see his ex.its not bad to feel jealous because you cant help it.its an emotion and you have to deal with it.if he ... (read in full...)
How can I shake of the tag of "nerdy boff"?
Q. I have always been known as the nerdy boff and originally I was fine with this but now it has been over three years and I am basically tired of it. Can anyone suggest how I can get rid of this unwanted stereotype? Any help would be very much ...
A. 23 November 2007: well you have to think why you got this nickname.if people call you that because your smart then their just jealous and immature because they dont have good grades like you.if not then who cares what they think.just make up your own bad nicknames ... (read in full...)
Although he didn't want to rush into sex some of his texts are quite sexually orientated. We currently have a "text relationship." Opinions?
Q. I met a guy recently and we went out on a few dates, the first couple of dates were just a kiss at the end of the night, on the third date he stayed over we did everything but intercourse he told me he didnt want to rush into having sex..since then ...
A. 23 November 2007: well instead of him setting a date then how about you ste one.if you dont just want a text relationship the let him know that.i had a text relationship because i could never see him and text relationships suck because it makes you wanna do all of ... (read in full...)
I miss him sooo much, what do I do, I have a very strong urge to be with him.
Q. I was having sex with a guy on and off over 4 years (when it all started I was 18 and he was 37) I put a stop to it simply because it was harder to get away and travel the 1 and a half hours to be with him, (we both had partners and still do) Thing ...
A. 23 November 2007: well honey you should have never had sex with this guy in the first place.you were 18 and he was 37!! thats kinda like getting raped.honey i know you may not wanna here this but yoou have to forget about him.find someone your age and screw them.hes ... (read in full...)
If he isn't interested why did he come and buy me a beer?
Q. Ok if you have read my last post then is my later news. Tonite I went out again to the same place as I met him last week and he showed up and not long came up to me to get drinks at the bar and bought me a new beer.He said he has been busy working ...
A. 23 November 2007: well if your interested in him then tell him.he probably bought you a drink because he wanted to be friends.or maybe hes just shy and wants you to make the first move.if you guys text then keep a good conversation going.maybe his friends dared him ... (read in full...)
We are sooooo connected yet he doesn't want to call me his girlfriend... yet!
Q. Dear Aunt, I and 24 and have been dating this 27 year old guy for like 2 months. Our chemistry is too great. Of all the people I have know, have never come across so connected to anyone. We both came out of bad break ups. I know he really likes me...
A. 23 November 2007: well like you said,you both came out of bad break ups.you have probably gotten over it before him.he does love you and thats why hes taking time to get to know you.he just doesnt want to get heartbroken again so hes making sure your not a liar or ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him I like him or just leave it?
Q. I've had crushes before, but now I'm experiencing something very different, there's a boy at school, at first when I met him, I saw him as just a friend. But suddenly I've begun to really, really like him in a whole new way. We chat, but I don't ...
A. 23 November 2007: hunney tell him how you feel.maybe hes dating another chick because he wants to make you jealous.let him know because then your options are open.because if he brakes up with her then at least he knows that you like him and maybe hell give you a ... (read in full...)
Always going to be more than a best friend to him...
Q. I've been best mates with a guy for over a year now. However after 2 months of knowing him he told me he loved me. I told him straight, that i wasnt intrested but I'd hope we'd still be able to be friends. So we have tryed being friends for a while ...
A. 23 November 2007: well there is no right or wrong.if you told him how you feel and he cant except that then hes not a true friend.tell him to move on with his life because your not interested.i mean, at least you gave it a shot at being friends but if its not working ... (read in full...)
Why am I so scared?
Q. i have a thing about pushing guys or actually every body away and my boyfriend is trying so hard to get close to me and every time he does i always do something to mess it up or make him feel bad i think he's falling hard for me and i cant stand it ...
A. 23 November 2007: well hunney its not your fault your scared.but you cant just push everything away because youll get too used to it and then youll never be able to trust or love someone and youll be all by yourself.if you truly love your man then let him in and ... (read in full...)
I was a workaholic and my wife left me, I've turned things around now, how can I convince my wife that I've changed?
Q. My wife of 9 years ask me to leave 9 months ago. She told me that she held on to hope the last couple of years but had finally given up and eventually fell out of love with me. Her reason are that I was disconnected from our family and was not ...
A. 23 November 2007: well to tell you the truth,its very hard to regain anything once you do something that could affect your family.if you really want her back then let her know everything you did.let her know that you will be more available to your family and her and ... (read in full...)
Someone we don't know is telling him things.
Q. Ok my boyfreind and i have been going out for a month and a couple weeks and a person that nether of us know that well told him that i don't trust him and he belived her and we have been fighting and alot of stuff we both said was not true and i ...
A. 23 November 2007: if you want your stuff back then just tell him... (read in full...)
Was my ex hiding something?
Q. Was my ex hiding something? I just broke up with my ex fiance a little over a month ago, but now I keep remembering things that he did that bother me. One time he traveled to Colorado (we were living in new york) to work on renting out one of his ...
A. 22 November 2007: hunney he was being dishonest.and im probably not gonna tell you what you wanna here but its the truth and you deserve to know.if he tried to leave out the fact that he saw his ex girlfriend then maybe he did it because he didnt want you to think ... (read in full...)
How can I get everything back to normal?
Q. Ok well I have a problem... I have a best guy friend and he has a girlfriend, ever since he got this girl shes been a total jerk to me and is trying to ruin me and his relationship. I havent told him about this because im afraid that itll just end ...
A. 22 November 2007: trust me shes doing this because shes jealous that you guys are good friends.shes worried that youll get in the way of their "alone" time.tell your best friend whats going on calmly.dont be like "OMG YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS TRYING TO MESS UP OUR ... (read in full...)
He asks me if he decides to go out with some other girl "should I hide it or should I tell you right upfront?" Why is he doing this? Just to have a reaction?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for the past 10 months. He can be very sweet and I think I love him well. The problem is that he keeps saying that he doesn't belong to anyone and more sometimes he tells me about the girls he "used to have a crush on"...
A. 22 November 2007: hunney its obvious hes trying to get you jealous.or hes just a complete player and you should 4get about him.but i think its mostly because he wants you to be jealous.men are different from women.they arent very good about showing their feeligs.they ... (read in full...)
I had sex 2 weeks ago and have been extremely tired and nausead ever since. We used a condom with spermicide. Could I be pregnant?
Q. I had sex with this guy 2 weeks ago. I have been extremely tired and nauseated ever since. We used a condom with spermicide. Do you think there is a chance I could be pregnant or justed stress out worrying about. I know I should get a test to ...
A. 22 November 2007: well you should go to the store and buy a whole bunch of different tests.try them out and if they come out positive then your pregnant and negative then ur just stressed.just think,if you dont take the tests then you could be sitting on the toilet ... (read in full...)
On again off again, should I or shouldn't I, help please?
Q. The Context: I was with X from February 2005 til August 2006, as I was moving to university. I have never been so truly in love, so happy, so content. I lost my virginity to this man, and he made me feel so safe. We could talk about anything...
A. 22 November 2007: well you said he has been therr with you through everything.that shows sooo much about him.he must really care about you and the drugs and drinking are coming to an end.do you ever think he stoppped just for you?you should give it another shot ... (read in full...)
Love triangle, please help
Q. hi, last yr i really liked this girl i would take a bullet 4 her u could say i was obsessed with her. a yr later after she had rejected me twice i went out with her bestfriend then after a month of us going out in a truth or dare game the girl who ...
A. 22 November 2007: well like you said your gf's best friend wouldnt be able to take it if you broke up with her best friend so if u brake up with ur gf then you dont get eather one of them.what you are doing is wrong and you should stop.if u really like ur gf's best ... (read in full...)
What to do to get over him.
Q. i jus got outta a really bad break up and the bad thing is we both want each other back but i have a boyfriend and i dont wanna go back to the past i have tried crying to get over him i have tried to right a letter and i jus dont know wat to do to ...
A. 22 November 2007: i have the same exact problem as you.it is sooo hard to get over someone who you actually really love.i tried a lot more then you have and to tell you the truth nothing helps. i haved tried everything but i still hurt really bad inside.heartbreak is ... (read in full...)
How to get over these feelings?
Q. Is it possible to get over someone that is so...perfect for you, yet everything is so against you, there's not a chance of being together? The person I am talking about is my best friend. I was definitely interested in him before we became close ...
A. 22 November 2007: well if you can open up to him and u trust him with your life then you just answered your own question.who cares if its far away.i had a long distant relationship and it worked out for a long itme but we r through now.if you guys r best friends and ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my best years by not having sex?
Q. I'm in my teens. Now is the best time to be having Sex, and I'm not! I was not so long ago, and I think I took Sex for granted because I was enjoying my girlfriends company so much. Am I wasting my best years?? Do many guys suffer this when it com...
A. 22 November 2007: hunney,anytime is ok to have sex except when your like below age or whatever.you are not wasting your life not having sex!! you just enjoy having your friends instead of your horomones right now. guys suffering isnt really suffering.they just really ... (read in full...)
How long will it be until I find another girlfriend?
Q. Hi. I'm a little confused. I understand that it varies, but how often do guys, on average, get girlfriends? I've only ever had one, and I got her when I was 16. She split up with me a few months ago. I'm 19 now, and I can't say that I know that...
A. 22 November 2007: hunney you are only 18-21! you have a whole life in front of you.you shouldnt worry about it.so youve had 1 bad relationship and its your first.so what?now its good that your getting over it but it takes time to get a good relationship.of course ... (read in full...)
I have problems with immature post break up anntics.
Q. Hi all. Here's my situation, the last two girls who I have dated have broke up with me because they have liked other guys I tell myself just to move on but there is just always part of me that wants to keep pursuing the girl. This often results in ...
A. 22 November 2007: well,you have to think how unfair your being to the girl.if you really loved her youd let her movve on and live a happy life because its what she wants and it would make her happy.if your having these urges then try to act it out.like if you wanted ... (read in full...)
I am scared to try this.
Q. hey. i have been with my boyfriend now for a little over a year and we have stated having sex. we have only been exually avtive for about 6 weeks and its ok so far. but my boyfriend recently asked me if i would like to perform some role plays wi...
A. 22 November 2007: well if you really love this guy and have bin with him for a long time,if hes never done anything to hurt you or make you upset, then hes trustworthy.if you really love him then trust him and things might work out for the best.plus if it sounds fun ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be mean by just leaving her.
Q. Hi I'm in a bit of a tricky situation...Here goes Well I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now. I've been thinking about my ex alot. We decided to meet up and go for a walk and chat. We really have strong feelings for each other. She ...
A. 22 November 2007: hunney you have to choose and you know it.you say your ex gf has feelings for you and you have feelings for her too.but you also say that your gf right now is lovely and friendly.well it sounds a lot like one of my problems but its not about me its ... (read in full...)
Someone we don't know is telling him things.
Q. Ok my boyfreind and i have been going out for a month and a couple weeks and a person that nether of us know that well told him that i don't trust him and he belived her and we have been fighting and alot of stuff we both said was not true and i ...
A. 22 November 2007: i had the same problem with my bf when we first broke up. his best friend told him i was cheating on him with my ex which i sooo wasn't and he believed his friend and one of my friends who told him the same thing instead of me!!! i was sooo upset ... (read in full...)
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