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30 November 2007: Ok, a lot of people say that they like players and that they wanna get with the player but if you get with a player he/she will just break your heart stupid!!!! I dated a player and he just broke my heart. So girls/guys,dont date players,...
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Why does he have to speak to his ex every day?
Q. Why is my boyfriend doing this?? am i overreacting? my boyfriend speaks to his ex gf everyday..i read the convo and he said "hows my wife doing??" he talks about her all the time to me...every convo he has to bring up something about her.. i ...
A. 19 November 2010: Well sweetie,he was with her for some time and he probably fell in love with her.It's hard to forget about someone you love hun.The point is that he's with you now and if he says he loves you then he does.Getting jealous over him talking to her is a ... (read in full...)
Can I do anything to get bigger boobs?
Q. hello everyone, im 15 and im a 32 a and im size 6 or sometimes 8. im always being bullied about my boobs and i was just wondering if i can do anything to get bigger boobs? I've heard if i put weight on they will grow but im just confused and des...
A. 18 November 2010: Hun,who cares what other people think.Your boobs shouldn't be an important thing in your life.Be all natural and if people don't like it then oh well.You don't need them.You need people in your life that'll except you for who you are.You can still ... (read in full...)
Ready to move on and have sex! How do I tell him?
Q. Hi, just started dating this sweet guy, none of the three guys that wanted to date me, Lets just say hes a total sweetheart, weve been dating for a week been out 3 times, and weve always had fun, The problem is that suddenly im having all these...
A. 18 November 2010: Well sweetie,sex is a big thing with people.Especially in a relationship.You should at least wait a month before you have sex because you need to make sure he's commited and not just using you for sex.If you seriously feel your ready though,then ... (read in full...)
Do I have to be popular to be happy?
Q. well i amm 22 m and cant socialise...lately i have entered the world where there are people having $hit loads of friends around me and having a ball! but i am struggling with myself and my personality and just dont have it in me to become popular ...
A. 14 August 2009: Alright,I'm in the same boat.I have great friends that aren't the popular type at all.But I'm comfortable and can be myself around them.Then I met some people who are the "Shit" you could say and they have all the fun and everyone just loves ... (read in full...)
Do I keep trying to get him or get over him? How can I get over him?
Q. Hi there,I need some help please. Well,I like this guy a lot and I've known him for almost a year now.I liked him when I first met him but I got over him real quick.Well,we both have the same friends and I get along great with his little brother a...
A. 14 August 2009: Thanks for helping me.I would've never thought of staying away from him.
Love always,
Muffy
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He said he would be with me if they ever broke up, but I haven't heard from him. What should I do?
Q. So there's this guy that i've been liking for quite a bit now and he was the year above me at school, although we've both left now. And i met up with him and everything was great but on that same night after i'd gone his ex told him she wanted him ...
A. 11 August 2009: Well hun,it might not have been him who deleted you off of the network.It could have been his ex on his profile and she thought you were competition so she deleted you.If you haven't heard from him then maybe he's still contemplating whether or not ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my jealousy so I don't lose her?
Q. Hello all, Its hard for me to admit this but i can be a very jealous person. Especially when it comes to other guys and my girlfriend. Now im only 15, about to turn 16, and i no im gonna get some people who are gonna think im not in love with thi...
A. 11 August 2009: Alright sweetie,I'm a girl and I'm exactly the same.I'm VERY jealous and VERY competative.Instead of being jealous,be sorta proud.She's yours NOT theres.You can actually call her yours and they can't.When she hangs out with other guys trust that she ... (read in full...)
How can I get to be something my parents can be proud of?
Q. I am 19 years old and really miserable. I have been fat most of my life, and I am just sick and tired of it. people tell me all the time that im stunning, but I dont buy it. I am so self conscious that Im terrified to leave the house because i ...
A. 5 June 2009: Hi sweetie.Listen,you arent't the fattest person in the world and it's something that can go away with a little work.You don't need to be self-concious.You have a boyfriend who loves you for you and your dad loves you.You don't need to impress ... (read in full...)
I think she was raped: How can I help her?
Q. I have a delimma. Me and this girl I know have been friends about 8 or 9 years. she and I are best friends,tho we are both in relationships. She came to me the other night with a problem. She was at a bar having a drink and somehow some guy she knew ...
A. 5 June 2009: OKay,I believe you could be right.Being raped isn't something people like to talk about though.It's emberrassing and it hurts.She's gonnah need some time before she talks about it.Just keep being her friend and when she wants to tell you what ... (read in full...)
Why did he break up? why didn't he just talk about it?
Q. me and my x bf were dating for about a month and a few days. 2 weeks b4 we broke up he told me he tried smoking. i had a family memeber die from smoking and i didnt want it to happen to him. then a couple hours b4 we broke up i found out he was ...
A. 18 April 2009: Okay hunn,your intentions were good,he just doesn't see that because it's his life and he doesn't want anyone telling him what to do.It's pretty ridiculous that he broke up with you over it though.Don't let it get to you to much cause once he sees ... (read in full...)
I love my ex and want her back. Please help!!
Q. my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago because she didnt love me anymore she didnt state a reason she said she didnt love me anymore. i ve bin chasing her and tried to be her friend but we have lately had arguments. all i want is her back can ...
A. 27 September 2008: Hunny,I know you probably don't want to here this,but you can't get her back if she doesn't want you.You can chase her for the rest of your life,but if she doesn't love you anymore then your wasting your time on a girl who isn't worth your time when ... (read in full...)
I think it is wrong to stay in a relationship with my boyfriend while I love his best friend, but I don't know what to do.
Q. I like this guy name "Eric" for a while before telling one of my close friends about my little crush for him. So she comes up with a plan to slip him a note into this books one day saying I like him. I eventually give in and wrote a very brief note ...
A. 21 September 2008: okay sweetface,you need to know that he only likes you as a friend.Your gonna have to get over him sooner or later.if you don't have the feelings for Croy like you do Eric then maybe it's best you just brake up and stay away from both of them.I know ... (read in full...)
Our relationship has changed, she flirts with other guys, and does not talk to me as much as we used to, should I be worried that she doe not care anymore or what?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been together for 4 months, we had been though alot and even an unplanned pregnancy (she got an abortion which was a mutural decision and i went through the process with her but i favored having the abortion more and put it ...
A. 14 August 2008: okay hunny,I'm sorry that this is happening to you.Obviously you do like this girl.hat you need to do is when you ask her out on a date next time then you need to talk to her about how you feel or she'll never know and maybe it'll help.Don't snoop ... (read in full...)
I want to fight this guy who ruined the love of my life... what do you think?
Q. i know many people will be against me in this but i need honest help please. Here's my story. Right i started liking a friend of mine and basically we are very close and 3years later i am absolutely crazy about her. I love our connection. S...
A. 4 August 2008: Okay hunny.First of all,breathe.Have you actually talked to him about everything and say"Hey,don't talk about my family like that?"That's what you need to do to stop with the mean things about your family.As for the girl,just talk to her.If she was ... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't want to ruin our friendship my going out with me, what do I do next?
Q. iv been close friends with this girl for a year now, weve been like the best of friends the whole time and nothing has changed, we talk about everything and were always together, but for the last 6 months shes been obsessed with this guy that she's ...
A. 4 August 2008: Okay,well,you can't make someone like you so get that idea out of your head.Shes been treated badly in her last relationship you said so maybe shes just scared to date again and she's using the "I don't want it to ruin our friendship" excuse.What ... (read in full...)
I am fourteen and he's seventeen and he thinks I am too young for him...Is this just an excuse?
Q. In early June, I met this guy at a party. At first, I had no interest in him at all. All my friends were triggering the idea with little comments like, "Awh, do you like him?" but I just laughed and said "no!" But by the end of the night, I knew ...
A. 3 August 2008: Okay hunny,First of all,you are too young.Older guys break more hearts so it'd be better if you just break it off.He might be saying that because he knows your too young.Maybe moving away from you is better so you guys can meet new people that are ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend accuses me of cheating, I haven't, I just flirt, how do I get her to trust me?
Q. my girlfriend thinks 'I'm cheating which I'm not (also because its wrong) all because most of my friend are girls. I admit we can get a little flirty. But I'm trying to tune that down a bit. Why doesn't she trust me? I'm a not a two timer....
A. 3 August 2008: Okay,you can't help the fact that you have a lot of friends that are girls.I understand your a boy and like to flirt with girls constantly cause your filled with testosterone.Just let your girlfriend now that your not cheating on her and if she ... (read in full...)
What else I can do to please him besides blowjobs?
Q. i have a boyfriend but i dont really know how to please him. all i ever do is give him blowjobs. he doesn't complain but i know he feels something about the situation. i want to know what else i can do to please him besides blowjobs. ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hunny,this is simple.Just ask him!!! Hope I've helped P.S.-If you have any questions just message me... (read in full...)
I'm so scared I may lose her to this man she had an affair with!
Q. Several months ago my wife told me that she had been having an affair with a man she works with. I am devastated and really want our marriage to work. She tells me that she's been miserable for a long time and fell in love with this other man. She ...
A. 30 July 2008: Okay,Don't think your a failure.You should talk to her about how you feel.If she leaves you for this other man,then she obviously isn't worth it.You can't make her stay.If she wants to leave you,then that's how it needs to be.Love doesn't last ... (read in full...)
Has my long distance boyfriend lost interest, or am I overreacting?
Q. So this is my 1st relationship at that a long distance relationship, my bf and i have been together for 3 months.... we used to talk all the time, like i said a few questions ago he wants to marry me, but now i feel like he's not atracted to me ...
A. 29 July 2008: Hi sweety.Okay,your not overreacting,your just a little paranoid and your being a normal teenager.You haven't met this boy for 1 and I've already been through what you've been through.Now,he's a teenager too and most teens are only interested in ... (read in full...)
I'm 19, shes 17, we want to date, how can we tell our parents so they will let us
Q. ok so there is a girl i like, i am 19 and a sophmore in college, she is 17 and a junior in high school. The trouble is the gap between our school grades is alot larger than our ages, but were afraid that wont matter with her parents. We want to date ...
A. 29 July 2008: Hi hunny.Okay,teh fatc that your in college and she's in high-school shouldn't matter.AGE is more important.You two are only 2 years apart which is perfect.Since your in college and she's in High-school maybe you could actually be a help,you ... (read in full...)
Am I a whore for liking so many guys?
Q. am I a whoRe because I like so many guys i.e. 2-6 I just can't decide between them I know which ones I like more but it does really change much some I think are cute some I really like but its hard to choose which one to go for?...
A. 16 May 2008: No.your not a whore.i liike a lot of guys too.Being a whore is something way worse then that.I knoe how you feel and im in that situation too.I cant choose which guy i want.Hope everything works out.
Love always,
Muffy... (read in full...)
Kissed this guy, but now my close friend told me she really DOES like him, should I tell her?
Q. I've done something terrible. On the weekend I kissed this guy who a close friend really really liked a few months ago, and he messed her around, and the reason we are so close now is because she spoke to me about it all the time, and about how she ...
A. 12 May 2008: Well,just talk to her about it.Ask her to tell you thee honest to god truth.and you have to tell her thee honest to god truth as well.Think about why you kissed this guy.Do you like him too?Cause if you do you need to talk to your friend about it.
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Why have I still not got a boyfriend?
Q. hey, Okay... I feel like a pathetic 17 year old- ive never had a bf.. I used to be a bit of an ugly duckling, but I've grown into myself more, gained some confidense ect, that was 2 years ago...why have I still not got a bf? There have been so ...
A. 12 May 2008: Hunny,theres nothing wrong with you.You got more self confidence and thats a good thing.You should tell the guys that yu like them cause then they knoe how you feel and maybe they would get the balls to ask you out.And everyone is beautiful,even ... (read in full...)
I've been thinking about trying guys?
Q. Ok guys i have tons of questions so bear with me. Ok so i've been thinking about trying guy cause girls just cause all sorts of problems. But i have LOTS of issues... 1. I want to expierament but idk anyone who would want to 2. I don't know any ...
A. 24 April 2008: Okay,
1.go ahead and experiment,it wont hurt
2.you just have to look
3.if your friends dont except you for who you are,then they arent true friends
4.well if any1 asks,tell them.easy.
5.if hes straight,then i dont knoe.But dont get your hopes ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my ex I'm pregnant but I'm scared....he calls me bad names and has a new girlfriend!
Q. My bf and me are no longer together and i am pregnant what should i do i dont want to tell him but i need help i am 4 months and i didnt even know he has a new gf and she dislikes me. he phones me up some times telling me how much he loves me and ...
A. 23 April 2008: Okay,you know you have to tell him sooner or later and better sooner then later.And maybe its not him sending the text messages,maybe its his girlfriend on his phone.Who dont you ask him about it?Hope everything turns out good.
love always, ... (read in full...)
I really like him and hope that I'll get to date him but he's known as a player... how to handle the situation?
Q. I really like this guy and he says he likes me as well but it doesn't seem that way. When I say I miss him he says he misses me as well and loves having me around him. When my friends ask him if we're ever gonna date he says yes but he needs time...
A. 18 April 2008: Haha,i had the same problem as you.I liked a guy who was a player but i didnt care cause he was just so cute and he said very charming things.So he asked me out and the next day,he dumped me.We went out again,and he did the same thing.Keep doing ... (read in full...)
Is she playing a game with me by avoiding me?
Q. I like this girl, she first showed an interest in me and now that I'm trying to spend time with her it feels like she's avoiding me. Did I do something wrong or is she playing a game with me?...
A. 18 April 2008: Well love,just tell her what you think.She could be playing hard to get.If she wasn't interested in you in the first place,then move on to a different girl.Hope everything works out well.
love always,
Muffy... (read in full...)
I'm moving to another State and I don't want to lose contact, how do I go about staying in touch with him?
Q. Okay, let's keep this simple. There's this guy at school who I have a HUGE crush on. Well, here's the story: I started liking him in the beginning of the last school year (Or, that's when I started acknowledging it). He sat in front of me on t...
A. 18 April 2008: Okay,That happend with my friend.She was dating this guy and they broke up.They were still friends but he got another girlfriend and wouldnt talk to her if his girlfriend was around.Now,I think its pretty stupid for him to do that to you.Since your ... (read in full...)
How can I win her over, even thought she doesn't like me?
Q. I fancy this girl but she doesn't like me back. Does anybody have any tips to win her over....
A. 18 April 2008: Sweety,sorry to tell you,but if she doesnt like you then you cant win her at all.Try liking a different girl and just be yourself.Maybe the girl your trying to win over will end up falling for you if she see's your not interested in her.Hope ... (read in full...)
He's moody and blunt, does this mean he's not serious about me?
Q. hi, ok me an my bf have been daten for 4 months now it been great ive been so happy but l8y he has been so moody an very blunt towards me, i thought it was because im always there so thought i would go home for a few nights but then he spits it... ...
A. 18 April 2008: Well,I think you should stop talking to him for a couple days and see if he tris talking to you.If he doesn't.then try talking to him again.If nothing works,then brake the relationship and move on.You should date someone who actually talks to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend just broke up with me shall I wait or let her go?
Q. My girlfriend just broke up with me 4 days ago. I didn't realize that we'll end up like this because I thought that everything is flowing smoothly. We've been together for almost 1 and half years now and she told me that she still have feeling ...
A. 11 April 2008: Well,sorry to say sweetface,but it would be best for you to move on.I know it hurts,but if she can't get over her ex then its her loss for losing you.Hope you make the riight choice.
love always,
Muffy... (read in full...)
Do you think there is a chance for me with this person?
Q. Recently I got a new job, at my old job there was a guy who I really liked. The problem is that I am married (with major issues at home) and he used to date another girl at work who I am friends with. So I felt that it was just a fun little crush ...
A. 30 March 2008: hi hunny.well,you told him how you feel which means that yer options are open.Like,he could be thinking about it and now that he knows how you feel then you might just be the one he chooses.i think you have a chance.If you can have a good long ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like this about my ex, we split up 4 years ago...
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years from the age of 15. We broke up 4 years ago, lost touch for 3 years, and got back in touch a year ago. Now through mutual friends and work, I see him, and his family (who I regarded as my family, we were ...
A. 1 March 2008: hunny, dont even worry.its okay to have these feelings because you havent seen him in 4 years and you must really care about him and love him.tell him exactly what you told us about how he changed.talk to his gf and tell her that you dont have ... (read in full...)
The Salty Coffee....a love story I read about.
Q. This is not my own work.This is from a guy's profile in one of the dating sites that I am a member of. I did ask him for permission if I can put this story on my blog as I find the story trully sweet and romantic. and wishes people to read it.and ...
A. 25 December 2007: that was such a sweet story i loved it.... (read in full...)
What should I do so he chases me for a change??
Q. Hi, I am a girl and i like my guy flatmate at uni. He's, funny, attractive and intelligent. He knows how i feel, but since we moved in i have made too much of an effort wih him...like i do his laundry, wazshing, ironing etc. Basically, now...
A. 25 December 2007: well,this really shouldnt be about chasing each other.if you want respect from him,then stop doing everything for him.it isnt rude at all.make him do his own laundry and if he doesnt,then let him smell cuz hell eventually get sick of it and do it ... (read in full...)
He said we should part ways due to our insecurities....but I know he still loves me.
Q. Hi, I'm a 20 yr old girl and i've been a relationship with a 26 yr old guy for the past 4 months. Over that period of time, we shared our past. I was shocked when he told me he used to be sexually abused by his step father, his mother used to s...
A. 25 December 2007: well,does he know that you have triied to be supportive?let him know that you love him and that you will support him 110%.if he keeps ignoring you,then just let it go. i hoep i helped love and kisses feel free to message me if you ever need ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my forbidden love how I feel??
Q. I'm a 17(soon to be 18)year old guy and i'm in love with a 16 year old girl i have been in love with her for three years not a day has gone by that i havent thought about her i have recently been talking to her through the computer and she has a bf ...
A. 25 December 2007: well, tell her how you feel.then yer options will be open.if you dont get what that means,it means then if her and her boyfriend break up,then she knows that you like her and she could go to you.make sure you let her know that yer a nice person and ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in thinking there is more to this??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for five years. We recently moved in together after 2 years in a long distance relationship. I'll get straight to the point. I found some pictures of this girl in his phone and asked him who she was. He told me ...
A. 25 December 2007: ok, its not wrong at all.your just being a little protective.just talk to your husband and tell him how you feel.if the girl is threatening you, then tell her that you didnt mean to upset her,you just wanted to talk to her and find out the truth. ... (read in full...)
I'm 7 weeks pregant and really scared.
Q. This is a bit long, sorry but i need some help!! Okay, im 16 years old and in 2 months will be 17. My boyfriend is also 16 and in 1 and a half months will be 17. We've been together since we were 12 but only became sexually active a few mo...
A. 24 December 2007: ok,if you want the baby then keep it.if your certain that your boyfreind will be able to help support the baby then you should have it.and keep an eye on yer boyfriend and make sure your friends are your friends and not rapists.
i hope i helped
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I'm autistic and I start thinking I wasn't meant to be with anyone, not even have a real first date. I feel very sad and lonely, what can I do to feel better about myself?
Q. Well I try to talk to most girls, some just ignore me, some turn me uninterested.I believe it is my facial expressions or the way I look, or what I say sometimes... I understand that everyone has a busy life and don't get time to meet, and stuff. ...
A. 24 December 2007: ok,dont feel bad about yourself.hating yourself isnt gunna help.you could go to counceling or a phsychiatrist.if you wanna be happy being single for the rest of your life then you should.get some of your friends together and go to movies,the ... (read in full...)
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